Single guy looking for fun

Man in Kettering, West Midlands, UK

... "This weekend at The Vanilla Alternative starts with Freedom Friday, open to all, and continues with Saturday Seduction for couples and single ladies.". Wednesday

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 10 hours ago

I've been involved in this swinging lifestyle for more years than I care to remember. Over the years I have made friends with an amazing number of people, all ages, all backgrounds and all shapes and sizes but all very keen on the two sides of swinging; the wonderful social aspect together with the sexy fun and games that sometimes follow.

These days I very much enjoy visiting and helping out at The Vanilla Alternative swingers club in Tempsford, Bedfordshire where I can be found most weekends.

Brian

72 years old, Straight

6'0" 183cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 18 to 60
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Group Sex, Oral, Rimming, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Voyeurism

Verified Genuine Profile

*aughtyNaughtyCouple69 (37), Couple on 28 August 2023 by Meeting in person:
Brian is a legend! He is the most wonderful host man and truly your best friend when visiting VA. Always very polite, classy and professional - looking sharp and in such incredible shape, he’s not 21 but he looks like it :) B. is always happy to answer all your questions and is never too tired of showing you around! True gem and irreplaceable addition to a great club! See you soon - love, M and K xxx

*layfulpair223 (33), Couple on 16 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
We love seeing Brian at VA, it wouldn't be the same without him! Thank you for always being so lovley and welcoming x

*edfordcouple888 (41), Couple on 22 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
It’s always a pleasure seeing Brian when you first get to VA. Great guy and look forward to seeing you in the hot tub on our next visit.

*dnRu (48), Couple on 7 November 2022 by Meeting in person:
What a Gentleman! Showed us around VA and put us first timers completely at ease

*reshly-Squeezed (39), Couple on 12 June 2022 by Meeting in person:
The host with the most! We love seeing you at club, working and chilling - after all these years you still make us smile and laugh xx

*iptoptotty (62), Woman on 5 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
I have sat with ‘our Brian’ in the hot tub at the VA on many occasions. I hadn’t seen him for ages before my visit last Friday but was welcomed with open arms and a warm hug. It didn’t take long before we were both sat in the hot tub having a good old chat. He is a wonderful greeter at the club although far too many people queried if I was Mrs Brian!!!! He’s a diamond chap.

*igdogue (36), Couple on 19 March 2022 by Meeting in person:
Was great to see Brian on Friday evening @ VA Not long after getting there we headed down to the bar for a drink and we had Brian gave us a tour around. Loved spending time in the hot tub, we exchanged some message with each other other the course on the morning and will be returning again monthly, Be great to have a chat again.

*exyhappy2 (41), Couple on 20 January 2020 by Meeting in person:
What a really lovely and genuine gent. A fantastic host at the VA, making everyone feel at home!

*uffolk40 (43), Woman on 8 December 2019 by Meeting in person:
Thanks so much for your hospitality last night. Loved the guided tour as it was my first time. Such a lovely, kind gentleman - exactly what you need in a club as a host. Hope to see you again in January.

*ecretpassion100 (49), Couple on 19 August 2019 by Meeting in person:
Always a pleasure seeing this gent when at VA ...and festival of fun was no exception...friendly flirty and loves to have fun ...ty for an awesome weekend...love M and C xxx

*achel Smyth (59), TV/TS on 10 August 2019 by Meeting in person:
Steed made me very welcome on my first night at VA, a true gent and lovely man .... thank you xxx

*ambscouple2015 (46), Couple on 11 May 2019 by Meeting in person:
Had the p!easier of having Brian show us around last night on our first visit to VA and what an absolutely wonderful and charming gentleman. Also had the opportunity to chat later in the night in the hot tub and was just as charming. Thank you x

*r n Mrs F x (56), Couple on 18 April 2019 by Meeting in person:
A gent and a scholar.. absolute star. X

*uckbunnys (45), Couple on 25 March 2019 by Meeting in person:
Brian !!! What can we say ? An absolute gentleman. Not only does he have an outstanding personality. He also has the charm and charisma which makes us proud to class Brian as a friend xx

*atchmade (51), Couple on 25 March 2019 by Meeting in person:
The most genuine gentlemanly chap ever. Always a pleasure to have you around steed.

*REEDOMatVA (33), Couple on 18 March 2019 by Meeting in person:
I've met Brian on many occasion now and every time he's been the same: genuine, gorgeous inside and out and the perfect man to have around. From chilling in the hot tub to chatting about our jobs, There is only one Brian. I'm glad to have met you. Let the fun continue.

*atchmade (51), Couple on 17 March 2019 by Meeting in person:
Gotta love steed. Everyone needs a steed

*achael666 (26), Couple on 3 February 2019 by Meeting in person:
What a great host! Made us feel welcome and at ease. He's sold VA to us single handedly. Til next time!

