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Went there on Saturday, had a nice night, spent a lot at the bar, ended up in the couples room, having fun together, supposed to close at 2am, staff came in at 1.45 and told us to get out, no warning, just get out ,stood there and wouldn't give us any privacy, we had to disengage and try to find our clothes while they watched. Walking around the room, cock still hard and wet looking for my socks, never found them.
We made friends with another couple in there and while we were swapping names they told us now is not the time for making friends.
Just felt so rude, they switched all the lights off, pitch black as we tried to find our locker, they need to realise we are paying customers, the reason they are there, not sure I ever want to go back. |
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I tend not to stay to the very last minute in clubs, but on occasions when I did stay late, staff did come knocking on doors and going through open play areas, with a warning that the club closes soon. And I have absolutely no problem with that, I respect the fact that they need to work within their licensed (and insured) hours, and that staff would like to go home on time, too. I get it, a lot of the time it seems that the connections happen at the last minute, but it's not the club's fault, that's just sod's law.
Therefore, OP, I'd suggest managing your time at a club better and showing some respect to staff working there.
You sound quite entitled in your post (apologies if that wasn't your intention) when you said you spent a lot at the bar - did you expect that would guarantee you "special treatment"? It's absolutely your choice, and your choice only, how much you spend there. Also, by saying you spent "a lot at the bar", I guess it was alcohol rather than soft drinks? Could that have skewed your perception of time and of how staff treated you?
Anyway, businesses (and swingers clubs are those) have to follow certain rules and regulations, they can't just stay open however long because their customers are having great time. |
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Closes at 2am means exactly that, not that you get to carry on what you are doing until 2am and then get ready to leave.
I’ve never encountered this issue at Ignite, the staff have knocked on the door with a warning of the time and that we need to finish. Yes, it can feel very jarring if you are interrupted and not able to finish but we should have done a better job of watching the time. |
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Think the issue is the advertised opening hours, if the license is to close at 2pm then perhaps changing the opening hours to say close at 1.45am may help.
Can understand the frustration at being interrupted during play but they can also handle it differently, no need to turn lights off ect.
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It wasn't being asked to leave that was the problem, it was the no five minute warning, just opened the door at 1.45 and told us to get out, then stood there watching us getting dressed. They switched the lights off and it was pitch black in that place. We were still out of club well before 2am.
Just didn't like how rude they were about it.
As for being entitled, gfy. |
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Have you read your message? I was just saying what happened, you're calling me entitled for thinking that we were treated badly, you weren't there, we are a friendly and easy going couple that get on with everyone, the least entitled people you'll meet but your reply just assumes we are a pair of piss heads that have no respect.
Other couples were in the room that thought the same as us.
So yes, gfy |
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"Have you read your message? I was just saying what happened, you're calling me entitled for thinking that we were treated badly, you weren't there, we are a friendly and easy going couple that get on with everyone, the least entitled people you'll meet but your reply just assumes we are a pair of piss heads that have no respect.
Other couples were in the room that thought the same as us.
So yes, gfy"
“We are a friendly and easy going couple that get on with everyone.”
“So yes, gfy.”
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By *host63Man 1 week ago
Bedfont Feltham |
TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
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By *aciamiCouple 1 week ago
Hertfordshire |
"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
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Do because two women sneered at you your opinion is that clubs are boring, pointless etc etc. not sure you’d be saying that if you got lucky!
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I’ve never found a club visit or pointless
If you go with no expectation's and to have a good time no matter what happens a great escape from everyday life
What’s not to like
Met some really genuine nice people on my visits |
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"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
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Couldn't disagree more. |
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"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
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I think this says a lot about you, rather than the clubs…. |
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By *octor ProdMan 1 week ago
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"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
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I have many amazing nights (socially as much as anything else) and met and made friends with so many great people. In 20 plus years of going to clubs, I could count on one hand the number of people I have encountered with an attitude or a sense of self importance.
Maybe its your attitude that is stopping you from enjoying peoples company and making new friends |
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By *host63Man 1 week ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
Do because two women sneered at you your opinion is that clubs are boring, pointless etc etc. not sure you’d be saying that if you got lucky!
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I have been in trouble scene fir a while visited a fair few clubs it's always the same.
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"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
Do because two women sneered at you your opinion is that clubs are boring, pointless etc etc. not sure you’d be saying that if you got lucky!
I have been in trouble scene fir a while visited a fair few clubs it's always the same.
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It’s best you don’t go to any clubs in the future as they obviously don’t suit you! |
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By *host63Man 1 week ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
Do because two women sneered at you your opinion is that clubs are boring, pointless etc etc. not sure you’d be saying that if you got lucky!
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You seem a bit triggered by my opinion which is only a point of view as valid as any other.
