A Wonderland Adventure

Uk, East Midlands


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Join us in an exciting exclusive and curious adventure weekend away like no other experience you will have ever had. Our venues are selected for Seclusion, Luxury and Atmosphere.

Just www.follow-the-whiterabbit.co.uk to a magical world of erotic play and imagination where you can be free to be yourself, free to explore and embrace all this lifestyle has to offer in a safe secure luxurious environment with the best facilities.

Swinging meets fantasy meets fetish all rolled into one Mad Hatters Tea Party.

We are a non-profit organisation all the proceeds are re invested into the venues and parties.

In a moment of madness our crew of six people decided we should create a fantasy party for real people a sexual and sensual journey with a little of our own erotic fetish twist .

All of us bring something to the table at Wonderland from fantasy costumes Submission and domination,Shabari rope work and pure eroticism for liberated swinging adults.Its the party you should never miss.

For the curious swinger's among'st you our entertainment demonstrations and workshops will intrigue and introduce you to our wonderful world of mystery and intrigue.

With years of experience between us it helps to make our events all over the UK very special and unique. Please read our verification's.


Alice Fab Profile sated pleasure your main booking contact.

The White Rabbit Fab Profile follows the white rabbit Master of ceremonies.

The Red Queen Fab Profile follow the white rabbit The Boss.

Cheshire cat Fab Profile Party People Head of Marketing.

Mad Hatter Fab Profile submissivesexylady Tea party specialist & Hostess.

The White Queen Fab Profile sugar muffin Kink Hostess.

We cater for all tastes from Tea parties Grand Balls Masquerades and lots of debauchery but above all an opportunity to spend memorable time meet and make new fantastic lasting friendships with like minded people in stunning locations.


The Wonderland crew will take care of your every need you will want for nothing. Our priority is you.

Wonderland may not be every body’s cup of tea but if you have an open mind and want to embrace and challenge your own experiences The Party Never ends you will never want to leave!

Take a leap head first into the Rabbit Hole like Alice.


Don’t be late book your tickets to our next event.

Limited places at our parties.

For information email registration & Bookings chat to Alice fab profile wonderland sated pleasure.

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Rating: Fabulous
It's been a few days since we wandered down the rabbit hole and we're still riding the high of such an incredible weekend. This adventure took us into the depths of Edinburgh and assembling with the gang in some very sexy outfits for Torture Garden. We had some fun, sexy and sensual games and a house full of some of the finest people you could ever hope to meet. From the second we arrived we were made to feel welcome. We can honestly say that these people truly felt like family and that parting at the end of the event was the only negative. Everything was planned to perfection, with plenty of space to do your own thing too. There's something very special about wonderland. We cannot wait to head back there.

Date: 6 June 2017

Rating: Fabulous
I am sat here reflecting on my weekend in Wonderland, wishing I was still down the rabbit hole. What an amazing experience with such fabulous people. It was planned out and excecuted by the whole team with acute attention to detail. We were welcomed, fed, watered, entertained and giving the opportunity to explore a more intimate side of Wonderland. There was fun and laughter and of course fabulous costumes which were shined to perfection lol together we made friendships and memories, together we make Wonderland!

I look forward to the next adventure down the rabbit hole Xx

Date: 6 June 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Having just returned from another fantastic weekend with the wonderland crew and just sitting reflecting on what has been a weekend of epic proportion.

The organisation that goes into these events is outstanding. From the planning and execution by the red queen and white rabbit to the fabulous demos and workshops. A taste of intimacy with hands on introduction to a new experience. This weekend has been amazing. Amazing people and true friends who i will cherish forever. Weve laughed from start to finish. Well fed. Well watered and well looked after. Costumes were out of this world. Now looking forward to the next wonderland event. You really know how to pull off a fantastic time xxx

Date: 4 June 2017

Rating: Fabulous
White Rabbit and Red Queen.

We followed you down the rabbit hole again at the murder mile weekend in London.

Oh my , What a weekend , filled with entertainment weeks before the event even started .

