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Xtasia

Rating: OK
Went yesterday for Quiz night.

Had some good play up stairs late on and thank you to the kind gentleman who joined us.


Date: 17 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
Great staff! Hopefully have the confidence to enter the night club on Friday x x

Date: 16 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
Went with my wife to Flirts Bar/cinema yesterday afternoon and had a great time. As always the staff were very relaxed and welcoming, and met 2 lovely couples. Ended up with all 3 couples in the playroom downstairs, and my wife and I were lucky enough to have fun with a very attractive and friendly couple while there. Will definitely be going again.

Date: 15 April 2025

Rating: Fun
Had great time with some sexy couples this afternoon. I went with my partner as hiddenwonders. If you spotted us there then say hello

Date: 14 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
Attended the Alt Rock night Saturday evening and had an absolutely electric time. Naked dancing and high octane pleasure a plenty. Me and the Mrs had a really great night. Thanks to all involved in organising such an amazing event.

Date: 13 April 2025

Rating: OK
Fantastic night at the rock night at xtasia. The music was superb the atmosphere electric. Fun everywhere with great company. Thanks to all the staff that work so hard to make this fantastic club what it is . See you soon x

Date: 13 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
We attended Xtasia for the first time last night for the Alt rock night. What bloody brilliant night! Full of great people and the venue is spot on. Highly recommend

Date: 13 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
We both attended the alt rock night last night and God damn what a night it was very busy highly entertaining all the places of the club was busy with something going on ??

We introduced a couple of friends to the event never been before and talking about it they loved it great atmosphere the staff the people all of it even ended up in a room getting naughty themselves x

As for us we had a great night got to chat to a lot of people all very nice and flirty banta which is right up our street everything and everyone last night was on top form all had a great time so cannot wait to attend again and make the most out of the dungeon room ??


Date: 13 April 2025

Rating: OK
On a gloriously sunny day we drove down to Xtasia to take advantage of the sun deck at Flirts.

While it was a quiet afternoon we felt very at ease due to the friendly staff and polite male company.

Would go again.


Date: 11 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
I attended the Shamed event at Xtasia yesterday and honestly—wow, what an experience! From start to finish, the vibe was electric and the atmosphere was incredibly welcoming and open-minded.

First off, the club itself is massive. There are so many different areas to explore, each catering to a wide range of kinks, fantasies, and play styles. Whether you’re into BDSM, exhibitionism, voyeurism, or just curious to explore, there’s something for everyone. Everything feels very well thought out, with themed spaces that are both practical and sexy.

The staff were fantastic—super friendly, helpful, and clearly passionate about creating a safe, fun, and liberated environment. You could tell they were genuinely into the event and really helped make everyone feel comfortable and included.

The crowd was amazing too—so many happy, like-minded people just being their authentic, kinky selves. It was inspiring and so freeing to be around that kind of energy. The performances and displays throughout the night were incredible—sexy, daring, and so much fun to watch and partake in.

I left buzzing and already can’t wait for the next Shamed! If you’re thinking about checking out Xtasia or are curious about kink events in a social, inclusive space—do it. You won’t regret it.



Date: 7 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
We attended Xtasia for the Shamed kink event yesterday afternoon/ evening, which was our first time here - in summary we had a great time, 6 hours just flew by :)

We’d signed up online in advance and had been accepted for membership, so a few minutes of admin with a friendly welcome and we were set to go.

This review is based on our experience of the Shamed event. The club facilities themselves are great, lots of places to play on and in, and for us as exhibitionists the set up was great. The dance floor by the bar had been turned into a circus of spanking benches, a St Andrews Cross, and we watched and took part in some real fun things. Anything goes at Shamed and we unlocked some new kinks we didn’t know we had :)

We had fun in the spanking benches, using the cage, the hot gang bang we got going on the bonnet of one of the cars in the dogging area, the sub who licked her high heels and all the guys who came on her tits. We enjoyed watching the rope play, all the costumes, the BDSM stuff and the bimbofication scenes. Hot hot hot.

