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By *ucid Dreams OP   Man 15 weeks ago

Dartford

After 10 months of using them, they are completely useless, I find the London chat room dead 95% of the time, closely followed by the southeast, never understood why.

The directing rooms are usually imbalanced with 2 rooms always being full and the rest never really having more than 5-6 people where no one engages with one another.

I have probably had 8 interactions with men and women on their since I have been there. Barely anyone engages with each other at all, especially when it's only men in the room, it doesn't have to be that way.

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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago

Agree with everything you have said re:chat rooms. I did once write on one of the rooms how come some people's comments are ignored and others seem to be existing friends. The reason I got was that some of the people that go on the chat rooms regularly have built up a rapore, so they don't really pay much attention to new profile names until they start to get familiar.

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By *ucid Dreams OP   Man 15 weeks ago

Dartford


"Agree with everything you have said re:chat rooms. I did once write on one of the rooms how come some people's comments are ignored and others seem to be existing friends. The reason I got was that some of the people that go on the chat rooms regularly have built up a rapore, so they don't really pay much attention to new profile names until they start to get familiar. "

Yes I noticed to that the people who were talking with one another already knew each other which is understandable.

I'm not saying I'm entitled to a response from anyone, I just find it strange how a lot of people would rather sit in a room in silence rather than try to get to know new people, seems like it defeats the purpose of the chat rooms

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple 15 weeks ago

Bexley

We don't spend much time in chat and although we never post publicly we do chat to guys privately by pm. Sometimes several at the same time.

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By *lassOverflowingWoman 15 weeks ago

Shortland Street

I love chatting in the rooms. It can be very much as you describe OP with loads of people in and barely anyone chatting. I sometimes get stick for chatting too from some obnoxious folk who believe women should only be in chat rooms to be on cam and follow every direction given.

I try not to exclude anyone from conversation, but it can be hard to hold multiple conversations, especially when the thread is fast moving or I am having a pm.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple 15 weeks ago

Bexley


"I love chatting in the rooms. It can be very much as you describe OP with loads of people in and barely anyone chatting. I sometimes get stick for chatting too from some obnoxious folk who believe women should only be in chat rooms to be on cam and follow every direction given.

I try not to exclude anyone from conversation, but it can be hard to hold multiple conversations, especially when the thread is fast moving or I am having a pm.

"

That's a good point. It's almost impossible to keep up with the chat in a busy room. It's much easier to open a private PM chat and have time to read/respond. Horses for courses.

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By *ealitybitesMan 15 weeks ago

Belfast

In 5 years here I've been in the chat rooms numerous times. Each time hoping for a better reception.

I stick to the Irish room because it isn't as busy so there is no excuse about comments being missed.

Despite being fairly active in the forums and recognising almost every profile in the room each time I've gone in, I have yet to have anyone even acknowledge I was there.

Not one single comment was responded to.

The last time I went in was on New year's Eve because someone started a forum thread inviting people.

Once again not a word and people carried on with their conversations.

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By *ucid Dreams OP   Man 15 weeks ago

Dartford


"In 5 years here I've been in the chat rooms numerous times. Each time hoping for a better reception.

I stick to the Irish room because it isn't as busy so there is no excuse about comments being missed.

Despite being fairly active in the forums and recognising almost every profile in the room each time I've gone in, I have yet to have anyone even acknowledge I was there.

Not one single comment was responded to.

The last time I went in was on New year's Eve because someone started a forum thread inviting people.

Once again not a word and people carried on with their conversations.

"

So it's not only me that has the same issues with the chat rooms. Think I'll just call it quits with them

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By *esty 2021Man 15 weeks ago

Rockford IL


"In 5 years here I've been in the chat rooms numerous times. Each time hoping for a better reception.

I stick to the Irish room because it isn't as busy so there is no excuse about comments being missed.

Despite being fairly active in the forums and recognising almost every profile in the room each time I've gone in, I have yet to have anyone even acknowledge I was there.