This event was organized to perfection by top quality organizes.

Every detail worked out with Precision.

From Champaign on arrival, to bottles of water and cake on leaving..

Every aspect was catered for.

The theme for the night was Victorian steam punk and Everybody's costumes were outstanding.

You could tell people truly went that extra mile to but the last finishing touch to each and every costumes and you could tell. Everybody looked

Super sexy and deliciously handsome. Wow ...

There was Entertainment through out the night, to get the party started and these people know how to party.

I've never felt so welcomed into a group of people that only a year ago were complete strangers and now I can call True friends.

I have learned so many things over the years and always felt something missing and have been searching for that something and then found wonderland. A magical and remarkable family.

You can be whoever you want to be with no hiding in the shadows, embarrassed of who you want to be. Your Never judged and encourage to be your true self.

Wonderland is filled with magic so if you get the opportunity to attend the Wonderland adventure come join us at a party you will never forget xx

Date: 28 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
We took another trip down the rabbit hole!!! OMG these people know how to organise a party!! The Murder Mile event was simply awesome, every little detail was covered... right down to the welcome champagne with a 'drink me' mixer of sloe gin or colour!! The evening ran like clockwork, erotic dancers, a dance floor with 'decent' music, bdsm demonstrations, an exceptional setting, all add up to a truly explosive and sensational mix. The evening just flew, no one wanted to go home!! 6 hours was simply not long enough!!

We had never found 'our thing' until we went down the rabbit hole. We've made friends for life...Thank you Wonderland for being who you are and doing what you do!!!

Date: 22 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
We jumped in and checked out the February event and had a lovely time. The wonderland crew are friendly, welcoming and very sexy too. We were a little anxious arriving in full steampunk wear (the theme of the night) but we were greeted and treated like kings and queens by some delightful people. We had a great host, a lovely tour of the venue and some great little demos too. All in all, we had a fab time and cant wait to go back down the rabbit hole. Gotta say the build up chat and aftercare chat has kept us amused for days too.

Date: 22 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
What a fabulous party, scenery and set up, professional being the key word. The Wonderland crew really did transport us into a world of crazy fun. Unfortunately we arrived late but the greeting we received from our hosts was incredibly warm, in fact, had there been a play room, we would have shown our gratitude by giving back. To see all the guests' costumes was mesmerising. We all made such effort and it showed with every guest there. Fabulous fun was had. Thank you party organisers, we had a blast.

Date: 22 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
I attended my first Wonderland Party at murder mile Studios last Saturday. From the moment we arrived down the Rabbit Hole, I could see what an amazing amount of effort and care the team had put into making this event all that it could be, and indeed all that it was.

From being allocated a host to help ua meet other people, to the themed drinks and amazing outfits it really was a fantastic event. A massive thank you to everybody for all the love and passion that went into the event.

I look forward to being able to attend another one in the future.

Date: 21 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
When I went to my very first wonderland event a year ago I had no idea what to expect. But from our first contact to today this experience has been simply life changing . I've reviewed this team of unique folk before but I feel I need to do it again.

This group of people are like family to me. From our first meeting they welcomed me with open arms. They treat me with respect, love and friendship. They are non judgmental and they ethos is simply to have fun.

No one in this group has a bad bone in their body. And when I was asked to join the team firstly as a support crew member then now as a part of the main team I was honoured. To be accepted for who you are is an amazing thing. To not be judged is so important.

I have learned so many things on the scene over the years and was searching for something. I found it. This group of amazing folk simply want to give you an experience you'll never forget. THEY DO THIS BECAUSE THEY LOVE IT. not for financial gain and not for any other reason but to make people happy.

And they certainly do this.

They all have different, special and unique qualities to bring to the wonderland experience and I for one am learning new things everyday.

From tantra to bdsm. Eroticism to debauchery. It's all there. Whether you just want to have sex or whether you're looking for something deeper and more meaningful wonderland have it all.

And this weekend proved that.

