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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can’t sing the praises of this place enough, amazing atmosphere everyone I met was really friendly and accommodating to a first timer. Perfect place to unwind, aswell as meet and chat to wonderfully kinky people.
If we met on Saturday drop me a message !  |
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It's certainly got it's good points like the indoor pool, but we feel it's too small so people are just too close. We went for a swim and a guy literally pulled up a chair and watched. That's really not good. At least with somewhere like Eureka, which is very close by, there is quite a lot of space, and people who are pervy are feel like they are a bit further away. |
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By *arleysarCouple
over a year ago
Redhill/Reigate |
Yes it can be a bit like that if I go for a shower within a couple of minutes there will be 2 men sometimes erect Friday evening is couples only much nicer atmosphere |
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We love Silverleighs  you do get the odd idiot who act like they have never seen a naked woman befor but most people there just go to relax. We have never been at the weekend we visit during the week when we can get time off work. |
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By *g1979Man
over a year ago
bexley |
We only go on a Friday night now due to the wanking dead who follow women about.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We really enjoy the place, more so during the winter for a nice relaxing sauna and steam.
Prefer more outdoor space during the summer
Never had a problem with single guys there but we’re good at using our words. |
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By *aveonMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
Must admit - as a single guy who loves to spend time here even I find it off putting by the fact that some guys just can’t put a bit of self control in place - shame as it spoils it for those of us who like to be friendly and chat, and if it leads to fun then that is great as well, but it’s really hard to even get started as all the women and couples are almost on defence mode at the start - at least that’s my view and feeling ? |
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The worst ones are the ones that try to more or less sit on your lap in the hot tubs |
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By *arleysarCouple
over a year ago
Redhill/Reigate |
All said it's a great little club Friday night gets better every time we go as we prefer to be naked in a club as we enjoy spontaneous fun |
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"All said it's a great little club Friday night gets better every time we go as we prefer to be naked in a club as we enjoy spontaneous fun "
We love it as well x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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May pop along this afternoon. |
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By *easyMan
over a year ago
Wellingborough (New Here) |
Thinking about coming here for a few hours until 4 |
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We do like Silverleigh for it indoor pool, steam room and tub, always friendly people there , and when we’ve had ‘eager ‘Trevor’s’ aka single guys, a polite conversation with a no always works., main building does need a bit of a freshen up, but on the whole , well worth a visit . |
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By *arickMan
over a year ago
Eastbourne |
"We do like Silverleigh for it indoor pool, steam room and tub, always friendly people there , and when we’ve had ‘eager ‘Trevor’s’ aka single guys, a polite conversation with a no always works., main building does need a bit of a freshen up, but on the whole , well worth a visit . "
Haven't been to Silverleigh for such a long time, pretty sure the three of us would get on well x |
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I haven't been for years now, only ever went once. There was a very strange vibe there with a couple of old guys sitting by the pool and basically staring at everyone walking past, they didnt move all day to use any of the facilities.
I then got groped in the hot tub by some guy who mistook polite conversation for an invite to grab my plums!
I should give it a second try next time I am down there, hell, those old weirdos must be dead by now anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't been for years now, only ever went once. There was a very strange vibe there with a couple of old guys sitting by the pool and basically staring at everyone walking past, they didnt move all day to use any of the facilities.
I then got groped in the hot tub by some guy who mistook polite conversation for an invite to grab my plums!
I should give it a second try next time I am down there, hell, those old weirdos must be dead by now anyway "
Sounds as though you had a bad day.
Any naturist venue can attract some unsavoury elements at times.
We regularly visit Silverliegh and have had some lovely afternoons and only a very few unfavourable moments. |
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I have regular to silver Leigh for 12 years some greats evenings there
In my opinion Friday nights are the best to go
It’s dated but do have a very nice vibe |
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Hi x is anyone visiting Silverleigh on Friday during the day? |
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When we went it felt like we were in a old people’s home, had a room booked but ended leaving after about 2 hours as just found it a bit weird, especially the plastic garden chairs in the lounge lol |
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Looking to while away an afternoon on Thursday. Is silverleigh a good option or wilbi be billy no mates? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We went this afternoon and it was packed.
