The Vanilla Alternative

Rating: Fabulous
	Had the honour of visiting VA for the WhatWomenWant event on Friday 28th march. VA as always is a top tier club with the most amazing facilities in the business. From open play rooms, to couples only rooms, an impressive dungeon and a large hot tub area. The staff are always so welcoming and helpful and play there important part in giving the club the high end reputation it has. If you want a club that’s good quality makes you feel at home then Vanilla Alternative is the place you need to be at. Look forward to future visits x Date: 31 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous

Had the honour of visiting VA for the WhatWomenWant event on Friday 28th march. VA as always is a top tier club with the most amazing facilities in the business. From open play rooms, to couples only rooms, an impressive dungeon and a large hot tub area. The staff are always so welcoming and helpful and play there important part in giving the club the high end reputation it has. If you want a club that’s good quality makes you feel at home then Vanilla Alternative is the place you need to be at.

Look forward to future visits x

Date: 31 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Had my first WWW event at VA last week and honestly one of the best I’ve been to. Great team, great event and great venue!x Date: 30 March 2025

Rating: OK
	Looking forward to Friday bi night fourth of April always a good night Date: 30 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Our first time at VA on Saturday night for the couples night. As newbies, we were a bit nervous and apprehensive about how things were done there. We shouldn't have worried! The staff were lovely, very welcoming, very relaxed, and we got a guided tour by Brian who explained everything. Thanks Brian! We weren't there to play with others, we just wanted to go out and play between ourselves with people watching. We were a bit concerned that this might not be the done thing, but we saw plenty of others doing the same, and there were no awkward moments or approaches by anyone. So we felt totally comfortable to do just what we wanted to do. All in all a great night. Our only regret is that we didn't start playing earlier! We will be back soon! T&C Date: 24 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous

Our first time at VA on Saturday night for the couples night.

As newbies, we were a bit nervous and apprehensive about how things were done there. We shouldn't have worried!

The staff were lovely, very welcoming, very relaxed, and we got a guided tour by Brian who explained everything. Thanks Brian!

We weren't there to play with others, we just wanted to go out and play between ourselves with people watching. We were a bit concerned that this might not be the done thing, but we saw plenty of others doing the same, and there were no awkward moments or approaches by anyone. So we felt totally comfortable to do just what we wanted to do.

All in all a great night. Our only regret is that we didn't start playing earlier!

We will be back soon!

T&C

Date: 24 March 2025

Rating: Fun
	We went VA Saturday night for Saturday Seduction, we had a lovely time with a quiet atmosphere to start off with and got busier around 11:30pm, saw a few couples playing and we love playing in the couples room. Definitely a good event for new couples and new single ladies who wish to experience the club :) Date: 24 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Our first and definitely not our last visit to this great club. We booked our one of the rooms which was so handy, nice size, clean and comfy bed. Would be handy to have a fridge though. The club itself was great, a good size clean and very friendly staff and an easy bar tab system. If your not comfortable performing in front of others then this might not be your scene, play areas are mostly open rooms and beds. We will definitely be back in the future. Date: 23 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous

Our first and definitely not our last visit to this great club.

We booked our one of the rooms which was so handy, nice size, clean and comfy bed.

Would be handy to have a fridge though.

The club itself was great, a good size clean and very friendly staff and an easy bar tab system.

If your not comfortable performing in front of others then this might not be your scene, play areas are mostly open rooms and beds.

We will definitely be back in the future.

Date: 23 March 2025

Rating: Fun
	We visited this Friday for the mixed couples and single guy night. It seems we chose a particularly quiet night, but still enjoyed our evening there. Initially we were a bit nervous about the lack of private rooms, but actually we both found this was a sexy experience. The couples only area helps any nerves at first. The huge hot tub was the highlight for us, especially being allowed to play in the water. It gets busy and was a very sexy experience! The club itself is beautifully decorated and classy and the single men stayed respectful and gave you space. Shout out to the staff for being so welcoming and friendly, especially Brian. The hotel rooms are fairly basic, it’s an Old building, but very convenient. Useful if you do want a private room to go to. We’re definitely coming back, but we’ll probably go for a specific theme night. Date: 16 March 2025

Rating: Fun

We visited this Friday for the mixed couples and single guy night. It seems we chose a particularly quiet night, but still enjoyed our evening there. Initially we were a bit nervous about the lack of private rooms, but actually we both found this was a sexy experience. The couples only area helps any nerves at first. The huge hot tub was the highlight for us, especially being allowed to play in the water. It gets busy and was a very sexy experience!