Thank you wonderland for allowing me to join your family of deviants. Thank you wonderland for showing me that I can be myself and thank you wonderland for caring for each and everyone of us.

Roll on the next event .......... I just don't know how you'll beat the last one

Xxxxx love you all team and guests xxx

Date: 21 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Murder mile studios is our first experience of a Wonderland event. This is a full on experience and the team go above and beyond to make you feel welcome. With so much on offer it's one for newbies and the seasoned, it's and inclusive environment to go and explore, level of involvement is ultimately your choice.

We loved the displays, from the girls dancing to watching some sensual BDSM.

The atmosphere that is created draws you in, the people you meet are interesting, creative and sexy.

If your looking for a party with a difference, Wonderland it is!!!!

Date: 21 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Wonderland... A place we go were we are meant to be. A fantastic party on Saturday night at the Murder mile studies took Wonderland to the next level and what a brilliant weekend we have had with our lovely friends. Not everyone will get wonderland but those of us that do never want to leave the Rabbit Hole. Until our next adventure friends xxx

Date: 21 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
First time for me and good friends at a Wonderland event and venturing down the rabbit hole I was not disappointed.

You never really know what crowd will turn up at Fetish events, but one thing was for sure here, the Wonderland family make you feel at home immediately. Costumes were universally on point and everybody was friendly and so damm sexy.

Well organised and perfectly executed you can see the organisers really care and are not only prepared but insist that the decor and lay out make your night

The fantastic Murder Mile venue worked well for this event, intimate but not too crowded, with some awesome equipment on which I was fortunate enough to enjoy a memorable experience reinforced in a firm but fair way.

Given the opportunity to attend a Wonderland event, you really shouldn't hesitate. Any bruises are strictly optional ! Xx

Date: 20 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
What can we say....this was the first Wonderland event and it most certainly won't be our last.

From the moment we decided to go we knew we wouldn't regret it. The Wonderland crew kept us informed and updated throughout right up to and including party night!

All of the hosts were helpful and made sure everyone had a great time.

The music was awesome and the professional dancers a great addition.

With play & entertainment spread over two floors there was always something to see, do & get involved in.

We can not wait to get involved in the next trip down the rabbit hole xx

Date: 20 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
a night with a twist a night to remember a night that had us in awe. but it was no surprise to us having met the wonderland crew in the not too distant past. but who would have thought they could secure a venue where other kinksers may have overlooked.for us its the warmth of the people who run the events that endure us. they make you feel so welcome they are so laid back they almost fall over. well the night was a great success new friends that we had not met old friends it was nice to see again everybody if they had not met before are friends now. the lasting memory of the night though was the tremendous effort every single guest put into their take on the theme, amazing outfits take a bow everyone. one wee complaint was that the tom cruise ever efficient barman was overworked and didnt have time for a bit of fun he deserves double time next time ..lol. we will sure be looking out for the next event see ya all soon xx

Date: 20 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
This was my first Wonderland party and it was fabulous...all the hosts and hostesses were very friendly and attentive and made me feel very welcome. There was a good mix of sexy people in great costumes, good music and playrooms to suit all kinds of naughtiness. Thank you so much to all the Wondeland crew for making it such a great event...x??

Date: 20 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Wonderland you little beauties you did it again what a weekend :-) thank you sooo much for letting us get involved down the rabbit hole yet again you surpassed all expectations and we had the most amazing time from the minute we entered the Wonderland house on Friday afternoon we were welcomed in again and met some of the new additions to the team for the first time and had the most amazing night getting to know you all. Then Saturday and onto the Murder Mile as hosts for the main event which was awesome we were lucky to have some awesome and sexy guests to look after and everything about the event was amazing the dancing, music, atmosphere and of course all the amazing costumes :-) Loz thoroughly enjoyed being part of the demos and helping people learn something new it was very hot ;-)

Thank you again we thoroughly enjoyed every minute of our weekend and can't wait to be part of the next event all our love Loz and David xxxx

PS for all you people that haven't experienced the joys of a Wonderland party why the heck not??? Are you insane??

