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"Good evening all, Just wondered if people can advise what to expect on my first visit to a swinging club. Appreciate they aren’t open at the moment but can’t wait to experience it for the first time when safe to do so. Love to hear from you D x" Thetes a great club not a million miles from you, once it's open again we'd be happy to show you around. M often gets asked to show first timers around, the staff are super, friendly and welcoming. E | |||
"Good evening all, Just wondered if people can advise what to expect on my first visit to a swinging club. Appreciate they aren’t open at the moment but can’t wait to experience it for the first time when safe to do so. Love to hear from you D x" Expect nothing! Go in with the mindset that your going to have a great social evening and make some new friends. If something happens then that’s a massive bonus to your evening Just don’t be one of the wanking dead | |||
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"The men are like vultures circling the prey lol " Haha  | |||
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"I’m in the same boat! Very interested in coming to some clubs when they’re safe to open but I’m totally new to the scene and don’t even know where to look! I’m also going to check out that documentary on channel 4, what was it called?? X" The Channel 4 programme was called Swingers. When the clubs are open again, I'm sure fab's clubs page will return. You can find a club near you, read the reviews, and decide what type appeals. They're all very different. Townhouse might be the nearest to you, and their web site should give you some idea of what they're like. There are a lot more around the north west of England. It depends how far you're willing to travel, really. Some have accommodation so you can stay overnight. I don't know if any of them are close enough to you to be useful. I love ClubF, and their hotel rooms are great, but last time I looked, Durham wasn't very near to Wales. | |||
"I love ClubF, and their hotel rooms are great, but last time I looked, Durham wasn't very near to Wales." Unfortunately not but I’d be happy to travel for experiences like this  | |||
"I love ClubF, and their hotel rooms are great, but last time I looked, Durham wasn't very near to Wales. Unfortunately not but I’d be happy to travel for experiences like this "Townhouse isn't too far from you at all and there's plenty of accommodation close by as well. Once clubs are allowed to open again, the club section here on FAB will be open as well and you can check out reviews for all the clubs that make it through this tough time. Once you find a couple of Clubs you're interested in, then check out their websites as well. Don't forget to go on a day where the event that their holding suits what you're looking for as well. Plan well and you're pretty sure to have a great night/weekend  | |||
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"Good evening all, Just wondered if people can advise what to expect on my first visit to a swinging club. Appreciate they aren’t open at the moment but can’t wait to experience it for the first time when safe to do so. Love to hear from you D x" Come back in 2022/23 | |||
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"I love ClubF, and their hotel rooms are great, but last time I looked, Durham wasn't very near to Wales. Unfortunately not but I’d be happy to travel for experiences like this "What I would suggest is be active in the forums and you will certainly make some good relationships who know the clubs mentioned. Townhouse has some fantastic reviews just in the forums so you won't need to wait until the clubs section is opened up again. Not too sure about club F as I have not seen many reviews in the forums but I'm sure there are some. May I say your pictures are absoultley stunning. | |||
" Don't walk around not talking to people while playing with your cock under the towel. We all hate the walking zombie towel wankers as they just expect sex. ...the wanking dead are a pain. Don't become one of them. " Regrettably some of them get away with it and others follow their example under the 'nothing ventured nothing gained philosophy'. I know of at least one who pushes his way to the front and gets stuck in without muttering a word. His secret weapon is his tongue and he doesn't use it to ask permission! | |||
" ..His secret weapon is his tongue and he doesn't use it to ask permission!" To be fair, he does use it to say "Thank you" afterwards, but that is with next time already in mind! | |||
"Don’t expect to get invited into any action and you won’t be disappointed. If you do manage to get involved then its a bonus." This is exactly how I approach parties | |||
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"The men are like vultures circling the prey lol " We've talked about going once they are open again. But, we are put off by comments we see such as this. Will have to see what happens when they open back up.  | |||
"The men are like vultures circling the prey lol We've talked about going once they are open again. But, we are put off by comments we see such as this. Will have to see what happens when they open back up. "You have at least a couple years to worry about it | |||
