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Xtasia

West Bromwich , West Midlands

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Xtasia offers a superb venue for those interested in a liberated adult lifestyle choice, from Swingers to Fetish as well as LGBTQ friendly and welcoming to all.

In the heart of the Midlands, Xtasia is located within half a mile of Junction 1 of the M5, and 2 miles from Junction 8 of the M6. The Xtasia complex provides a welcoming cosy bar called “Flirts”, serving alcohol and soft drinks from midday to midnight throughout the week. With its 40 seater cinema, playrooms and dungeon, it’s a wonderful place to meet others during the week, with hotel rooms available to book as well. A new swimming spa, sauna and steam room and leisure complex is now available for a daily chill out by guests.

The main club opens at 8pm to 3am Friday and Saturday nights, and comprises of a main reception and cloak area, a massive dance area, fully licenced bar, pole dance areas, heated smoking area, playrooms of all descriptions including a dungeon, a chill out lounge, a dogging area with genuine car bonnets, a Jacuzzi, showers and cinema.

Friday nights we are open to all full members from 8pm to 3am. Saturday nights are Ladies and Couples only. Predominantly a relaxed, social nightclub feel, with the added benefit of being able to keep it very sexy, Xtasia music is provided by a range of excellent DJ’s bringing you nights of modern dance, classic hits, and various genre evenings throughout the year. Xtasia also runs numerous niche fetish events for the more adventurous, normally on Sunday afternoons and evenings.

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Rating: Fabulous
My name is phil the man with the white cane I visited Xtasia on Friday 17 April day time fun with nice lady it was my first time with a lady for near 17 years the staff was fantastic and very helpful make me welcome

Date: 18 April 2026

Rating: OK
First time in . Really nice place, felt comfortable. Great attitude of the people from personal . Played some pool, had some friendly chat . Love it.

Date: 15 April 2026

Rating: Fabulous
It was my first time at Xtasia, I didn’t know what to expect, I went alone and as soon as I came up to the chill out room people started talking to me, it was a great night overall and I will be going again :)

Date: 12 April 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Great night at xtasia again . The rock night was definitely rocking. Most were dressed full rock .the ladies were titillating and gorgeous. Loads of chatting, fun and play time . Thanks to all the staff for their hard work making the night so enjoyable. See you again soon

Date: 12 April 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Great night at xtasia again . The rock night was definitely rocking. Most were dressed full rock .the ladies were titillating and gorgeous. Loads of chatting, fun and play time . Thanks to all the staff for their hard work making the night so enjoyable. See you again soon

Date: 12 April 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Is was fun last night

My first time and hit three different

Spicy juicy

I am the guy with the white trousers

I’d you want to add me on fabs..


Date: 11 April 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Was at Shamed on Sunday and as ever the event just delivers - over delivers even!

So much to see you honestly don't know where to begin - sensory overload in the most amazing way. Hucow scenes, free use scenes, multiple play scenes.

If you enjoy kink events, absolutely worth checking out.


Date: 7 April 2026

Rating: Fun
FFFF night recently was much fun as usual, as expected a wide variety of people and diversity in attendance. Great night, hopefully be at the next one

Date: 6 April 2026

Rating: Fabulous
So this was our 1st time here and we have to say wish we went sooner had an excellent vibe and the atmosphere was electric definitely going back there again soon.

Date: 5 April 2026

Rating: Fun
Wot a Naughty time at The fantasy rooms night at xtasia. Lovely staff as our ways and great class in cinema room. Made a few new friends and see you all next time. Xx owen

Date: 4 April 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Excellent time in Flirts attached to Xtsia today with Emwrald_Rakhasa. Hotel rooms cheap with free parking, nice touch in having several play benches in them. Large spa with a 12 capacity empty during the day: lovely touch float there was just the two of us for a nice long float. Food superb: curry for a fiver in the specials, and apple and blackcurrant crumble with fruit from the owners dungeon for dessert. Nice game of strip poker going on between two ladies in the evening, and tried out the stocks with my partner for good measure. Highly recommend.

Date: 1 April 2026

Rating: Fun
Amazing first night at Xtasia. Lovely clean venue with plenty of places to play. Met some of the regulars and some newbies and they were all very sexy and welcoming. If you saw us tonight come and say hello.

Would highly recommend, if we are ever back in the area we will be back, thanks all for a good time x


Date: 28 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Great night again at the best midlands club. Packed with loads of new and old friends . Thanks to Danni and Lexi for running YE . Plus all the other hard working staff who make this club what it is . See you all again soon

Date: 22 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Oure very first club experience, absolutely loved it! Fully recommend for newbies, tons of fun, everyone was so friendly and respectful.

Will 100% be back!


Date: 22 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Loved our first nignt at Xtasia for the YE event.

DJ was decent, as was the drink prices, friendly staff and a nice atmos.

A fun night, will be back


Date: 22 March 2026

Rating: Fun
Best Friday night we have had for a long time. Hats off to the guys, respectful and fun. Look forward to the next one.

