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We went many years ago (about 6 or 7), paid a fair amount for it, but it really was full of watchers...and women wanting to “air kiss” each other. Very very cliquey, all look but don’t touch!
We thought it might get “active” later in the evening, but by the time we got bored and left at 2 am, still not more than 5 or 6 guests appeared to be playing....and we had been 1 of them!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been to a couple and found them quite pretentious. Lots of ‘peacocks and princesses’ more about who looks the part rather than being there to play. Guess it will appeal to different people. It’s quite expensive but is a classy event and they put a lot of effort into creating nice surroundings etc. Like any clubs or events, best to try for yourselves  |
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"shite..lots of toffs and poseurs with talcum coloured nostrils "
Took a look at attending once, do not think single males are allowed.
“ after reading your response “ if that’s flying around not bothered. |
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"We went many years ago (about 6 or 7), paid a fair amount for it, but it really was full of watchers...and women wanting to “air kiss” each other. Very very cliquey, all look but don’t touch!
We thought it might get “active” later in the evening, but by the time we got bored and left at 2 am, still not more than 5 or 6 guests appeared to be playing....and we had been 1 of them!
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From what I have read in this thread the place seems more of a fashion statement than a swinging venue. |
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It's a shame nobody seems to like it, as if they don't pay back the money we (the taxpayer) just fronted them then we will own a share. Not enough of a share to make them let oldies like us in though... |
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By *JMidsMan
over a year ago
Warwick |
"Don't like the idea they judge people by looks size and weight so I'll pass don't think we would enjoy it"
It may have been in the past but I don't think it's quite so much nowadays, there was all ages and sizes at the ones I attended last year, although the majority were good looking inshape couples. There is more play at some of they're events than others. The Hedonism parties I found to be the best.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They still make u send a pic to make sure u fit their clientele "
I prefer it this way. If I'm spending that much money on a night out, I don't want to share it with fat and ugly people. |
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"They still make u send a pic to make sure u fit their clientele
I prefer it this way. If I'm spending that much money on a night out, I don't want to share it with fat and ugly people. "
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"They still make u send a pic to make sure u fit their clientele
I prefer it this way. If I'm spending that much money on a night out, I don't want to share it with fat and ugly people.
Horrible remark "
I agree, better to have curves and an average face than be rude about people you don't know.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree,
The pretentious side has gone and they’ve done lots about positivity, celebrating any type of bodies. The picture they ask for is for the photo verification like on Fab, not to check if you fit it (maybe it was a the case 10 years ago) It’s not elite anymore but still expensive true and very London based. And yes sometimes I can be a bit clicky but I suppose I’ve heard the same comments on some clubs, etc
The advantage though is that you tend not to have fake people (men pretending to be couples or even women).
There are pros and cons but I made a few good friends on there
"Don't like the idea they judge people by looks size and weight so I'll pass don't think we would enjoy it
It may have been in the past but I don't think it's quite so much nowadays, there was all ages and sizes at the ones I attended last year, although the majority were good looking inshape couples. There is more play at some of they're events than others. The Hedonism parties I found to be the best. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They still make u send a pic to make sure u fit their clientele
I prefer it this way. If I'm spending that much money on a night out, I don't want to share it with fat and ugly people.
Horrible remark
I agree, better to have curves and an average face than be rude about people you don't know.
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Well if you're curvey with an average face then you're not fat and ugly are you.... unless you mean curvey like a bowling ball.
And I don't think stating a preference is rude. Some people are fat and/or ugly and I'm far less likely to find them attractive. If I'm going to a club to play, I'd prefer it if there were people there I was attracted to. |
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Amazed by all the negative comments particularly by people who have never been.
We’ve enjoyed Killing Kittens, like lots of places/parties it has its ‘USP’.
We like the filtering process and the style of night they create, whether it’s the requirement for being well dressed, wearing masks or the opulent locations.
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over a year ago
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"Amazed by all the negative comments particularly by people who have never been.
We’ve enjoyed Killing Kittens, like lots of places/parties it has its ‘USP’.
We like the filtering process and the style of night they create, whether it’s the requirement for being well dressed, wearing masks or the opulent locations.
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over a year ago
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My fuck buddy and I are interested but not sure based on the accusations of lack of action.
I’m sure we’d fit in (both gym-goers and considered conventionally attractive) but if people go to dress up but not actually fuck we may as well go to a nice bar as per usual? |
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"My fuck buddy and I are interested but not sure based on the accusations of lack of action.