"The men are like vultures circling the prey lol We've talked about going once they are open again. But, we are put off by comments we see such as this. Will have to see what happens when they open back up. "Don’t be put off, there’s private rooms that can be locked or curtains drawn if you want privacy (certainly the clubs I’ve attended) and the majority of guys will be respectful towards you. Also pick the right night or event that’s on, so there’s couples only evenings or party nights with a guest lists that may have certain criteria to attend. The owners need repeat customers to attend so will be very attentive to your needs and ensure your night goes well  | |||
"Good evening all, Just wondered if people can advise what to expect on my first visit to a swinging club. Appreciate they aren’t open at the moment but can’t wait to experience it for the first time when safe to do so. Love to hear from you D x" “I’ll give it an hour” is pretty much what I’ve gone in with, and take it from there. You’ll get a good idea how the night is going to go after about an hour, if anyone is catching your eye, smiles being reciprocated, body language inviting you in etc. If nobody is open to engage you in conversation, and you just want to wander around and take in the sights, that’s fine, just don’t leer with your cock in your hand. Two hours of my own company is my limit, so I’ve usually gone by 11.30. I won’t visit another club as a solo male ‘off the cuff’ without some kind of pre-arranged meet inside | |||
"The men are like vultures circling the prey lol We've talked about going once they are open again. But, we are put off by comments we see such as this. Will have to see what happens when they open back up. "I sometimes think about this. We are looking forward to when we can go to a club for the first time My partner is young, attractive. Is it likely I will have to tell a few guys to back off that she/we aren't interested in? Worried I might get pissed off if I have to do it too regular haha | |||
" I sometimes think about this. We are looking forward to when we can go to a club for the first time My partner is young, attractive. Is it likely I will have to tell a few guys to back off that she/we aren't interested in? Worried I might get pissed off if I have to do it too regular haha " Having read that, I looked up your age and decided that at 31, you would be unlikely to be assumed by the drones to need others to do the job for you! One or two over the years have erroneously made that assumption concerning older men who bring younger women to parties. On one occasion a smart Alec shouted "Don't have a heart attack, Grandad". To which the girl involved immediately responded "He's got a much better cock than any of you lot" Have fun! | |||
"The men are like vultures circling the prey lol " That made me laugh so true though lol | |||
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"Does everyone really feel it will be a year or more before we see clubs open? I was thinking more the summer. If vaccinations keep up the pace I can see social distancing being relaxed pretty quickly and once the 2m rule falls away I can’t see the problem." I think you are going to be sorely disappointed if you think social distancing will be relaxed & clubs will be fully open by summer. | |||
"Does everyone really feel it will be a year or more before we see clubs open? I was thinking more the summer. If vaccinations keep up the pace I can see social distancing being relaxed pretty quickly and once the 2m rule falls away I can’t see the problem. I think you are going to be sorely disappointed if you think social distancing will be relaxed & clubs will be fully open by summer. " I wouldn’t be so sure, once the over 50s are done I think you will find the willingness of the under 50s to comply will reduce dramatically. The Government can’t continuously supply funding either and will readily bow to pressure. People of the working generations will be ready to take a chance for the sake of a normal life and with less hospital admissions due to the reduced age group I think it will become “manageable”. I would be surprised if the pubs and clubs aren’t back to a level of normality for the summer. Providing of course the vaccines do what it says on the tin. | |||
"Does everyone really feel it will be a year or more before we see clubs open? I was thinking more the summer. If vaccinations keep up the pace I can see social distancing being relaxed pretty quickly and once the 2m rule falls away I can’t see the problem. I think you are going to be sorely disappointed if you think social distancing will be relaxed & clubs will be fully open by summer. I wouldn’t be so sure, once the over 50s are done I think you will find the willingness of the under 50s to comply will reduce dramatically. The Government can’t continuously supply funding either and will readily bow to pressure. People of the working generations will be ready to take a chance for the sake of a normal life and with less hospital admissions due to the reduced age group I think it will become “manageable”. I would be surprised if the pubs and clubs aren’t back to a level of normality for the summer. Providing of course the vaccines do what it says on the tin." Pubs being open again by sumner, with a level social distancing still in place, is realistic. Sex clubs are a very different scenario though. | |||
