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By *rchippy  Man  over a year ago

omagh

The first propers swingers club is in planning and may open quite soon, somewhere in Northern Ireland. This will be a proper underground swingers club in a secure location. There needs to be plenty of interest for this to go ahead. What you guys think?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We have one down south already..

TheRevolution @theVenue

Proper club, purpose built. Private secure parking, full bar, social area. Public and private play rooms.

We run parties all the time.. Our next ones on Friday!!

Be great to have one up nth too though.. I feel a road trip coming on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have heard many stories about swingers clubs opening in N.I. but they never seem to happen...

Would be great to see one, but, I don't think anyones gonna be holding their breath too long on this one.....

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By *rchippy  Man  over a year ago

omagh


"Have heard many stories about swingers clubs opening in N.I. but they never seem to happen...

Would be great to see one, but, I don't think anyones gonna be holding their breath too long on this one....."

It's not me planing this club, so I can't say for sure, but I have been chatting to the couple who intend to open it. They have a secure venue and funds necessary to transform this venue into a proper club. They need to see a lot of interest before they will invest this money, so lets get behind these guys here on this forum and spread the word. If we don't, it won't go ahead.

So it's in everyone's interest here to be positive and spread the word about this project.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have heard many stories about swingers clubs opening in N.I. but they never seem to happen...

Would be great to see one, but, I don't think anyones gonna be holding their breath too long on this one.....

It's not me planing this club, so I can't say for sure, but I have been chatting to the couple who intend to open it. They have a secure venue and funds necessary to transform this venue into a proper club. They need to see a lot of interest before they will invest this money, so lets get behind these guys here on this forum and spread the word. If we don't, it won't go ahead.

So it's in everyone's interest here to be positive and spread the word about this project."

Spread the word about something that may or may not happen, about an un named un known couple? Like how's that work?

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By *rchippy  Man  over a year ago

omagh

Spread the word about something that may or may not happen, about an un named un known couple? Like how's that work?

All I'm doing here is trying to gauge if people would be interested if this was to happen. If there is enough interest, I'm told it will happen.

SO IF A CLUB WERE TO OPEN, WHO WOULD COME?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Spread the word about something that may or may not happen, about an un named un known couple? Like how's that work?

All I'm doing here is trying to gauge if people would be interested if this was to happen. If there is enough interest, I'm told it will happen.

SO IF A CLUB WERE TO OPEN, WHO WOULD COME?"

"if u build it they shall come" its great to see people with a little initiative trying toget something going. Best of luck to the couple I hope their venture works out. Oh and best ignore the negativity and scepticism if Alexander graham bell

had paid heed to the dubious people surrounding him well where would we be today. Go for it I only wish I were in the area to attend os if its anything like "the venue" in Dublin it will be a blast. Have fun guys

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We have gone through this before. At least twice a year someone on here posts about how they know of someone who if there's enough interest saying they will open a club

In the 5/6 years I'm on here I'm still not holding my breath

The last swingers venue up here was infiltrated by the SW and was closed down

Accounts of genuine couples on here have been exposed in the SW

The fact that the op says " underground " really does sum up the attitude if NI folk to swingers. Whilst that attitude exists I really can't see a club opening

I'd like to see how they would get it past planning for a start

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never know until we try is all I'm saying

A little optimism wouldn't hurt. Ok so u have been here a while and have seen it before and yes not everything works out but surely we need to try and have a little hope, otherwise nothing will ever happen

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By *rchippy  Man  over a year ago

omagh


"We have gone through this before. At least twice a year someone on here posts about how they know of someone who if there's enough interest saying they will open a club

In the 5/6 years I'm on here I'm still not holding my breath

The last swingers venue up here was infiltrated by the SW and was closed down

Accounts of genuine couples on here have been exposed in the SW

The fact that the op says " underground " really does sum up the attitude if NI folk to swingers. Whilst that attitude exists I really can't see a club opening

I'd like to see how they would get it past planning for a start

"

Yes, I get the fact that you have seen posts like this before and nothing ever came of it and as I say the club is nothing to do with me, so I don't really know. But why not give them the encouragement they need. Fair play to them for trying to do something. That's the attitude in Northern Ireland, no matter what you go to do, there is always sinics and negativity around it!