The club itself is beautifully decorated and classy and the single men stayed respectful and gave you space. Shout out to the staff for being so welcoming and friendly, especially Brian.

The hotel rooms are fairly basic, it’s an Old building, but very convenient. Useful if you do want a private room to go to. We’re definitely coming back, but we’ll probably go for a specific theme night.

Date: 16 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	What a great way to spend a day , MILF club was the perfect place to go for a weekday road trip with a friend , the club is just great , clean , well set out , pretty well everything you could wish for ! Great staff , guests all friendly and respectful gents , we will absolutely be back x Date: 13 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Another fabulous MILF club experience. Lots of sexy fun, chat and friendly people. A beautifully done out club run by wonderful people xx Date: 12 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Saturday saw our second visit to VA and we had another great time. It is quickly becoming our favourite night out and well worth the 2+ hour drive. We chatted with some lovely people, which in the case of one couple led to our first tentative foray into soft play. We are very much looking forward to our next visit. Date: 12 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Had such an excellent first club night at VA on Saturday with two friends. We literally fucked the entire night away and had everyone watching, we didn't realise we were quite so into that. Also, super impressed they have a Discord so we can chat to others before attending our next. Can't wait to return and get up to more trouble on a Bi night. So worth the 2hr drive. Plus, bonus cat. The moment we walked in Benji the cat followed us for loving. Made our nights. Date: 10 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous

Had such an excellent first club night at VA on Saturday with two friends.

We literally fucked the entire night away and had everyone watching, we didn't realise we were quite so into that.

Also, super impressed they have a Discord so we can chat to others before attending our next.

Can't wait to return and get up to more trouble on a Bi night. So worth the 2hr drive.

Plus, bonus cat. The moment we walked in Benji the cat followed us for loving. Made our nights.

Date: 10 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	We visited VA for the first time for their Saturday Seduction event. We were welcomed at the door and given a guided tour of the venue. All staff were very nice and friendly. There are plenty of different places to play and places to sit and be social too. Good mix of people there, somebody for everybody. We will definitely be attending again in the near future. We had lots of sexy fun with some friends, next time we need to make new friends too. Date: 10 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous

We visited VA for the first time for their Saturday Seduction event. We were welcomed at the door and given a guided tour of the venue. All staff were very nice and friendly. There are plenty of different places to play and places to sit and be social too. Good mix of people there, somebody for everybody. We will definitely be attending again in the near future. We had lots of sexy fun with some friends, next time we need to make new friends too.

Date: 10 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	March 7th bi night Had an excellent time at bi night in March it all began with one of the lovely bar staff collecting myself and my friend from our hotel what an amazing service provided by the club . All the staff at the club are so friendly and welcoming . It’s only my third visit but I’ll be back many more times for sure . James certainly knows how to throw a party and the music was great . It’s definatly a place you can explore and be yourself without any judgment as the clientele on bi night laid back open minded and horny as hell . Would recommend to anyone . Date: 9 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous

March 7th bi night

Had an excellent time at bi night in March it all began with one of the lovely bar staff collecting myself and my friend from our hotel what an amazing service provided by the club . All the staff at the club are so friendly and welcoming . It’s only my third visit but I’ll be back many more times for sure . James certainly knows how to throw a party and the music was great . It’s definatly a place you can explore and be yourself without any judgment as the clientele on bi night laid back open minded and horny as hell . Would recommend to anyone .

