Bi Cd looking for other cd, tv couple or female

Im a genuinely bi cd (not curious) living in north lancs although do work away a lot in the south east of england, around brighton worthing west sussex and am looking for another bi or gay cd, tv, female or bi couple with a cd male. I have wanted to go to a swingers club bi night for a while but never plucked up the courage, Is there anyone, male female or couple willing to help! I am not into male cd/tv admirers, curious men, phone,cyber text sex! I also dont have a webcam. I can sometimes accom with notice.
I'm very genuine with experience and only want the same.
Also looking for a single bi fem for fun, friendship and possibly swing partner. No pic collectors, curious men or timewasters thanks

How do you get verified on here, especially as genuinely bi rather than curious????