I’m sure we’d fit in (both gym-goers and considered conventionally attractive) but if people go to dress up but not actually fuck we may as well go to a nice bar as per usual?"
I’ve been to a few, my first one 5 years ago and last one in September last year and can tell you there is a lot of action, as mentioned here before hedonism is by far the naughtiest especially if it’s hedonism single (which you could go together but buy separate tickets. For sure the hottest place ever (the place is a sauna) |
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We’re members and it’s a cool place with cool people. We sort of read the bad stuff and didn’t join for years. When we finally did, we found a lot of the “poseurs” or “too old” comments to contradict what we’ve seen. There’s older and younger people and so far we’ve not seen anyone being an asshole. Generally nice so far. |
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By *cone269Couple
over a year ago
Brighton |
We went to two or three KK events in Brighton at the Pelirocco. All of them were great. Really nice people, excellent venue. Maybe because it was Brighton it was as pretentious than in other places but we thoroughly enjoyed them |
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By *hezGeekCouple
over a year ago
Bristol |
We’ve been to a couple of events and found them to vary - when they are fun they’re absolutely brilliant, but on the odd occasion when the atmosphere doesn’t quite work they can be a bit tame. Not been to one in London yet.
Everyone we’ve met, however, has been lovely |
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I requested they delete my account recently. Received confirmation from their tech team it'd been processed.
5 days later, received a Newsletter from them...
Duly informed them of that breach...
Having said that I work close to their offices. May go bang on the door  |
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I was on the KK site for quite some time. Very little footfall compared to fab and their version of the forums had about 3 comments on per day - useless!
Always meant to go to a party but was underwhelmed with the choice of single guys on the site to accompany me.
I always intended to go to a party but they were largely centred in London, the SE and abroad - in very expensive locations. I got the distinct impression that if you weren’t a wealthy professional then you’d be looked down on.
I decided to delete my account when I attended a club in Manchester that I was a regular at - amour. The manager there said a party from killing kittens were there because they’d been thrown out of a Manchester apartment they’d booked when the management were tipped off that they were holding a swinging party. The whole party then had to decant to amours.
When I went upstairs there was a group of them in the principal playroom. When I looked in through the window it was what I’ve found at all ‘elite’ parties I’ve attended - the women were more attractive and in better shape than the men - and the men were fairly average tbh - none I’d have played with.
Generally speaking I found there were more attractive people on fab - and certainly far nicer ones.
When they came out of the playroom - without exception they totally blanked everyone outside their party. They’d even requested that the management clear the club so they could have it to themselves.
Perhaps they thought poverty or rounded bellies were catching!
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over a year ago
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"I was on the KK site for quite some time. Very little footfall compared to fab and their version of the forums had about 3 comments on per day - useless!
Always meant to go to a party but was underwhelmed with the choice of single guys on the site to accompany me.
I always intended to go to a party but they were largely centred in London, the SE and abroad - in very expensive locations. I got the distinct impression that if you weren’t a wealthy professional then you’d be looked down on.
I decided to delete my account when I attended a club in Manchester that I was a regular at - amour. The manager there said a party from killing kittens were there because they’d been thrown out of a Manchester apartment they’d booked when the management were tipped off that they were holding a swinging party. The whole party then had to decant to amours.
When I went upstairs there was a group of them in the principal playroom. When I looked in through the window it was what I’ve found at all ‘elite’ parties I’ve attended - the women were more attractive and in better shape than the men - and the men were fairly average tbh - none I’d have played with.
Generally speaking I found there were more attractive people on fab - and certainly far nicer ones.
When they came out of the playroom - without exception they totally blanked everyone outside their party. They’d even requested that the management clear the club so they could have it to themselves.
Perhaps they thought poverty or rounded bellies were catching!
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So you got to go to a KK party for the price of entrance to your local club......
Good for you.... I think you won in this situation... |
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"I was on the KK site for quite some time. Very little footfall compared to fab and their version of the forums had about 3 comments on per day - useless!
Always meant to go to a party but was underwhelmed with the choice of single guys on the site to accompany me.
I always intended to go to a party but they were largely centred in London, the SE and abroad - in very expensive locations. I got the distinct impression that if you weren’t a wealthy professional then you’d be looked down on.
I decided to delete my account when I attended a club in Manchester that I was a regular at - amour. The manager there said a party from killing kittens were there because they’d been thrown out of a Manchester apartment they’d booked when the management were tipped off that they were holding a swinging party. The whole party then had to decant to amours.
