Destiny sx

essex, South East

http://www.destinysx.co.uk

A newish club in rainham off the a13, open tuesdays, fridays and saturdays, for singles and couples. nice layout and friendly people running it.

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Rating: OK
	we have been going to destinysx for a few years now. never seen any trouble or so called "cliques". knr are great hosts and have we always found partygoers to be polite and friendly and have made some good friends there.its a great club with a great atmosphere and great people. always our first choice for a night out xx Date: 12 March 2010

Rating: Fabulous
	We go often and have a great time....socially and playing....its what you make it...xxx Date: 28 February 2010

Rating: Fabulous
	Oh right.. we know you guys.. the ones that walked straight in and rudely invited yourselfs into one of the play rooms whilst we were playing with another couple..... says it all really! L&L Date: 21 February 2010

Rating: Avoid
	Only ever went once and that was enough. Saturday night and only 6 other couples there. They obviously all new each other, and by the time we left not one had spoken to us. Thankfully some friends introduced us to Eureka's in Kent. Well worth driving past this club into Kent. Date: 19 February 2010

Rating: Fabulous
	we were there on sat night and we had a great time as always, and the hosts were fun and friendly, see you soon r & k xx Date: 19 February 2010

Rating: Avoid
	ok just to add a last few words on the subject as everybody else including the owners who wasnt there seem to have formed an opinion totally different to what actually happened, yes we went with some good friends of ours which i belive pissed the host of the night off as soon as we turned up, it was our 1st visit to this club and was a bit nervous about it as wasnt sure what it would be like and as for the couple that said we was unsure of ourself's dont comment unless you know us personally and can form a judgement, the people we went with was certanly NOT trouble makers and anybody that saw the incident at the end of the night would know that it was the host that was causing the trouble and being abusive to everyone involved and NOT the other way round and as in the email sent to us from the owners asking for infomation on what happened that i did reply to and got a response saying they would review the cctv footage of reception i only hope they are big enough to do so and comment on there findings and hold there hands up to someone else tarnishing the name of there club????? neither us nor the couple we went with are trouble makers and maybe it was just THAT host that took a dislike to us and for whatever reason decided to cause a scene and maybe i am being unfair to the club in my comments but i can only comment on what happened and because of that i feel the club was a crap night and will not be returning, im sure that doesnt bother anyone as they dont want my money as they say but maybe a bit of honesty from the host or the owners would go a long way to repairing there credibility......sometimes its good to hold your hands up and say sorry we was wrong!!!!!! Darren Date: 18 February 2010

Rating: Avoid

ok just to add a last few words on the subject as everybody else including the owners who wasnt there seem to have formed an opinion totally different to what actually happened, yes we went with some good friends of ours which i belive pissed the host of the night off as soon as we turned up, it was our 1st visit to this club and was a bit nervous about it as wasnt sure what it would be like and as for the couple that said we was unsure of ourself's dont comment unless you know us personally and can form a judgement, the people we went with was certanly NOT trouble makers and anybody that saw the incident at the end of the night would know that it was the host that was causing the trouble and being abusive to everyone involved and NOT the other way round and as in the email sent to us from the owners asking for infomation on what happened that i did reply to and got a response saying they would review the cctv footage of reception i only hope they are big enough to do so and comment on there findings and hold there hands up to someone else tarnishing the name of there club????? neither us nor the couple we went with are trouble makers and maybe it was just THAT host that took a dislike to us and for whatever reason decided to cause a scene and maybe i am being unfair to the club in my comments but i can only comment on what happened and because of that i feel the club was a crap night and will not be returning, im sure that doesnt bother anyone as they dont want my money as they say but maybe a bit of honesty from the host or the owners would go a long way to repairing there credibility......sometimes its good to hold your hands up and say sorry we was wrong!!!!!!

