Hello from a not so nervous couple

We are fairly new to the scene and just started going to clubs, have recently had our first encounter with another couple which has really boosted our confidence.

We are now active players in the club scene and are really enjoying ourselves.

We have now decided to start exploring the idea of meeting people outside of the club scene. We would want to meet socially in the first instance to get to know each other and then make a separate arrangement to meet for fun if all parties agreed.

We cannot accommodate as we have children at home but can travel a reasonable distance.

Age/looks are not really important put personality is.

Safe sex is an absolute must.

We are both straight with Nicky having the odd bi moment if the mood takes.

Ben is a 30 year old male. He is quite shy till you get to know him then he is very witty. He is 5ft 10 with light brown hair and blue eyes. he is on the cuddly side just as Nicky likes him so if you don't like that sort of thing its tough :)
Nicky is a 33 year old female. 5ft 6, size 20/22 with red hair(at the moment). Curvy 38dd and green eyes.Nicky is most definitely a BBW so again if thats not your sort of think then please just pass by.


We are developing new interests all the time. Experimenting with floggers, spanking and Japanese rope bondage at the minute and enjoying it very much. (Ben giving and Nicky receiving)
Nicky trusts Ben explicitly in this but really wouldn't want to pursue this with a total stranger. Trust would need to develop for this to extend beyond the 2 of us. You are however free to watch.

we are not into watersports or cuckolding. Open to suggestions on almost anything else though (as long as its legal).

We love oral although Nicky does get jaw ache after a while though lol... Ben says she needs more practice. Nicky also loves playing with toys especially with help.

We do not meet separately and do not go into separate rooms to play.


We are not looking for a bunch of strangers to be on our friends list please get to know us first or we might just decline you. This is not meant to offend anyone x we would just rather have an empty friends list than a false one. Thats not meant to sound harsh just want an honest profile really. The nice people you see on our friends list are people we have actually had conversations with and are all very nice.

we don't mind pms from people saying hello or from people wanting to get to know more about us but we don't want to meet anyone for fun tonight.

We want to meet people socially first and make sure that all parties get on. If we do then great will will then arrange to play. We are grown ups so if someone decides after meeting us socially that they dont want to take things further or just be friends thats fine. we are looking for friendship too.

Please do not send us one liners with just an msn address.
Thought out friendly messages are much more welcome and more likely to get a response.

We are not looking to meet single guys (we have the ones we want) so your energies might be better off used elsewhere. Genuine guys will understand this in fact genuine guys will not contact us in the first place.

Nasty messages will be laughed at almost as much as funny ones.
We occasionally can be found on cam and really don't mind being watched. In fact we quite like it.


We are a genuine couple just very new to whole scene so i suppose our barriers are still a little raised. Exitment and nerves i suppose lol.

We can be found at Chameleons most Saturdays so will probably see some of you there. Nicky is the one in the bright pink towel.


Please be patient with us we are new not time wasters and will eventually be fully fledged swingers. We are a nice friendly couple and don't bite..... much.

We are happy to confirm we are genuine by cam or phone before we meet, and assume that anyone else would also be happy confirming they too are real.

If there is anything else you want to know then please ask.