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By *host63Man 1 week ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"I visit a few clubs, Ignite being one. I go with absolutely no expectations, sometimes I get lucky. "
I also go with no expectations I have fund that compared to yeas ago the club scene and the lifestyle in general has become unfortunately changed and not for the better |
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By *host63Man 1 week ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
I have many amazing nights (socially as much as anything else) and met and made friends with so many great people. In 20 plus years of going to clubs, I could count on one hand the number of people I have encountered with an attitude or a sense of self importance.
Maybe its your attitude that is stopping you from enjoying peoples company and making new friends"
I went with no expectations and to socialise I found it very closed and not particularly friendly towards newcomers |
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By *aciamiCouple 1 week ago
Hertfordshire |
"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
Do because two women sneered at you your opinion is that clubs are boring, pointless etc etc. not sure you’d be saying that if you got lucky!
You seem a bit triggered by my opinion which is only a point of view as valid as any other.
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Triggered?
You sound very patronising, perhaps it was your ego that let you down. |
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By *host63Man 1 week ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"Went there on Saturday, had a nice night, spent a lot at the bar, ended up in the couples room, having fun together, supposed to close at 2am, staff came in at 1.45 and told us to get out, no warning, just get out ,stood there and wouldn't give us any privacy, we had to disengage and try to find our clothes while they watched. Walking around the room, cock still hard and wet looking for my socks, never found them.
We made friends with another couple in there and while we were swapping names they told us now is not the time for making friends.
Just felt so rude, they switched all the lights off, pitch black as we tried to find our locker, they need to realise we are paying customers, the reason they are there, not sure I ever want to go back. "
They are very thinnes skinned and have probably revoked your membership making up a load of stories as to why. |
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"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
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"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
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Tbh with only 9 meets in 6 years according to your profile,I'd say it's you that's doing something wrong & not the club! I also take offence at you calling couples mediocre & entitled, whilst it's you that are showing an entitled attitude,not everyone is there to chat to or play with single guys - we often enjoy both group play & single guys as much as other couples, & I wouldn't consider ourselves either of your labels, you have to read the room, & not everyone is there just to endorse your fantasy but their own, just because people don't want to engage with you could be a number of reasons & their dynamics may just does not include or want the attentions of single men, we have been members of Ignite(formally Kestrels/Abfabs) for 3 years now & in that time we have visited circa 15 clubs at various locations & always rate Ignite as one of the best for both value for money & how friendly everyone is,I also noticed you'd been to a previous social where you were described as charming, such a shame that because you didn't meet any playmates that you have to reduce yourself to vicious comments that show you're anything but, someone else said that perhaps clubs arnt for you, perhaps they're right!  |
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In the context of the op , I get that ! It’s odd as it’s seems we like fun more when we are not allowed to
Makes it’s more naughty
I’ve been to this club for many years
They have strict licensing regulations which at the end of a night don’t accommodate our own excitement
I agree knocking on a door , lights turned off , even worse putting on odd socks shocking haha joking !
Just knowing what to expect is key ! |
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By *host63Man 7 days ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
Tbh with only 9 meets in 6 years according to your profile,I'd say it's you that's doing something wrong & not the club! I also take offence at you calling couples mediocre & entitled, whilst it's you that are showing an entitled attitude,not everyone is there to chat to or play with single guys - we often enjoy both group play & single guys as much as other couples, & I wouldn't consider ourselves either of your labels, you have to read the room, & not everyone is there just to endorse your fantasy but their own, just because people don't want to engage with you could be a number of reasons & their dynamics may just does not include or want the attentions of single men, we have been members of Ignite(formally Kestrels/Abfabs) for 3 years now & in that time we have visited circa 15 clubs at various locations & always rate Ignite as one of the best for both value for money & how friendly everyone is,I also noticed you'd been to a previous social where you were described as charming, such a shame that because you didn't meet any playmates that you have to reduce yourself to vicious comments that show you're anything but, someone else said that perhaps clubs arnt for you, perhaps they're right! "
Triggered much lol |
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By *aciamiCouple 7 days ago
Hertfordshire |
"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
Tbh with only 9 meets in 6 years according to your profile,I'd say it's you that's doing something wrong & not the club! I also take offence at you calling couples mediocre & entitled, whilst it's you that are showing an entitled attitude,not everyone is there to chat to or play with single guys - we often enjoy both group play & single guys as much as other couples, & I wouldn't consider ourselves either of your labels, you have to read the room, & not everyone is there just to endorse your fantasy but their own, just because people don't want to engage with you could be a number of reasons & their dynamics may just does not include or want the attentions of single men, we have been members of Ignite(formally Kestrels/Abfabs) for 3 years now & in that time we have visited circa 15 clubs at various locations & always rate Ignite as one of the best for both value for money & how friendly everyone is,I also noticed you'd been to a previous social where you were described as charming, such a shame that because you didn't meet any playmates that you have to reduce yourself to vicious comments that show you're anything but, someone else said that perhaps clubs arnt for you, perhaps they're right!