Date: 9 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Bi Night 7th March - I know I’ve verified before but VA and the team deserve multiple compliments. Always a warm welcome from the event hosts and all the guys and girls who look after us at the club. Nothing is too much trouble and there’s always a smile. Atmosphere in the club is brilliant, a real sexy laid back vibe, all facilities spotless and having used the shuttle bus (Fun Bus) for first time I can say it was perfect for getting from local hotel and back. Nothing not to like about VA if you’re looking for a cracking night out at a lifestyle event. Date: 9 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous

Bi Night 7th March - I know I’ve verified before but VA and the team deserve multiple compliments. Always a warm welcome from the event hosts and all the guys and girls who look after us at the club. Nothing is too much trouble and there’s always a smile. Atmosphere in the club is brilliant, a real sexy laid back vibe, all facilities spotless and having used the shuttle bus (Fun Bus) for first time I can say it was perfect for getting from local hotel and back. Nothing not to like about VA if you’re looking for a cracking night out at a lifestyle event.

Date: 9 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Had a brilliant night at the VA bi night on Friday - my fourth visit (?) The staff were all incredibly friendly and helpful, and James really knows how to host a fantastic evening. The atmosphere was spot on – really welcoming and lively, and the music was excellent. Plus, everyone I met was so friendly. Highly recommend! Date: 9 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	We had a great time at VA Bi night. First impressions count and ours was overwhelmingly positive. So many sexy people relaxing, chatting and enjoying lots of sexy fun. The whole atmosphere created by the staff and the club was perfect. We’ve already checked our diaries to see when we can get to another VA event Date: 8 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	What a night! We attended the VA2 Bi-Night last night and wonder why we haven’t attended sooner, our last visit was 18 months ago and we had completely forgotten what fun nights they are. The night was FUN filled with a hot guest list inclusive to all. Everyone was super friendly and we will definitely return for more fun! Thank you Jamie and Team VA for your great organisation of an epic night Para Dos Date: 8 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous

What a night! We attended the VA2 Bi-Night last night and wonder why we haven’t attended sooner, our last visit was 18 months ago and we had completely forgotten what fun nights they are. The night was FUN filled with a hot guest list inclusive to all. Everyone was super friendly and we will definitely return for more fun! Thank you Jamie and Team VA for your great organisation of an epic night Para Dos

Date: 8 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Great night at James bi event. So many really hot couples, t girls and guys. Banging sounds, lovely atmosphere. Great to catch up with our beautiful Lola and fab to meet, Missy, George & Bee. Date: 8 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Went to VA for the first time tonight with my partner for bi night, was very fun and very welcoming! :) We are a pretty new couple to swinging, and this club definitely helps you feel at home if you're looking for a club to help out with nerves, this is the place! Thank you for having us and we will return on the 22nd! ;) x Date: 8 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Please see our Milf club review xx Date: 7 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	A well overdue club review and also my last club review, it should be with my favourite lifestyle club The Vanilla Alternative. I started exploring as I was a late bloomer and bi-curious four years ago, and have had some fantastic times, whilst its not about the walls, it’s about the people, which make a party, I’ve been fortunate to meet some great people through this lifestyle. The VA has featured in a great part of that journey and I love returning here again, and again….to catch up with some old friends and make some new ones. Highly recommend to anyone looking to explore…you should definitely do so in this friendly, inclusive club. Ms.S-M Xx Date: 6 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous

A well overdue club review and also my last club review, it should be with my favourite lifestyle club The Vanilla Alternative. I started exploring as I was a late bloomer and bi-curious four years ago, and have had some fantastic times, whilst its not about the walls, it’s about the people, which make a party, I’ve been fortunate to meet some great people through this lifestyle. The VA has featured in a great part of that journey and I love returning here again, and again….to catch up with some old friends and make some new ones. Highly recommend to anyone looking to explore…you should definitely do so in this friendly, inclusive club. Ms.S-M Xx