Never seen it so busy.
Nice crowd too. |
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"We went this afternoon and it was packed.
Never seen it so busy.
Nice crowd too. "
Sounds lovely hope you missed the worst if the rain. Hopefully Thursday will be ok for a nice chill and chat session. Torn between Silverleigh and Kestrels |
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Great to hear Silverleigh is busy I have always enjoyed the simplicity of it and relaxing nature
Never the poshest but clean and staff are helpful
J |
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Any couples going tonight couples only evening |
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And females fancy going to silverleigh as a couple tonight? Can meet outside venue |
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What’s it like on a Monday night when women go free ?
Me and FWB thinking of going on Monday. |
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"What’s it like on a Monday night when women go free ?
Me and FWB thinking of going on Monday. "
We went on Monday this week and it was quite busy. Quite a lot of ladies for a change. Usually when we’ve been on a Monday previously we’d say it’s much more single men hoping to find single ladies. X |
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Cheers.
We’re definitely going this Monday. |
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Shame that it seems single guys are not really wanted anywhere bet if you was all honest most of you couple's would rather have n meet other couples! |
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"Shame that it seems single guys are not really wanted anywhere bet if you was all honest most of you couple's would rather have n meet other couples!"
There's plenty of couples that want to meet single guys, we're a prime example! |
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"Shame that it seems single guys are not really wanted anywhere bet if you was all honest most of you couple's would rather have n meet other couples!
There's plenty of couples that want to meet single guys, we're a prime example!"
nice to see .just seems single guys get a bad rep because of a few idiots. Clubs don't work for me unless I do a 60+ mile round trip. |
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Hi! I have a question about Silverleighs so I thought I would try here rather than start a new post...
Are there playrooms? (lockable or otherwise) or does play take place in the main areas? Looking to attend on a Saturday evening.
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Hi! I have a question about Silverleighs so I thought I would try here rather than start a new post...
Are there playrooms? (lockable or otherwise) or does play take place in the main areas? Looking to attend on a Saturday evening.
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There are a couple of “rest rooms” but they’re not lockable.
It’s a lovely place with some friendly people and nice facilities.
It’s definitely more geared to naturism than swinging although the owner is tolerant. |
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Going this afternoon, we’re arriving about 4-30pm.
Bet the pool is popular in this heat. |
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By *g1979Man 48 weeks ago
bexley |
Does anyone know if single women are allowed on couples night on a Friday?
I get different answers from staff. I'm guessing it depends who is working the night. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Was considering a first visit to Silverleigh today for some outdoor downtime, and then the heaven's opened... |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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What are the do's and don'ts in the pool jacuzzis and sauna |
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"What are the do's and don'ts in the pool jacuzzis and sauna"
It’s a naturist spa not a swingers club. So no open play at all. They have rest rooms for fun. Or you can book yourself one of their hotel rooms. |
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By *ion69Man 43 weeks ago
london |
What’s the busiest days, anyone know? |
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"What are the do's and don'ts in the pool jacuzzis and sauna
It’s a naturist spa not a swingers club. So no open play at all. They have rest rooms for fun. Or you can book yourself one of their hotel rooms. "
Is there no play in the TV room any more? I had a few good afternoons in there, albeit pre-Covid |
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Is there no play in the TV room any more? I had a few good afternoons in there, albeit pre-Covid"
They don’t show porn on the tv anymore which is a shame but you can still play in there. |
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Is there no play in the TV room any more? I had a few good afternoons in there, albeit pre-Covid
They don’t show porn on the tv anymore which is a shame but you can still play in there. "
 I'll have to go back soon. |
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just had a lovely day with a female freind
had a couple of idiots but sharp words sufficed
no play seen but it is mainly a naturist
everybody was welcoming |
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"just had a lovely day with a female freind
had a couple of idiots but sharp words sufficed
no play seen but it is mainly a naturist
everybody was welcoming "
Hello Gez,
I met you two later in that day at Silverleigh, get in contact when you can
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Going next Wednesday with my lady friend.
Always look forward to a visit. |
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hi
we are not swingers their but my freind is huggy and liked the attention as long as boundries where in place
yes i know she is a tease  |
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Are Sundays still fairly quiet.