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By *rchippy  Man  over a year ago

omagh


"Never know until we try is all I'm saying

A little optimism wouldn't hurt. Ok so u have been here a while and have seen it before and yes not everything works out but surely we need to try and have a little hope, otherwise nothing will ever happen "

Need more people like you up here lol

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By *lo1 slo2  Couple (MF)  over a year ago

newry

if they manage to get it going we would go

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"if they manage to get it going we would go "

Woohoo and I can testify that this couple would be great company at any party.

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By *im4sex  Woman  over a year ago

belfast

_im4sex

GREAT HOPE TO BE THERE MAKE IT LOCAL IN BELFAST OR BANGOR SEE U THERE XX

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We have gone through this before. At least twice a year someone on here posts about how they know of someone who if there's enough interest saying they will open a club

In the 5/6 years I'm on here I'm still not holding my breath

The last swingers venue up here was infiltrated by the SW and was closed down

Accounts of genuine couples on here have been exposed in the SW

The fact that the op says " underground " really does sum up the attitude if NI folk to swingers. Whilst that attitude exists I really can't see a club opening

I'd like to see how they would get it past planning for a start

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

IF it happens.. we will go to it

and, we will bring around 4 - 5 car loads of fellow swigners as an organised event.. cus most ppl we know would love a local club...

fingers crossed...

once again... not holding our breath...

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By *ougarbelfast  Woman  over a year ago

belfast

As somebody has already said "heard it all before" and when I say that I mean nearly word for word as in "somebody knows somebody" "enough support" "has the money" a true business person does their research (and it's pretty obvious that there is a need for one in Northern Ireland) then creates the business and they tries to lure the customers to their business. The way I am reading this is seems to be back to front lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As somebody has already said "heard it all before" and when I say that I mean nearly word for word as in "somebody knows somebody" "enough support" "has the money" a true business person does their research (and it's pretty obvious that there is a need for one in Northern Ireland) then creates the business and they tries to lure the customers to their business. The way I am reading this is seems to be back to front lol "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The sooner the better

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely interested and a lot of people I know would be to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As somebody has already said "heard it all before" and when I say that I mean nearly word for word as in "somebody knows somebody" "enough support" "has the money" a true business person does their research (and it's pretty obvious that there is a need for one in Northern Ireland) then creates the business and they tries to lure the customers to their business. The way I am reading this is seems to be back to front lol "

Precisely cougar. You only have to search the archives to find the exact same posts near on word for word

But then pointing out the blindingly obvious doesn't go down too well on here.

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By *ougarbelfast  Woman  over a year ago

belfast

My other question about this is how come it is always somebody who knows somebody. Why does that somebody not come on here themselves and say what has to be said. I don't subscribe to the "he wants to remain private" nonsense because his/her/their name will crop up somewhere in planning applications or a website somewhere or even at the venue somebody will know them.

While it is not impossible for a non swinger to open a swingers club or get somebody to front it (people who are swingers)it is always better if the persons doing it are involved in the swingers scene in some way or other as this gives confidence. The prime example of that is the club in Dublin and it seems to be doing very well and is popular if only we could emulate that in Northern Ireland.

One of the age old problems that I have seen over the years is when anybody arranges even a meet and greet here in the North if they post it in a forum you'll always get the should I dare say "stupid swingers" who always come up with the same old line that goes something like this "I heard there was going to be press there" my answer is always "oh really who did you hear that from" or did YOU invite them, or did you hear that from "somebody" who knows "Somebody"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My other question about this is how come it is always somebody who knows somebody. Why does that somebody not come on here themselves and say what has to be said. I don't subscribe to the "he wants to remain private" nonsense because his/her/their name will crop up somewhere in planning applications or a website somewhere or even at the venue somebody will know them.