When I went upstairs there was a group of them in the principal playroom. When I looked in through the window it was what I’ve found at all ‘elite’ parties I’ve attended - the women were more attractive and in better shape than the men - and the men were fairly average tbh - none I’d have played with.
Generally speaking I found there were more attractive people on fab - and certainly far nicer ones.
When they came out of the playroom - without exception they totally blanked everyone outside their party. They’d even requested that the management clear the club so they could have it to themselves.
Perhaps they thought poverty or rounded bellies were catching!
So you got to go to a KK party for the price of entrance to your local club......
Good for you.... I think you won in this situation..."
Yup - I think I paid a fiver whereas they paid £100.
They did get a free glass of bubbly on arrival though! |
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"Has anyone been?"
Went in my early days years ago as part of a group to a KK fetish event. Lots of latex and leather displays plus practitioners at work. The crowd felt ‘peacocky - look at me‘ and despite that my charm won through.
Had a thoroughly good time and made new friends. Any event is as good as the work you put in while there.
Only way to find out is to go for yourself, after remortgaging your credit card |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I was on the KK site for quite some time. Very little footfall compared to fab and their version of the forums had about 3 comments on per day - useless!
Always meant to go to a party but was underwhelmed with the choice of single guys on the site to accompany me.
I always intended to go to a party but they were largely centred in London, the SE and abroad - in very expensive locations. I got the distinct impression that if you weren’t a wealthy professional then you’d be looked down on.
I decided to delete my account when I attended a club in Manchester that I was a regular at - amour. The manager there said a party from killing kittens were there because they’d been thrown out of a Manchester apartment they’d booked when the management were tipped off that they were holding a swinging party. The whole party then had to decant to amours.
When I went upstairs there was a group of them in the principal playroom. When I looked in through the window it was what I’ve found at all ‘elite’ parties I’ve attended - the women were more attractive and in better shape than the men - and the men were fairly average tbh - none I’d have played with.
Generally speaking I found there were more attractive people on fab - and certainly far nicer ones.
When they came out of the playroom - without exception they totally blanked everyone outside their party. They’d even requested that the management clear the club so they could have it to themselves.
Perhaps they thought poverty or rounded bellies were catching!
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My god, what an awful attitude they have.  |
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"I was on the KK site for quite some time. Very little footfall compared to fab and their version of the forums had about 3 comments on per day - useless!
Always meant to go to a party but was underwhelmed with the choice of single guys on the site to accompany me.
I always intended to go to a party but they were largely centred in London, the SE and abroad - in very expensive locations. I got the distinct impression that if you weren’t a wealthy professional then you’d be looked down on.
I decided to delete my account when I attended a club in Manchester that I was a regular at - amour. The manager there said a party from killing kittens were there because they’d been thrown out of a Manchester apartment they’d booked when the management were tipped off that they were holding a swinging party. The whole party then had to decant to amours.
When I went upstairs there was a group of them in the principal playroom. When I looked in through the window it was what I’ve found at all ‘elite’ parties I’ve attended - the women were more attractive and in better shape than the men - and the men were fairly average tbh - none I’d have played with.
Generally speaking I found there were more attractive people on fab - and certainly far nicer ones.
When they came out of the playroom - without exception they totally blanked everyone outside their party. They’d even requested that the management clear the club so they could have it to themselves.
Perhaps they thought poverty or rounded bellies were catching!
My god, what an awful attitude they have. "
Tbh I can see the point in principle - a room full of people that - if you were equally wealthy and educated - you might find your social and intellectual equal and therefore feel more relaxed - and the physical barriers to membership (ie you have to submit photos and ‘someone’ has to deem you attractive enough) mean that you’re likely to find people there that are ‘your type’ on an attraction level. Ergo you’re perhaps more likely to find people to play with than at a ‘normal’ club/party
However, the longer I’m in the swinging world, the less I agree with this kind of elitism.
The club I went to most before lockdown was a club called SX in Blackpool. It’s the most inclusive club I’ve come across and everyone is welcome whatever their age, shape, size, gender, colour or sexual preferences/fetishes. I don’t always play there as I don’t always meet people I’m sexually attracted to - but I’ve never come across a club that feels more like ‘home’ to me - and to me it - and the many ‘all are welcome’ clubs like it - are what epitomises swinging.
And let’s face it - these days, with my added years and extra wobbly bits - not to mention a lowly job in retail - I’d never get through the door at a KK party anyway! |
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As an addendum - I do think sites like KK have a place - just as specific BBW or Greedy/gangbang nights do in clubs. People should always go where they feel comfortable - it’s just that for myself, KK wouldn’t be it. |
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