Not one single comment was responded to.

The last time I went in was on New year's Eve because someone started a forum thread inviting people.

Once again not a word and people carried on with their conversations.

"

As a counter point I am an avid chatter and have been for 13 years or so. Met many people and have some very close offline friends as a result.

Try to pass a comment in a forum though and it’s crickets every time.

Horses for courses as someone said.

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By *ucid Dreams OP   Man 15 weeks ago

Dartford


"In 5 years here I've been in the chat rooms numerous times. Each time hoping for a better reception.

I stick to the Irish room because it isn't as busy so there is no excuse about comments being missed.

Despite being fairly active in the forums and recognising almost every profile in the room each time I've gone in, I have yet to have anyone even acknowledge I was there.

Not one single comment was responded to.

The last time I went in was on New year's Eve because someone started a forum thread inviting people.

Once again not a word and people carried on with their conversations.

As a counter point I am an avid chatter and have been for 13 years or so. Met many people and have some very close offline friends as a result.

Try to pass a comment in a forum though and it’s crickets every time.

Horses for courses as someone said."

That's probably a good idea to be honest. Don't know why I haven't tried that yet. I'll give it a go

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By *ablo minibar123Woman 15 weeks ago

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I love the chatrooms if it wasn't for them I would have left fab years ago.

I do find though it does require effort, and you aren't just going to get an immediate reaction from the first time you go in there. Join in and get yourself involved and you will soon get noticed.

I never do understand the guys who go in there and just say hello to the ladies in there as if they are scared that if they converse with another man they will be outed as gay or something.

I have found London room isn't the friendliest at the best of times, you aren't bound by law to stay in the chatroom of the area you live in, I try them all till I find the one that fits.

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By *ealitybitesMan 15 weeks ago

Belfast


"I love the chatrooms if it wasn't for them I would have left fab years ago.

I do find though it does require effort, and you aren't just going to get an immediate reaction from the first time you go in there. Join in and get yourself involved and you will soon get noticed.

I never do understand the guys who go in there and just say hello to the ladies in there as if they are scared that if they converse with another man they will be outed as gay or something.

I have found London room isn't the friendliest at the best of times, you aren't bound by law to stay in the chatroom of the area you live in, I try them all till I find the one that fits."

As I said before I've made numerous attempts to get involved. I've been in the rooms for an hour at a time and always made a point of posting when conversation went quiet and I can honestly say not one single person ever replied. The conversation would pick up again as if I hadn't been there at all.

These were mostly people I engage with every day in the forums so that was why I stuck to the Irish forums as there was more chance of people knowing who I was and not a random newcomer.

I don't feel I'm missing out on not being involved in the chatrooms but it just shows the different dynamics.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman 15 weeks ago

At a club somewhere. club meets only


"In 5 years here I've been in the chat rooms numerous times. Each time hoping for a better reception.

I stick to the Irish room because it isn't as busy so there is no excuse about comments being missed.

Despite being fairly active in the forums and recognising almost every profile in the room each time I've gone in, I have yet to have anyone even acknowledge I was there.

Not one single comment was responded to.

The last time I went in was on New year's Eve because someone started a forum thread inviting people.

Once again not a word and people carried on with their conversations.

As a counter point I am an avid chatter and have been for 13 years or so. Met many people and have some very close offline friends as a result.

Try to pass a comment in a forum though and it’s crickets every time.

Horses for courses as someone said."

**** is that a tumble blowing across that there road

...

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By *ncutgemMan 15 weeks ago

taunton

Ten years ago the chat room were amazing so many friends and meets off them

Then the hordes of idiot men arived

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By *ustardcream1Woman 15 weeks ago

Hampshire

I find it hit and miss really. As already, mentioned some evenings even following a thread let alone having a conversation is impossible. I'm not great remembering users names, so that dosen't go in my favour either.

There are a lot of popular regular woman users who seam to have a huge male following, so I avoid that particular room. No point in staying as I'll be ignored.