*picyminx (51), Woman on 3 February 2019 by Meeting in person:
This guy is ace!! A true star. I dont know how he puts up with me but he does :-). Genuine, handsome and funny ,what more do you want? :-)

*icesexytits (44), Woman on 15 December 2018 by Meeting in person:
My first visit to VA Brian was a lovely host an gave me a tour an we had a nice chat an made me feel welcome an we both had fun playing with a women together it was a good night an hope to see you again soon

*evin_Mia (44), Couple on 2 December 2018 by Meeting in person:
The charming Brian met us at the door at the Vanilla Alternative and kindly showed us to our room key. A little later, with Chic getting started, he offered up his time to give us a tour of the VA and gave us the guidance to get us started. A charming gent and such a warm welcome.

*urple Mamba (34), Woman on 28 August 2018 by Meeting in person:
A true gentleman, easy to chat with and a pleasure to host for. Extremely knowledgeable with a genuine love of the lifestyle, Steed99 must be an excellent addition to any evening xxx

*ugarfix (49), Couple on 6 August 2018 by Meeting in person:
I work with this tall, distinguished and charming guy every weekend at the VA. I love that I get a naughty kiss or a bum squeeze every time I want one. He’s been around this scene for many years and has a lovely way of helping new people settle in and making them welcome and relaxed and I’ve seen him in the hot tub and can tell you ladies he’s in great shape. Love you B xxxx

*ork and cindy (63), Couple on 26 November 2017 by Meeting in person:
Meet this really nice gentleman at va Saturday night made us feel so welcome. Look forward to meeting again soon

*oveSexy2017 (54), Couple on 16 October 2017 by Meeting in person:
Such a lovely man!!! Met Brian a few times at VA and he is always very friendly, welcoming and chatty! xx

*hared (60), Man on 15 October 2017 by Meeting in person:
We have met this gentleman a number of times in the VA and again last night. Always very polite and a pleasure to talk to. Always makes my wife and I feel at home

*MLET (40), Couple on 4 April 2017 by Meeting in person:
met the gentleman at va a few times , he's an absolute pleasure to talk to and to be around. a true gent.xxx

*etbit (53), Couple on 2 January 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met at the VA on NYE where he was helping to host after answering our (many) newbie questions before hand. Genuinely nice guy, extremely helpful, and helped make our first visit a good one xx

*Jcouple321 (61), Couple on 11 June 2016 by Meeting in person:
We have had the pleasure of meeting Brian on several occasions at the VA both chatting and playing. He is a true gentleman and very respectful of everyones limits. S says he has an amazing tongue and manages to hit all the right spots!! S&R

*iratedave2 (63), Man on 17 March 2016 by Meeting in person:
Here's one for the ladies!, tall polite and sociable, a real gentleman. I met Brian at V.A on Friday.

*entcouple3232 (52), Couple on 30 November 2015 by Meeting in person:
Very nice guy, we met him at VA club and he was very genuine and nice. Chat soon.

*inkyBedsCouple (43), Couple on 1 November 2015 by Meeting in person:
Lovely respectful chap. Hope to meet again before too long.

*liffxx4 (68), Man on 3 August 2015 by Meeting in person:
We met this charming man at our home and he gave the wife a very nice time until it was unexpectedly interrupted and had to be cut short. A true gentleman.

*ensualcouple99 (59), Couple on 22 March 2015 by Meeting in person:
We chatted to Steed in the bar at VA and he is an intelligent, charming and respectful gentleman who personifies the class of the establishment.

*jfunmk (49), Couple on 14 February 2015 by Meeting in person:
Had a brief chat on hear and met at VA. J was really happy with the experience of meet this man along with other single people. Would meet again with others. Thank you

*erlina (36), Woman on 11 February 2015 by Meeting in person:
Always good sexy fun, he knows what he is doing and has good fingers...;)

*hilanlu (49), Couple on 1 February 2015 by Meeting in person:
Had a little play with Brian, always a gent and never oversteps the mark.

*heJodielocks (44), Woman on 1 February 2015 by Meeting in person:
I have known Brian for some time now and he is the complete package, a gentleman, courteous, kind and respectful. He is experienced and certainly knows how to please. X

*havenbabe01 (55), Couple on 7 July 2014 by Meeting in person:
we have known this charming man for a few years now bumping into him almost every weekend he is smart well spoken and a pleasure to be around ladies if you get the chance meet this guy he is one of the genuine ones on here

*hilanlu (49), Couple on 21 June 2014 by Meeting in person:
Met Brian at VA and then had a good chat in the hot tub...:)

*issyEM (39), Woman on 20 April 2014 by Meeting in person:
Had meet that lovely gentelman at Kestrel. He is nice man,respectfull and know how to pleasex

*JTrigger (33), Man on 20 February 2014 by Meeting in person:
What a top bloke! Friendly, good laugh and great company. Have met Brian many times down the VA, always a pleasure. If you get the opportunity to meet Brian, go for it!

*ollyamore (59), Couple on 18 February 2013 by Meeting in person:
We met at Vanilla Alternative, we had a lovely time with Brian. We are softish swingers and found this was respected without taking away from the fun of the evening. He was very good company and made our visit one to remember.