Girlfriend and I not been for a while but considering it.
Don’t want to go when it’s too busy. |
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By *aveonMan 18 weeks ago
Dartford |
I’ve not been for ages now - too many men chasing too few women, and felt like I was the only one who didn’t know anyone
Do like the place and would go but time has also been the challenge
Would love to spend a Sunday there … when you thinking of going ? |
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Went Friday evening with my mate couples only wow lots of couples and plenty of action going on massages to lol |
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By *ony1111Man 18 weeks ago
Hertfordshire |
Ive been a regular at the silverleigh for a fre years now and more people on here should come and check it out, it’s a lovely place, decent facilities, nice warm swimming pool, a nice relaxed atmosphere, nice staff, weekends have been getting busier lately too and everyone’s always friendly |
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"I’ve not been for ages now - too many men chasing too few women, and felt like I was the only one who didn’t know anyone
Do like the place and would go but time has also been the challenge
Would love to spend a Sunday there … when you thinking of going ?"
What about going for a nice steam, sauna swim and a general relaxing afternoon rather than chasing the few women?
It’s a nice place. |
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Golden rules: go there to enjoy the facilities and arrive with no expectations. |
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as above i love it been about 10 times now |
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"Golden rules: go there to enjoy the facilities and arrive with no expectations."
Definitely enjoy yourself and the facilities and be friendly and your be surprised |
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By *aveonMan 18 weeks ago
Dartford |
"I’ve not been for ages now - too many men chasing too few women, and felt like I was the only one who didn’t know anyone
Do like the place and would go but time has also been the challenge
Would love to spend a Sunday there … when you thinking of going ?
What about going for a nice steam, sauna swim and a general relaxing afternoon rather than chasing the few women?
It’s a nice place. "
I do agree, and didn’t mean that is the prime reason for going, I guess what I was trying to get across is that I find it takes away from that relaxing vibe as a single guy, where some are just on the defensive as soon as you get near them to chat
I’m not that sort of person who wants to be a pest, in anyplace, even here online
And if you do meet some people and have fun as well that is the added bonus
So I totally agree, go for the naturist facilities and enjoy the place, which is how I view Silverleigh |
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The problem is it can’t decide if it’s a naturist place or a swingers place |
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"I’ve not been for ages now - too many men chasing too few women, and felt like I was the only one who didn’t know anyone
Do like the place and would go but time has also been the challenge
Would love to spend a Sunday there … when you thinking of going ?
What about going for a nice steam, sauna swim and a general relaxing afternoon rather than chasing the few women?
It’s a nice place.
I do agree, and didn’t mean that is the prime reason for going, I guess what I was trying to get across is that I find it takes away from that relaxing vibe as a single guy, where some are just on the defensive as soon as you get near them to chat
I’m not that sort of person who wants to be a pest, in anyplace, even here online
And if you do meet some people and have fun as well that is the added bonus
So I totally agree, go for the naturist facilities and enjoy the place, which is how I view Silverleigh "
My apologies.
I misunderstood your post and intent. |
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By *ony1111Man 18 weeks ago
Hertfordshire |
"The problem is it can’t decide if it’s a naturist place or a swingers place "
That is a very good point, I love the place and go all the time, but that is the case so you get people going with different expectations |
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Anyone going today?
I'm tempted...  |
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I went a few weeks ago on a Tuesday & again on a Wednesday no woman at all  lots a gay action if thats your thing but i won't be going back |
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"I went a few weeks ago on a Tuesday & again on a Wednesday no woman at all lots a gay action if thats your thing but i won't be going back"
Nah, pussy is my thing!
Fingers crossed there are some women or couples in today needing sone cock! |
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Well that was fun.
Played with two horny couples |
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By *omNMan 15 weeks ago
london |
Yesterday evening was fun indeed! My first time around, and it was great to see that everyone is very relaxed!
Going again today   |
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Looking at the website women are free mondays & thursdays so i will try on a Monday. Is it a gay spa on the other days? |
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I'm off to Silverleigh tomorrow. Hope I have a relaxing but fun day. |
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Lingerie/Underwear night on Saturday for those who are new to naturism and want to be introduced to it gently .
