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Is there a swingers club you don’t have to dress down in?
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Hey guys we’re just wondering if anyone can help us, we’re hoping to visit our first swingers club together but seem a little uneasy at the fact you have to dress down straight away on arrival, is there any clubs were you can sit in smart casual wear mrs in a dress and mr in shorts and t shirt in summer for example? And then dress down when your going into the playrooms with the selected people you choose to play with?
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over a year ago
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You only have to dress down in quest if you go in the play room areas. If you are in the bar you don't need to dress down.
Decadence you don't have to dress down either as its a fully licensed bar as well and you don't need membership so you only pay entry (like you do at all clubs) |
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"Great guys! Is there any north west based what anybody knows of?x"
Townhouse.
Cupid's is generally dress down on arrival but honestly, it's not a lot different to being on the beach. Some women choose to wear babydolls, chemises, sexy dresses which are fine, or basques, corsets which cover more than lingerie. But knickers and bra is no different cover wise to a bikini. For men, they can wear shorts or boxers, so again, not a lot different to the beach. Some guys wear just a towel but that's optional. |
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By *lub playCouple
over a year ago
Blackpool, At The Crack Of Dawn!! |
"From what we are hearing they are all dress down on arrival?x"
The gound floor of our club (Club Play) where the bar,lounge and all socail areas are you can stay dressed as long as you desire. If you want to go upstairs to the play areas after the tour we provide to all new visitors you would have to dress down.
Each club is different on this with some having dress down times and some being similar to us and other being dress down on arrival. We would suggest contacting each club individually to ask this question  |
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By *amieBdMan
over a year ago
Flint |
I can highly recommend Townhouse on the Wirral, you do not have to dress down at all on the ground floor unless you wish to, if you want to go to the playrooms you can stay dressed until 11pm, if you wanted to carry on after the you would have to dress down but your free to stay dressed on the ground floor. Take a look on the website for lots of useful information.
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We was nervous about going to a dress down club but to be honest we found it better everyone’s the same from the get go and you can wander in and out of private area when ever you like we don’t have much experience we’ve only been to Cupid’s a few times but it makes for a relaxing night out |
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The Attic, Derby.
It's over two floors (massive place) but unlike most clubs, you don't have to undress to go upstairs or to the playrooms (except the naked room).
There are lots of different themed areas too - even an indoor dogging area! |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Totnes |
"We was nervous about going to a dress down club but to be honest we found it better everyone’s the same from the get go and you can wander in and out of private area when ever you like we don’t have much experience we’ve only been to Cupid’s a few times but it makes for a relaxing night out "
I was nervous the first time at chams ...just wearing a towel..but you soon feel very comfortable..I was surprised.. |
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Is that not what’s swingers club forums are for?? To find out information that we don’t know from people who have had experience? What a silly comment, why don’t you google prostitutes because you won’t be having any fun on here with your attitude  Stick to porn hub  |
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If you're nervous about dressing down I'd skip Townhouse. It's a communal changing room, which felt really odd to me after experiencing separate ladies and gents areas at Pandora's and Quest...
I ended up going to the loo to change! I'm not a prude, but I want folk to see the finished product, not the unsexy gurning and hoiking as I squish myself in!
My first few times at clubs I felt really self conscious and way too timid to just wear bra and knickers so I wore a short, silky robe - unfastened - over the top. Nobody seemed to consider that to be not dressed down.
And, for larger folk out there, Pandora's have a stash of extra large bath sheets if the towel in your locker doesn't quite work for you. Just ask! I wish more places would offer that option.
God, I miss clubs! |
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"If you're nervous about dressing down I'd skip Townhouse. It's a communal changing room, which felt really odd to me after experiencing separate ladies and gents areas at Pandora's and Quest...
I ended up going to the loo to change! I'm not a prude, but I want folk to see the finished product, not the unsexy gurning and hoiking as I squish myself in!
My first few times at clubs I felt really self conscious and way too timid to just wear bra and knickers so I wore a short, silky robe - unfastened - over the top. Nobody seemed to consider that to be not dressed down.
And, for larger folk out there, Pandora's have a stash of extra large bath sheets if the towel in your locker doesn't quite work for you. Just ask! I wish more places would offer that option.
