Young bisexual guy hopes great sex can lead to love

I'm just a young, fairly inexperienced bisexual guy looking for whatever human contact I can find. I'm not with anyone at the moment and I'm missing the casual intimacy that comes with being in a relationship - holding hands, kissing in public, spooning, and of course sex.

***I check my messages on here sporadically - other ways of sporadically contacting me include Hotmail/Messenger (up4anything_lad AT hotmail DOT co DOT uk) and Camfrog (good way of checking whether people are real or not - my username is up4anythinglad).***

I did a questionnaire on a dating site and it classed me as a Backrubber (Deliberate Gentle Sex Dreamer) - it pretty much summed up my attitude to sex so I'll just copy-paste it so you can see what I'm like...

"Lusty but indirect. Kind, but also using friendship as a means to sex. Oh, that feels gooood. You are The Backrubber.

We call you "The Backrubber" because you straddle that fine line between coming on to someone and just treating her nicely. Backrubs are just one example; you'd meet for coffee, or talk about books/movies, or even argue a little bit, all the while mostly preferring to screw.

Your indirect approach is not some evil trickery, but rather a result of your open mind. You'd enjoy either love or sex, but the latter definitely doesn't require the former. While you are responsible and ambitious, you absolutely DON'T have uptight views on relationships. So ultimately, you just enjoy a woman, and let things take their course. If she wants you, great. If not, that's fine too.

Though you're not thinking too much about Love at this point in your life, odds are, when the time comes, you'll be very happy settling down. Your ideal mate is gentle and horny, just like you."