Fab Swingers Community Blog

hi all anyone on hols in turkey around the 20/05/07 who might want to meet up ?? let us know ann and john

• why do'es the site keep going down can any 1 tell us

Hi all, well we are having fum here with you all.

Im looking for an older guy to do a shoot with in July, around 55 would be good but must be fit and willing to let uf film me sucking and fucking you

If you are interested get back to us asap

There are a few rules bur all for bothe parties, we will send you those

Felicia XXX

www.pvcfelicia.co.uk

hi there we have just been informed some one has nicked our pics and using them on there msn messagener there name is looneychef if any 1 is contacted by them please let us no asap

Hi all take a look at our profile and site and if your interested in helping set us do some shoots and join in fucking me contact us

xx

Hi,

Having lots of problems with messages.

First up the site is sending messages to random people, I click send message on a profile, write the message and click send and it goes to a random other member. I've had this 2 or 3 times now.

Now, I can't read my new message. When I click on the message title, it refreshes the "Read messages" page.

Help!!

R.  

hi there we r sick and tried of people on this site calling us srubers  they do not even no whos so how dare they say things like  that if any one else has had that same problem please us no all because dave can not work due to illness and i look after him we r also sick and tried of poeple looking down on us all because we do not work we still have every thing that they do

We've recently had some pop-up adverts appearing on the site - you might have seen a box offering to install software. I'm very unhappy that this happened, our advertisers are not supposed to be using pop-ups. I've suspended all of the adverts from Clicksor until I get an explanation. Sorry!

Are there any couples out there who can take us dogging in the staffs area.

We love to be watched and sandy loves flashing but we are not mobile.

Please help and let's have some fun.

Thanks

Chris and sandy

hi all, forces man away from home loking to get some mail from horny women in the uk.

if anyone is interested in having there own soldier to contact and meet then please contact me for my details.

Hi,we wher just wondering if anybody on this site actually reads the blogs-have noticed there is no comments left-and the blogs we have left aint had any replies-k-c xxx

Hi all we are out 2nite in lancs area-anybody up for some fun-if so mail us b4 7-30 with contact details-100% gen

Are any couples willing to be filmed ??  The video will be soley for you and you alone.  Im looking for cpls, 3somes, mmf, ffm, 4somes, gangbands to film and anything else if you have an idea or a fantasy, i'll film you and friends.

So dont be shy, it will be a lot of fun and wont cost a thing.  Please contact us

Hi All, hope you're enjoying the sunshine!

I will be this weekend, but thats another story...which I'll post up on Monday.

And I'm sure S**** will enjoy reading it;)

J

wish people would read adds and things propley and dont time waste ,we dont play with single males but play in front of them total difference  as we state our dogging consists of toy show while guys tugs for her ,over 45s only  our choice so please only people we look for reply,

Any one fancy some fun this evening around the ipswich area give us a shout and leave us a message.

Hope to hear from you

Mary

xx 

HI IS THERE ANYONE WANTING TO HAVE ANY CAR FUN????

ANYONE INTERESTED GIVE ME A MESSAGE AND I COULD ARANGE A PLACE FOR A MEET.

THIS IS FOR THE PEOPLE AROUND EDINBURGH AND GLASGOW.

THE MEET WILL TAKE PLACE IN THE WEST LOTHIAN AREA.

CHEERZ RUSS XX

P.S. YOU CAN FONE IF REALLY INTERESTED ON 07732587962

hi..Debs here   just wonderin y nothing ever go's on in hull ...no clubs nothing! or am i missing something ?

If you've got a website or a blog you can now add a little widget to show the newest members of Fab Swingers.

Hi everyone,

I'm a 19 yr old guy looking for women or couples for fun. Am willing to try most things with most people, so try me.

I have posted a fantasy on the forum, so have a look if you're interested

R xx 

We've finally got a postal address for Fab Swingers. You can write to us at:

BM Fabulous
London
WC1N 3XX
United Kingdom

Hi everyone, I was wondering if there's any ladies who lives in Sydney Australia that would like 2 join us 4 fun? Or any ladies around the world who is willing 2 travel in Australia (at they're own cost)? We can accommodate anyone who wish 2 come 4 a visit. Only ladies no men or couples, SORRY GUYS. I'm just not into men as I have my own. I am very bicurious when i had my first time encounter with women. We had 3some and we had fun so much that i want 2 do it again. Please drop us a line if you (GIRLS) can help us fulfill my fantasy once more. Again, single or divorced ladies aged between 25 - 40. In any sizes (but not 2 big though) and any races.

