Oral

Oral sex usually refers to either cock sucking (fellatio) or pussy licking (cunnilingus) although it can sometimes mean rimming too.

A good blow job is about gentle sucking, licking and rubbing of the shaft of the penis by hand. As you get more experienced at blow jobs you can try taking more and more penis into your mouth and with some practice you can control the gag reflex and "deep throat" your man - meaning to take his whole penis into your mouth and throat.

To spit or swallow is a big question. Most guys like it if their partner either swallows or dribbles the cum out over their face. Saying "yuck" and spitting should probably be avoided!

Pussy licking in some ways is much more difficult because women vary so much in what they like. Some women really enjoy direct clitoral licking, other women don't. Basically it really does come down to either asking or trying different things and seeing what the reaction is.

Oral sex on either men or women can also be accompanied with a little bit of anal fingering, although it's probably a good idea to ask first.