The Gatehouse

Bolton, North West

deeselecta1964@gmail.com,
https://www.thenewgatehouse.co.uk/

Have you ever wondered what goes on in a club like ours Clubs are wonderful places where you can meet beautiful open minded people You DONT have to to anything you dont want to do . You make all the choices . You dont have to be abrupt but No mean No Unlike most clubs in the UK. In our club you dont have to undress at any point ,unless you choose to do so . Before you enter the club . Make sure you both know your boundaries,rules and limitations .

My advice on a 1st visit is too come along,take a look around sit and chat to others and take in the amazing,exciting atmosphere Some times fantasy and reality are not quite what you expected On the other hand reality is lots better . You can have some amazing fun On entry to the club you will be shown around and given the rules Rules are a very important part of the club. You can sit, chat and listen to some fascinating stories. You can go in a room with your partner Maybe your a voyeur and can just watch . Or maybe you would rather be watched . Same room as others. The scenarios are endless. What ever your fantasy We will help you fulfill it The gatehouse is were the magic happens Single guys- The best way of meeting someone is to sit and chat with them,please do not follow people around,loiter in corners or just stare .This make people feel uncomfortable 10 per person Thanks Dee

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Rating: Fabulous
	Attended this wonderful club last night and it was one off the staffs birthdays they had arranged a live band and the played a lot off music from my era so great .had a few games off pool and watched a demonstration in the dungeon before having a few drinks at the bar and a dance a very pleasing evening at what is becoming a go to venue for me and my friends the bar staff were amazing as always and the host charming and mingled with the guests all in all amazing Date: 12 April 2026

Rating: Fabulous

Attended this wonderful club last night and it was one off the staffs birthdays they had arranged a live band and the played a lot off music from my era so great .had a few games off pool and watched a demonstration in the dungeon before having a few drinks at the bar and a dance

a very pleasing evening at what is becoming a go to venue for me and my friends

the bar staff were amazing as always and the host charming and mingled with the guests all in all amazing

Date: 12 April 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	The club has moved to a new address but unfortunately website listed is the old one for more up-to-date details please see https://www.thenewgatehousebolton.co.uk/ I've been to the new venue and it's a lot of fun the staff are lovely and I've just as happy as I used to be at the Old Place Date: 11 April 2026

Rating: OK
	Been attending the gatehouse for many years now and now we've moved to a new venue I thought I'd do a review. The new place is much bigger and has a fully licensed bar now plus pool table and free jukebox which is great. Playrooms upstairs and new fully equipt Dungeon and it's a great place to attend plus you csn ve who you wsnt to be with like minded individuals. No need to dress down if that's not your thing but open most days with Wednesday and Saturday afternoon's being T-girls and admirers days! plus other events going on in the week. Check website and give it a go but obviously a new club takes a little time to get established but it's a great venue. Date: 5 April 2026

Rating: OK

Been attending the gatehouse for many years now and now we've moved to a new venue I thought I'd do a review. The new place is much bigger and has a fully licensed bar now plus pool table and free jukebox which is great. Playrooms upstairs and new fully equipt Dungeon and it's a great place to attend plus you csn ve who you wsnt to be with like minded individuals. No need to dress down if that's not your thing but open most days with Wednesday and Saturday afternoon's being T-girls and admirers days! plus other events going on in the week. Check website and give it a go but obviously a new club takes a little time to get established but it's a great venue.

Date: 5 April 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Went to gatehouse last night first time at the new premises. Loved it had a great night. highly recommend it. The place is spotless. Met some lovely people. The staff very friendly. Met the wonderful Emma what fantastic lady. (Be careful she's a pool hustler lol.) Will be returning as often as can. Thank you for a good night. Date: 29 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Visited Mistress Selina's Thursday evening BDSM event. She demonstrated he skills and talked through BDSM safety. I watched her with a sub and decided to volunteer to be next. I have experience of both sides of this scenario and the Mistress was very proficient with the toys. (Although quite evil in her tendancy to hit the sweet spot just below the buttocks lol) She did warn me she was a sadist... I had a very good time and definitely will be back. Date: 27 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous

Visited Mistress Selina's Thursday evening BDSM event.

She demonstrated he skills and talked through BDSM safety.

I watched her with a sub and decided to volunteer to be next.

I have experience of both sides of this scenario and the Mistress was very proficient with the toys. (Although quite evil in her tendancy to hit the sweet spot just below the buttocks lol) She did warn me she was a sadist...