The event was super busy, with queues to get in right from the start. We’ve got the next Shamed in the diary, want to try Dystopia and look forward to going to some of the Xtasia club nights.


Date: 7 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
We love attending Xtasia and Flirts for their swing, kink or social events such as Climax, Alt Rock, Wild Temptations, Devotion, Dystopia, BST, Deathflix, Milf Mayhem, Gothic Play Party, Shamed, Black Country Social, Flirts Games Night, Flirts Pool Tournament, Feel Good Friday, Flirts Karaoke etc. I'm sure there's so many more we've missed to list.

The female half hosts Scissor Sisters WOMEN ONLY event at Flirts every third Friday of the month.

The reason why we say all of this as there's so much variety as each event offers something different on different dates. Never a dull moment.

Last couple of events we attended last Friday was Milf Mayhem, such a fantastic daytime play event. So naughty. Then Saturday for FFFF, was a great night. More naughty fun.

Flirts spa isn't to be missed. Such a awesome place to wind down in. Love their jacuzzi pool, sauna and steam room.

Such a friendly, clean and inclusive venue. There is some accessibility so it's best to ask the club what they can cater for you during an event, you'd be surprised.



Date: 7 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
Had an awesome night at Xstasia, and our first night attending FFFF. Was quieter than we were expecting, but the vibe was great and we met some super horny hotties! Will definitely be hitting this event up again in the future

Date: 6 April 2025

Rating: OK
We haven’t been to a FFFF night for quite some time, it wasn’t overly busy as we were expecting however it was still a good night with a great mixed crowd of people.

Date: 6 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
We’ve been to a few Xtasia events and every one has been fantastic. The one that keeps bringing us back is the Alt Night. Such an inclusive, fun, friendly environment filled with absolute stunning and lovely people. DJ very open to requests for music and the hosts are always wonderful. We will be back time and time again.

Date: 6 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
One thing we love about this club is how inclusive it is x everyone from all backgrounds welcome and not judged . If you feel the need to judge then its not a place for you . Any concerns raised are always dealt with and everyone who goes is friendly and no pressure is given x

Date: 6 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
Great night last night!!! FFFF is always a vibe!

Date: 6 April 2025

Rating: Fabulous
Attended the Greedy Girls event on 28th March, as always had a truly incredible evening, left very satisfied and with some great memories.

Noteable mention to Dan White ABC, and the other guys who joined us in the Swing Room, Mrs H truly had a fab time! Will be back very soon...


Date: 31 March 2025

Rating: Fun
We visited Xtasia on Saturday for the spring bunnies event hosted by Zoe and Chris. It wasn't very busy, but we felt good, great music, sexy people and a great atmosphere. All the staff always makes us feel wery welcome and that's why we always come back with joy :))

Date: 31 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
A fabulous night at Xstasia! Loved the cowboy theme and had a great time in the playroom with a great pair of guys! Stayed in hotel too, would recommend!

Date: 29 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
Just in from the Greedy Girls night at Xtasia, absolutely brilliant! Played with a really generous Welch couple in the swing, yummy, watched Steph being very naughty :) and then had a really super time downstairs with the gorgeous, short haired lawyer who I had been lusting after all evening. 'You were truly fantastic'xx

Date: 29 March 2025

Rating: Fun
Visited Xtasia flirt for the first time yesterday. Pretty quiet overall but we had fun with a friend we’d arranged to meet, who came upstairs to our room and showed us both a great time! We’ll be back, Pedro’s on a weekend

Date: 26 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
Afternoon in flirts, looked after by top Barman Chris. Who whilst during chatting was busy giving guided tours around to new members.



Date: 26 March 2025

Rating: Fun
This was our first experience of a club event, we chose Xtasia after it had been recommended to us.

We attended newcummers unleashed which we were made to feel very welcomed to by Tia and the rest of the staff.

We had a lot of fun, the nightclub feel with the option to dress down made us feel at ease and like we could go at our own pace and comfort level.

Once dressing down we went for an explore and checked out all the things the club had to offer, ending in a fantastic night with lots of naughty fun.


