"Hi . Im quite interested in going , never been . Any info or tips for guy attending alone  "
This week for single guys is full but just go along, mix and mingle with others and see where the evening leads.The bar and lounge areas downstairs in CJs are ideal for chatting and meeting new people.
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By *opzMan 24 weeks ago
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"Hi . Im quite interested in going , never been . Any info or tips for guy attending alone
This week for single guys is full but just go along, mix and mingle with others and see where the evening leads.The bar and lounge areas downstairs in CJs are ideal for chatting and meeting new people.
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Not really many new guys in attendance. Seems to be mostly the same guys over and over, no offence meant to anyone but we had observed last night that 80% of the guys in attendance last night had some form of disability. No doubt will get shot down in flames but it’s simply an observation of fact and when there is very little other choice it kinda kills the mood. It’s a 3 hour round trip £30 diesel and £20 entry for us and isn’t really worth it for what’s on offer. Such a shame because the club facilities and staff are great that’s why we have given it a few opportunities to see if it gets better. I can understand why the club has its regulars as each guy paying to enter easily pays the bills but unfortunately for us it’s the main factor making us not want to return. We are thinking of trying the fun for all night next to see if that works better for us but hubby doesn’t play at all which limits us slightly. Still a good club though and staff are great |
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I was there myself on Friday night and do agree there have been better nights, and I see where Helsbells2011 are coming from in terms of time and cost. However I have only spoken to the couple fleetingly but they are an exceptionally nice couple and a credit to the scene and it would be really sad if they stopped coming along. Hopefully they put it down to a bad night at the office and reconsider as undoubtedly there will be better nights in the future. |
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Without being disrespectful it’s very hard to answer that question and I’m not going to single guys out by describing. It’s a tough point to make and although I’m usually very outspoken and say things as they are I don’t want to be rude. Let’s just say since I’ve posted that comment I’ve had 5 messages privately saying they totally agree. It’s a shame people don’t feel comfortable enough sharing views publicly and need to hide their opinions because they feel it’s not politically correct. Nobody is ever going to make things better if the issues aren’t highlighted. I have tried to be respectful in my comments and haven’t based my comments off one single visit, we have given it 3 tries of late to see if it changes but seems to be mostly the same guys each time, Not complaining about the club at all as we really enjoy the facilities and staff just for us it’s not worth our time and costs to attend again when it’s the same old guys. Not to mention the creepy guy who followed Helen through when she went for a cigarette trying to kiss and touch her. |
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By *wingkingMan 23 weeks ago
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Sorry to hear that some guy gave Helen some unwanted attention, but most guys will be respectful to others, so please don’t let it put you off attending any future club events.
In most clubs, the majority of attendees (male or female) will probably be ‘regulars’ with some ‘newbies’ with little or no behavioural problems, and most guys would likely be able to ‘rise to the occasion’ (even if they had to use Viagra or similar) if that’s what you were alluding to. Glad to hear you say what you think! |
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By *opzMan 23 weeks ago
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"Had a feeling it would be
Not really many new guys in attendance. Seems to be mostly the same guys over and over, no offence meant to anyone but we had observed last night that 80% of the guys in attendance last night had some form of disability. No doubt will get shot down in flames but it’s simply an observation of fact and when there is very little other choice it kinda kills the mood. It’s a 3 hour round trip £30 diesel and £20 entry for us and isn’t really worth it for what’s on offer. Such a shame because the club facilities and staff are great that’s why we have given it a few opportunities to see if it gets better. I can understand why the club has its regulars as each guy paying to enter easily pays the bills but unfortunately for us it’s the main factor making us not want to return. We are thinking of trying the fun for all night next to see if that works better for us but hubby doesn’t play at all which limits us slightly. Still a good club though and staff are great"
Yeah the people I was meeting up with didn't end up going n like u say cost of fuel n it's 45 quid for just me on my own not worth it if it's quite |
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