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We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.
If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?
Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?
Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?
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"We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.
If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?
Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?
Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?
Thanks in advance."
Your night would entail, enjoying a night out with other likeminded people and planting your seeds for future harvests. |
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"We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.
If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?
Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?
Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?
Thanks in advance.
Your night would entail, enjoying a night out with other likeminded people and planting your seeds for future harvests. "
Thanks for that! Probably a good time for club virgins like ourselves to visit then. |
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"We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.
If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?
Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?
Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?
Thanks in advance.
Your night would entail, enjoying a night out with other likeminded people and planting your seeds for future harvests.
Thanks for that! Probably a good time for club virgins like ourselves to visit then."
Perfect night out for you both. There’s a good 100+ attending at present and you’ll know half of them by the end of the night  |
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"We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.
If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?
Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?
Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?
Thanks in advance.
Your night would entail, enjoying a night out with other likeminded people and planting your seeds for future harvests.
Thanks for that! Probably a good time for club virgins like ourselves to visit then.
Perfect night out for you both. There’s a good 100+ attending at present and you’ll know half of them by the end of the night "
Sounds an ideal no pressure environment for our first time. |
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"We are heading there on 26th June.
Hopefully the restrictions are fully lifted by then and we can socialise normally!"
The noises I’ve been hearing lately make me think that further lifting is likely to be put back. |
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Looking forward to being there on the 25th even if it is to be socially distanced.
I have been to "socially distance" events of there already, on the sun deck and on a Saturday evening in the open air bar area.
Its great being with like minded people and just chilling out although I can't wait till we can do a little more.
See you soon, whatever Boris decides lol
Michael
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Your have to let us know what the new premier inn like we there on the 17th July and is it easy to let non staying guess to your room lll
"I'm there on the 18th, booked in at the new premier inn.  "
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over a year ago
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Your have to let us know what the new premier inn like we there on the 17th July and is it easy to let non staying guess to your room lll
I'm there on the 18th, booked in at the new premier inn. "
It looks alot nicer than the old one |
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over a year ago
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I actually posted this as a new topic earlier, seems like I should of posted it here.
So I've been accepted as a male member for an Xtasia membership.
It's my very first club, as I never been to one before.
As a big chunky BHM I'm quite nervous.
Will I be accepted by one and all as I'm bigger?
What sort of etiquette should I adopt when I go?
Any advice would be gladly appreciated. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I actually posted this as a new topic earlier, seems like I should of posted it here.
So I've been accepted as a male member for an Xtasia membership.
It's my very first club, as I never been to one before.
As a big chunky BHM I'm quite nervous.
Will I be accepted by one and all as I'm bigger?
What sort of etiquette should I adopt when I go?
Any advice would be gladly appreciated."
Of course you will, I'm a chonky wench and I'm accepted. To be fair, people have no choice, I just get in there.
Talk to people! Just chat, not sexual, just casual conversation.
If you're there on Friday I'm sure Paul will bring you over to myself and my friends and I can introduce you. |
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"We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.
If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?
Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?
Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?
Thanks in advance."
Let’s just say that Xtasia has managed to transform into a swinging social venue during this challenging time for our wonderful lifestyle.
Granted it’s constrained, but given the circumstances, it beats sitting in a Wetherspoons. I’m sure you’ll have a great time and it’ll be a worthwhile investment for your first time.
It’ll also add to the excitement of thinking what is this place going to be like once restrictions are lifted.
As for playing. None of this on premise at the moment, even with each other, but I’m sure the tension and frustration will be released once at the hotel.
Hot tub should be open when restrictions are lifted.
We’ve been a few times and Saturday was a cracking safe night. A couple ran a game of Play Your Cards Right, which was a fantastic add on to bring everyone together. |
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Looking forward to being there on Friday 25th even if limited to the outside area, thanks Boris, couldn't let the hotel booking go to waste. So a natter and drink with like minded people and make some new friends
Michael |
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"So I’m guessing as restrictions are still in place then no dancing will be allowed either. Hopefully there will be at least some music playing."
There’s no dancing anywhere in the whole country but what you will find is a club full of likeminded people being treated like adults enjoying each other’s company x |
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"So I’m guessing as restrictions are still in place then no dancing will be allowed either. Hopefully there will be at least some music playing.
There’s no dancing anywhere in the whole country but what you will find is a club full of likeminded people being treated like adults enjoying each other’s company x"
Thanks for the reply! Is it still couples and singles next Friday and couples only on Saturday? |
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"So I’m guessing as restrictions are still in place then no dancing will be allowed either. Hopefully there will be at least some music playing.
There’s no dancing anywhere in the whole country but what you will find is a club full of likeminded people being treated like adults enjoying each other’s company x
Thanks for the reply! Is it still couples and singles next Friday and couples only on Saturday?"
Yes it is. |
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I had the pleasure of visiting here for the first time the other week as a member. I enjoyed a few hours in the bar chatting.
Planning to go back on the 25th and may stay for the evening, although a little shy to begin with, if anyone sees me there please feel free to say hi xx |
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"Is it still couples and singles next Friday and couples only on Saturday?"
As it stands, I believe whilst Xtasia is currently providing a social only club, it is open for everyone. We’ve seen single males there on both nights. We’re not looking for single males and have had no issues. They’ve been polite and respectful.