NOTE: Just a little description about us; He's 40, Aussie, blond hair, blue eyes and athletic build body. She's 30, Filipino, long dark hair with some colour in it (i colour it every now and then), brown eyes, average body. And may i add that he's got a 8x6 plaything in him hehehe and i have a b cup little mountain.

cheers 2 all of you beautiful girls xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 

hi there can any 1 help my wife would love to  have sex with a female the only thing she has done is kiss and play with tits but would love to do more so if there any bifemales out there who can help please drop me a line

Up to know we've pretty much ran Fab Swingers without any rules. Only one person has been banned from the site so far (for sending abusive emails to couples - and he has rejoined the site recently too) and so far there's only been one series of posts deleted.

I think though that now the community has grown to well over 3,000 people we're getting to the size where we need to set down some rules of what is and isn't acceptable.

In general I really don't believe in censorship so I really do want to keep things as open as possible. On the other hand I'm not that keen on swingers slagging each other off and more importantly I don't think it encourages people to join the site. According to our visitor tracking people very often look at the blog and forum before deciding whether or not to join Fab Swingers and I think recent posts will put people off.

So what I would like is some volunteers who are willing to help draft rules for the site and then once the rules are agreed I'd like to see if we can get other volunteers to enforce them. As fas as possible I do want Fab Swingers to be democratic.

If you'd like to volunteer please add a comment to this post.

I just want to add, we met this couple a couple of times and yes we had fun with them, when we wanted to stop seeing them we got endless txts from the female stating she was pregnaunt by me, both members of this cpl (hornyfuncouple) also started sending txts to my wife saying lisa was pregnaunt by me. I know this not to be true but i am willing if need be, to have a dna test when the child is born. Then we can put a stop to this once and for all. We can supply many a cpls names of here that know us and know just how genuine we are. Sorry if we upset you both, but we just didnt want to continue anymore. Until we know fully over the pregnancy, please leave us alone. SORRY GUYS !!!!

If people just wanna see just how genuine we really are, please visit our profile on adult friend finder at the address. www.adultfriendfinder.com Out user name on there is ( letsjustswop ) we have been on there for nearly 2 years now. We have some great testimonials on there on our profile, from the people we have met and had fun with. I am sorry if things dont turn out with people, but the last thing to do, is to go around slagging people people off because they are bitter over things not working out, or because they exspected to much from us.

It's been w-a-y too long since we last changed the poll on the homepage - does anyone have any good ideas for what the next one should be?

So far we've had:

• Favourite sex toy
• Which celebrity couple would you most like to meet at a swingers party
• Number of people played with since starting swinging

sat 31st march at 8pm ish in the new town in edinburgh are you free?

Club Liberty closes forever end of March, we are going friday 23rd and friday the 30th, we go then as they allow single guys in those nights. They also have parties on the saturdays, but in two weeks it will all be gone, they never managed to get the place to pay unfortunatly. Was and is a very very nice club and spa, one of the very best we have been to and it will be missed. Pity as we was looking forward to using it in the summer, now we shall have to find somewhere else, so we shall make the most of the last two parties we can go to there, check out their webpage for details and if you go say hi to us, then later maybe join us on the bed. Tracy and Richard

We're going to be moving the site to our new server in San Francisco this evening. The new server is much, much more powerful so the site should be a lot of faster, even when it's very busy. There will be some downtime between midnight tonight (UK time) and the early hours on the morning.

HI

We are looking for some stiff cock today, we will be going out to eureka in kent tonight. We want vwe single clean shaven men, colour dont matter but must have a nice stiff cock. We will be there, so look at our pics and if you see us there say hello. If you want to meet there then email us with a pic and then go, we will talk to you there if we like the look of your pic.

Friday night, we are going to Club Liberty for its farewell party, we always have fun here in the open rooms. This will be one of the last parties so should be busy and fun. Again if you are going and fancy fucking me let us know.

Tracy and Richard

If you have a homepage somewhere or a profile on Yahoo! or something similar you can now add it to your profile. Click on the My Account and choose Edit Profile and there's now an option to add your homepage.

 Hi all,as one of the cpls kindly pointed out,i have now posted 2 pics.

We're having some problems with the chatroom. Cutting a long story short, our hosting company decided to take down the chatroom server and we're still trying to get it fixed.

We have decided to move to a new hosting company and at the same time move Fab Swingers to a much more powerful server. The new server is roughly 20 times faster than the present box so it should make the site much more responsive, particularly during our busy times. The new server has been ordered and hopefully we will make the move during the next week.