Can't use the facilities with it on, so you'd have to brave it, but at least you don't have to strip naked immediately and can get yourself comfortable.
I'm excited. I love lingerie, so dressing up for an hour or two before I get in the jacuzzi will be fun |
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Anyone going to the valentine party on Monday 12th? |
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By *omNMan 15 weeks ago
london |
"Lingerie/Underwear night on Saturday for those who are new to naturism and want to be introduced to it gently .
Can't use the facilities with it on, so you'd have to brave it, but at least you don't have to strip naked immediately and can get yourself comfortable.
I'm excited. I love lingerie, so dressing up for an hour or two before I get in the jacuzzi will be fun "
That’s naughty!  |
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"Lingerie/Underwear night on Saturday for those who are new to naturism and want to be introduced to it gently .
Can't use the facilities with it on, so you'd have to brave it, but at least you don't have to strip naked immediately and can get yourself comfortable.
I'm excited. I love lingerie, so dressing up for an hour or two before I get in the jacuzzi will be fun
That’s naughty! "
I won't actually wear it in the jacuzzi lol, that's not allowed |
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By *omNMan 15 weeks ago
london |
"Lingerie/Underwear night on Saturday for those who are new to naturism and want to be introduced to it gently .
Can't use the facilities with it on, so you'd have to brave it, but at least you don't have to strip naked immediately and can get yourself comfortable.
I'm excited. I love lingerie, so dressing up for an hour or two before I get in the jacuzzi will be fun
That’s naughty!
I won't actually wear it in the jacuzzi lol, that's not allowed "
I am sure you will be stripped, slowly, before Delicious |
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"Lingerie/Underwear night on Saturday for those who are new to naturism and want to be introduced to it gently .
Can't use the facilities with it on, so you'd have to brave it, but at least you don't have to strip naked immediately and can get yourself comfortable.
I'm excited. I love lingerie, so dressing up for an hour or two before I get in the jacuzzi will be fun
That’s naughty!
I won't actually wear it in the jacuzzi lol, that's not allowed
I am sure you will be stripped, slowly, before Delicious "
Hope so. Love a guy removing my lingerie. |
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I was going to have a massage on my last visit, the new blonde massuse looks hot AF, but ended up playing with two couples. 
Shouldn't really complain, the first pair were an awesome fuck! And she came hard.
Shame there's no porn in the tv room now though. |
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"I went a few weeks ago on a Tuesday & again on a Wednesday no woman at all lots a gay action if thats your thing but i won't be going back"
We're a m/f couple who regularly attend Silverleigh. We're not into gay stuff (although we're not condemning it, it just isn't for us, so don't start, anybody)
In all the years we've been going, we've never encountered any gay 'action'. Sure there must be gay men who go there, but it certainly has no gay vibe about it as far as we are concerned.
We don't often venture into the 3 side rooms so maybe there's a lot we don't see, but in the main areas, it's a lot of single males and a fair few couples every time we go.
We love going there and will be back as soon as the sun makes an appearance! |
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i wouldnt mind going on monday,looks like a fun evening |
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"I went a few weeks ago on a Tuesday & again on a Wednesday no woman at all lots a gay action if thats your thing but i won't be going back
We're a m/f couple who regularly attend Silverleigh. We're not into gay stuff (although we're not condemning it, it just isn't for us, so don't start, anybody)
In all the years we've been going, we've never encountered any gay 'action'. Sure there must be gay men who go there, but it certainly has no gay vibe about it as far as we are concerned.
We don't often venture into the 3 side rooms so maybe there's a lot we don't see, but in the main areas, it's a lot of single males and a fair few couples every time we go.
We love going there and will be back as soon as the sun makes an appearance!"
