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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, I’ve been on this site for quite a while and had an amazing meet with a gorgeous couple. I even went back another time for more ?? I’ve also met up with a man on here.
I really want to try a club but being a single woman I’m too nervous to go on my own as I really don’t know what to expect. Plus I’m a very curvy girl. Have you any advice for me please? x |
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Do it.
There is plenty of information about clubs in here, read aboutb them, see what ones take your fancy. They have quieter days/nights if you'd prefer to dip your toes in before going on a weekend.
I dreaded my first time and I went with people I knew from the chat rooms, I soon relaxed and started to go on my own.
I always say clubs are like nightclubs but you don't have to take anyone home for some fun. Also every club I've been to the staff are brilliant and will look after you. |
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Hi
Amongst other good things, clubs are not judge mental. You can be any sex, colour, race, size, age, shape etc etc. no one judges. We may not be everyone’s preference, and a polite no thank you is fine. Yes you do get the odd idiot, like everything in life, clubs are not exempt from their participation. They do however tend to be found out and either refused access and or thrown out!
Most clubs in the UK offer a relaxing atmosphere, no pressure no commingle to to participate. Majority will offer male/females who are happy to chat without expectations. And if hands do wonder…again “no thank you” is usually enough.
Go along, and please don’t worry. It’s actually a lot less daunting once your past the entrance, than you may think. The club will or should know your new, and will keep an eye out.
Check the club reviews and choose one that your comfortable with. Sometimes there’s a roll call to see who may also be attending and you can always ask someone on there if you still feel a little unsure.
Have fun, relax and enjoy. No means no… and yes means yes
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Now might be a good time to try.
Most clubs seem to be social only, so you can go along, see what the club is like, have a drink and socialise without the extra nervousness brought on by the play aspect.
You might even make some friends there that can guide you and you can meet up with properly when they fully return to normal so you don't feel alone. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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The thought is far more daunting than the reality in my experience.
People are sociable and friendly, pick a club or event that sounds your likely to be comfortable with.
The club will look after you show you round etc and I'm sure folks will say hello.
You will enjoy it what ever ...the social is always fun.
Go for it x |
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I hope you find the couple to meet you..clubs can be daunting but there is always someone there that will show you around and keep an eye on you until you feel comfortable. I do exactly that at the gatehouse in Bolton x |
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Even as a couple we were bricking it heading to a club for the first time. We sat in the car park for 10 minutes before we went in. Within 15 mins we had found our new favourite place.
Clubs and their staff (especially Chams in our opinion) are fantastic at looking after newbies and especially single women!
Take the plunge - you won't regret it |
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"Hi all, I’ve been on this site for quite a while and had an amazing meet with a gorgeous couple. I even went back another time for more ?? I’ve also met up with a man on here.
I really want to try a club but being a single woman I’m too nervous to go on my own as I really don’t know what to expect. Plus I’m a very curvy girl. Have you any advice for me please? x"
I'm always open to advice. Feel free to pm me if u like non pressure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, I’ve been on this site for quite a while and had an amazing meet with a gorgeous couple. I even went back another time for more ?? I’ve also met up with a man on here.
I really want to try a club but being a single woman I’m too nervous to go on my own as I really don’t know what to expect. Plus I’m a very curvy girl. Have you any advice for me please? x"
I'm a seasoned club goer and have taken a couple of people to a club for the first time and they've loved it.
Due to covid it's social only too so nows the best time. Easier said than done but don't be worried by it!
If you ever want a buddy to go with, drop me a message - I'd be more than happy to be your wing woman! |
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Like the other responses in here - just do it. Sure, you will feel nervous before going in, I think we all do. Only natural really. Maybe try a couples evening / event first as that might be a gentler way in or take up the offers from others to go with you. I've only been to a few but generally the club staff will look after you especially if you are a first timer and there are plenty of decent people in the clubs who will look out for you and help you get relaxed. You are in control of what you do and there's nothing wrong with just relaxing and observing for the night. There will be people to chat to. And don't worry about size and shape either. There are all sorts at the clubs. You will fit right in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m glad you posted this as I’ve been thinking about it myself, but the idea of going alone seemed too daunting. Will definitely look into it further though as I need a good night out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, I’ve been on this site for quite a while and had an amazing meet with a gorgeous couple. I even went back another time for more ?? I’ve also met up with a man on here.
I really want to try a club but being a single woman I’m too nervous to go on my own as I really don’t know what to expect. Plus I’m a very curvy girl. Have you any advice for me please? x"
u will be fine u are very beautiful woman xx |
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