Darren

Date: 18 February 2010

Rating: Fabulous
	~~~~ NEW PARTY & HOSTS ~~~~~ Cross dressers/Transvestites/She Males & Admirers CD/TV/TS- Bi Night Every 2nd & 4th wed month 8pm till 12-1amish Hosted by DEBBS-ESSEX The Hostess with the Mostess you wont find a better you wont find a better Safe Secluded Secure and Licensed Venue anywhere. Don't be shy book up and have some fun. Mail or see website for more info. Date: 18 February 2010

Rating: OK
	As part of the other couple mentioned in your comments from 13 Feb 2010, lets clarify the situation. There was no attitude to filling out forms or any other problem until leaving the club, at which point when dandlessex enquired about their friend who was, for whatever reason clearly upset, they were met with a barrage of abuse from one of the hosts. Their reaction was totally predictable. As to your enquiries and chatting to other people present, I am surprised you did not feel capable of speaking to us. As you know we have visited your club many times in the past and would not consider ourselves to be trouble makers. We WERE personal friends with your hosts but we were also subject to an unjust verbal attack. We know your host was under personal stress but the tirade of abuse was not acceptable. In my opinion the whole episode was caused by the reaction of your host to the situation and they should be big enough to take responsibility for their actions not go about blaming others. If any growing up is to be done, I suggest you look closer to home. Your removal of us as friends on SH clearly shows your shallow one sided approach to this matter. We do not have a problem with your club or yourselves, just somewhat disappointed with the action that you have taken. Lets hope this ends this unnecessary conflict. Geoff Date: 17 February 2010

Rating: OK

As part of the other couple mentioned in your comments from 13 Feb 2010, lets clarify the situation.

There was no attitude to filling out forms or any other problem until leaving the club, at which point when dandlessex enquired about their friend who was, for whatever reason clearly upset, they were met with a barrage of abuse from one of the hosts.

Their reaction was totally predictable.

As to your enquiries and chatting to other people present, I am surprised you did not feel capable of speaking to us. As you know we have visited your club many times in the past and would not consider ourselves to be trouble makers.

We WERE personal friends with your hosts but we were also subject to an unjust verbal attack. We know your host was under personal stress but the tirade of abuse was not acceptable.

In my opinion the whole episode was caused by the reaction of your host to the situation and they should be big enough to take responsibility for their actions not go about blaming others.

If any growing up is to be done, I suggest you look closer to home. Your removal of us as friends on SH clearly shows your shallow one sided approach to this matter.

We do not have a problem with your club or yourselves, just somewhat disappointed with the action that you have taken.

Lets hope this ends this unnecessary conflict.

Geoff

Date: 17 February 2010

Rating: Fun
	We have been to Destiny's on a number of occasions and have always had a good time and have found the hosts very charming and welcoming. If you are a couple who are not totally 100% at ease with swinging then this lifestyle is not for you!!!!! L and M Date: 17 February 2010

Rating: Fabulous
	I must say that DSX is the best club i've been to.. Me and Lee were there Sat night and there was a couple there that was not sure about themselves and to be honest they should have not been there if they can not handle others... Sounds to me like some growing up has to be done! Kaz and Rob we'll be down again very soon spending our hard earned money drinking and have a very fun time as always..xx Date: 16 February 2010

Rating: Fabulous

I must say that DSX is the best club i've been to..

Me and Lee were there Sat night and there was a couple there that was not sure about themselves and to be honest they should have not been there if they can not handle others...

Sounds to me like some growing up has to be done!

Kaz and Rob we'll be down again very soon spending our hard earned money drinking and have a very fun time as always..xx

Date: 16 February 2010

Rating: Fabulous