I have chatted to some really fun people as well

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By *avidagainMan 15 weeks ago

st.leonards on sea

i am new to chat but had a couple of great experiences today watching cams all i can say is wow

monique

x

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By *ustardcream1Woman 15 weeks ago

Hampshire


"i am new to chat but had a couple of great experiences today watching cams all i can say is wow

monique

x"

Wow indeed

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By *ttoWoman 15 weeks ago

llanelli

Try the Wales chat room. Often quiet but when a few people start chatting it busies up. No directing so respectful people only and us Welsh will talk to anyone!

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By *urvertsCouple 15 weeks ago

Exeter

We have tried the chat rooms a few times (usually the SW room) but must say it's not that good of an experience.

Mrs Furvert finds it full of too many pushey or rude and disrespectful men that constantly need telling of like little children though I might add usually others will pipe up and say its unacceptable too.

Far too few people come into the chat rooms, probably put off in our opinion.

Seems like the majority come to just gorp at the cam's? we can go on with our cam on only have a chat with 2-3 profiles and come off to see our profile viewed 400-500 time's?

I must say that it's more like an online free version of an Amsterdam peep show rather than a chat room now which isn't very inspiring to return to for a couple or a lady.

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By *utterflyxxxMan 15 weeks ago

Grimsby

I agree with everything people are saying about getting a response etc i go in chat rooms and and send messages but more often than no i get ignored or told I'm too old. However i do realise that there are cliques and groups who chat vith each others and no one else. I also wpuldn't expect to walk into a pub and expect everyon3 to stop their conversations and talk to me a stranger. This site reflecys real life although you wouldn't always believe it lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman 15 weeks ago

Grantham

I used to use the chat rooms. It takes more than an hour to get noticed.

Most men come in looking to watch cams. They say hello and nice tits a few times and think they are chatting.

So the regulars ignore you as yet another chancer. You need to persevere over time and not talk about sex much

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By *ablo minibar123Woman 15 weeks ago

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"I used to use the chat rooms. It takes more than an hour to get noticed.

Most men come in looking to watch cams. They say hello and nice tits a few times and think they are chatting.

So the regulars ignore you as yet another chancer. You need to persevere over time and not talk about sex much

"

very rare we chat about sex in the south west room, would much rather talk about food

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By *ucid Dreams OP   Man 15 weeks ago

Dartford


"I used to use the chat rooms. It takes more than an hour to get noticed.

Most men come in looking to watch cams. They say hello and nice tits a few times and think they are chatting.

So the regulars ignore you as yet another chancer. You need to persevere over time and not talk about sex much

"

Ok. Never ever spoken about anything remotely sexual in the chat rooms.

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By *esty 2021Man 15 weeks ago

Rockford IL

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By *ealitybitesMan 15 weeks ago

Belfast


"I used to use the chat rooms. It takes more than an hour to get noticed.

Most men come in looking to watch cams. They say hello and nice tits a few times and think they are chatting.

So the regulars ignore you as yet another chancer. You need to persevere over time and not talk about sex much

"

I don't even talk about sex in pm's so I'm not exactly going to start in a chatroom.

As I said above many of the people in the rooms when I was there were people I engage with already in the Irish forums and have done almost daily for 2½ years so I find it strange that every attempt at saying hello or taking part in the conversation was completely ignored.

No one was playing on cam at any stage while I was in there so there were no distractions and I don't remember anyone having a sexual conversation. It was all general chat but yet......?

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By *9curious69Man 14 weeks ago

douglas

Instead of putting the focus on camming or regions why not add rooms which are about topics instead? Complete random examples lingerie loves, mmfs or just wanking. This may stimulate more chat instead off 100+ watching a few cams with 10 having a chats which few can follow

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By *ucid Dreams OP   Man 14 weeks ago

Dartford

The South West room is ok

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By *ablo minibar123Woman 14 weeks ago

.


