Xtasia

West Bromwich , West Midlands

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Xtasia offers a superb venue for those interested in a liberated adult lifestyle choice, from Swingers to Fetish as well as LGBTQ friendly and welcoming to all.

In the heart of the Midlands, Xtasia is located within half a mile of Junction 1 of the M5, and 2 miles from Junction 8 of the M6. The Xtasia complex provides a welcoming cosy bar called “Flirts”, serving alcohol and soft drinks from midday to midnight throughout the week. With its 40 seater cinema, playrooms and dungeon, it’s a wonderful place to meet others during the week, with hotel rooms available to book as well. A new swimming spa, sauna and steam room and leisure complex is now available for a daily chill out by guests.

The main club opens at 8pm to 3am Friday and Saturday nights, and comprises of a main reception and cloak area, a massive dance area, fully licenced bar, pole dance areas, heated smoking area, playrooms of all descriptions including a dungeon, a chill out lounge, a dogging area with genuine car bonnets, a Jacuzzi, showers and cinema.

Friday nights we are open to all full members from 8pm to 3am. Saturday nights are Ladies and Couples only. Predominantly a relaxed, social nightclub feel, with the added benefit of being able to keep it very sexy, Xtasia music is provided by a range of excellent DJ’s bringing you nights of modern dance, classic hits, and various genre evenings throughout the year. Xtasia also runs numerous niche fetish events for the more adventurous, normally on Sunday afternoons and evenings.

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Rating: Fabulous
	Our first time on Saturday, we had a great time. A lovely warm welcome, followed by a tour. Highly recommend to anyone fairly new to the scene, no pressure and great facilities, which we certainly put to use ?? Thank you for wonderful evening, we most certainly will be back xx Date: 21 April 2025

Rating: OK
	What nights would be good for a single male? Been there a few times mostly quiet Date: 20 April 2025

Rating: OK
	Another great friday night,at the best club I've visited here or abroad,staff always helpful,polite and friendly,attendees some beautiful people,but with any club you do get a few blokes who hunt as a pack,but REPORT them,and they will be removed. Love the place and can't wait to return Date: 20 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Went for the alt night and it was awesome. Fun, sex, naughty. Staff made us feel welcome, everyone was there for a fun time, and the music was a blast. Can't wait to go back again. Date: 20 April 2025

Rating: OK
	Replying to the below review, as I can't contact you directly. One mention of this to the staff during the evening and the group of them would have been out. Please do not feel you need to put up with this behaviour in anyway, it is not acceptable and we will remove the element causing it. Date: 20 April 2025

Rating: Avoid
	We can only speak of our unfortunate experience of a Friday hot wife night event, we can't comment on other event nights that this club run which we are told are very good. The club is large with lots of fantastic playrooms. The staff were polite and welcoming. Unfortunately there were a number of men allowed into the event that were far from respectful gentleman. They were extremely derogatory and their view of the women in the club was quite honestly disgusting. One of the comments that was made "get up and dance with the other fucking tarts" and another comment "the women in here are just quick shags" further comment " why don't you dress down so I can see your arse" Miss/female...each time my partner went to the toilet or to the bar the guys would come across and make these comments at me. There were five of them and they hung out in a pack. When I said that I didn't like their disrespectful comments I was told " you're clearly not from the streets, this is how we treat women" he continued even when I asked him to move away. He then put his arm around me making further remarks until my partner returned from the bathroom. The group of men seemed to be friends of the staff so we didn't feel we could complain. The group of men were also allowed to break the dress code rule of the evening as they were wearing trainers, joggers and sports wear. Their attitude has no place within the lifestyle. Women should feel comfortable and safe to express their sexual freedom without judgement. We have been in the lifestyle for many years and experienced many different clubs in the UK and abroad, however we have never experienced a group of intimidating disrespectful men in a club like this before. Hopefully the club will tighten their vetting of single guys and not allow men to come along in scruffy clothes. Date: 19 April 2025

Rating: Avoid

We can only speak of our unfortunate experience of a Friday hot wife night event, we can't comment on other event nights that this club run which we are told are very good.

The club is large with lots of fantastic playrooms. The staff were polite and welcoming.

Unfortunately there were a number of men allowed into the event that were far from respectful gentleman. They were extremely derogatory and their view of the women in the club was quite honestly disgusting.