I had a very good time and definitely will be back.

Date: 27 March 2026

Rating: OK
	1st visit to the new venue. Clean facilities and great value bar. Gorgeous and friendly host (Emma) Date: 25 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Visited new place for a second time , great time had yet again . The bar area great place to socialise with great music choice to set the atmosphere. Free pool also so it’s a great socialising area . Then was invited upstairs area to the play rooms . Good size rooms and facilities to meet everyone’s kinks . Great place and staff , it’s been hard moving but I think it’s well worth it . Hopefully many more visits Date: 17 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous

Visited new place for a second time , great time had yet again . The bar area great place to socialise with great music choice to set the atmosphere. Free pool also so it’s a great socialising area . Then was invited upstairs area to the play rooms . Good size rooms and facilities to meet everyone’s kinks . Great place and staff , it’s been hard moving but I think it’s well worth it . Hopefully many more visits

Date: 17 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	What a birthday bash, Great night on Saturday, plenty of peeps enjoying themselves, the singing act was top, Mistress Scarlett was a great hostage, deffo worth cumming to see what it's all about at GH events Date: 16 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	My second visit to this. Club and was very impressed with the staff and facilities downstairs is a social area free pool and a bar along with dance floor and a dj .last night they had a singer in and she was amazing Had a few drinks at the bar the selection is very good and also teas and coffee if that's what you want This is going to be a regular club for me Well done to the staff and team this is a fine establishment Date: 15 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous

My second visit to this. Club and was very impressed with the staff and facilities downstairs is a social area free pool and a bar along with dance floor and a dj .last night they had a singer in and she was amazing

Had a few drinks at the bar the selection is very good and also teas and coffee if that's what you want

This is going to be a regular club for me

Well done to the staff and team this is a fine establishment

Date: 15 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	From the moment we walked in we were welcomed with open arms. No airs and graces from anyone. They have done an amazing job few niggles to sort but still. Met up with friends but walked away with more . A great atmosphere with music playing in background. Just how a swingers club should be. Pizza and chips and free pool an added bonus. We have found our new go to club. Loved the staff so welcoming and friendly. Cant say enough good things about the place. Except.... parking is an issue but can't have it all . Love ya alan. Kaz Date: 15 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous

From the moment we walked in we were welcomed with open arms. No airs and graces from anyone. They have done an amazing job few niggles to sort but still. Met up with friends but walked away with more .

A great atmosphere with music playing in background. Just how a swingers club should be. Pizza and chips and free pool an added bonus. We have found our new go to club.

Loved the staff so welcoming and friendly. Cant say enough good things about the place. Except.... parking is an issue but can't have it all .

Love ya alan. Kaz

Date: 15 March 2026

Rating: Fun
	I went today on stockings and heels,i like the new place is great . I always find the gatehouse as social first and playing a way off second and if you dont know anyone it can be off putting .today yet again was the same ,but i had a kinky time with a girl and her male friend ,i loved fisting her and kissing was anotherlevel . Thank god for sluts ,she saved my afternoon.i was so knackered after i fell asleep and missed a night in blackpool. Hope we meet again .x Date: 15 March 2026

Rating: Fun

I went today on stockings and heels,i like the new place is great .

I always find the gatehouse as social first and playing a way off second and if you dont know anyone it can be off putting .today yet again was the same ,but i had a kinky time with a girl and her male friend ,i loved fisting her and kissing was anotherlevel .

Thank god for sluts ,she saved my afternoon.i was so knackered after i fell asleep and missed a night in blackpool.

Hope we meet again .x

Date: 15 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Always enjoyed my visits at the old venue, and the new home is just as good - if not better. The website link on Fab is slightly wrong - as it can be found here: https://www.thenewgatehousebolton.co.uk/ - check the Upcoming Events and What's On for more info. Drinks are good value, and even some alch free if you want a clear head :) Staff are friendly and helpful, and so are the other customers! Date: 13 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous

Always enjoyed my visits at the old venue, and the new home is just as good - if not better.

The website link on Fab is slightly wrong - as it can be found here: https://www.thenewgatehousebolton.co.uk/ - check the Upcoming Events and What's On for more info.

Drinks are good value, and even some alch free if you want a clear head :)

Staff are friendly and helpful, and so are the other customers!