"The South West room is ok"

Oh only ok , we must endeavour to try harder

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By *esty 2021Man 14 weeks ago

Rockford IL


"The South West room is ok

Oh only ok , we must endeavour to try harder "

I think he missed the word “barely” out of that sentence

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By *ablo minibar123Woman 14 weeks ago

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"The South West room is ok

Oh only ok , we must endeavour to try harder

I think he missed the word “barely” out of that sentence "

Very harsh, you are breaking my heart

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By *inky-MinxWoman 14 weeks ago

Grantham

What I meant was that one has to prove to the regulars that one is not a fly by night looking to talk about sex.

It takes a surprisingly long time to start getting noticed so don't give up everyone

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By *esty 2021Man 14 weeks ago

Rockford IL


"The South West room is ok

Oh only ok , we must endeavour to try harder

I think he missed the word “barely” out of that sentence

Very harsh, you are breaking my heart "

You know I am kidding

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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago

Keeping up conversations with people can be hard especially when there are a lot of people messaging you at the same time. I try to talk to everyone if possible but the chat can move so fast I may have missed some people. I hope you have a better experience next time OP

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By *ucid Dreams OP   Man 14 weeks ago

Dartford

Pablo gets a 7.5 out of 10 for being welcoming.

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By *asochistMan 14 weeks ago

Folkestone

7.5

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By *ucid Dreams OP   Man 14 weeks ago

Dartford

Yeah. - 2.5 for calling me a grinch

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By *asochistMan 14 weeks ago

Folkestone

lol

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By *ablo minibar123Woman 14 weeks ago

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"Yeah. - 2.5 for calling me a grinch"

Ha ha ha. Bless ya, you Grinch x

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By *ancelot1633Man 9 weeks ago

weybridge


"In 5 years here I've been in the chat rooms numerous times. Each time hoping for a better reception.

I stick to the Irish room because it isn't as busy so there is no excuse about comments being missed.

Despite being fairly active in the forums and recognising almost every profile in the room each time I've gone in, I have yet to have anyone even acknowledge I was there.

Not one single comment was responded to.

The last time I went in was on New year's Eve because someone started a forum thread inviting people.

Once again not a word and people carried on with their conversations.

"

Why not try so either rooms before you give up the ghost. Obvs the Irish room isn’t working for you. Good luck

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By *ucid Dreams OP   Man 9 weeks ago

Dartford


"In 5 years here I've been in the chat rooms numerous times. Each time hoping for a better reception.

I stick to the Irish room because it isn't as busy so there is no excuse about comments being missed.

Despite being fairly active in the forums and recognising almost every profile in the room each time I've gone in, I have yet to have anyone even acknowledge I was there.

Not one single comment was responded to.

The last time I went in was on New year's Eve because someone started a forum thread inviting people.

Once again not a word and people carried on with their conversations.

Why not try so either rooms before you give up the ghost. Obvs the Irish room isn’t working for you. Good luck "

They are still shit for the most part

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By *oftyandhisloverCouple 9 weeks ago

romford


"I used to use the chat rooms. It takes more than an hour to get noticed.

Most men come in looking to watch cams. They say hello and nice tits a few times and think they are chatting.

So the regulars ignore you as yet another chancer. You need to persevere over time and not talk about sex much

I don't even talk about sex in pm's so I'm not exactly going to start in a chatroom.

As I said above many of the people in the rooms when I was there were people I engage with already in the Irish forums and have done almost daily for 2½ years so I find it strange that every attempt at saying hello or taking part in the conversation was completely ignored.

No one was playing on cam at any stage while I was in there so there were no distractions and I don't remember anyone having a sexual conversation. It was all general chat but yet......? "

Phew!!!! So glad it’s not just me!!! I’ve (gal half of couple) find the camming really dull and boring. Attempting to join in a conversation is like pulling teeth lol so gave up months ago

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple 9 weeks ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"In 5 years here I've been in the chat rooms numerous times. Each time hoping for a better reception.