One of the comments that was made "get up and dance with the other fucking tarts" and another comment "the women in here are just quick shags" further comment " why don't you dress down so I can see your arse"

Miss/female...each time my partner went to the toilet or to the bar the guys would come across and make these comments at me. There were five of them and they hung out in a pack. When I said that I didn't like their disrespectful comments I was told " you're clearly not from the streets, this is how we treat women" he continued even when I asked him to move away. He then put his arm around me making further remarks until my partner returned from the bathroom.

The group of men seemed to be friends of the staff so we didn't feel we could complain. The group of men were also allowed to break the dress code rule of the evening as they were wearing trainers, joggers and sports wear.

Their attitude has no place within the lifestyle. Women should feel comfortable and safe to express their sexual freedom without judgement.

We have been in the lifestyle for many years and experienced many different clubs in the UK and abroad, however we have never experienced a group of intimidating disrespectful men in a club like this before.

Hopefully the club will tighten their vetting of single guys and not allow men to come along in scruffy clothes.

Date: 19 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	I recently attended this wonderful venue. Friendly staff and fantastic play areas. Hope to return soon. Cx Date: 18 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	We love this club!! Met some absolutely fantastic people and the staff are so nice and friendly 10/10 Date: 17 April 2025

Rating: OK
	Went yesterday for Quiz night. Had some good play up stairs late on and thank you to the kind gentleman who joined us. Date: 17 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Great staff! Hopefully have the confidence to enter the night club on Friday x x Date: 16 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Went with my wife to Flirts Bar/cinema yesterday afternoon and had a great time. As always the staff were very relaxed and welcoming, and met 2 lovely couples. Ended up with all 3 couples in the playroom downstairs, and my wife and I were lucky enough to have fun with a very attractive and friendly couple while there. Will definitely be going again. Date: 15 April 2025

Rating: Fun
	Had great time with some sexy couples this afternoon. I went with my partner as hiddenwonders. If you spotted us there then say hello Date: 14 April 2025

Rating: Fun
	I apply a membership and still waiting.here anyone Who can take me quickly membership? Date: 13 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Attended the Alt Rock night Saturday evening and had an absolutely electric time. Naked dancing and high octane pleasure a plenty. Me and the Mrs had a really great night. Thanks to all involved in organising such an amazing event. Date: 13 April 2025

Rating: OK
	Fantastic night at the rock night at xtasia. The music was superb the atmosphere electric. Fun everywhere with great company. Thanks to all the staff that work so hard to make this fantastic club what it is . See you soon x Date: 13 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	We attended Xtasia for the first time last night for the Alt rock night. What bloody brilliant night! Full of great people and the venue is spot on. Highly recommend Date: 13 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	We both attended the alt rock night last night and God damn what a night it was very busy highly entertaining all the places of the club was busy with something going on ?? We introduced a couple of friends to the event never been before and talking about it they loved it great atmosphere the staff the people all of it even ended up in a room getting naughty themselves x As for us we had a great night got to chat to a lot of people all very nice and flirty banta which is right up our street everything and everyone last night was on top form all had a great time so cannot wait to attend again and make the most out of the dungeon room ?? Date: 13 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous

We both attended the alt rock night last night and God damn what a night it was very busy highly entertaining all the places of the club was busy with something going on ??

We introduced a couple of friends to the event never been before and talking about it they loved it great atmosphere the staff the people all of it even ended up in a room getting naughty themselves x

As for us we had a great night got to chat to a lot of people all very nice and flirty banta which is right up our street everything and everyone last night was on top form all had a great time so cannot wait to attend again and make the most out of the dungeon room ??

Date: 13 April 2025

Rating: OK
	On a gloriously sunny day we drove down to Xtasia to take advantage of the sun deck at Flirts. While it was a quiet afternoon we felt very at ease due to the friendly staff and polite male company. Would go again. Date: 11 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	I attended the Shamed event at Xtasia yesterday and honestly—wow, what an experience! From start to finish, the vibe was electric and the atmosphere was incredibly welcoming and open-minded. First off, the club itself is massive. There are so many different areas to explore, each catering to a wide range of kinks, fantasies, and play styles. Whether you’re into BDSM, exhibitionism, voyeurism, or just curious to explore, there’s something for everyone. Everything feels very well thought out, with themed spaces that are both practical and sexy. The staff were fantastic—super friendly, helpful, and clearly passionate about creating a safe, fun, and liberated environment. You could tell they were genuinely into the event and really helped make everyone feel comfortable and included. The crowd was amazing too—so many happy, like-minded people just being their authentic, kinky selves. It was inspiring and so freeing to be around that kind of energy. The performances and displays throughout the night were incredible—sexy, daring, and so much fun to watch and partake in. I left buzzing and already can’t wait for the next Shamed! If you’re thinking about checking out Xtasia or are curious about kink events in a social, inclusive space—do it. You won’t regret it. Date: 7 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous

I attended the Shamed event at Xtasia yesterday and honestly—wow, what an experience! From start to finish, the vibe was electric and the atmosphere was incredibly welcoming and open-minded.

First off, the club itself is massive. There are so many different areas to explore, each catering to a wide range of kinks, fantasies, and play styles. Whether you’re into BDSM, exhibitionism, voyeurism, or just curious to explore, there’s something for everyone. Everything feels very well thought out, with themed spaces that are both practical and sexy.

The staff were fantastic—super friendly, helpful, and clearly passionate about creating a safe, fun, and liberated environment. You could tell they were genuinely into the event and really helped make everyone feel comfortable and included.

The crowd was amazing too—so many happy, like-minded people just being their authentic, kinky selves. It was inspiring and so freeing to be around that kind of energy. The performances and displays throughout the night were incredible—sexy, daring, and so much fun to watch and partake in.

I left buzzing and already can’t wait for the next Shamed! If you’re thinking about checking out Xtasia or are curious about kink events in a social, inclusive space—do it. You won’t regret it.

Date: 7 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	We attended Xtasia for the Shamed kink event yesterday afternoon/ evening, which was our first time here - in summary we had a great time, 6 hours just flew by :) We’d signed up online in advance and had been accepted for membership, so a few minutes of admin with a friendly welcome and we were set to go. This review is based on our experience of the Shamed event. The club facilities themselves are great, lots of places to play on and in, and for us as exhibitionists the set up was great. The dance floor by the bar had been turned into a circus of spanking benches, a St Andrews Cross, and we watched and took part in some real fun things. Anything goes at Shamed and we unlocked some new kinks we didn’t know we had :) We had fun in the spanking benches, using the cage, the hot gang bang we got going on the bonnet of one of the cars in the dogging area, the sub who licked her high heels and all the guys who came on her tits. We enjoyed watching the rope play, all the costumes, the BDSM stuff and the bimbofication scenes. Hot hot hot. The event was super busy, with queues to get in right from the start. We’ve got the next Shamed in the diary, want to try Dystopia and look forward to going to some of the Xtasia club nights. Date: 7 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous

We attended Xtasia for the Shamed kink event yesterday afternoon/ evening, which was our first time here - in summary we had a great time, 6 hours just flew by :)

We’d signed up online in advance and had been accepted for membership, so a few minutes of admin with a friendly welcome and we were set to go.

This review is based on our experience of the Shamed event. The club facilities themselves are great, lots of places to play on and in, and for us as exhibitionists the set up was great. The dance floor by the bar had been turned into a circus of spanking benches, a St Andrews Cross, and we watched and took part in some real fun things. Anything goes at Shamed and we unlocked some new kinks we didn’t know we had :)

We had fun in the spanking benches, using the cage, the hot gang bang we got going on the bonnet of one of the cars in the dogging area, the sub who licked her high heels and all the guys who came on her tits. We enjoyed watching the rope play, all the costumes, the BDSM stuff and the bimbofication scenes. Hot hot hot.

The event was super busy, with queues to get in right from the start. We’ve got the next Shamed in the diary, want to try Dystopia and look forward to going to some of the Xtasia club nights.