Date: 6 March 2025

Rating: OK
	We had high hopes and travelled some distance. Checking in to our room, no lights, really cold. Emma (staff) kindly sorted out some lamps & popped some heat on, big improvement. Gave us some bar credit (thank you) Walking through the couples room it smelt of urine, def some squirters on the soft furnishings! We didn't find the ambience that sexy, spoke to a couple of people. Most people seemed to be in small cliques. The hilight of the evening was petting the beautiful ginger cat (what a love) we decided to take our play back to our ladybird infested room,having caught 6 of them, went to sleep for a short while. Woken around 3am as Dan forgot to hand in the locker key (our fault) and pay a £10 tab, he thinks we didn't owe. Just paid it as not worth the aggro at 3am. Couldn't get back to sleep after that so we got our stuff together and left. The no trainers rule: I'm waiting on ACL surgery &: struggle in even low heels so did ask on the door if I could change into my funky leopard print Adidas & informed only if absolutely necessary. The guy in front had dubious footwear on & was let in. During the night lots of ladies had changed into trainers so I changed into mine. Jacuzzi didn't feel that hot or inviting so didn't bother. Not likely to return to this venue. Date: 1 March 2025

Rating: OK

We had high hopes and travelled some distance. Checking in to our room, no lights, really cold. Emma (staff) kindly sorted out some lamps & popped some heat on, big improvement. Gave us some bar credit (thank you) Walking through the couples room it smelt of urine, def some squirters on the soft furnishings! We didn't find the ambience that sexy, spoke to a couple of people. Most people seemed to be in small cliques. The hilight of the evening was petting the beautiful ginger cat (what a love) we decided to take our play back to our ladybird infested room,having caught 6 of them, went to sleep for a short while. Woken around 3am as Dan forgot to hand in the locker key (our fault) and pay a £10 tab, he thinks we didn't owe. Just paid it as not worth the aggro at 3am. Couldn't get back to sleep after that so we got our stuff together and left.

The no trainers rule: I'm waiting on ACL surgery &: struggle in even low heels so did ask on the door if I could change into my funky leopard print Adidas & informed only if absolutely necessary. The guy in front had dubious footwear on & was let in. During the night lots of ladies had changed into trainers so I changed into mine.

Jacuzzi didn't feel that hot or inviting so didn't bother.

Not likely to return to this venue.

Date: 1 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Another great night at VA, this time it was for What Women Want event and it was wonderfully organised event at the great club, beautiful people all around, great staff- can’t wait to go back Date: 1 March 2025

Rating: OK
	Booked for next Saturday bi night, who’s going? Date: 28 February 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Had a great night at VA last night x so many great places to play x will be back very soon x Date: 23 February 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	Myself and my wife have visited VA twice now, and had an amazing experience both times. We love the vibe, the dance floor, the cleanliness, the amount of space to play...all of it. We cannot wait for our next visit. Date: 23 February 2025

Rating: Fun
	Well what can we say about this club..... With in the first hour a gorgeous ginger male was spread across me and the wife with his distinguished looks and charm with beautiful toe beans, we love Benji he's awesome, the club it's self is nice lots of play space you won't struggle to find to spot to get down to business, we had a lovely time the staff were all lovely and alot of the guest were all friendly and beautifully dressed. Definitely going to return soon. Date: 23 February 2025

Rating: Fun

Well what can we say about this club..... With in the first hour a gorgeous ginger male was spread across me and the wife with his distinguished looks and charm with beautiful toe beans, we love Benji he's awesome, the club it's self is nice lots of play space you won't struggle to find to spot to get down to business, we had a lovely time the staff were all lovely and alot of the guest were all friendly and beautifully dressed.

Definitely going to return soon.

Date: 23 February 2025

Rating: OK
	We had a great night at VA on Saturday! Met some great couples and had a lot of fun! Date: 19 February 2025

Rating: Fabulous
	There isn’t enough words to describe how good this club is. from the staff to every guest visiting we interacted with, the attitude and respect of everyone is second to none. Everyone is so polite! The place is filled wall to wall with sexy people. Can’t recommend it highly enough! Date: 17 February 2025

Rating: Fun
	We attended on Saturday for our second visit to VA. We had a great night and found the staff to be friendly and welcoming. Date: 16 February 2025

Rating: OK
	We had some great time last night, we've been to several clubs but VA still remains our favourite place. ?? Date: 16 February 2025

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