I stick to the Irish room because it isn't as busy so there is no excuse about comments being missed.

Despite being fairly active in the forums and recognising almost every profile in the room each time I've gone in, I have yet to have anyone even acknowledge I was there.

Not one single comment was responded to.

The last time I went in was on New year's Eve because someone started a forum thread inviting people.

Once again not a word and people carried on with their conversations.

"

Think of it as a stranger in a pub saying Hello at the door as they come in . Would you expect every one to turn round and start chatting to you?

Get to know one or two, say hello to one or two personally and you will find more will engage in the chat. Watch the conversations and join in with an appropriate comment or two.

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By *asochistMan 9 weeks ago

Folkestone

Think of it as a stranger in a pub saying Hello at the door as they come in . Would you expect every one to turn round and start chatting to you?

Get to know one or two, say hello to one or two personally and you will find more will engage in the chat. Watch the conversations and join in with an appropriate comment or two.

What he said

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By *ogglesMan 9 weeks ago

essex

No one seems to want to chat anymore on here or meet come to that.

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By *ost SockMan 9 weeks ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I think the chatroom are fine. KinkyMinx and Masochist are spot-on with their comments.

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By *asochistMan 9 weeks ago

Folkestone

In my humble opinion, chat rooms are not for everyone.

If you dont join in and make yourself known, then why would others join with you?

I can honestly say that I can go in any room and interact with others, because I listen and watch and chime in with comments that fit the conversation.

Its not hard.......just join in.

So many people come in a room and sit and say nothing and wonder why they feel excluded.......

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By * midnight -Woman 9 weeks ago

..

I tend to find the General room is best for chat - its non-directing, so people are more likely to interact

... Maybe you need something controversial like, is a jaffa cake a cake or a biscuit

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By *..Miss.J...Woman 8 weeks ago

Lancashire 2022


"Instead of putting the focus on camming or regions why not add rooms which are about topics instead? Complete random examples lingerie loves, mmfs or just wanking. This may stimulate more chat instead off 100+ watching a few cams with 10 having a chats which few can follow "

Yes and the directing rooms down to two only.

Think the wanking can be minimised a bit.

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By *M 2916Couple 8 weeks ago

Moray

It would also be great if the quality is better from the app...its very laggy..we only use a mobile phone so the app is far easier..but the chat rooms seem very complicated from a mobile.

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By *oreplaylover69Man 4 weeks ago

southend on sea

I was wounding if you have tryed your own forum as if you set it up thous that enter may chat with you just a thought

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By *ucka39Man 4 weeks ago

Newcastle


"Agree with everything you have said re:chat rooms. I did once write on one of the rooms how come some people's comments are ignored and others seem to be existing friends. The reason I got was that some of the people that go on the chat rooms regularly have built up a rapore, so they don't really pay much attention to new profile names until they start to get familiar.

Yes I noticed to that the people who were talking with one another already knew each other which is understandable.

I'm not saying I'm entitled to a response from anyone, I just find it strange how a lot of people would rather sit in a room in silence rather than try to get to know new people, seems like it defeats the purpose of the chat rooms"

It's a two way streak how any person or persons connect so yes it's finding that little bit of a connection can be anything or nothing important but humour can play a role as a beginning go in with no expectations as it's a useful tool to spend some quality time leading anywhere or nowhere but a Time enjoyed freely

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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago

Whenever I've been in chat it had been pretty lively and actually quite fun chatting with people. Agree rooms can be imbalanced but just go to the busier rooms.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple 4 weeks ago

The Ledbury, Stoke. Staffs.

I used to go in the chat rooms regularly until I was banned for life. Now I cam on another site, where people have to pay full membership to be able to access the chat rooms. Must say that does attract more respectful people to the rooms. xxx

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By *ev-eirMan 4 weeks ago

london


"After 10 months of using them, they are completely useless, I find the London chat room dead 95% of the time, closely followed by the southeast, never understood why.