I go regularly also and don't see any "gay action". |
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"I went a few weeks ago on a Tuesday & again on a Wednesday no woman at all lots a gay action if thats your thing but i won't be going back"
are you sure you went to silver mate or are you a troll |
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"I went a few weeks ago on a Tuesday & again on a Wednesday no woman at all lots a gay action if thats your thing but i won't be going back
are you sure you went to silver mate or are you a troll"
Its was definitely Sliverleighs (next to Brans Hatch) there are 3 relaxation rooms in Silverleighs when i took a look down in that area there was a man in the smaller middle room laying on the massage table he had 3 or 4 other men by the door / in the room all playing. Don't call me a troll, hoe is it trolling asking if i went on the wrong day? |
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been their loads never seen any men getting it on but its a free world
always been ladies about but most are just chilling as its naturist rather than swing |
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Same for us, been going on and off for a few years and never seen any gay action. Not that it would bother us in any way. |
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Same as any place like this, there's quite often guy on guy action.
Not my thing, but I have been countless times to Silverleigh and there's plenty of that of you want it in the steam room or three 'relaxation rooms', but the public stuff is usually straight. |
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"Same as any place like this, there's quite often guy on guy action.
Not my thing, but I have been countless times to Silverleigh and there's plenty of that of you want it in the steam room or three 'relaxation rooms', but the public stuff is usually straight."
There’s no ‘public stuff’ going on, it’s a Naturist spa. We’ve never seen any public play of any discription. |
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We attend regularly and have never seen any “gay action” in public or otherwise.
Any play is restricted to the rest rooms. |
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By *omNMan 13 weeks ago
london |
Apparently today there is an event happening at Silver.. Valentine’s day so expected to see many people going + women have free entry.
Bit discriminating the latter bit, however, the hope is to create a balance in the people attending Silver weekly. |
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Worth mentioning that ladies are always free on Mondays and Thursdays currently.
Couples just pay for the gents entry. |
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By *omNMan 13 weeks ago
london |
"Worth mentioning that ladies are always free on Mondays and Thursdays currently.
Couples just pay for the gents entry. "
Great - that should allow more great people to join this community.
Going tonight? Have a great time then! |
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Just back from the party.
My eyes are stinging. Don't usually have this after visiting silverleigh. Have they changed the chlorine mix in the pool? |
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Popping along tomorrow afternoon for a nice sauna and a massage. |
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"We attend regularly and have never seen any “gay action” in public or otherwise.
Any play is restricted to the rest rooms. "
Not 100% true we have played in the steam room a few times |
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"We attend regularly and have never seen any “gay action” in public or otherwise.
Any play is restricted to the rest rooms.
Not 100% true we have played in the steam room a few times "
To be fair, what happens in the steam room… |
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Going Monday afternoon for some relaxation |
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Had my first visit today, what an amazing place, I absolutely loved it. Lovely people, lovely club and the staff were superb.
Yes it’s small and dated but this is its charm. Being a single guy I often get put into the bracket with the moronic men who spoil experiences for everyone when I’ve been to other clubs but not Silverleigh. Everyone was welcoming, smiling and accepting of me which is very different to any other experience I’ve had.
Can’t wait to head back tomorrow. |
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By *aveonMan 12 weeks ago
Dartford |
That’s really positive to hear - be good to see how you find Monday |
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"Had my first visit today, what an amazing place, I absolutely loved it. Lovely people, lovely club and the staff were superb.
Yes it’s small and dated but this is its charm. Being a single guy I often get put into the bracket with the moronic men who spoil experiences for everyone when I’ve been to other clubs but not Silverleigh. Everyone was welcoming, smiling and accepting of me which is very different to any other experience I’ve had.
Can’t wait to head back tomorrow. "
It really is a charming place and we enjoy a relaxing visit quite frequently.
Glad that you enjoyed yourself too. |
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I might head along tomorrow and try it out! |
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Anyone planning a March visit? Would be our first time |
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Anyone heading there Thursday 21st Feb? |
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May be popping in next week. What is the best day to go? |
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Think I'm going on Thursday 22nd. |
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We have only ever been to clover spa, which is definitely a naturists place, a very good one too. I’m getting the vibe there is a lot more fun at silverleigh, is it a sex club or are people just seeing the odd bit of fun happening, do they actively encourage sexual activity and supply protection? |
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"We have only ever been to clover spa, which is definitely a naturists place, a very good one too. I’m getting the vibe there is a lot more fun at silverleigh, is it a sex club or are people just seeing the odd bit of fun happening, do they actively encourage sexual activity and supply protection? "
No it's not a sex club at all. It is a naturist spa but there are "rest rooms" you can use to play. No sexual activity in public and it is not encouraged. |
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"We have only ever been to clover spa, which is definitely a naturists place, a very good one too. I’m getting the vibe there is a lot more fun at silverleigh, is it a sex club or are people just seeing the odd bit of fun happening, do they actively encourage sexual activity and supply protection?