Date: 13 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Speed dating was a great night. Played a few games of pool and really enjoyed myself. Meeting new people and a certain person. Date: 13 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	It was a fantastic night at GH events last night between the pool competition that was held and then the speed dating it was a really good turn out Everywhere was clean and the bar was busy plus people made use of the facilities to their advantage , I look forward to the next one in April and hope that a lot more will come and not miss out as it was a fun night ! Date: 13 March 2026

Rating: OK
	Went to gatehouse today & was very dissatisfied & disappointed £15 for entry to a place that’s very basic asked for a glass of water & was refused, but could buy a small bottle for £2. All it’s got going for it is a licensed bar it’s unclean basic shabby lockers rusted & old rooms poor standard no quality what so ever & staff are not welcoming & very matter of fact. Overall terrible avoid it & fine a club that’s established & more fun with a few that attend this was empty VAD BAD BAD Date: 12 March 2026

Rating: OK

Went to gatehouse today & was very dissatisfied & disappointed £15 for entry to a place that’s very basic asked for a glass of water & was refused, but could buy a small bottle for £2.

All it’s got going for it is a licensed bar it’s unclean basic shabby lockers rusted & old rooms poor standard no quality what so ever & staff are not welcoming & very matter of fact.

Overall terrible avoid it & fine a club that’s established & more fun with a few that attend this was empty VAD BAD BAD

Date: 12 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Well after another amazing weekend at the venue and a day to recover lol. I thought it was about time to leave a review. The venue is getting busier each week and new events popping up all the time… the live artists and bands have been amazing so far and more booked in the future. I wanna say a massive thank you to all the team at the venue who make everyone feel safe and welcome. ???? A big thank you to all the customers for helping us offer a proper safe space and an amazing enviroment. Since Christmas I have met so many new people and freinds. If we have spoken or if I pulled you a drink drop me a message and I will write you a verification. Much love Alan x Date: 9 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous

Well after another amazing weekend at the venue and a day to recover lol. I thought it was about time to leave a review.

The venue is getting busier each week and new events popping up all the time… the live artists and bands have been amazing so far and more booked in the future.

I wanna say a massive thank you to all the team at the venue who make everyone feel safe and welcome. ????

A big thank you to all the customers for helping us offer a proper safe space and an amazing enviroment. Since Christmas I have met so many new people and freinds. If we have spoken or if I pulled you a drink drop me a message and I will write you a verification. Much love Alan x

Date: 9 March 2026

Rating: Fun
	I visited GH last Friday for Mistress Selina's birthday and I was really surprised by the size of the place. The bar downstairs was a very social space and the staff working were loads of fun to chat to. Upstairs were lockers, playrooms and a fully equipped dungeon. The whole place is clean, which is so important to me, and as a single female I felt safe. Looking forward to my next visit x Date: 3 March 2026

Rating: Fun

I visited GH last Friday for Mistress Selina's birthday and I was really surprised by the size of the place. The bar downstairs was a very social space and the staff working were loads of fun to chat to. Upstairs were lockers, playrooms and a fully equipped dungeon. The whole place is clean, which is so important to me, and as a single female I felt safe. Looking forward to my next visit x

Date: 3 March 2026

Rating: OK
	Had a wonderful time at GH events on Friday night for Mistress Selinas birthday party. Was a really cool sexy, kinky crowd. Mistress Selina as gorgeous as ever and The stunning Mistress scarlet leading the rampage oh the dancefloor. Mistress sparkles..and Dominique incredibly friendly behind the bar Date: 1 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	I also attend all day wed for the tv and admirers event when I can, usually 1st wed of the month. Always a pleasure meeting attentive gents there and the holy grail of MF couples wanting me hehehe Date: 1 March 2026

Rating: OK
	Second visit and it's getting into decent shape...play rooms a lot more set up,place was warm and staff welcoming.Weds very quiet though,so the place needs some support from punters Date: 25 February 2026

Rating: Fun
	Visited the GH worship event last week and what a time it was! If you get the chance to join then don’t miss out on the opportunity. Mistress Selina was captivating as always being the host with the most as always. Had the wonderful time in the restraint chair once more and then had a tantalising experience of the violet wand which was sensational Date: 24 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	I regularly attend Mistress Scarlett Trio Tues fetish night at the GH Well I have to don’t I she owns me hehehe Fab new venue, licensed bar, free pool table and free me lol x Date: 20 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Had the most amazing night on valentines night at this event as it coincided with Scarlets bday party, the place was heaving, very good crowd , lots of fun going on, plenty of space to sit, bar was well stocked and busy too, best night I have had there in a while , can’t wait for the next one x Date: 20 February 2026