Unfortunately there will be some downtime while we move to the new server but we'll keep you up to date with what's happening. 

hi all,im dissapointed by the lack of response to my ad,im a genuine male seeking ladies or cpls for fun in the lancs area.i hope i get some response.if u wish to contact me im on 07971919664

doncaster male still seeking a woman localish for nightime meets

you will enjoy pure no hassles fun

try me

I've just improved the search again by adding a postcode search (for the UK) or an area code search (for the USA) so you can now find people near you. I've also added a search for particular interests. Combining the new searches you can now find people in Glasgow interested in gangbangs, people in Birmingham into blindfolds or people in Manchester into making videos.

We are going to be doing some advertising for the site soon. It would be really good if we could have a banner ad with some members' photos on it.

If anyone would be happy for us to use some or all of their profile photos in our advertising please add a comment to this post. Don't worry though unlike some sites we won't use anyone's photos without permission first.

Hopefully this ad campaign will get lots of new members to the site.

If you run a website we'll be posting some information next week on how you can run our advertising.

You'll notice now that when you're viewing profiles there's a 'Verify Genuine' option on the menu. You can use this to say that you've confirmed the person is genuine - either by meeting them, chatting on the phone or by webcam.

Unfortunately because Fab Swingers is free it would be very easy for people just to signup for two or three accounts and then use these accounts to verify themselves so to get round that only people who have been verified are allowed to verify others.

To kick things off we've verified a few people that we know are genuine. Until 31 March we will be doing telephone verifications for couples and single women only so if you want to be verified just drop us a message with a note of your phone number and a time when both partners will be present and we will give you a quick ring to check you are genuine.

After 31 March we should have verified enough people that you'll be able to find other members of the site to verify you. We've got 3,000 members at the moment so we don't really want to be trying to verify everyone ourselves!

were stil after meet sat 10thmar but it selby ,yorkshire not seby

just drop us a message an well get straight back ti you xxx louise an dave

hi were lookin for a cpl similar to us so readin the profile is a must for meet in seby sat nite.just after a gud nite out fun an hot sex .

see you soon

hi we new to this cant access the chat room it says cant recognise username and password any ideas

Lanzarote 15/03/07, 5nites want to meet if you there females and couples, i am straight white male

looking 4 fun at our place on the 3 of march couples welcome if u r intrested drop us a line single bifemales also welcome must not mind we smoke cannabis and we do not drink

Hi booked a hotel near trafford centre for this sunday 18th feb-looking for another cple to join us for some sexy fun-soft swing or full swap-we consider ourselves easy to get on with non pushy-not into pain or wierd stuff just normal sexy fun-if interested get in touch-can supply phone no to prove gen-newbies or experienced welcome.K-C xxx

Hey all, young, energetic, sexy, hot, single male available for some fun!!I am looking to meet couples or women for fun.. Also wishing to perhaps explore my bi-curious side.. Im locatedin the manchester area..check out my profile if interested, im willing to travel but cannot really accommodate, thanks... see u guys around!!!!

We've just added some new privacy features to the site, available from My Account -> Privacy. You can now suspend your profile if you're taking a break from swinging and don't when anyone getting in touch with you. You can also control exactly who can contact you and what (if any) email we send you.

There's also a new tab at the right of the page which is our Shop, it's a collection of some of our favourite sex books plus lots of toys. We'll use the profits from the shop to develop the site and buy advertising to get more members.

We're also pleased to say that Fab Swingers is now making a small profit which go to show that there is no need to charge people fees. Thanks to all of you for your support!

We would just like to start by saying, what a great site fab swingers is.  We have only been members for a few weeks but we are very happy in the responce we have been recieving and the overall reliability of it's members.  A site is only as good as it's members and this site is very, very good.  Many thanks to all and keep up the good work one and all.  Many Thanks.     Tony_Amanda

Hi Guys We are off for a week from 18th Feb on, and we are looking for fun, we only have one week so are basically looking for people to fuck Tracy silly. I want VW/E men and or bi-girls, men that means 8" or above and very hard, girls I like around my age or younger and my size. Men must be single please and clean shaven face also you need to be in or around the southeast. Send us an email with pic or chat on yahoo but have a full profile or we wont respond, we have over 250 pics on ours. No pics No reply ( we dont just want face pics, guys show us what you will be using). Have a look around our webpage to find out more, Richard will be there fucking me too so dont ask to meet me on my own please. We will also be looking to take some new pics that week aswell, so any help will be welcome. You will also find some of the pics from previous meets in our yahoo photos and in our profile here. Thanks Tracy(bi) and Richard

We met the above couple for a drink, and boy, did they make us feel comfortable and at ease,  we decided after a short time to take things further and what a great time we all had,  both the female and male was totaly outstanding and non pushy,  we have all agreed to meet again very soon for some more fun, we can't wait lol, sooner the better.    Thanks Again Guys !!!!!