No it's not a sex club at all. It is a naturist spa but there are "rest rooms" you can use to play. No sexual activity in public and it is not encouraged. "
In our experience it's just a place with a complete identity problem. 80%+ of the clientele are swingers. No open play allowed but there's plenty of action in the relaxation rooms (and every other hidden corner). When we were shown around by staff we were basically told that these are the relaxation rooms for sex. We are naturist, we are swingers. So although we went there with more of a vanilla hat on it obviously didn't bother us and we meet a couple of nice couples. However we were hit on by a few single guys, genrally tentatively and respectfully on the whole. But more times than we wanted as we'd just gone to chill and spa, not looking for that. So it was mildly annoying because naturally they assumed we'd come for that. It's definitely more of a swingers place than a vanilla naturist Spa. And its best to know what your getting into first before going. I bet there's been a few upset vanilla naturist over the years. However when so many of your clientèle are swingers you have to keep the pineapple pound coming in. Which I understand. However its confused identity could be a problem to some. But granted you will get told off if you do something sexual in the open if seen.
We tried clover spa the other week. It was just the relaxing vanilla naturist Spa break we were looking for. It's lovely, we had a lovely stay (sadly lacks a swimming IMO). Had a great time and totally not a place for any funny business just to make clear. We actually meet another couple who were swingers there and we know others who've been. But that's irrelevant because it's not a place to go for that and I have no doubt you'll be out on your ear if you do just like you would in any textile vanilla spa. |
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"We have only ever been to clover spa, which is definitely a naturists place, a very good one too. I’m getting the vibe there is a lot more fun at silverleigh, is it a sex club or are people just seeing the odd bit of fun happening, do they actively encourage sexual activity and supply protection?
No it's not a sex club at all. It is a naturist spa but there are "rest rooms" you can use to play. No sexual activity in public and it is not encouraged. "
Do you have people constantly trying to get you to go to the rest rooms? Or is it a nice chilled vibe? |
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"We have only ever been to clover spa, which is definitely a naturists place, a very good one too. I’m getting the vibe there is a lot more fun at silverleigh, is it a sex club or are people just seeing the odd bit of fun happening, do they actively encourage sexual activity and supply protection?
No it's not a sex club at all. It is a naturist spa but there are "rest rooms" you can use to play. No sexual activity in public and it is not encouraged.
Do you have people constantly trying to get you to go to the rest rooms? Or is it a nice chilled vibe? "
We thought it was fairly chilled as in no one trying to drag you off to a room per se. I think because officially its not a sex environment and some people there are vanilla naturist. So people tend to be tentative with their advances. But people will make advances and pretty much every guy we talked to at some point tried to gauge if we were swinger and up for it with them. Especially every guy who joined us in the hot tub. Which obviously doesn't mean their bad guys, met some nice and interesting people there. Just that most of them are potentially looking for sex and will at some point try it on. To be fair you can't blame them because swinging is very preverlent there and naturally they are in the right place for it potentially.
BTW I'm not trying to be critical of the place, just saying the situation in there that we found. Which of course for many of us is not a problem at all and maybe a big plus but it helps to know. |
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Was really chilled when I went a few weeks back |
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Do you have people constantly trying to get you to go to the rest rooms? Or is it a nice chilled vibe? "
No, but there will be people constantly hoping you will go to the rest rooms and leave the door open! |
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In such mixed minds which one to go to lol, although I will definitely give this consideration. We would probably go in the daytime so imagine it wouldn’t be that busy |
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"Is anyone going this Saturday?"
Saturdays are usually very quiet |
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Ahhh it was either there or one of the clubs. Which would be best? |
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"Ahhh it was either there or one of the clubs. Which would be best?"
If you’re looking for a venue that encourages play then I’d suggest on of the clubs instead. |
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"Ahhh it was either there or one of the clubs. Which would be best?"