While it is not impossible for a non swinger to open a swingers club or get somebody to front it (people who are swingers)it is always better if the persons doing it are involved in the swingers scene in some way or other as this gives confidence. The prime example of that is the club in Dublin and it seems to be doing very well and is popular if only we could emulate that in Northern Ireland.

One of the age old problems that I have seen over the years is when anybody arranges even a meet and greet here in the North if they post it in a forum you'll always get the should I dare say "stupid swingers" who always come up with the same old line that goes something like this "I heard there was going to be press there" my answer is always "oh really who did you hear that from" or did YOU invite them, or did you hear that from "somebody" who knows "Somebody""

what i also don,t get is going underground sounds so seedy lol best to go public if they are that serious about it

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By *orny3ormore  Couple (MF)  over a year ago

glasgow

Great idea if they build it we will come even from across the water and we do know other who are interested what a good way to spend a weekend

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By *rchippy  Man  over a year ago

omagh


"My other question about this is how come it is always somebody who knows somebody. Why does that somebody not come on here themselves and say what has to be said. I don't subscribe to the "he wants to remain private" nonsense because his/her/their name will crop up somewhere in planning applications or a website somewhere or even at the venue somebody will know them.

While it is not impossible for a non swinger to open a swingers club or get somebody to front it (people who are swingers)it is always better if the persons doing it are involved in the swingers scene in some way or other as this gives confidence. The prime example of that is the club in Dublin and it seems to be doing very well and is popular if only we could emulate that in Northern Ireland.

One of the age old problems that I have seen over the years is when anybody arranges even a meet and greet here in the North if they post it in a forum you'll always get the should I dare say "stupid swingers" who always come up with the same old line that goes something like this "I heard there was going to be press there" my answer is always "oh really who did you hear that from" or did YOU invite them, or did you hear that from "somebody" who knows "Somebody"

what i also don,t get is going underground sounds so seedy lol best to go public if they are that serious about it "

Why would they go public about it? Look what happened the only other time there was a swingers club in Northern Ireland. As soon as it became public knowledge, the doors never opened again!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My other question about this is how come it is always somebody who knows somebody. Why does that somebody not come on here themselves and say what has to be said. I don't subscribe to the "he wants to remain private" nonsense because his/her/their name will crop up somewhere in planning applications or a website somewhere or even at the venue somebody will know them.

While it is not impossible for a non swinger to open a swingers club or get somebody to front it (people who are swingers)it is always better if the persons doing it are involved in the swingers scene in some way or other as this gives confidence. The prime example of that is the club in Dublin and it seems to be doing very well and is popular if only we could emulate that in Northern Ireland.

One of the age old problems that I have seen over the years is when anybody arranges even a meet and greet here in the North if they post it in a forum you'll always get the should I dare say "stupid swingers" who always come up with the same old line that goes something like this "I heard there was going to be press there" my answer is always "oh really who did you hear that from" or did YOU invite them, or did you hear that from "somebody" who knows "Somebody"

what i also don,t get is going underground sounds so seedy lol best to go public if they are that serious about it

Why would they go public about it? Look what happened the only other time there was a swingers club in Northern Ireland. As soon as it became public knowledge, the doors never opened again!"

Shall I watch for smoke signals on the horizon then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My other question about this is how come it is always somebody who knows somebody. Why does that somebody not come on here themselves and say what has to be said. I don't subscribe to the "he wants to remain private" nonsense because his/her/their name will crop up somewhere in planning applications or a website somewhere or even at the venue somebody will know them.

While it is not impossible for a non swinger to open a swingers club or get somebody to front it (people who are swingers)it is always better if the persons doing it are involved in the swingers scene in some way or other as this gives confidence. The prime example of that is the club in Dublin and it seems to be doing very well and is popular if only we could emulate that in Northern Ireland.