Date: 21 March 2026

Rating: Fun
Another Naughty meet at bmfc night and talk to a few lovely couples and single ladies. See you all April I'll be bringing a few eggs. Xx69

Date: 16 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Just arrived back after a fantastic few hours at Xtasia and a lovely warm welcome from the staff.

Was an amazing opportunity to explore parts of the club I’d yet to experience and experience a well organised, chilled but erotic fetish/bdsm themed afternoon.

As above, staff so friendly and welcoming. Been a member for a while; only distance prevents me from visiting more frequently; but was so looked after and welcomed in today. Very kindly I’ve been told I can upgrade now to full member status and and take advantage of many other of the fantastic, spotless, thought provoking aspects and facilities the club has to offer.

Thanks again for a great themed afternoon and fab visit :)


Date: 15 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
I've been to Xtasia as a single lady and as a couple, both on Saturdays. The staff are lovely and the club is amazing. The club is huge on consent and safeguarding their members. I feel safe and relaxed here.

Excellent evenings I've been, and the event organised by Zoe and Chris was fabulous too!

Highly recommend *****


Date: 10 March 2026

Rating: OK
Amazing night Friday night at xtasia. Staff are amazing and really friendly! 2nd time visiting and wouldn’t turn back! Love it x

Date: 8 March 2026

Rating: Fun
We visited this club last night for our first time. We were met by friendly staff and had a tour round. Great bar prices. We loved the music and vibe and will definately be back for another visit soon. Thanks guys for a fab first visit!!

Date: 8 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Me and my new Partner attended Xtasia last night (7th March) and we were blown away how amazing the staff were, the size of the venue and the options of rooms and areas and how good the bar, DJ and other visitors were. We met some lovely couples, were made to feel at ease by everyone and we are definitely coming back. 5 ????? Thank You Xtasia for making our first visit so special and memorable

Date: 8 March 2026

Rating: OK
Attended the new fantasy playrooms evening. Attended as a couple. Really good night, very well organised and great layout.

Fridays can be a bit quiet in general, but I thought it was a good mix of people and decent numbers for a new event. Will certainly look to attend again :)


Date: 7 March 2026

Rating: OK
A bit quiet tonight for a new theme night but wife had lots of fun dancing and getting to know the dj

Date: 7 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous
We had such a fantastic experience at Xtasia & the hotel from start to finish.

The night itself was amazing — brilliant music, a great crowd and such a fun atmosphere. The staff made us feel safe and comfortable throughout, which makes such a difference in this type of environment. Everything was well managed and relaxed.

We also spent the afternoon in the spa, which was really lovely. It was a little quiet but it was nice & peaceful.

The next morning, however, we realised our very distinctive car key (if you have the same car you'd think it was yours) was missing. We had no way of contacting the couple we’d spent time with and genuinely thought we were facing up to £1,000 replacement bill.

What happened next was incredible. The staff immediately stepped in — checking CCTV, walking through our movements from the night before, identifying the couple involved, obtaining their contact details and calling them directly. The cleaner & staff even checked the bins, smoking area and the nightclub itself to rule everything out.

Without their help this would have been a very expensive and stressful situation. Instead, it cost us just £20 for an Uber to collect the key.

They kept us calm, brought us complimentary tea and coffee and went completely above and beyond what anyone could reasonably expect.

Exceptional customer service, an amazing atmosphere, and a team that genuinely cares about their guests. We are so grateful — thank you for turning a stressful situation into such a positive memory.


Date: 1 March 2026

Rating: OK
Another great night at xtasia for us at the wild temptations event last night.

Without a doubt our favourite club. Fantastic hosts and staff as always.


Date: 28 February 2026

Rating: Fun
Had a lovely afternoon in Flirts-

Staff were so friendly, they went above and beyond.

Spa was clean and well set up.

Playroom had nice feel had options to play privately open the curtains.

Bar prices are good and is nice and relaxed.

Perfect for daytime fun, I am now looking forward to trying the club xx



Date: 25 February 2026

Rating: Fun
Visited Flirts for the first time today. The staff are amazing and showed us around the main club, we had a few drinks and played in the cinema, great place to spend a few hours during the day. We will definitely be going back to Flirts and the main club. If any couples want to arrange a daytime meet there, let us know.

Date: 21 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
We have been to events at the club itself on a couple of weekends now and they don't disappoint! additionally, have also attended Flirts bar a few times and can equally say that the staff at both venues are friendly and approachable and ensure that it's a welcoming and safe environment to be sociable and enjoy playing with other members.

While we have not been able to try all the facilities yet, there are plenty of different areas in which to indulge in your particular kink with reasonable prices at the bars and for the accommodation and membership. The website has a pretty comprehensive events calendar and we hope to see more of you in the future, as will certainly be back.


Date: 17 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
This was our first time at Xtasia, on the recommendation of many people, and we were not disappointed! We attended the ‘it wasn’t a phase’ night and it was incredible, from the club and the lovely staff, to the club itself and the night, it was brilliant, we can’t wait to return!

Date: 16 February 2026

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