In Kent it would be Pleasures on a Saturday for couples and females only. |
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"Any old men going tonight?"
Wish I was (going rather than old, but no choice on the latter) x |
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By *omeoplaysMan 11 weeks ago
London / Hertfordshire |
Thinking of going today…. Does Sundays have a good turn out or Isit a quiet day? |
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Super tempted by a Monday or Thursday afternoon at Silverleigh before long. Are these two days well attended usually? Thanks for any insight everyone x |
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I'm going on Monday and Tuesday. Monday tends to the the busier day. Thursday is hit and miss. |
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"Super tempted by a Monday or Thursday afternoon at Silverleigh before long. Are these two days well attended usually? Thanks for any insight everyone x "
Women get in free on Mondays and Thursdays. But a lot depends on why they want to take advantage of that concession.
There you are, you did ask for an insightful answer and you got one based on my personal observation! |
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Went to Silverleigh for the first time today, Sunday. Because I was in the area. It was a bit quiet but found it to be friendly and relaxing. I liked the old school feel about it. Will return when the warmer weather arrives for nice outside sunbathing |
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will be down monday 4th with freinds do say hello |
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By *omeoplaysMan 10 weeks ago
London / Hertfordshire |
Is Sundays at silverleighs any good |
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It’s very quiet here this afternoon.
Very relaxing though and the steam and sauna are great. |
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"It’s very quiet here this afternoon.
Very relaxing though and the steam and sauna are great. "
Staying for long? Very tempted to get down early evening |
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nice n quiet but freindly peeps
today tues |
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Staying there on Wednesday and Thursday night. Anyone else going. Never been so don't know what to expect |
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Quite busy in here today (Monday) but very relaxing. |
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"nice n quiet but freindly peeps
today tues"
I might not come tomorrow (tues) then, if isn't busy!
Would be interesting to meet a time traveller, though!
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hi browning
also ime not really a time traveler just get days muddled lol
had a fantastic visit yesterday monday the 4th and met loads of lovely people |
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I'm thinking of popping along to Silverleigh tomorrow afternoon. Is it busy on a Wednesday or will it be good for some peace and quiet? |
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"I'm thinking of popping along to Silverleigh tomorrow afternoon. Is it busy on a Wednesday or will it be good for some peace and quiet?"
It will be quiet. |
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Thanks, that could be what I'm looking for. |
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Went last night and it was dead. Pointless |
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"Went last night and it was dead. Pointless "
Its busy on Monday & Thursdays during the day as it free for women. Friday night is really good its couples only well worth a trip |
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"Went last night and it was dead. Pointless "
Is it really pointless to get a nice relaxing steam and a sauna?
Talk about expectations. |
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By *omNMan 10 weeks ago
london |
"Went last night and it was dead. Pointless
Is it really pointless to get a nice relaxing steam and a sauna?
Talk about expectations. "
Touché! That is what I am paying the entry for. To enjoy the facilities and if play comes along, that’s a bonus. If not, just relax your time |
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"Went last night and it was dead. Pointless
Is it really pointless to get a nice relaxing steam and a sauna?
Talk about expectations. "
Great points well made.
I’m honestly fed up of people asking is it busy this day or that day. If you want guaranteed play.. go elsewhere!
Go enjoy the facilities…. Remember folks it’s primarily a naturist spa. Go relax without expectations. |
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"Went last night and it was dead. Pointless
Is it really pointless to get a nice relaxing steam and a sauna?
Talk about expectations.
Great points well made.
I’m honestly fed up of people asking is it busy this day or that day. If you want guaranteed play.. go elsewhere!
Go enjoy the facilities…. Remember folks it’s primarily a naturist spa. Go relax without expectations. "
How do u know people are asking just for the play part?
Assumptions... |
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How do u know people are asking just for the play part?
Assumptions..."
...The balance of probability, coupled with the historical observed behaviour of many of the punters?
(Current posters excepted, of course!!! |
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"Went last night and it was dead. Pointless
Is it really pointless to get a nice relaxing steam and a sauna?
Talk about expectations.
Great points well made.
I’m honestly fed up of people asking is it busy this day or that day. If you want guaranteed play.. go elsewhere!
