Taking a break for now

We are a genuine couple with a few different experiences under our belts, but not hardened in any way, both non-smokers but tolerant of considerate smokers enjoy experimenting and are very open minded. We both love stockings (especially FF's) and heels, but only Jess wears them lol. We are just ordinary people and don't think of ourselves as supermodels - we like our food and drink too much for that, but we're not un-attractive either!
sorry to say that we've been very unlucky recently and have been messed around by timewaster! Please think before you decide to agree to a meeting!
We are keen to explore most areas of sexual pleasure, and as such we have marked his preference as "bi-curious", but this is merely an indication of the areas we might like to experiment in the future and by no means a "must have" at the moment.
We'd like to meet like minded couples to explore our interests in watching another couple whilst we enjoy each other. Most likely we would start things rolling with some F-F interaction,followed by everyone joining in together, but definitely no full swapping. Like to meet socially first as we want to be sure we get along before getting involved. We would like to make this a regular thing with couples we get along with. We're also keen to meet long-legged TV's who have a particular liking for stockings and heels and all things feminine.
We would like party invites where soft swappers are welcome.

Please note - we don't meet single guys under any circumstances, sorry.

Why is it people on here think it's acceptable to just delete messages without a polite "thanks but not thanks" message? Is common courtesy dead on this site?