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"Proof of vaccine. " Are vaccination centres giving out certificates? I've heard no mention of it but happy to be corrected if anyone knows better. The cynical side of me envisages a few home made certificates being presented! | |||
"Good evening all, Just wondered if people can advise what to expect on my first visit to a swinging club. Appreciate they aren’t open at the moment but can’t wait to experience it for the first time when safe to do so. Love to hear from you D x Expect nothing! Go in with the mindset that your going to have a great social evening and make some new friends. If something happens then that’s a massive bonus to your evening Just don’t be one of the wanking dead" What's a wanking dead lol ? | |||
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"Proof of vaccine. Are vaccination centres giving out certificates? I've heard no mention of it but happy to be corrected if anyone knows better. The cynical side of me envisages a few home made certificates being presented!" was just suggesting a way venues can be safe. A vaccine passport of sorts would be ideal | |||
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"When you finally get the nerve treat going to a swinging club the same as any new club or pub you may visit ,you will be given a tour and explained the rules,(keep to them)dress smart be friendly ,get chatting to people in the social areas , try and get in conversation with groups or couples , no different to pub,If you see a couple chat to both male and female , some will let you know single guys are not for them ,some will give you signals they are ,don’t go expecting to get laid , just let things flow , you may partner up with a single fem who knows , but you will get to see things as some couples enjoy being watched .you may get invited to join in ,bar and social areas good for conversation, hot tubs good for group conversation, good luck and hope you enjoy your visits" a very good analysis - it is all about being relaxed, courteous and aware | |||
"Sounds like hell, would never attempt it lol" You'd be missing out. You should try it once. You might even like it. | |||
"Good evening all, Just wondered if people can advise what to expect on my first visit to a swinging club. Appreciate they aren’t open at the moment but can’t wait to experience it for the first time when safe to do so. Love to hear from you D x" . Hi I work in club shhh u should receive a friendly welcome and no pressure wat ever club u go to hun | |||
"Proof of vaccine. Are vaccination centres giving out certificates? I've heard no mention of it but happy to be corrected if anyone knows better. Once u have had the vaccine they give u a card hun The cynical side of me envisages a few home made certificates being presented! was just suggesting a way venues can be safe. A vaccine passport of sorts would be ideal " | |||
"Good evening all, Just wondered if people can advise what to expect on my first visit to a swinging club. Appreciate they aren’t open at the moment but can’t wait to experience it for the first time when safe to do so. Love to hear from you D x" You usually always get a tour and shown to the bar
Get yourself booked to an event night (not just a normal open night).... it has guest lists, usually booked on the forums. So controls the single vs couple ratio and things
Don’t go with expectations but make an effort!
Love it and never looked back | |||
"Good evening all, Just wondered if people can advise what to expect on my first visit to a swinging club. Appreciate they aren’t open at the moment but can’t wait to experience it for the first time when safe to do so. Love to hear from you D x You usually always get a tour and shown to the bar
Get yourself booked to an event night (not just a normal open night).... it has guest lists, usually booked on the forums. So controls the single vs couple ratio and things
Don’t go with expectations but make an effort!
Love it and never looked back "And if you don’t want to go on your own, there’s lots of kik groups which go together as groups | |||
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tho to be fair I’m not one for going to pubs/clubs these days anyway....  | |||
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"Proof of vaccine. Are vaccination centres giving out certificates? I've heard no mention of it but happy to be corrected if anyone knows better. The cynical side of me envisages a few home made certificates being presented!" Cards are given out with the vaccine number with the person name so this and any other identification would prove if checked whether the individual has been done I'm sure in time businesses will be able to check by contacting if a person has been vaccinated on record... | |||
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