When it finally opens in it’s full working glory, then Xtasia, coupled with Flirts, is going to give everyone with their personal preferences somewhere to go to on both Friday and Saturday.
Friday will be mixed nights at Xtasia with couples/females only in Flirts. And Saturday will flip to Couples/females only in Xtasia and mixed in Flirts.
My understanding is that couples/females do have the option to flip back and forth and enjoys both venues, but single males will be constrained to either Xtasia on Fridays, and Flirts on Saturdays.
Gives the single men a place to enjoy on a Saturday night and at least they know that, for the most part, couples that visit “their space” are most likely more approachable and looking for single men.
Whilst couples who have no interest in single men have the option of staying in “their zone” without the worry and have somewhere to go on a Friday night.
Winner winner chicken dinner for everyone. Props to Xtasia we say!  |
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"Any idea what it’ll cost us to enter as a couple next weekend? As it’s not fully open will we still need to bring id and become members?"
With Xtasia being a private members club you will need to become a member and we think a couples lifetime membership fee is a one off payment of £20. Entry to the club is currently free for members.
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Any idea what it’ll cost us to enter as a couple next weekend? As it’s not fully open will we still need to bring id and become members?
With Xtasia being a private members club you will need to become a member and we think a couples lifetime membership fee is a one off payment of £20. Entry to the club is currently free for members.
Hope this helps "
They charged £5 for entry on Friday, they didn't charge 2 weeks ago though. I think Paul introduced a charge, completely reasonable considering the amount if must cost to open. |
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"Is it still couples and singles next Friday and couples only on Saturday?
As it stands, I believe whilst Xtasia is currently providing a social only club, it is open for everyone. We’ve seen single males there on both nights. We’re not looking for single males and have had no issues. They’ve been polite and respectful.
When it finally opens in it’s full working glory, then Xtasia, coupled with Flirts, is going to give everyone with their personal preferences somewhere to go to on both Friday and Saturday.
Friday will be mixed nights at Xtasia with couples/females only in Flirts. And Saturday will flip to Couples/females only in Xtasia and mixed in Flirts.
My understanding is that couples/females do have the option to flip back and forth and enjoys both venues, but single males will be constrained to either Xtasia on Fridays, and Flirts on Saturdays.
Gives the single men a place to enjoy on a Saturday night and at least they know that, for the most part, couples that visit “their space” are most likely more approachable and looking for single men.
Whilst couples who have no interest in single men have the option of staying in “their zone” without the worry and have somewhere to go on a Friday night.
Winner winner chicken dinner for everyone. Props to Xtasia we say! "
Totally agree everyone's a winner and big thanks for keeping the club open as best as possible considering the restrictions while still forging ahead with some great improvements and refurbishments.
Looking forward to seeing everyone on Friday
Michael |
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"Can anyone tell me if there are any good bars or hotels in close proximity to this club?
They have rooms on site
Thanks for that.
How about any bars we could try out prior to arrival?"
The hotel onsite is called Flirts and they have a bar. We prefer to drink in there before hand because we know everyone else in there are attending the club that evening. It’s a cool meeting place |
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"Can anyone tell me if there are any good bars or hotels in close proximity to this club?
They have rooms on site
Thanks for that.
How about any bars we could try out prior to arrival?
The hotel onsite is called Flirts and they have a bar. We prefer to drink in there before hand because we know everyone else in there are attending the club that evening. It’s a cool meeting place "
One last question. Any car parking close by? TIA. |
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"Can anyone tell me if there are any good bars or hotels in close proximity to this club?
They have rooms on site
Thanks for that.
How about any bars we could try out prior to arrival?
The hotel onsite is called Flirts and they have a bar. We prefer to drink in there before hand because we know everyone else in there are attending the club that evening. It’s a cool meeting place
One last question. Any car parking close by? TIA."
Yep loads. Find a spot on the road outside (2 hour max) and pop into Flirts and they’ll point out the best places to park for longer stay. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm there on the 18th, booked in at the new premier inn. where is the new premier Inn ? "
Congregation way, about 5 minutes from the club by car. It's really nice, much nicer than the one next door was. |
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The last Friday of the month. I’m looking forward to going to Xtasia tonight. Haven’t had a drink in flirts yet. So might start off there.
Last week was my first time and even with restrictions, it was a fun night if socialising |
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"We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.
If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?
Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?
Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?
Thanks in advance.
Your night would entail, enjoying a night out with other likeminded people and planting your seeds for future harvests. "
We are going up tomorrow, we went a few weeks ago and we had a great laugh, play wasn't on the cards so there was no expectations we just met some real nice people things will return soon x |
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"Any idea what xtasia is like on a Saturday for a new member?
I may be wrong but i think Saturdays are for couples and women only ?"
Oh OK then... Thanks for your advice. I've just posted a new thread about it, so hopefully I'll get some clarity. Thank you for the heads up.
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"Any idea what xtasia is like on a Saturday for a new member?
I may be wrong but i think Saturdays are for couples and women only ?"
Single guys allowed in Flirts on a Saturday, but not in the club.
Saturdays in the club are couples and single females only. |
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