Go enjoy the facilities…. Remember folks it’s primarily a naturist spa. Go relax without expectations.
How do u know people are asking just for the play part?
Assumptions..."
No not at all, it’s been the same for years. People not wanting to pay the entry fee if they’re not guaranteed any action… sadly parting with money means entitlement to some people.
If people wanted to just relax and enjoy the facilities they wouldn’t be worried about who, or how many people would be there.
The people asking the questions are nearly always hiding behind a faceless shadow too |
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How do u know people are asking just for the play part?
Assumptions...
...The balance of probability, coupled with the historical observed behaviour of many of the punters?
(Current posters excepted, of course!!!"
Exactly that!! |
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"Went last night and it was dead. Pointless
Is it really pointless to get a nice relaxing steam and a sauna?
Talk about expectations. "
Pointless indeed. Exceptions always! You expect me to behave accordingly to your thoughts and opinions. Hypocrisy much. |
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"Went last night and it was dead. Pointless
Is it really pointless to get a nice relaxing steam and a sauna?
Talk about expectations.
Touché! That is what I am paying the entry for. To enjoy the facilities and if play comes along, that’s a bonus. If not, just relax your time "
I paid my entry I’m entitled to an opinion. £29 ain’t worth it either way. |
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How do u know people are asking just for the play part?
Assumptions...
...The balance of probability, coupled with the historical observed behaviour of many of the punters?
(Current posters excepted, of course!!!"
Yet you messaged me asking to play with us ?? |
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Will be visiting today.
I guess its still too cold to use the outdoors. |
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How do u know people are asking just for the play part?
Assumptions...
...The balance of probability, coupled with the historical observed behaviour of many of the punters?
(Current posters excepted, of course!!!
Yet you messaged me asking to play with us ??"
Who did?
He asks, thereby highligting the flaws in the Fab forum quoting format. |
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By *omNMan 10 weeks ago
london |
"Went last night and it was dead. Pointless
Is it really pointless to get a nice relaxing steam and a sauna?
Talk about expectations.
Touché! That is what I am paying the entry for. To enjoy the facilities and if play comes along, that’s a bonus. If not, just relax your time
I paid my entry I’m entitled to an opinion. £29 ain’t worth it either way. "
We live in a free country |
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If its a place just to relax and enjoy the facilities, why do single men pay £29 on a Monday & Thursday while Single F go in for FREE? Isn't that to encourage anything??? Or are we just going to hide the truth and keep blaming other people.
I would like them to put out Free entry days for single guys (never going to happen).
And abit childish to block a person u don't agree with on a forum. #betterLife |
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Adam seems to get it. Be more like Adam |
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Thinking of going on Saturday evening. What's it like then. Want the other Sunday and was very quirt |
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Going to pop in this evening for a relax and chill out, say hi if your going too x |
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I'm going Sunday and staying Sunday and Monday night. A couple of days relaxation with a party on Monday evening sounds good to me ! |
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"I'm going Sunday and staying Sunday and Monday night. A couple of days relaxation with a party on Monday evening sounds good to me !"
I’m undecided, free all afternoon Sunday and will be either Kestrals or silverleigh. Someone tempt me to one…. |
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"I'm going Sunday and staying Sunday and Monday night. A couple of days relaxation with a party on Monday evening sounds good to me !
I’m undecided, free all afternoon Sunday and will be either Kestrals or silverleigh. Someone tempt me to one…. "
Only you can decide where you want to be |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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Hey wondering what it’s like on a Thursday afternoon ?
Feel free to dm
Never been keen to visit next week
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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Thanks to those who messaged me
I went for a look around and liked it and will be going to enjoy the facilities soon
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Has UNLOS moved in to Silverleigh? |
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"What’s UNLOS"
See the original post at the start of this thread. AWBR! |
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lol am I missing something I can’t see what you mean. |
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By *andJ25Couple 8 weeks ago
Northampton / North London |
We are planning to visit Silverleigh for the first time on Monday 25th and will be staying overnight
Anybody else planning to go?
L&J |
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"lol am I missing something I can’t see what you mean. "
UNLOS = user no longer on site |
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