God, I miss clubs! "
I really fancy Townhouse but the changing area you’ve mentioned has put me off a bit. I only like guys I choose to see me naked, not guys in couples who stare! I had this at The Attic and SX and really did not feel safe. |
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All the club's I've been to don't enforce dressing down until you want to go in a playroom. Check out websites for dress codes as I've been to a few places that wouldn't allow you to get in wearing shorts. |
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"If you're nervous about dressing down I'd skip Townhouse. It's a communal changing room, which felt really odd to me after experiencing separate ladies and gents areas at Pandora's and Quest...
I ended up going to the loo to change! I'm not a prude, but I want folk to see the finished product, not the unsexy gurning and hoiking as I squish myself in!
My first few times at clubs I felt really self conscious and way too timid to just wear bra and knickers so I wore a short, silky robe - unfastened - over the top. Nobody seemed to consider that to be not dressed down.
And, for larger folk out there, Pandora's have a stash of extra large bath sheets if the towel in your locker doesn't quite work for you. Just ask! I wish more places would offer that option.
God, I miss clubs!
I really fancy Townhouse but the changing area you’ve mentioned has put me off a bit. I only like guys I choose to see me naked, not guys in couples who stare! I had this at The Attic and SX and really did not feel safe. "
There are also three lockable bathrooms with mirrors. I tend to wear my dress down outfit under my dress so I can just strip off. Or use one of the bathrooms to get changed in and freshen up throughout the evening. I'm not a fan of anyone seeing me naked or seeing me faff about with stockings |
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"If you're nervous about dressing down I'd skip Townhouse. It's a communal changing room, which felt really odd to me after experiencing separate ladies and gents areas at Pandora's and Quest...
I ended up going to the loo to change! I'm not a prude, but I want folk to see the finished product, not the unsexy gurning and hoiking as I squish myself in!
My first few times at clubs I felt really self conscious and way too timid to just wear bra and knickers so I wore a short, silky robe - unfastened - over the top. Nobody seemed to consider that to be not dressed down.
And, for larger folk out there, Pandora's have a stash of extra large bath sheets if the towel in your locker doesn't quite work for you. Just ask! I wish more places would offer that option.
God, I miss clubs!
I really fancy Townhouse but the changing area you’ve mentioned has put me off a bit. I only like guys I choose to see me naked, not guys in couples who stare! I had this at The Attic and SX and really did not feel safe.
There are also three lockable bathrooms with mirrors. I tend to wear my dress down outfit under my dress so I can just strip off. Or use one of the bathrooms to get changed in and freshen up throughout the evening. I'm not a fan of anyone seeing me naked or seeing me faff about with stockings "
I’m the same and on occasions I don’t wear under my clothes what I’ll wear for dress down. Wonder why they give single guys changing rooms and not single women them? My local clubs have separate and that’s how I like it. |
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Liberty Elite has a great lounge bar that doesn’t require dress down ( although guests who have dressed down will socialise in the bar)
The play areas require you to dress down but it’s your choice of how much you reveal |
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"If you're nervous about dressing down I'd skip Townhouse. It's a communal changing room, which felt really odd to me after experiencing separate ladies and gents areas at Pandora's and Quest...
I ended up going to the loo to change! I'm not a prude, but I want folk to see the finished product, not the unsexy gurning and hoiking as I squish myself in!
My first few times at clubs I felt really self conscious and way too timid to just wear bra and knickers so I wore a short, silky robe - unfastened - over the top. Nobody seemed to consider that to be not dressed down.
And, for larger folk out there, Pandora's have a stash of extra large bath sheets if the towel in your locker doesn't quite work for you. Just ask! I wish more places would offer that option.
God, I miss clubs!
I really fancy Townhouse but the changing area you’ve mentioned has put me off a bit. I only like guys I choose to see me naked, not guys in couples who stare! I had this at The Attic and SX and really did not feel safe.
There are also three lockable bathrooms with mirrors. I tend to wear my dress down outfit under my dress so I can just strip off. Or use one of the bathrooms to get changed in and freshen up throughout the evening. I'm not a fan of anyone seeing me naked or seeing me faff about with stockings
I’m the same and on occasions I don’t wear under my clothes what I’ll wear for dress down. Wonder why they give single guys changing rooms and not single women them? My local clubs have separate and that’s how I like it. "
It's just communal at Townhouse and lockable bathrooms for those who prefer some privacy. I love dressing down to lingerie but I'm not so keen on letting anyone see me dress. Shoehorning myself into thigh high boots or a tight outfit and sorting my wedgie is very much something no one needs to see lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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At Pleasures Kent it's up to you if you want to dress down, definitely no pressure, and usually it's the ladies at about 10ish. But you want to stay fully dressed you can. That's what we love about it |
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