Date: 20 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Our Wonderland cherry was popped! We had an amazing evening down the rabbit hole on our first visit. The team were welcoming even before the event had started, and the attention to detail was impressive! We will definitely be back for more!.... See you in Edinburgh!

Date: 20 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Definitely one of the best nights in the scene. The organisers and their team obviously went the extra mile to ensure everyone enjoyed the experience. The build up they encouraged prior to the night through the forums heightened the anticipation and we were not left disappointed in any way. The guests were super hot, the venue perfect and the trip down the rabbit hole is one I will never forget. Thank you

Date: 20 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Ah I'm just home from the wonderful whirlwind of the wonderland adventure! As soon as I jumped on board I was made to feel so welcome! From group chat to team chat (go Queen of Diamonds!) The venue was fantastic you guys thought of everything and looked after us all as if we were royalty. I had a fantastic night and the time just flew by. Thank you for allowing g me to be part of something amazing. I met some wonderful people and can't wait for the next event. Xx

Date: 19 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
It's hard to find the right words to accurately describe how wonderful Wonderland was ... we couldn't have properly imagined what it was going to be like beforehand and you needed to have been there to fully appreciate the experience.

Suffice to say it was completely amazing with a heady, sexy, fun filled and fully inclusive vibe. We felt so welcome right from initially expressing an interest, through lots of pre-party chat, and at the event itself. Each of the hosts exuded a sincere warmth and went above and beyond the call of duty to create a magical environment which was the perfect setting for losing your inhibitions, trying new experiences and indulging yourself at your own pace and without any pressure. It was fantastic to look around throughout the night and see so many smiley happy faces - proof, if any were needed, that the Wonderland team had got it spot on. We loved the very hot dance floor, the gorgeous burlesque girls, the various BDSM and kink demos and of course, the effort that each and every guest had gone to in embracing the steampunk/Victorian/fetish theme wholeheartedly, thereby creating an amazing spectacle.

Friends had told us about the Wonderland 'family' previously - now we know what they meant! The night really couldn't have gone any better - unless it had been twice as long!!

Thank you for having us at the first of what we hope will be many more Wonderland journeys. x

Date: 19 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Wonderland never fails to amaze me. I can only echo the other reviews of how wonderful this experience truely is. Great costumes, amazing bunch of sexy people, dancers, strippers, erotica, excellent music.....(I could go on) The organisers have got it "right" in all areas. What is definitely noticeable, the fact that those attending are free to explore to their boundaries, it caters for all. Thank you for delivering an exceptional event and a truely life changing experience. 10/10 - stay true, stay sexy x Dynamo x

Date: 19 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
This was our first time wonderland event, and it's definitely not going to be our last. Not only was the venue mind blowing, but ALL of the team are amazing so organised, professional and fun. The other guest who attended the party where equally amazing the effort that everyone put in for the steam punk theme was something else everyone looked amazing. My favourite part about the full event though was how friendly, fun, and non judgemental everyone was. This has definitely been my favourite event ever and I have been to a few. Thank you and much love to every sexy mother fucker that was there :) hope to see you all again soon guys xxx

Date: 19 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
What can we say that hasn't already been said about this Amazing Wonderland Event....we are very new to the swinging scene and choose this as our first big event.....OMG we were not disappointed! From the buildup to our host Curious Diamond we felt we had known these guys forever! Greeted with a glass of champagne and a little eat me/drink me treat....scones and cake! What a spread...the guided tour truly showed these guys put so much into others pleasure! They are the friendliest people you could ever meet too....oh and soooo Sexy! The venue was amazing and there was lots to explore! These guys are the best and we can't wait for our next trip down the rabbit hole.....thank you so much for welcoming us into Wonderland....

Date: 19 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
They did it again!! Wonderland parties are just the best - exceptional in every way, so much effort and detail, organised and hosted by an amazing crew who all work to make sure everyone has an amazing experience. It was a pleasure to provide staple corset demos and watch all the others. This was my 4th and I'm looking forward to the next one already! Xx

Date: 19 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
The wonderland adventures continue to thunder on like a juggernaut and last night has just raised the bar to Olympic pole vault gold medal level!!!!

