Me, my partner looking at going to chameleons on Saturday evening we’ve never been to a swingers club before and very new to the whole lifestyle. Any tips or advice?
Have no perception of what it’s going to be like only we can imagine it’s something very similar to open house ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's alot of fun but don't go there expecting all your fantasies to drop in your lap, everyone is super nice but make sure to keep your boundaries clear not only with each other but with others aswell and most importantly have fun xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Unlike some clubs, one thing to be aware of at Chameleons is that it's a ‘dress down’ club — once you get there, you're expected to strip down to a towel or underwear for the gents, and a towel or lingerie for the ladies. You can also dress down to nothing but your birthday suit if you're feeling confident and/or carefree, but I've found that folk don't usually do that until their nerves have settled or they've already had some fun.
Also be aware that Chameleons is a membership-only club (if I remember correctly), so it can be costly initially.
Like others have suggested, go with no expectations, mingle with others through conversation, and just see where the night goes. My first time at a club was very overwhelming, but it's gotten easier with multiple visits (both to Chameleons and other clubs) although your mileage may vary — every visit, even on the same weekday, can vary from one to another.
Ultimately, have fun, enjoy the experience, and all the best to you during your swinging adventures 😁
Good luck, OP! 👍 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Me, my partner looking at going to chameleons on Saturday evening we’ve never been to a swingers club before and very new to the whole lifestyle. Any tips or advice?
Have no perception of what it’s going to be like only we can imagine it’s something very similar to open house ? "
Hello!! It’s nothing like Open House which we think is very staged & heavily edited.
If you want to try without forking out for a membership, you could try the 90’s night on Friday 4 July hosted by Liberated Voice Social & Love To Social.
Lots of very friendly, sociable & sexy folk with 90’s music in the background.
Never any pressure to do anything you don’t want to. And I normally wear a lacy dressing gown over my outfits as I’m very self conscious.
Would be lovely to meet you if you can make it.
J x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We went to an event night for our first visit
Yes it was very busy (250+ people)
But if you can do an event as a first visit you'll be fine on a normal night
I think the membership is 20 or 25 for couples |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Not been for a while due to circumstances, but generally everyone is very friendly in there and just go at your own pace.
Being a cuckold couple we have a different dynamic to yourselves but have met nice guys and couples in there that we have played with.
Just go with no expectations and be pleasantly surprised ! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Try to suspend your expectations till you go. The only way to understand it is to experience it yourself. It's one of our favourite clubs. Obviously the main thing to note is its dress down and bring your own alcoholic drinks. You pay entry (and couples life memberships) at entry, given a key/number and settle the bill for food and soft drinks on leaving (they take cash and card).
My biggest tip is to make the best of the first time tour and don't be shy to ask any burning questions, whatever they are. The staff are great and look after you.
Also be aware when getting in the hot tub you must be naked (which is also the norm in most clubs). The reason I say this on occasion people make the mistake of wearing something and causing a faux pas. It's a rule strictly enforced and I have seen people get told to get out the hot tub if they won't get naked. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