Rating: OK
	Had a lovely evening at The Gatehouse for the worship event, very well run and I even got a back& shoulder massage, will def go back xxxx Date: 19 February 2026

Rating: Fun
	A GREAT PLACE TO LET YOUR HAIR DOWN AND PLAY. I had a wonderful time on 14FEB evening in the dungeon with my 2 girlfriends. Also a guy in the stocks who needed a sound thrashing and my new sissy girl on the fuck bench who absolutely LOVED my style of play as I gave her a sound beating before I showed her what her pussy was for. The audience loved it also! Date: 16 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Miss Agadoo visited on Saturday and had a fabulous time. Welcomed warmly by the lovely staff and had a cracking night. Great atmosphere, good music xx Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fun
	Attended last night for the valentines party , met up with some amazing friends , we had never been before so didn’t know what to expect but pleasantly surprised, very friendly owner who made us feel very welcome and it’s a brilliant venue . I understand they’re undergoing some issues with licenses and the locals making a big deal of the club actually being open , this is appalling as this lifestyle has some of the most tolerant and caring people in it ! , hopefully something will be sorted soon as it was a bit disappointing to not be able to dress down in the social area downstairs , I was way too hot and I was miffed especially as I’d planned my outfit down to red sparkly Ugg boots lol , If this gets remedied then I can see this being our new ‘ go to ‘ place we liked it that much , thank you to all Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fun

Attended last night for the valentines party , met up with some amazing friends , we had never been before so didn’t know what to expect but pleasantly surprised, very friendly owner who made us feel very welcome and it’s a brilliant venue . I understand they’re undergoing some issues with licenses and the locals making a big deal of the club actually being open , this is appalling as this lifestyle has some of the most tolerant and caring people in it ! , hopefully something will be sorted soon as it was a bit disappointing to not be able to dress down in the social area downstairs , I was way too hot and I was miffed especially as I’d planned my outfit down to red sparkly Ugg boots lol ,

If this gets remedied then I can see this being our new ‘ go to ‘ place we liked it that much , thank you to all

Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Attended this club last night for the first time the night was hosted by emma who was also having a birthday celebration to coincide with valentines day Met up with lots of friends from other clubs and had a great time Enjoyed a session in the dungeon followed by some kareoke courtesy of Dave the club dj The staff were amazing and will definitely be revisiting in the near future Thanks for a brilliant night guys Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous

Attended this club last night for the first time the night was hosted by emma who was also having a birthday celebration to coincide with valentines day

Met up with lots of friends from other clubs and had a great time

Enjoyed a session in the dungeon followed by some kareoke courtesy of Dave the club dj

The staff were amazing and will definitely be revisiting in the near future

Thanks for a brilliant night guys

Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fun
	We enjoyed a lovely Social evening with a group of our friends on Saturday night. It was Emma's birthday event (though we didn't know that in advance). Really love this new venue, it's great how it feels like it's 2 seperate venues in one, and if you don't venture upstairs you can have a brilliant time purely socialising downstairs as the people who are in this lifestyle are always really nice and friendly. Did have a little peek in the rooms upstairs and they are looking really good. Still some locker problems last night though. One poor lad was up and down trying 4 different keys and when he found one that worked, someone else's stuff was in it... but rather than being annoying, it was actually pretty funny ! Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fun

We enjoyed a lovely Social evening with a group of our friends on Saturday night. It was Emma's birthday event (though we didn't know that in advance).

Really love this new venue, it's great how it feels like it's 2 seperate venues in one, and if you don't venture upstairs you can have a brilliant time purely socialising downstairs as the people who are in this lifestyle are always really nice and friendly.

Did have a little peek in the rooms upstairs and they are looking really good.

Still some locker problems last night though. One poor lad was up and down trying 4 different keys and when he found one that worked, someone else's stuff was in it... but rather than being annoying, it was actually pretty funny !

Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Attending gatehouse 14 Feb absolutely brilliant packed out Emma's birthday bash exilent night those that haven't been to the new gatehouse are impressed future is looking good keep up the good work HAPPY BIRTHDAY EMMA xx Date: 14 February 2026

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