THIS COUPLE IS NOT TO BE MISSED !!!!          10/10

hi   i m in india for a year or so.........if you wanna become a 

Hi all,im a genuine asian male would like to meet up with cpls or women in the lancs area,i i can travell,hope to meet soon.

I think it's time for a new poll for the home page - has anyone got any ideas? Leave a comment if you can think of something good.

hi all, we r looking 4 fun on fri nites  can accom or travel

hi all thanks for the invite we're both looking forward to having some fun,been on one or two others hope it goes well t/c al/emm

Why do people say to others your to young, at 24 and 22 you are well above the legal age.  So Please, Please, leave others alone,  this is not something we all do lightly.  This is not for us, but for some very good friends of ours that are being gone on at.

HI

WE ARE NEW TO THIS SITE AND ARE HAVING DIFFICULTIES GETTING INTO THE CHAT ROOM AS IT DOESN'T SEEM TO RECOGNISE OUR LOGIN NAME OR PASSWORD, CAN ANYONE HELP

The new chatroom has been live for a couple of days and seems to have gone down well. Unfortunately it seems to have overloaded the server a bit so we've ordered a new server just for the chatroom which should get everything back to a decent speed again. This should be done this weekend.

Great chatroom, Fantastic layout will be here regular.... well done

Due to popular demand we now have forums. Almost nobody has using the old groups so they have been deleted. I've shifted some posts from the blog and the old groups into the forums. Hopefully the forums will be much easier to use than the old system.

Next thing I'm going to look at is a way of marking profiles as genuine. 

Just a quick hi....sorry but another single guy (mature one)...  but genuine. Anyone fancy a chat please feel free to say hi.

Tony.

Thanks again for the invite 

just a wee thank you for inviting us to your site,we have been out of the scene for about 4 years due to too many timewasters and bad experiences with people not who they say they are,im sure many of you have had the same,however we are trying to slowly get back into it again,so hopefully through the site we can meet some nice couples and have some relaxed fun,as for the site itself WOW well done you guys and Happy New Year everyone xx 

we joind only a few days ago, and had our first meet last night with a lovely couple who joined about the same time as us.

Could we have some way of flagging people as genuine following a meet?

We're going away on holiday for a week - so behave yourself while we're away! Anna will be looking after the site until we get back.

There won't be anyone promoting the site while we're away so there probably won't be many new members this week.

Have a great New Year!

i have been running adult boat trips as a non profit thing since 2002 we get a lot of timewaters who let you down with no notice even when they have your moble no etc sometimes things do go wrong but a quick call saves a lot of wasted time making sure boat has plenty of diesel etc still makes it all worth it when you find some genuine people

anyway great site looking forward to a good season in 2007

 Den ,

We've added an online now page which shows who's currently online. Also the profile pages now show if the user's online too. You will get logged out either when you click on the Logout tab or if you don't use the site for 30 minutes.

We've had a lot of new members signing up in December and we're now well over 1000 members which is a great start.

Thanks to andy4fun, dazza65, goodfun and philmyboy for their kind comments - it does make a difference knowing that we're appreciated! We're also really want to hear criticism too so if there's anything about the site you don't like or think we should improve please let us know.

thank u for inviting me on to ur site i,m very interested in the dogging sites in the surrey south east areas and hope to have fun on this site  with u all   Daz xxxx

thank u for inviting me on to ur site i,m very interested in the dogging sites in the surrey south east areas and hope to have fun on this site  with u all   Daz xxxx

nice site and i hope it grows well

many thanks for the invite site looks great hope to meet some nice people from her

thx again

pete

Many Thanks for the Invite onto FabSwingers. I hope we can all have some "Real Sexxxxxxy Fun Times" together. Don't be shy !!!!!  Get in touch and say hello - I won't bite !!!!!!! Well not unless you ask nicely. Lots of Luv - Phil xx

Here's our fabulous people of November:

Most Fabulous Couple is kiwicouple

We chose them because we shagged them and they were really good!

Most Fabulous Woman is sexyteabag 

She's got a lovely profile and photos.

Most Fabulous Guy is leighinibiza

He's made an effort with his profile and looks like he'd be fun.

Asked to join and we are glad we did ,  it looks like its going to be a great swingers site lets hope not too many timewasters& pic collectors just very genuine couples who like the relaxed lifestyle.