The directing rooms are usually imbalanced with 2 rooms always being full and the rest never really having more than 5-6 people where no one engages with one another.

I have probably had 8 interactions with men and women on their since I have been there. Barely anyone engages with each other at all, especially when it's only men in the room, it doesn't have to be that way."

This is going to sound pretty blunt but do you go on there looking for a debate or a in depth conversation which there are plenty ! Or do you try have fun

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By *ev-eirMan 4 weeks ago

london


"I used to go in the chat rooms regularly until I was banned for life. Now I cam on another site, where people have to pay full membership to be able to access the chat rooms. Must say that does attract more respectful people to the rooms. xxx"

For life ? Why ??

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By *ucid Dreams OP   Man 4 weeks ago

Dartford


"After 10 months of using them, they are completely useless, I find the London chat room dead 95% of the time, closely followed by the southeast, never understood why.

The directing rooms are usually imbalanced with 2 rooms always being full and the rest never really having more than 5-6 people where no one engages with one another.

I have probably had 8 interactions with men and women on their since I have been there. Barely anyone engages with each other at all, especially when it's only men in the room, it doesn't have to be that way.

This is going to sound pretty blunt but do you go on there looking for a debate or a in depth conversation which there are plenty ! Or do you try have fun "

Fun. I used to try and join in the convo. Not anymore though, they have lost their privileges of having me in there.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS 4 weeks ago

EDINBURGH

Chat rooms have there place just like any other part of the FAB network.

It's the whole - good profile.

Network online. Chat rooms, forums, messages

Network offline. Clubs, social events.

Every thing is cyclic. You'll get good days and bad days in each.

But together you will get an experience and in the end you become part of the swinging community.

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By *ausageNmashCouple 4 weeks ago

Andover

Never really bothered with them over the years. Find them boring, confusing and a bit silly but hey ho

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple 4 weeks ago

The Ledbury, Stoke. Staffs.


"I used to go in the chat rooms regularly until I was banned for life. Now I cam on another site, where people have to pay full membership to be able to access the chat rooms. Must say that does attract more respectful people to the rooms. xxx

For life ? Why ??"

I don't know. Admin have never responded to my messages and don't accept apologies....if someone did wrong and apologised I know I would forgive them. It takes balls to accept you've done something wrong and apologise. But that obviously isn't good enough here hey ho there's other places lol

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By *..Miss.J...Woman 4 weeks ago

Lancashire 2022

Shame Suzi always loved your cam....

Loads of fun, chatrooms always full xxxx

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple 4 weeks ago

The Ledbury, Stoke. Staffs.


"Shame Suzi always loved your cam....

Loads of fun, chatrooms always full xxxx"

Awww thank you Jingles.... I still get over 200 watching just not on here. Though I do miss some of you xxxxx Suzi

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By *ucka39Man 4 weeks ago

Newcastle

Op Ever thought it might be your approach not saying you are a bad person but always a technique where people are just able to approach online or off without being very sociable it's a natural connection without any expectations they lead afterwards if any

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By *WSurfersCouple 4 weeks ago

Secret Garden South West

Something i have never understood, its not just unique to FAB, you'll get 150 in the room and only 10-20 chatting. I would try and acknowledge everyone but often (in my case especially women) would blank me guys wouldn't say anything but would constantly try an ping me PMs without asking so my PM was for friends only.

Not having a moan just saying it how it is, as said not unique to FAB. If you go into chat the best way is to look at the conversations and join in with the ones you can contribute, if you go in expecting an immediate response, and show me your tits. Probably won't get you far.

For me i like to talk to people and get to know them, interested in people. If they only want to get in my pants then they will usually be blocked.

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By *lassOverflowingWoman 4 weeks ago

Shortland Street


"Something i have never understood, its not just unique to FAB, you'll get 150 in the room and only 10-20 chatting. I would try and acknowledge everyone but often (in my case especially women) would blank me guys wouldn't say anything but would constantly try an ping me PMs without asking so my PM was for friends only.