Attention to detail is astonishing and the reviews reflect that people truly notice the effort put in by the team. But what propels the journey into the rabbit hole head and shoulders above many, is the warm friendly family welcome that each guest receives from the moment they walk through that door, to the hugs kisses and waves we give when they reluctantly leave lol!!! To have been chosen to be the barman from the start, has been an honour and an eye and jean popping pleasure haha!!! countdown to the next exciting chapter of the wonderland chronicles begins

Date: 19 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
From the moment you're greeted with eat me/drink me fare and are introduced to Alice and her sexily attired team you know Wonderland is going to be a very special place! Superbly organised and quite simply the most welcoming environment you could wish for where everyone is so wonderfully friendly. That said, be prepared for a visceral assault on your senses and sexuality with bdsm/sexual demonstrations that engender a liberating desire to indulge your own fantasies....who knew staples could be so sexy!!

We sincerely hope to meet you ALL again soon! Thank you...mtswing xxx

Date: 19 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
We attended our first Wonderland event last night at Murder Mile Studios, and we are so glad that we did. Although becoming a Wonderland guest starts long before arriving at the venue. Over the preceeding weeks and days White Rabbit and his lovely crew take time, and make effort, to ensure that by the time you arrive at the venue you already feel that you will not be among strangers.

We started the night unsure of what to expect, carrying a few first time nerves ( and plenty of excitement), and hoping that our costumes would fit in. We needn't have worried, we were greeted by the Wonderland team with open arms and Champagne. We saw things that intrigued and excited us, danced till we dropped, laughed till our sides hurt , and met some of the friendliest, sexist, people you could hope to meet. And then what better way to end the evening , but with cake ! We can't wait until our next chance to go down the rabbit hole. Thank you to everyone. Charlotte & Neville xx

Date: 19 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Our first trip to the mystical magical Wonderland. All the stops were pulled out by the crew and hosts to make this a one of a kind experience. The venue at Murder Mile Studios in Londons East End combined with the attendance of great like minded people made for an amazing experience. A stunning and great evening. Ria and Pete.

Date: 19 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
I cannot praise the Wonderland team highly enough these guys know how to throw a party! From the build up on the WhatsApp group I could tell this would be something special, they are a very close knit group but they welcome newbies in with open arms and treat them like old friends, from our first entrance down the rabbit hole where we were given champagne on the door to the displays and outfits nothing was left to chance.

It says a lot that I'm having a good time if I'm on the dance floor while sober and I even won a bottle of Prosecco for my efforts!!

Thank you for everything and i urge you to follow the white rabbit down the rabbit hole with me next time!

Luther x

Date: 19 February 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Off to club f the wonderland crew go

They trudge through the rain and even some snow

The fabulous team from round the uk

Are preparing for fun to show you the way

Away down the rabbit hole if you dare venture

It's a journey it seems and to join the adventure

We all have a part, to play on the night

For alice is there but shes no good snow white

Red queen shes a beauty but please don't be scared

Unless she announces  it's off with your head

White rabbit is bold but always a hoot

And cheshire cat, is here with him in cahoots

We've travelled the country spreading wonderland good cheer

With bdsm demonstrations although can be queer

We never will judge but will only embrace

All your kinks and your thoughts theyre  not just a craze

Mad hatter, and dormouse to name but a few

This family of friends are welcoming you

Into the world of wonderland it's adventure you see

Leave real life behind, explore  , let's be free

We're bringing a twist to the world that is swinging

Please come, just to see what it is you are missing

There's no pressure here we just want to have fun

And bring a new side to a world that is humdrum!!!!


Love this crew like family. They welcome you and bring the most awesome fun to your life. The team are amazing and they just want you to have fun. The work they put into events is second to none and I can't wait for the next one xxx

Date: 14 November 2016