Date: 23 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
We attended Cougars and Cubs night and what an evening. Amazing hosts, friendly staff, amazing guests and so much fun. This evening and the club in general is brilliant and we can't recommend trying it out for yourself enough.

Date: 23 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
Attended cougar and cubs on friday,another great night at xtasia,well managed by Tom and Jerry. Look forward to attending the next night soon.

Date: 23 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
Attended xtasias cougars and cubs event Friday night and wow what a night . Had so much fun and so many people there . Staff done an amazing job as ever and hosts of the event done a fantastic job . Our favourite club . Next vist already planned for we can't wait x

Date: 22 March 2025

Rating: Fun
Scissor Sisters event @ Flirts, Xtasia (05/03)

Hosted by RainbowQueen03

I’m only writing Veri now as it’s taken me this long to recover!

My first time in the spa suite at Flirts and it’s great! It’s really modern, has clean changing facilities/loo and the spa pool plus seating area is fab. The spa is more than big enough to house approx 16 women comfortably, and was great for socialising before some of us (and then maybe all of us?), made our way to Flirts Dungeon for more fun on dry land.

The event itself was well attended by a diverse group of women, so if you think you may be “too young/old, too straight/gay, too big/small, too ND/NT”, chuck those mis conceptions out of the window! Everyone was really friendly and even if there had been zero chemistry with anyone (which there WAS *wink*), id’ve at least had a really relaxing evening using the facilities in great company.

I would absolutely recommend for any women who have any interest in other women. And I’m conserving energy ready for to the next one!


Date: 19 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
Ella and I spent a great evening on Saturday, Ella had already been to Scissor Sisters but my first time!

We started at a fun party at Flirts and then onto Xtasia for a wind down, a drink, an explore of the venue and then....

We really enjoyed the space and the facilities and the vibe, and hoping to have more fun there very soon! Thanks to the whole team for making us feel really at home!

G


Date: 17 March 2025

Rating: Fun
Was at BMFC last Friday at xtasia and it was so much fun. Everybody was so friendly, the DJ smashed it and the facilities were great. It was my first time at a club and it's left me wanting more. I'll defo be at the next one x

Date: 16 March 2025

Rating: Fabulous
We booked to come to Xtasia for the whole weekend & what a weekend it was... we arrived on Friday not really knowing what to expect & we were blown away with the whole experience.

We stopped in room 8 in the hotel, it had the metal 4 poster bed & we definitely tested this, we can attest it's very stable ;-P

We headed to the spa & got straight into the swim spa, it was at the perfect temperature & incredible clean. While we were there we witnessed staff testing the water to ensure it was kept that way.

We then went & got ready for our first night at Xtasia, we didn't know what event was on to be honest & we were pleasantly surprised to find it was BMFC, this had a great mix of people.

The staff were incredible welcoming and made us feel right at home. We were completely shocked you didn't have to dress down to walk around the play rooms, we loved this. It made us feel much more comfortable & at ease to play. We loved the dance floor & after we'd had some fun, we chilled with a few (maybe more than a few lol) drinks & genuinely had so much fun.

Saturday we stayed in the hotel & went back to the spa, we chatted with loads of different people & had a lovely chilled day. Had it been the summer then we would definitely have been up on the sundeck chilling.

We arrange a private meet in the afternoon & the staff found us to tell us that our meet had arrived. We weren't sure if other people were allowed in our rooms but we were assured this was allowed.

Saturday night we then attended the Youthful Exuberance night at Xtasia, it was a brilliant night filled with lots of beautiful people, we feel it maybe wasn't the best night for us but the staff, the people, the DJ literally everyone was incredible welcoming & nice; we are just more on the curvy side & think other nights are more suited to us.

We literally had a brilliant weekend but now we are absolutely shattered and could sleep for two days solid haha. We will definitely be back, there are still things we haven't seen... we really need to look around Flirts and see the dogging area. We got a bit carried away and didn't get chance on this visit


Date: 16 March 2025

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