Not having a moan just saying it how it is, as said not unique to FAB. If you go into chat the best way is to look at the conversations and join in with the ones you can contribute, if you go in expecting an immediate response, and show me your tits. Probably won't get you far.

For me i like to talk to people and get to know them, interested in people. If they only want to get in my pants then they will usually be blocked.

"

I agree with all of this.

My pms are for friends only, so some guys will instead direct message me then tell me to check my mail. I don't reply to these.

I have made lots of Fab friends through chat and can have lots of giggles with the right kind of people in the rooms.

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By *ubal1Man 4 weeks ago

Newry, County Down

I would disagree with your opinion that the chatrooms are useless; this site has a variety of components that suit different personalities.

I personally prefer the forum and threads where I can express my opinions (about a wide variety of topics) in a more indepth fashion.

Other prefer more chatty lightweight spontaneous chatroom interactions.

I suspect that experienced fabbers who over the years have established a network of trusted, dependable and discreet like-minded contacts have no need to interact on either the forum or in the chatrooms.

They probably arrange their own private meets, behind closed doors, where their secrets will remain

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By *ucid Dreams OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Dartford


"Never really bothered with them over the years. Find them boring, confusing and a bit silly but hey ho "
100% true

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By *oulivCouple 6 days ago

Newtown


"Try the Wales chat room. Often quiet but when a few people start chatting it busies up. No directing so respectful people only and us Welsh will talk to anyone!"

Find the exact opposite in the Welsh room, even when we have been on cam you get blanked, If your not in South Wales you may as well be in Canada

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By *assyflirtWoman 6 days ago

Ayrshire

My first time on fab, I got into the chat rooms and had a great time, loads of laughs, socials, getting to know people and generally good fun. That was before phone access, I don't try to use them now cause its hopeless on my phone but I don't use a laptop anymore so no more chat

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By *inky-MinxWoman 6 days ago

Grantham


"... Maybe you need something controversial like, is a jaffa cake a cake or a biscuit "

Nooo, it's been done to death already

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By *inky-MinxWoman 6 days ago

Grantham


"100% true"

What are you hoping for OP? Naked women to climb through your camera for a shag?

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By *ucid Dreams OP   Man 6 days ago

Dartford


"100% true

What are you hoping for OP? Naked women to climb through your camera for a shag? "

Yes thats exactly what I expected.

Did you read my mind?

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By *inky-MinxWoman 6 days ago

Grantham


"100% true

What are you hoping for OP? Naked women to climb through your camera for a shag?

Yes thats exactly what I expected.

Did you read my mind?"

Of course I did

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By *ncutgemMan 2 days ago

taunton

Sadly you are correct Chat has been going down hill for years but the flood of idiots mostly BUT not only men who found swinging but have no idea or intention of behaving as sane killed it chat was dead in pandemic lockdown for a bizarre reason and has not recovered It is a terrible reflection on. Society Get a grip people

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By *ondJamesPondMan 2 days ago

Land of Oz


"Sadly you are correct Chat has been going down hill for years but the flood of idiots mostly BUT not only men who found swinging but have no idea or intention of behaving as sane killed it chat was dead in pandemic lockdown for a bizarre reason and has not recovered It is a terrible reflection on. Society Get a grip people"

Wow, nearly fainted from lack of oxygen reading that

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By *ttoWoman 2 days ago

llanelli


"Try the Wales chat room. Often quiet but when a few people start chatting it busies up. No directing so respectful people only and us Welsh will talk to anyone!

Find the exact opposite in the Welsh room, even when we have been on cam you get blanked, If your not in South Wales you may as well be in Canada "

I haven’t seen you in there, I’ll chat with anyone pretty much! X

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By *ndigo100Woman 1 day ago

Leicestershire

I'm new to this site but I've used similar sites for years and found chatrooms are all a bit like this. Regulars chat to regulars. The criticism of 'cliquey' is common.