One of the age old problems that I have seen over the years is when anybody arranges even a meet and greet here in the North if they post it in a forum you'll always get the should I dare say "stupid swingers" who always come up with the same old line that goes something like this "I heard there was going to be press there" my answer is always "oh really who did you hear that from" or did YOU invite them, or did you hear that from "somebody" who knows "Somebody"

what i also don,t get is going underground sounds so seedy lol best to go public if they are that serious about it

Why would they go public about it? Look what happened the only other time there was a swingers club in Northern Ireland. As soon as it became public knowledge, the doors never opened again!

Shall I watch for smoke signals on the horizon then? "

lmao

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By *ougarbelfast  Woman  over a year ago

belfast


"Why would they go public about it? Look what happened the only other time there was a swingers club in Northern Ireland. As soon as it became public knowledge, the doors never opened again!"
And do tell us where was this other swingers club.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

SO IF A CLUB WERE TO OPEN, WHO WOULD COME?"

Hopefully most of the punters, there may be a few unable to get there due to drink or inhibitions...

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By *rchippy  Man  over a year ago

omagh


"My other question about this is how come it is always somebody who knows somebody. Why does that somebody not come on here themselves and say what has to be said. I don't subscribe to the "he wants to remain private" nonsense because his/her/their name will crop up somewhere in planning applications or a website somewhere or even at the venue somebody will know them.

While it is not impossible for a non swinger to open a swingers club or get somebody to front it (people who are swingers)it is always better if the persons doing it are involved in the swingers scene in some way or other as this gives confidence. The prime example of that is the club in Dublin and it seems to be doing very well and is popular if only we could emulate that in Northern Ireland.

One of the age old problems that I have seen over the years is when anybody arranges even a meet and greet here in the North if they post it in a forum you'll always get the should I dare say "stupid swingers" who always come up with the same old line that goes something like this "I heard there was going to be press there" my answer is always "oh really who did you hear that from" or did YOU invite them, or did you hear that from "somebody" who knows "Somebody""

Your question is irrelevant, as the couple in question is on this site and have it on their status that they will be opening this club. I'm trying to give them some support for it, but you guys are so negative about it, before it even starts.

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By *rchippy  Man  over a year ago

omagh


"Why would they go public about it? Look what happened the only other time there was a swingers club in Northern Ireland. As soon as it became public knowledge, the doors never opened again! And do tell us where was this other swingers club.

"

This club was in Armagh. Think it was called Pandora's box. It was exposed by the Sunday World, going back probably 10 years or more. It never opened its doors again. Anyone that has been swinging quite a while will know of this place!

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By *ougarbelfast  Woman  over a year ago

belfast


"My other question about this is how come it is always somebody who knows somebody. Why does that somebody not come on here themselves and say what has to be said. I don't subscribe to the "he wants to remain private" nonsense because his/her/their name will crop up somewhere in planning applications or a website somewhere or even at the venue somebody will know them.

While it is not impossible for a non swinger to open a swingers club or get somebody to front it (people who are swingers)it is always better if the persons doing it are involved in the swingers scene in some way or other as this gives confidence. The prime example of that is the club in Dublin and it seems to be doing very well and is popular if only we could emulate that in Northern Ireland.

One of the age old problems that I have seen over the years is when anybody arranges even a meet and greet here in the North if they post it in a forum you'll always get the should I dare say "stupid swingers" who always come up with the same old line that goes something like this "I heard there was going to be press there" my answer is always "oh really who did you hear that from" or did YOU invite them, or did you hear that from "somebody" who knows "Somebody"

Your question is irrelevant, as the couple in question is on this site and have it on their status that they will be opening this club. I'm trying to give them some support for it, but you guys are so negative about it, before it even starts."

You may call it being negative we call it being tired of the "same old same old" open the club and then invite the people it's how most people run a business, yes they do market research but it would be easier to gauge the market by opening it, we have heard the talk so many times before so please forgive us if the "same old same old" talk does not receive the rapturous response you think it should.

Forgive our ignorance or as we like to call it experience, as the saying goes "Seeing is Believing"lets all wait and see.