 Love & Licks

Melanie & Dave xx 

We have been on this site quite a few times but have never found anyone in the chatrooms.  Is there any particular reason or are we logging on at the wrong times?

Just made a small improvement to the site this evening - if a member has got private photos there's now a note at the bottom of their profile saying how many pics they have in their private gallery.

Of course you've still got to be friends with them before you can see their private photos.

We are new to this site and think it is great, we wish everyone happy swinging and hope to see some people in the chatroom.

             Love+Licks  Sandy+Ken xxxxx

We've selected our members of the month based on people we fancied which isn't really very scientific but it was fun! So, here are the fabulous people of October:

Most Fabulous Couple is ScotCouple76

We loved their photos and they've also been really helpful with their comments and advice for the site.

Most Fabulous Woman is weeflower69

She's lovely to chat to and has nice tits. What more could you want?

Most Fabulous Man is ricky9inches

We liked the profile and, well, it's huge!

Fab Swingers tries to be a very sex-positive website but even still I'm sure most parents would not want their children to look at the site.

Many adult websites have a front page saying "This site is for adults only - if you are over 18 click here to enter" however in my experience simply asking children if they are over 18 is not a very effective way of restricting access.

Every page of Fab Swingers is now tagged with both the PICS and ICRA systems. These are both industry standard ways of marking pages for adults only and will make sure that the parental controls on Internet Explorer, AOL, etc will correctly identify Fab Swingers as an adult site.

I've also registered the site with Surf Control and Cyber Sitter.

Thanks to Anna for our new logo and also for our banner ad!

I'm very sorry for the site being down for so long - it was just over 24 hours in total.

The problem was with the ISP who host the site for us. They had a power failure and unfortunately that then resulted in some disk problems. The disks they use are huge so it took nearly 24 hours to scan through the disk to fix it.

I'm not at all happy about what's happened and I will be looking to change the server arrangements in the near future. 

Here's the top 10 sexual interests of members of Fab Swingers:

1. Threesomes
2. Oral
3. Group Sex
4. Safe Sex
5. Same Room Swapping
6. Adult Parties
7. Voyeurism
8. Taking Photos
9. Toys
10. Swingers Clubs

Coming up fast are Gangbangs at number 11 and there's a good showing from DP in 13th place. The least popular sexual interest among our members is Cross-dressing.

At the moment Fab Swingers is almost entirely British but as we get members from other countries it will be interesting to see if the favourite sexual interests change.

I'll do this chart every month or so. 

I've spent the evening researching Welsh dogging for the dogging locations list. Just got the midlands and the south east to do and then I'm done.

I've set the dogging group up as a UK only group because as far as I know dogging is just a British thing. The Welsh seem to be particularly into it!

I'm delighted to say that we managed over 100 swingers on our site in our first week.

There's lots of messages being exchanged and people coming back regularly which is really good to see.

I'm going to experiment with some Google adverts this week and see how that goes.

I spent most of the day going through our porn partner's website choosing the movies that we are going to be promoting.

Hard work but someone's got to do it!

Here's a quote I came across but unfortunately I can't find the URL now but still love the quote:

"I didn't know I was into this until I attended my first swing party with a girlfriend. I thought I was there to have sex with other women, but the sight of her with another man between her legs woke something up in me I didn't know was there.

It was an incredible rush. As sensually arousing as having other women who have just been fucked by another man can be, having your own woman when she is wet from other men is one of life's sublime experiences. I'm sure I'm not telling forum members anything they don't already know, but for anyone just looking in to see what this is all about, the relationships I've had where this wasn't part of the equation all died early sensual deaths."

I couldn't have put it better myself. Wish I could remember/find where I got this from.

Up to now there hasn't been a swingers club in Scotland (that we know of anyway).

A place called The Highland Swingers Club opened and then promptly shut due to a disagreement with the landlord of their building. We never made it along but we heard that it was pretty good.

Anyway I see from their website that they have re-opened in a new location. Has anyone been along or know anything about it?

We had some problems yesterday night/this morning. Unfortunately we made a mistake on the email server configuration which allowed a spammer to send some spam from our server. We noticed pretty quickly and shut it down and properly secured the server.

 A few hours later our ISP noticed that a new customer had sent out a whole lot of spam and decided to suspend our account! It then took a few hours to convince them to turn it back on.

We've also had a few problems with messages on the site containing special characters - this is now fixed.

 Despite all that it's been a good start with 27 members now after one day of the site being live.

Well we've finally got the site up and running. There's still one or two bugs to fix but we're getting there.

A big thank you to Anna for all her help.