	WE WORK VERY HARD TO MAKE DESTINY SX THE PREMIERE VENUE IN ESSEX AND WILL ALWAYS RESPOND TO ANY COMMENTS. Before i put our comments in answer to those of dandlessex below. Lets have some background info. 1: we did request more info from dandlessex before our posting details re their review. 2: we received no answer from them despite 2 emails. 3: in finding out about that night chatting with other guests. Well the couple who wrote this review came with another couple and it seems that as soon as they walked through the door they had some attitude re filling out required forms. Also it seems that the only incident that we can find out about was with this couple and those they came with. Why they wanted to put a bad review about our venue when it was those who caused the only incident is well beyond us. Seeing totally conflicting reviews on the swinging heaven site only confirms that the same night event was a fun event had by all guests but you. Dear dandlessex, in answer to some of your comments (What a load of shit club!!!!! actual club was ok but the atmosphere was shit, worst club night we have been to wasn’t made welcome) If you have something to say about a venue at least don’t write about an incident that it seems involved you and those who you came with. You had a “shit” night because you and your “friends” made it so, you made your “atmosphere shit” because you and your friends made it so and you were given a warm welcome from the hosts just like every other guest that night and every night. (And wont be giving our money to them again,) As far as not spending your money here, well thank you for that as we don’t need “your” money esp if your going to be causing trouble or with those who may cause trouble. (It was our 1st visit to the club and wish we hadnt bothered we will stick to our regular place for fun now as there is never any arguments or fighting and always made to feel welcome) were very sorry that you had what seems to be a bad experience for your 1st visit here but it seems it was nothing to do with the venue, nor the hosts, nor the other guests, nor the atmosphere, it seems from what we have heard all your “arguments” we didn’t hear about any “fighting” and any problems were 100% with those you came with and no one else. Everyone who comes through our doors is always made most warm welcome. Best regards Robert Destiny SX Date: 16 February 2010

Rating: Fabulous

WE WORK VERY HARD TO MAKE DESTINY SX THE PREMIERE VENUE IN ESSEX AND WILL ALWAYS RESPOND TO ANY COMMENTS.

Before i put our comments in answer to those of dandlessex below.

Lets have some background info.

1: we did request more info from dandlessex before our posting details re their review.

2: we received no answer from them despite 2 emails.

3: in finding out about that night chatting with other guests.

Well the couple who wrote this review came with another couple and it seems that as soon as they walked through the door they had some attitude re filling out required forms.

Also it seems that the only incident that we can find out about was with this couple and those they came with.

Why they wanted to put a bad review about our venue when it was those who caused the only incident is well beyond us.

Seeing totally conflicting reviews on the swinging heaven site only confirms that the same night event was a fun event had by all guests but you.

Dear dandlessex, in answer to some of your comments

(What a load of shit club!!!!! actual club was ok but the atmosphere was shit, worst club night we have been to wasn’t made welcome)

If you have something to say about a venue at least don’t write about an incident that it seems involved you and those who you came with. You had a “shit” night because you and your “friends” made it so, you made your “atmosphere shit” because you and your friends made it so and you were given a warm welcome from the hosts just like every other guest that night and every night.

(And wont be giving our money to them again,)

As far as not spending your money here, well thank you for that as we don’t need “your” money esp if your going to be causing trouble or with those who may cause trouble.

(It was our 1st visit to the club and wish we hadnt bothered we will stick to our regular place for fun

now as there is never any arguments or fighting and always made to feel welcome)

were very sorry that you had what seems to be a bad experience for your 1st visit here but it seems it was nothing to do with the venue, nor the hosts, nor the other guests, nor the atmosphere, it seems from what we have heard all your “arguments” we didn’t hear about any “fighting” and any problems were 100% with those you came with and no one else.

Everyone who comes through our doors is always made most warm welcome.

Best regards

Robert

Destiny SX

Date: 16 February 2010

Rating: Avoid
	what a load of shit club!!!!! actual club was ok but the atmosphere was shit, worst club night we have been to wasnt made welcome and wont be givin our money to them again, it was our 1st visit to the club and wish we hadnt bothered we will stick to our regular place for fun now as there is never any arguments or fighting and always made to feel welcome Date: 14 February 2010

Rating: Fabulous
	Went to Destiny on Saturday the 2nd Jan had a great night. From the second you enter you are made to feel welcome and at ease. This was our first visit to a club of this type and we can say thanks destiny as it wont be our last. For those who we met there thanks for a great evening and taking us under the wing as so to speak and the fun was good too lol. Cheers all hope to see you all again very soon Nick & Nikki Date: 3 January 2010