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By *ougarbelfast  Woman  over a year ago

belfast

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By *IRKNPAM  Couple (MF)  over a year ago

newtownabbey

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By *ougarbelfast  Woman  over a year ago

belfast


""This club was in Armagh. Think it was called Pandora's box. It was exposed by the Sunday World, going back probably 10 years or more. It never opened its doors again. Anyone that has been swinging quite a while will know of this place!""

Yes I know the one you are talking about was not really a swingers club was more like a dinning club you had to have dinner with the other people who attended, and if you liked afterwords you could have each other for desert.

This was based around cooking and swinging to a small degree.

They even said they vetted you, they did not seem to do a good job at the vetting (perhaps they meant they petted you lol) if the Sunday World were able to do an expose on them.I thought it was the Sunday Life from what I can remember (showing my age now lol)

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By *rchippy  Man  over a year ago

omagh

Market research is valuable to any business. They seem to be putting things in motion to go ahead with this place. Maybe I'm naive believing what they are saying, but if you were basing your research on this forum, would you go ahead with your plans to spend money on this place?

I know you have heard it before, probably many times, but some day someone will be serious about opening somewhere so should we not be saying here, good luck and I hope you can do it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah, we were 'vetted' by Pandoras box... and failed their test.. dunno wot we failed on.. who knows lol ( sort of know lmao ) maybe we didn't like to have to pay for a meal ?... who knows

Thank God that was one of the best ever refusals to a club ever !!!

Hope the new ones open to everyone !! and hope you don't have to buy food lol

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By *rchippy  Man  over a year ago

omagh


"Yeah, we were 'vetted' by Pandoras box... and failed their test.. dunno wot we failed on.. who knows lol ( sort of know lmao ) maybe we didn't like to have to pay for a meal ?... who knows

Thank God that was one of the best ever refusals to a club ever !!!

Hope the new ones open to everyone !! and hope you don't have to buy food lol

"

I don't know the details but hopefully it will be good. Did the Sunday World exposé people that were using Pandora's box or did they just expose the club? I can't remember the full story.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Exposed the guy who was running it.. didn't expose any of the members, which, on the scale of things is pretty decent of them, well as far as the word decency can be used for a sunday paper...

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By *rchippy  Man  over a year ago

omagh


"Exposed the guy who was running it.. didn't expose any of the members, which, on the scale of things is pretty decent of them, well as far as the word decency can be used for a sunday paper..."

That's why things be kept quiet in this country. Narrow minds and people that don't like anything different to their own way of life. It's sad that we can't live like other country's do. Rant over!

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By *ougarbelfast  Woman  over a year ago

belfast


"That's why things be kept quiet in this country. Narrow minds and people that don't like anything different to their own way of life. It's sad that we can't live like other country's do"

Truth be known it's a double edged sword in this country, we want things to be as they are in other countries, and in other countries a lot of people don't care a hoot about the press or who knows they enjoy their sexuality. This can be seen when you look at members from other countries look how many profiles have face pictures compared to Ireland North or south.

This country as soon as the press get wind of everything everybody goes into hiding I have seem so many people either leave or turn off their profile once any story appears about swingers in the press. You can't have it both ways (now note I am saying YOU not me but YOU because I know some know it all git will say but you don't have a face picture up there) If you want swingers in this country to be like other countries then somebody is going to have to get their swinging out in the open.

Did you ever wonder why the press are so fascinated with swinging I think it is because swingers (and that includes me) while trying to keep that side of their life private have to be secretive. As I said we want what other countries have but we want it to remain private. The double edged sword

It is not unknown for the press to sit outside a venue where they know swingers go take some pictures and make up nonsense story. A lot of the bull you read is made up they only need a teensy weensy element of truth for the story to make it through their legal team. I mean they can say anything they like do you have the money to sue them, me neither.

We want what we can't have "YET" only takes a few couples to come out and say we are swingers so fucking what, print what you like, so what I like to shag who don't. Let them do their worst and that's that, (now the couples who have the balls to do this had better be squeaky clean no baggage as it will be found out and dragged through the press) you remember when you were young and people said you have to stand up to the bully well in this case the bully is the trash press.