Triggered much lol"
It gets quite boring having to listen to people slag off a club just because they don’t know how to behave in a club. Best piece of advice, get over it or learn how to behave. There’s always another side to a post slagging of a club, just saying…..
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"I think we've started something off here, I only started the thread to say the staff were rude. "
Agree staff and generally rude there compare to other clubs which should not be the case but what can you expect lol also saying something in forum invite personal attacks as people feel very strong behind a key pad |
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By *ecman69Man 7 days ago
Milford,godalming |
Well my day was dull and mediocre until I found this post.
If you know some where shuts at a time is trying to play 15 kins before that time considering you'll want to get dressed finish your large amount of bar drinks then go and have a shower and re dress if your able to do all those and be out the door in 15 mins yiu might need to look at where your going wrong is one of the following
1. Your a 1 minute man especially after large amount of booze
2. You dont care about your personal hygiene
3. Think cos you paid an entry fee your entitled to do what a when you want until that time and then have an extra amount of time to clean up
Personally I feel its a great club and the main let down is the few that cant help but moan about things that are out of everyone's(including the management's) control like there set ours of business which are set by local authorities.
If you want respect give some first
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I've been to this club many times and many others.
Closing time is dealt with differently in different places but generally it has always been a polite but firm "Please leave, we hope you have had fun but we have been working and would like to go home now" type thing.
The rudeness you experienced (OP) is unfortunate and something i havent experienced before there.
I had the lights turned off at Hellfire but we were all kind of leaving together, (at the same time) so it wasnt an issue !
In my humble opinion, dont right of a club after one bad experience. |
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By *host63Man 2 days ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
Tbh with only 9 meets in 6 years according to your profile,I'd say it's you that's doing something wrong & not the club! I also take offence at you calling couples mediocre & entitled, whilst it's you that are showing an entitled attitude,not everyone is there to chat to or play with single guys - we often enjoy both group play & single guys as much as other couples, & I wouldn't consider ourselves either of your labels, you have to read the room, & not everyone is there just to endorse your fantasy but their own, just because people don't want to engage with you could be a number of reasons & their dynamics may just does not include or want the attentions of single men, we have been members of Ignite(formally Kestrels/Abfabs) for 3 years now & in that time we have visited circa 15 clubs at various locations & always rate Ignite as one of the best for both value for money & how friendly everyone is,I also noticed you'd been to a previous social where you were described as charming, such a shame that because you didn't meet any playmates that you have to reduce yourself to vicious comments that show you're anything but, someone else said that perhaps clubs arnt for you, perhaps they're right!
Triggered much lol
It gets quite boring having to listen to people slag off a club just because they don’t know how to behave in a club. Best piece of advice, get over it or learn how to behave. There’s always another side to a post slagging of a club, just saying…..
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You were not there at the time and nor was I rude.
Can't see how saying hello to people is bad behaviour.
And being a newcomer in a club is daunting but coioles and single woman have an easy time of it. Your right I generally avoid clubs and was only there to meet someone briefly snd had no expectations whatsoever.
Clubs should stipp ripping off single men the way they do
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By *aciamiCouple 2 days ago
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"TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
TBH clubs are overpriced overrated boring, and an exercise in utter pointlessness.
And was reminded of that today.
Full of people who are mediocre who think that being a couple or single female makes them special.
Tbh with only 9 meets in 6 years according to your profile,I'd say it's you that's doing something wrong & not the club! I also take offence at you calling couples mediocre & entitled, whilst it's you that are showing an entitled attitude,not everyone is there to chat to or play with single guys - we often enjoy both group play & single guys as much as other couples, & I wouldn't consider ourselves either of your labels, you have to read the room, & not everyone is there just to endorse your fantasy but their own, just because people don't want to engage with you could be a number of reasons & their dynamics may just does not include or want the attentions of single men, we have been members of Ignite(formally Kestrels/Abfabs) for 3 years now & in that time we have visited circa 15 clubs at various locations & always rate Ignite as one of the best for both value for money & how friendly everyone is,I also noticed you'd been to a previous social where you were described as charming, such a shame that because you didn't meet any playmates that you have to reduce yourself to vicious comments that show you're anything but, someone else said that perhaps clubs arnt for you, perhaps they're right!
Triggered much lol
It gets quite boring having to listen to people slag off a club just because they don’t know how to behave in a club. Best piece of advice, get over it or learn how to behave. There’s always another side to a post slagging of a club, just saying…..
You were not there at the time and nor was I rude.
Can't see how saying hello to people is bad behaviour.
And being a newcomer in a club is daunting but coioles and single woman have an easy time of it. Your right I generally avoid clubs and was only there to meet someone briefly snd had no expectations whatsoever.
Clubs should stipp ripping off single men the way they do
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Your recollection of events is obviously different from those who were there and witnessed your behaviour.
Like you've implied, clubs probably aren't for you. |
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