Rating: Fabulous

Went to Destiny on Saturday the 2nd Jan had a great night. From the second you enter you are made to feel welcome and at ease. This was our first visit to a club of this type and we can say thanks destiny as it wont be our last.

For those who we met there thanks for a great evening and taking us under the wing as so to speak and the fun was good too lol.

Cheers all hope to see you all again very soon

Nick & Nikki

Date: 3 January 2010

Rating: OK
	Destiny continues to amaze us..a friendly hosting couple and for experienced and newbies alike it is a great club. They have mad alot of changes and it really is intimate and cozy.. always our first choice above others... dont be shy... just come along. Lin and Andy Date: 10 November 2009

Rating: Fabulous
	Went to Destiny for the first time last night and was made to feel really welcome as soon as we walked through the door. Robert and Karen are fab and the club is great and kept in wonderful condition by them both. If you have any worries about going to a club but want to try one then we would definately recommend Destiny for your first time. We will definately be coming back again and again. Thanks for a great time. xxxxxx Date: 11 October 2009

Rating: Fabulous

Went to Destiny for the first time last night and was made to feel really welcome as soon as we walked through the door.

Robert and Karen are fab and the club is great and kept in wonderful condition by them both.

If you have any worries about going to a club but want to try one then we would definately recommend Destiny for your first time.

We will definately be coming back again and again.

Thanks for a great time. xxxxxx

Date: 11 October 2009

Rating: OK
	UPDATE: CREDIT SQUEEZE SPECIAL ENTRY ALL EVENTS 8pm-9:30pm HALF ENTRY after 9:30pm Normal NO OTHER VENUE OFFERS SO MUCH FOR SO LITTLE. Having several refits and updates and decor during the past few years always getting better. More private lockable areas and a dedicated smoking solution for those that must. Unbeatably Safe Secure Seculded and Licensed. New hosts for CD/TV and admirers DebbsEssex. Date: 6 October 2009

Rating: OK

UPDATE:

CREDIT SQUEEZE SPECIAL ENTRY ALL EVENTS

8pm-9:30pm HALF ENTRY

after 9:30pm Normal

NO OTHER VENUE OFFERS SO MUCH FOR SO LITTLE.

Having several refits and updates and decor during the past few years always getting better. More private lockable areas and a dedicated smoking solution for those that must. Unbeatably Safe Secure Seculded and Licensed. New hosts for CD/TV and admirers DebbsEssex.

Date: 6 October 2009

Rating: Fabulous
	While awaiting for admin to update the Destiny SX info to the following. thoght wede put some info Thanks ******* Destiny SX Essexs Premiere Adult Venue/Studio over 4 years in the making. Often imitated but never bettered The venue/studio. Is a purpose built venue which composes of over ten varied rest rooms each of different themes, with plenty of seating in a comfortable warm and relaxed environment with an erotic and sexy atmosphere with likeminded people. There's a disco, and intimate lounge areas and plenty of play space Even our Dungeon area for those who like to be naughty, Couples only SMOOCHY dance area with 2 Poles for enticing sexy dancing and a dedicated heated smoking solution for those that must. You have SECURE SAFE parking for many cars with roving 24 hour security. You have a LICENSED refreshment bar which provides a varied selection of alcoholic drinks at competitive prices as well as tea, coffee, cold drinks and soft drinks. You have snacks and on special occasions buffet choc fountain You will be shown around the venue by our friendly folks. DSX is available for other private functions, as well for other fun events. Please contact us for more information. First time callers please arrive with 2 forms of ID, 1 to inc address. For Single Gents Please contact us for further info as cold calling rarely gains access all the single gents that are members are known recommended and/or validated on various sites and we only ever allow a limited number to some of our events. Minimum Dress code applies to Saturday events. Destiny SX is more than an adult venue. It’s an experience not to forget and always to repeat. The club is located in Rainham, Essex It's an erotic night out. Whether you're Swingers, Exhibitionists, Voyeurs, CD/TV/TS Bi or Straight we have events that cater for all. Inc Photo sessions and Fetish Fun. Or just enjoy a sexy, intimate night out, you'll fit in perfectly, dress up or dress down, you'll have a great time, with no pressure and no limits, you can let your hair down and be yourself. Totally discrete location and much more fun than many other adult venues. Don’t miss out!!. ******* Date: 20 September 2009

Rating: Fabulous

While awaiting for admin to update the Destiny SX info to the following. thoght wede put some info

Thanks

