couple looking for a bi couple

We both love him to have some bi play, oral and beyond. She likes to watch and join in, but it has to be as part of play with a couple - no single males (and messages from them are blocked). She is curious and is looking for someone to give her a gentle introduction; a couple with a straight fem and a bi/curious male would be great too. We also like the opposite sex! We just want to meet a couple with whom we can all share each other, none of us minding who touches whom. We think we are both OK to look at - we certainly each think the other is gorgeous. We cannot accommodate, but travel is OK, especially Kent/Sussex/Surrey. Safe sex is preferred. We are looking for a couple, friendly and easy going, who don't take themselves too seriously. Good, intelligent conversation over a drink is always welcome, and a good way to start.