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How was your first club night?
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We then decided to go to Infusion in Blackpool and met a couple there who made our night and are still good friends now.
We then went to Townhouse when it first opened and the rest is history lol
We've been to loads of club since and love to experience everything they have to offer as they are all different.
I still remember the butterflies and nervous anticipation of my first visit to Pussycats. We drove around the block 4 times before we hit the 'fuck it' button and went in. We played on our first night and that was it...we were hooked and went to a club every weekend from then on.
When newbies walk into our club, I remember how I felt on my maiden voyage and how terrifying it can be. We always make newbies very welcome and appreciate how much of a huge step it is to embark on this journey.
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"Our first club visit put us off clubs for over 3 years! Everywhere we went in the club, we were followed by groups of single men who kept trying to join in - without even speaking. Thankfully we then discovered The Attic..." Funny you should say that as my first club was the attic and I was put off going to clubs as it was full of single men and came across fairly run down. I was eventually convinced to try other clubs and went to chams which was amazing and I'm glad I didn't allow the attic (at the time) to put me off. I will add, I did eventually go back to the attic and can say they revamped the place massively. Chams and the attic ended up being the main clubs I went too. After my experience, I always tell people to try a club more than once especially if it was your first ever club. | |||
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"Our first club visit put us off clubs for over 3 years! Everywhere we went in the club, we were followed by groups of single men who kept trying to join in - without even speaking. Thankfully we then discovered The Attic..." Understand where you’re coming from, being a single guy it’s embarrassing watching the single guy, they don’t help themselves, got to talk to people then take it from there | |||
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"Mine was the now departed Lodge in Gloucester. I wore a suit having seen a suggestion on the website to 'dress to impress', walked in, spotted the bar and introduced myself to a couple propping it up who I thought were the owners (having seen them on Fab) only to find they were just regulars. Felt like a complete fish out of water. Had a guided tour and was introduced to plenty of people. Spent the first couple of hours chatting away to all and sundry before being dragged off to the top floor room by a couple I'd been chatting to at the bar. Left wondering why so many single guys worry about going to clubs on their own and never looked back. A" Much is said about how single guys conduct themselves in a club environment, and a friendly, respectful manner is all that is required. But it does depend on who is in when you are  | |||
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"Infusions Blackpool many years ago, we was one of their first members, was awesome. Can't wait to go back for more, still a club we enjoy. " I think you probably founded it .. | |||
"Infusions Blackpool many years ago, we was one of their first members, was awesome. Can't wait to go back for more, still a club we enjoy. I think you probably founded it .. "Ha ha, be sneaking in for private swim if was case | |||
"Ours was at Xtasia, we were nervous as hell as probably everyone is. It was raining heavy and wouldn't stop. By the time we walked from the car park in the side road to the club we looked like wet rats! Paul gave us a tour of the club. When being shown the couples room Mr nearly jumped out his skin when seeing a couple fucking (shock horror in a swinging club!). Later in the same room we were playing with each other at the top of the room. Another first time couple were playing with each other also, we swapped looks but none of us knew what happens next! They left us fucking, we were excited just to hear the voices from the foyer on the other side of the wall, also the thought that someone could walk in at any time. Our 2nd visit, now that was very different! (Eat your heart out Mills & Boon ). That was the start of our journey"Our 1st night was Xstasia and sounded very similar to yours.... was it us in the room? Lol | |||
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"Ours was at Xtasia, we were nervous as hell as probably everyone is. It was raining heavy and wouldn't stop. By the time we walked from the car park in the side road to the club we looked like wet rats! Paul gave us a tour of the club. When being shown the couples room Mr nearly jumped out his skin when seeing a couple fucking (shock horror in a swinging club!). Later in the same room we were playing with each other at the top of the room. Another first time couple were playing with each other also, we swapped looks but none of us knew what happens next! They left us fucking, we were excited just to hear the voices from the foyer on the other side of the wall, also the thought that someone could walk in at any time. Our 2nd visit, now that was very different! (Eat your heart out Mills & Boon ). That was the start of our journey
Our 1st night was Xstasia and sounded very similar to yours.... was it us in the room? Lol"No she was pissed as a newt and straight up and down | |||
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