That's my long winded rant over. Thank you for reading. I hope the people do get the club up and running and I hope it is a MASSIVE success.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yeah, we were 'vetted' by Pandoras box... and failed their test.. dunno wot we failed on.. who knows lol ( sort of know lmao ) maybe we didn't like to have to pay for a meal ?... who knows

Thank God that was one of the best ever refusals to a club ever !!!

Hope the new ones open to everyone !! and hope you don't have to buy food lol

"

I got accepted and then they closed lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You missed out on a good meal there Nippy lol !!!!

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By *esitos_uk  Man  over a year ago

belfast


"IF it happens.. we will go to it

and, we will bring around 4 - 5 car loads of fellow swigners as an organised event.. cus most ppl we know would love a local club...

fingers crossed...

once again... not holding our breath... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its hard to do anything to do with sex in northern ireland, I rememeber a few years back a porn mag starting and the dup or sdlp some bunch of twats made the banks refuse to take their money. So the same will likely happen to a swingers club!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Market research is valuable to any business. They seem to be putting things in motion to go ahead with this place. Maybe I'm naive believing what they are saying, but if you were basing your research on this forum, would you go ahead with your plans to spend money on this place?

I know you have heard it before, probably many times, but some day someone will be serious about opening somewhere so should we not be saying here, good luck and I hope you can do it?"

maybe if they came here and posted it themselfs might be a different story instead of gettin you to do it !!

ah the good old greek el greco himself have dined in his place manys a time he,s still going strong lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Its hard to do anything to do with sex in northern ireland, I rememeber a few years back a porn mag starting and the dup or sdlp some bunch of twats made the banks refuse to take their money. So the same will likely happen to a swingers club!"

think i can remember that mag but for the life of me i can,t remember the nmae of it we had to cross the border to get it cause they wud,nt sell it in the north

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why would they go public about it? Look what happened the only other time there was a swingers club in Northern Ireland. As soon as it became public knowledge, the doors never opened again! And do tell us where was this other swingers club.

This club was in Armagh. Think it was called Pandora's box. It was exposed by the Sunday World, going back probably 10 years or more. It never opened its doors again. Anyone that has been swinging quite a while will know of this place!"

Was much more recent then 10 years ago, 3 or 4 max

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"That's why things be kept quiet in this country. Narrow minds and people that don't like anything different to their own way of life. It's sad that we can't live like other country's do

Truth be known it's a double edged sword in this country, we want things to be as they are in other countries, and in other countries a lot of people don't care a hoot about the press or who knows they enjoy their sexuality. This can be seen when you look at members from other countries look how many profiles have face pictures compared to Ireland North or south.

This country as soon as the press get wind of everything everybody goes into hiding I have seem so many people either leave or turn off their profile once any story appears about swingers in the press. You can't have it both ways (now note I am saying YOU not me but YOU because I know some know it all git will say but you don't have a face picture up there) If you want swingers in this country to be like other countries then somebody is going to have to get their swinging out in the open.

Did you ever wonder why the press are so fascinated with swinging I think it is because swingers (and that includes me) while trying to keep that side of their life private have to be secretive. As I said we want what other countries have but we want it to remain private. The double edged sword

It is not unknown for the press to sit outside a venue where they know swingers go take some pictures and make up nonsense story. A lot of the bull you read is made up they only need a teensy weensy element of truth for the story to make it through their legal team. I mean they can say anything they like do you have the money to sue them, me neither.

We want what we can't have "YET" only takes a few couples to come out and say we are swingers so fucking what, print what you like, so what I like to shag who don't. Let them do their worst and that's that, (now the couples who have the balls to do this had better be squeaky clean no baggage as it will be found out and dragged through the press) you remember when you were young and people said you have to stand up to the bully well in this case the bully is the trash press.

That's my long winded rant over. Thank you for reading. I hope the people do get the club up and running and I hope it is a MASSIVE success."