Personally, I've always made a point of welcoming people who come in and say hi. It's just a nice thing to do. Everyone was a first-time visitor once and it can be daunting.

I'm brand new so I feel weird being the one to suggest it but... if anyone would like a group chat any time (with a guaranteed friendly welcome) I'd be up for that.

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By * midnight -Woman 1 day ago

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"... Maybe you need something controversial like, is a jaffa cake a cake or a biscuit

Nooo, it's been done to death already "

Does chocolate belong with mayo is the next controversial topic !

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By *ilkchocolate87Man 1 day ago

SW London


"After 10 months of using them, they are completely useless, I find the London chat room dead 95% of the time, closely followed by the southeast, never understood why.

The directing rooms are usually imbalanced with 2 rooms always being full and the rest never really having more than 5-6 people where no one engages with one another.

I have probably had 8 interactions with men and women on their since I have been there. Barely anyone engages with each other at all, especially when it's only men in the room, it doesn't have to be that way."

Agreed they are pointless. It’s mainly to show off and people to perv. Don’t rely on it as a way to meet someone new

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By *lassOverflowingWoman 1 day ago

Shortland Street


"After 10 months of using them, they are completely useless, I find the London chat room dead 95% of the time, closely followed by the southeast, never understood why.

The directing rooms are usually imbalanced with 2 rooms always being full and the rest never really having more than 5-6 people where no one engages with one another.

I have probably had 8 interactions with men and women on their since I have been there. Barely anyone engages with each other at all, especially when it's only men in the room, it doesn't have to be that way.

Agreed they are pointless. It’s mainly to show off and people to perv. Don’t rely on it as a way to meet someone new "

I absolutely go in chat to perv and to have some laughs on and off cam. I have made good fab friends through chatting, camping and perving. I just go in without any expectations and treat others with respect.

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By *ucka39Man 1 day ago

Newcastle

The chat rooms are for the ability to enjoy and connect with more than one person.how each person connects with others is entirely on them how they interact no body is owned a reply but it's engaging within the subject/topic as a starting point or create one as a whole not just directed to one or person/person's on cam

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By *ixedraceand40Woman 1 day ago

Doncaster

When I used the chat rooms I barely ever chatted! I usually play with myself in the directing rooms though so my concentration is elsewhere

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple 9 hours ago

here & there

South east is always full when we are in there…

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By *armandwet50Couple 8 hours ago

Luton


"When I used the chat rooms I barely ever chatted! I usually play with myself in the directing rooms though so my concent ration is elsewhere "

This

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By *ealitybitesMan 2 hours ago

Belfast


"In 5 years here I've been in the chat rooms numerous times. Each time hoping for a better reception.

I stick to the Irish room because it isn't as busy so there is no excuse about comments being missed.

Despite being fairly active in the forums and recognising almost every profile in the room each time I've gone in, I have yet to have anyone even acknowledge I was there.

Not one single comment was responded to.

The last time I went in was on New year's Eve because someone started a forum thread inviting people.

Once again not a word and people carried on with their conversations.

Think of it as a stranger in a pub saying Hello at the door as they come in . Would you expect every one to turn round and start chatting to you?

Get to know one or two, say hello to one or two personally and you will find more will engage in the chat. Watch the conversations and join in with an appropriate comment or two. "

As I said in a subsequent post these were people I already knew and chat to on a regular basis in the forums. I'm not a stranger to them. They respond to comments I make in the forums but yet there was no acknowledgement I was even present in the camrooms.

I accept that conversations can move fast in there at times but strangely that didn't seem to make a difference when a woman logged in.

Everyone would make a point of saying hello and immediately include her in the conversation.

On one occasion a woman logged in saying this was her very first time ever in a chatroom and she was welcomed and given a guided tour almost.

I can only speak about my own experience and it's not a rant at all because I won't be going back in there. I just find it curious that guys are often advised to pop into the chatrooms for a relaxed chat and to get a cam veri.

That wasn't my reason for going in there but I wonder how that happens if my experience is anything to go by?

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