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What to do about hate mail

By *ounglad OP Man over a year ago

Burnham

Hi guys. Just got my first hate mail today and I was wondering if there's anything other than just blocking the person? I'm guy so this is probably trivial compared to the amount of verbal abuse that women and couples get, judging from the notes people leave on their profiles. But if it's that big of a problem why how do people filter them out?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi guys. Just got my first hate mail today and I was wondering if there's anything other than just blocking the person? I'm guy so this is probably trivial compared to the amount of verbal abuse that women and couples get, judging from the notes people leave on their profiles. But if it's that big of a problem why how do people filter them out?"

Nothing, ignore it. Blocking only gives them the attention they so desperately crave and they can easily set up multiple accounts.

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By *ounglad OP Man over a year ago

Burnham

Thanks, it surprised me how toxic people can be towards rejection

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Report the said person to admin also

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Block and forget

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

Block - report - forget

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By *atelotmanMan over a year ago

Chatham

Just ignore them mate.I just let it roll off my back.Its only words not bullets.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

Block him or her or them

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Report and block as everyone says but also set your filters to stop new members from being able to contact you. It's shocking isn't it.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Report and block as everyone says but also set your filters to stop new members from being able to contact you. It's shocking isn't it."

Poo-holes

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Report and block as everyone says but also set your filters to stop new members from being able to contact you. It's shocking isn't it.

Poo-holes "

Indeed Steve

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Laugh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get them from ladys .not nice as were all looking for the same.

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By *ounglad OP Man over a year ago

Burnham

I got it from a guy. The surprising thing was that he was verified too and had a gold sub

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

Being verified and paying site support doesn't mean you can't behave like an arse

Report abuse as its unacceptable

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