Date: 7 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	We love attending Xtasia and Flirts for their swing, kink or social events such as Climax, Alt Rock, Wild Temptations, Devotion, Dystopia, BST, Deathflix, Milf Mayhem, Gothic Play Party, Shamed, Black Country Social, Flirts Games Night, Flirts Pool Tournament, Feel Good Friday, Flirts Karaoke etc. I'm sure there's so many more we've missed to list. The female half hosts Scissor Sisters WOMEN ONLY event at Flirts every third Friday of the month. The reason why we say all of this as there's so much variety as each event offers something different on different dates. Never a dull moment. Last couple of events we attended last Friday was Milf Mayhem, such a fantastic daytime play event. So naughty. Then Saturday for FFFF, was a great night. More naughty fun. Flirts spa isn't to be missed. Such a awesome place to wind down in. Love their jacuzzi pool, sauna and steam room. Such a friendly, clean and inclusive venue. There is some accessibility so it's best to ask the club what they can cater for you during an event, you'd be surprised. Date: 7 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous

We love attending Xtasia and Flirts for their swing, kink or social events such as Climax, Alt Rock, Wild Temptations, Devotion, Dystopia, BST, Deathflix, Milf Mayhem, Gothic Play Party, Shamed, Black Country Social, Flirts Games Night, Flirts Pool Tournament, Feel Good Friday, Flirts Karaoke etc. I'm sure there's so many more we've missed to list.

The female half hosts Scissor Sisters WOMEN ONLY event at Flirts every third Friday of the month.

The reason why we say all of this as there's so much variety as each event offers something different on different dates. Never a dull moment.

Last couple of events we attended last Friday was Milf Mayhem, such a fantastic daytime play event. So naughty. Then Saturday for FFFF, was a great night. More naughty fun.

Flirts spa isn't to be missed. Such a awesome place to wind down in. Love their jacuzzi pool, sauna and steam room.

Such a friendly, clean and inclusive venue. There is some accessibility so it's best to ask the club what they can cater for you during an event, you'd be surprised.

Date: 7 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Had an awesome night at Xstasia, and our first night attending FFFF. Was quieter than we were expecting, but the vibe was great and we met some super horny hotties! Will definitely be hitting this event up again in the future Date: 6 April 2025

Rating: OK
	We haven’t been to a FFFF night for quite some time, it wasn’t overly busy as we were expecting however it was still a good night with a great mixed crowd of people. Date: 6 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	We’ve been to a few Xtasia events and every one has been fantastic. The one that keeps bringing us back is the Alt Night. Such an inclusive, fun, friendly environment filled with absolute stunning and lovely people. DJ very open to requests for music and the hosts are always wonderful. We will be back time and time again. Date: 6 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	One thing we love about this club is how inclusive it is x everyone from all backgrounds welcome and not judged . If you feel the need to judge then its not a place for you . Any concerns raised are always dealt with and everyone who goes is friendly and no pressure is given x Date: 6 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Great night last night!!! FFFF is always a vibe! Date: 6 April 2025

Rating: Avoid
	Didn't want to leave a review but sod it, first time we went was alt rock night and despite being told it was old school nastalgic rock music it was heavy heavy rock. Which didn't fit our dynamic and seeing a guy with a walking stick and a women that practically needed a Zimmer frame put us right off. so within 20 minutes we left. Tried again tonight but we got there at 1.25am which admittedly was a bit late but we didn't see anything about a last entry time and we just wanted a drink and to scope the place. pointless, and not a very pleasant waiting for the door to buzz open on a main strip Date: 6 April 2025

Rating: Avoid

Didn't want to leave a review but sod it, first time we went was alt rock night and despite being told it was old school nastalgic rock music it was heavy heavy rock. Which didn't fit our dynamic and seeing a guy with a walking stick and a women that practically needed a Zimmer frame put us right off. so within 20 minutes we left. Tried again tonight but we got there at 1.25am which admittedly was a bit late but we didn't see anything about a last entry time and we just wanted a drink and to scope the place. pointless, and not a very pleasant waiting for the door to buzz open on a main strip

Date: 6 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Attended the Greedy Girls event on 28th March, as always had a truly incredible evening, left very satisfied and with some great memories. Noteable mention to Dan White ABC, and the other guys who joined us in the Swing Room, Mrs H truly had a fab time! Will be back very soon... Date: 31 March 2025

Rating: Fun
	We visited Xtasia on Saturday for the spring bunnies event hosted by Zoe and Chris. It wasn't very busy, but we felt good, great music, sexy people and a great atmosphere. All the staff always makes us feel wery welcome and that's why we always come back with joy :)) Date: 31 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	A fabulous night at Xstasia! Loved the cowboy theme and had a great time in the playroom with a great pair of guys! Stayed in hotel too, would recommend! Date: 29 March 2025

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