Not often I agree with you but once again I have to

Whilst we swing in private nothing is going to change. There were a brave couple who went public to the papers about 6 years back and were totally ostracised . Whilst they were trying to say hey it's just swinging not murder, they forgot that most the people they played with weren't willing to fight for the cause

I remember the gay movement in the 80,s and how much it took for them to get the rights and freedoms they enjoy nowadays. I really can't see the swingers of NI uniting to take such actions

Mr chippy do you actually even know this couple personally or just seen a few words on a profile?

As said so many times this wont be happening as it won't get through planning.soon as planning application is made it will be stopped on moral grounds. Sad but true

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *rchippy  Man  over a year ago

omagh


"Market research is valuable to any business. They seem to be putting things in motion to go ahead with this place. Maybe I'm naive believing what they are saying, but if you were basing your research on this forum, would you go ahead with your plans to spend money on this place?

I know you have heard it before, probably many times, but some day someone will be serious about opening somewhere so should we not be saying here, good luck and I hope you can do it?

maybe if they came here and posted it themselfs might be a different story instead of gettin you to do it !!

ah the good old greek el greco himself have dined in his place manys a time he,s still going strong lol "

They just asked me to help spread the word. They are on this site and have it on their profile!

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By *izzzy  Woman  over a year ago

antrim

why dont they post up about it then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Market research is valuable to any business. They seem to be putting things in motion to go ahead with this place. Maybe I'm naive believing what they are saying, but if you were basing your research on this forum, would you go ahead with your plans to spend money on this place?

I know you have heard it before, probably many times, but some day someone will be serious about opening somewhere so should we not be saying here, good luck and I hope you can do it?

maybe if they came here and posted it themselfs might be a different story instead of gettin you to do it !!

ah the good old greek el greco himself have dined in his place manys a time he,s still going strong lol

They just asked me to help spread the word. They are on this site and have it on their profile!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Market research is valuable to any business. They seem to be putting things in motion to go ahead with this place. Maybe I'm naive believing what they are saying, but if you were basing your research on this forum, would you go ahead with your plans to spend money on this place?

I know you have heard it before, probably many times, but some day someone will be serious about opening somewhere so should we not be saying here, good luck and I hope you can do it?

maybe if they came here and posted it themselfs might be a different story instead of gettin you to do it !!

ah the good old greek el greco himself have dined in his place manys a time he,s still going strong lol

They just asked me to help spread the word. They are on this site and have it on their profile!"

That makes no sense. If they are going to be opening a club, surely they would be aware of the need to promote it? Why didn't they post something up themselves first? Fair enough in asking people to spread the word if you know them personally,know they are legit and aren't just going on what they say on their profile about it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i think i see a flying pig

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By *IRKNPAM  Couple (MF)  over a year ago

newtownabbey

Pandoras Box was launched mid-2010

We had an invite to go which sadly clashed with our summer holidays !

It WAS based on food & wine etc and

they had 5 rooms for B&B

[ have original e-mails from Host etc ]

So NOT 10 years ago as stated above !

We were due to go early 2011 around

time of SW Expose ! [ Thank Feck ]

Apparently a disgruntled couple went

to the press....

Would LOVE to see a Club in NI ,

having been to Infusions & Chams in UK

just wish i had the Finance & BALLS

to give it a go ! [ prefer quiet life ]

Good Luck who[m]ever you are !

D & P x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If they want the word to spread, then whats their profile on here ?

Surely if therye opening a swingers club and gonna be the spotlight for media, then why don't they come on the forums and post up about it themselves ?

something fishy here.......

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By *avie t  Couple (MF)  over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


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SO IF A CLUB WERE TO OPEN, WHO WOULD COME?

Hopefully most of the punters, there may be a few unable to get there due to drink or inhibitions... "

lol you just stole my post was just thinkin the same thing

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By *avie t  Couple (MF)  over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

the venue in dublin is good we have been and not too far from anywhere in n.i.also hear the one in limerick is good we have yet to try it so there are options there

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By *radley123s  Man  over a year ago

donaghcloney

Pandoras box was the house behind me lol. I near died when I heard it was a swingers club lol. Wish I had have realised about it before it closed down

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