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As the title really, are there any clubs around the country that cater for the larger people? My partner and I would love to dip our toe in, but as she is a larger lady, and I'm a chubby dude we don't fit in to the usual swingers club mold!  |
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As a chubby guy myself I feel I have to say there really inst a mold, tall short fat thin black white and anything in-between is accepted, that's the joy of swinging there is something for everyone to enjoy. Get yourselfs out to a club and forget about the sex part, make some friends and relax until you are comfortable then just go with the flow. |
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If you'd prefer, there are specific events that are meant to be for larger people and their admirers, like Dangerous Curves at Liberty Elite or BBW events at Chameleons. But as one of the posters above said, the beauty of swinging is that it's not restricted to slim, "pretty people" (unless the club is "very exclusive" and grants membership on the grounds of looks- but those are very rare), everyone is welcome. However, how your night goes depends entirely on you and how hanged up you are on the fact that you are on the larger side ("you" in general terms, not "you" as OP). |
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"Hi,
As the title really, are there any clubs around the country that cater for the larger people? My partner and I would love to dip our toe in, but as she is a larger lady, and I'm a chubby dude we don't fit in to the usual swingers club mold! "
There's a fair few nights/parties at clubs dedicated to larger women. Early on in our club career we thought this was the way go for us. However we didn't enjoy it. We found that the vibe and some of the people were different and not for us. We come to realise that we much prefer the vibe and atmosphere of normal club nights and that in the club body shape and size is totally not a thing. Whatever your size and shape (either end of the spectrum) people are just comfortable and take you as they find you. Like doesn't often stick with like. Many of the people we've found mutual sexual attraction with and have fun with have often not been built like us. Personally we would say try a normal club night were you are just you than a night where you're being specifically fetishiesed. If not for your first club night, for another night so you can see the difference. Then you'll properly know which night is for you either way. Either way clubs are a great place to help you become truly comfortable in your own skin. |
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"Hi,
As the title really, are there any clubs around the country that cater for the larger people? My partner and I would love to dip our toe in, but as she is a larger lady, and I'm a chubby dude we don't fit in to the usual swingers club mold!
There's a fair few nights/parties at clubs dedicated to larger women. Early on in our club career we thought this was the way go for us. However we didn't enjoy it. We found that the vibe and some of the people were different and not for us. We come to realise that we much prefer the vibe and atmosphere of normal club nights and that in the club body shape and size is totally not a thing. Whatever your size and shape (either end of the spectrum) people are just comfortable and take you as they find you. Like doesn't often stick with like. Many of the people we've found mutual sexual attraction with and have fun with have often not been built like us. Personally we would say try a normal club night were you are just you than a night where you're being specifically fetishiesed. If not for your first club night, for another night so you can see the difference. Then you'll properly know which night is for you either way. Either way clubs are a great place to help you become truly comfortable in your own skin."
All of this, there's so many differently shaped people in every night we've been to that we've never felt unwelcome or different. |
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Thank you to everyone for the replies, it's given us something to think about.
The only reason I asked about bbw clubs was due to going to secrets with an ex, and although nothing was said to her, I heard whispers behind her back due to her size. |
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As the title really, are there any clubs around the country that cater for the larger people? My partner and I would love to dip our toe in, but as she is a larger lady, and I'm a chubby dude we don't fit in to the usual swingers club mold! "
You'd be surprised.
I think many of the female attendees at clubs are larger, just flaunting and owning it. |
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