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"I’ve never been to a club but really want to go. Just lacking the confidence to go on my own! "
just go with no expectations other than a decent soak in the spa and maybe getting to see some horny sights. if you expect nothing you have nothing to lose (the real source of confidence) |
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"I’ve never been to a club but really want to go. Just lacking the confidence to go on my own! "
Just go. At the worst you'll get a few hours without your phone in a warm and friendly place. In the week there's a chance you'll be in there alone but it's no real loss, the place is a good spot to relax in.
If someone's there, don't be shy; people go there to meet, chat and have fun. |
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By *rossMan
over a year ago
Everywhere |
"Just wondering what Saturday nights are like ? Is it all male or fairly even; and is it ok to look without joining in ? Would that upset hardened players ? Thinking of this Saturday ?"
It's always ok to not join in, no means no and there should be zero judgement in there (these are their rules you agree to when you go in)
Hope you had fun? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Heading down mid May 16th and looking to soak my cares away. Anyone going?"
Think they’ve been having trouble with the hot tub recently, fingers crossed it will be fixed for you by then. I’m hoping to pop down this Friday if anyone might be about feel free to say hi |
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"Heading down mid May 16th and looking to soak my cares away. Anyone going?
Think they’ve been having trouble with the hot tub recently, fingers crossed it will be fixed for you by then. I’m hoping to pop down this Friday if anyone might be about feel free to say hi "
Hope they have, thanks for the heads up x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Heading down mid May 16th and looking to soak my cares away. Anyone going?
Think they’ve been having trouble with the hot tub recently, fingers crossed it will be fixed for you by then. I’m hoping to pop down this Friday if anyone might be about feel free to say hi
Hope they have, thanks for the heads up x"
I’ve just seen on their Facebook that it’s all fixed now, yay  |
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"Heading down mid May 16th and looking to soak my cares away. Anyone going?
Think they’ve been having trouble with the hot tub recently, fingers crossed it will be fixed for you by then. I’m hoping to pop down this Friday if anyone might be about feel free to say hi
Hope they have, thanks for the heads up x
I’ve just seen on their Facebook that it’s all fixed now, yay "
Perfect thanks for letting me know, can’t wait for a good splash x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do we know who we have to contact to book in to temptations spa I can't seem to find anything.
I was hoping to pop along tonight if possible "
No booking necessary, just turn up when you’re free and pay on the door. For me that’s one of the biggest selling points, I can fit it in when I like without having to plan too far ahead for it. Makes it really spontaneous for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to visit here when staying in bournemouth.however the guy on the door when I visited was the most obnoxious moron I've ever met.was smoking outside and was pissed off that I was stopping him then was rude and not polite.was ready to tell him to stick it and to fuck off.if you want to run somewhere successful then have friendly staff that welcome people and change the dvd for upstairs room when it's finished playing.its the only club in the area otherwise I'd say avoid |
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"Hello everyone! What's this place like during the week? "
I've only been once in the week (on a Wednesday IIRC) and it was fairly well attended. I am probably going again this coming Wednesday or Thursday, hopefully it will be the same, I'll post back here afterwards. |
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By *RR68BMan
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
I live not far away and haven't been for more than a while. My cleaners son works there and I know the owners. I have no idea then what it's like these days but my previous experience of it left me not recommending it (as a swinging venue anyway). I would be interested in feedback from others as to how busy it is over the weekend as I went with a friend on a Friday night between 8pm and midnight and there weren't even double figures in number. Yes they supply towels but you can walk about naked if you wish. |
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By *avenvalCouple
over a year ago
Leicester |
We are in Poole for three days Monday 5th to Wednesday 7th August we plan to go to the sauna on at least one night if the weather is bad and we can't get to Studlands dunes we will probably be there during the day. |
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By *rossMan 48 weeks ago
Everywhere |
"Hello all , would you recommend for a first time couple ? Don’t want to be “ put off”… "
yeah it's a very friendly place, as long as nudity doesn't scare you then you'll be fine and even then you can hide under the bubbles :D :P They have lockable rooms with beds if you want to have fun without the world watching and depending when you go it can be pretty quiet anyway  x
I guess the question is, what would put you off? x |
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Hi I’m going to be in Bournemouth for a couple of weeks in October.
Is temptations a club or venue as I can’t find anything in the south west section of the club reviews or where the club is. I’d love to get the chance to attend as I’m in the north of Scotland and haven’t had the chance to visit a club since pre covid so really want to get back to one
Many thanks |
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It's a naturist/swinger spa as opposed to an actual night club. If it's a proper club you're looking to attend then Untamed Nights is also in Bournemouth. Both venues have got websites and profiles on here  |
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By *otsuredorsetCouple 45 weeks ago
Sturminster Newton, but work all over UK |
"Hi I’m going to be in Bournemouth for a couple of weeks in October.
Is temptations a club or venue as I can’t find anything in the south west section of the club reviews or where the club is. I’d love to get the chance to attend as I’m in the north of Scotland and haven’t had the chance to visit a club since pre covid so really want to get back to one
Many thanks "
It’s called paradise on the club reviews. It still has its old name on it. If I remember correctly |
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By *JMLCouple 33 weeks ago
West Midlands |
"Does anyone know if any of the playrooms have a swing here?"
Hey guys
Yes they have a swing in the play room it’s really good with lots of space and private if you want it to be |
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Think it's usually pretty quiet during the daytimes, perfect if you just want a bit of chill time for the pair of you, Wednesday and Friday evenings are generally the busier nights when it's cheap for couples entry |
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"Thinking of making our first visit to Temptations this weekend. Does anyone who's been know do they supply towels, and can you buy drinks there or is it take your own? Thanks"
Yes they supply towels. Soft drinks (squash) and tea/coffee supplied. Anything else you'll have to bring or they'll pop out any buy for you from the off-licence that's literally next door. |
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Hi, we've been there many times. You go in the door and will be asked if you have been to similar places before. Dress down policy will be explained; you will get a locker key, the lockers are in a small room off the hallway as you go in. You keep the wristband and give the key back to reception.
Bring your own booze (wine/beer fine, spirits frowned on 😄). Coffee tea and fruit provided free.
Jacuzzi, steam room and sauna downstairs plus an outside area, playrooms upstairs.
Always lots of regulars who all know eachother really well. I wouldn't describe it as cliquey as such, but it can feel as though you have crashed a private party sometimes !
We were made very welcome on our first visit. Only ever been on a Weds when it's very cheap for couples and free for single women so there's usually quite a lot of them around. |
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I’ve had the privilege of visiting many places around the world but unfortunately my experience at Temptations Spa was the worst I’ve had in terms of service. The door staff was unprofessional and there was no proper introduction or guidance during my first visit
On my second visit today, I was unexpectedly denied entry. The reason given, bringing alcohol… was confusing, especially since on my first visit, I was told they don’t sell alcohol and was directed to buy it from the shop next door.
The inconsistency left me questioning whether there was another reason behind the treatment, possibly even racial bias, which is extremely disappointing to encounter in a Spa.
If you’re a person of color considering a visit, I’d suggest thinking twice. My experience was a complete waste of time and left a lasting negative impression… |
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