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Destiny SX Essexs Premiere Adult Venue/Studio over 4 years in the making.

Often imitated but never bettered

The venue/studio.

Is a purpose built venue which composes of over ten varied rest rooms each of different themes, with plenty of seating in a comfortable warm and relaxed environment with an erotic and sexy atmosphere with likeminded people.

There's a disco, and intimate lounge areas and plenty of play space

Even our Dungeon area for those who like to be naughty, Couples only SMOOCHY dance area with 2 Poles for enticing sexy dancing and a dedicated heated smoking solution for those that must.

You have SECURE SAFE parking for many cars with roving 24 hour security.

You have a LICENSED refreshment bar which provides a varied selection of alcoholic drinks at competitive prices as well as tea, coffee, cold drinks and soft drinks. You have snacks and on special occasions buffet choc fountain

You will be shown around the venue by our friendly folks.

DSX is available for other private functions, as well for other fun events.

Please contact us for more information.

First time callers please arrive with 2 forms of ID, 1 to inc address.

For Single Gents Please contact us for further info as cold calling rarely gains access

all the single gents that are members are known recommended and/or validated on

various sites and we only ever allow a limited number to some of our events.

Minimum Dress code applies to Saturday events.

Destiny SX is more than an adult venue.

It’s an experience not to forget and always to repeat.

The club is located in Rainham, Essex It's an erotic night out.

Whether you're Swingers, Exhibitionists, Voyeurs, CD/TV/TS Bi or Straight we have events that cater for all. Inc Photo sessions and Fetish Fun.

Or just enjoy a sexy, intimate night out, you'll fit in perfectly, dress up or dress down, you'll have a great time, with no pressure and no limits, you can let your hair down and be yourself.

Totally discrete location and much more fun than many other adult venues.

Don’t miss out!!.

*********

Date: 20 September 2009

Rating: Fabulous
	We made our first visit and despite the nerves on our behalf we were greeted by the staff and made to feel at home. Club was clean roomy and had lots of options for fun. Boy did we have fun. Thanks again Lin and Andy.x Date: 21 June 2009

Rating: Fabulous
	we've been a couple of times and it's a club we can highly recommened.a sexy and friendly couple own this club and they made us feel welcome both times.its relaxed,fun clean place to go.well worth a visit or two. Date: 6 December 2008

Rating: OK
	we went a few weeks ago for our 1st experiance to see if we would like it...staff were great very welcoming and friendly...the place was perfect very clean and well equipped...its not something i would do often...but next time we fancy it thats the place we will go...we would defo recommend it.... Date: 27 September 2008

Rating: Fabulous
	We go there all the time mainly saturdays Robert and Karen are great hosts very friendly, The clubs even better since the refit with more rooms to play in, We always have fun!! definitely worth visiting Date: 10 April 2008

Rating: Fabulous
	been going now 4 over 5 month on and off its a great place to have some fun lovely and clean and very frendy if u wanna try a club 4 the first time this is the place to go Date: 30 January 2008

Rating: Fabulous
	been going to destiny sx for a few months now always very friendly always feel very welcome,maybee its not the biggest club in the world but its very very clean always a pleasure to go to,the owners are great and help out anytime thier needed my only problem is that most of you lot dont go and make it a landmark club! Date: 28 December 2007

Rating: Fabulous
	Went again last night with some friends. Lovely welcome by all. New layout is fab. Def worth a visit!! Lost of fun stv n lou xx Date: 9 December 2007

Rating: OK
	Went for the first time last night and made to feel very welcome by the owners and guests alike we will definitely be becoming regulars at this venue. Date: 9 December 2007

Rating: Fabulous
	Haven't be able to get down half as much since becoming memebers because of commitments! Always been made welcome by owners and 'guests'. Relaxed, fun, clean place. Loved the old layout can't wait to see the changes. Went for their second bday and the place was packed. Def worth a visit what ever your into! stv n lou xx Date: 17 November 2007

Rating: OK
	Been here twice since we listed it, but not since the improvements. Very nice layout in the club and very clean and friendly, only got to play once as on both occasions it was quiet, but we have been told it can get very busy in there esp at the weekend, so we hope to go again soon. Date: 7 November 2007

Rating: Fabulous
	i went there 2 time so far i find it to be very frendy well be going again soon x Date: 14 July 2007

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