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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, well we are reasonably new to the swinging scene, we have experienced threesome with another guy a few times and both enjoyed it,
Now we are more finding out information on swinging clubs, and what to expect ect?
We are a couple of female 44 and male 25 (toyboy) we have been married for five years and have a good relationship, so what could first timers expect at a swingers club? We wouldn't no no one there, so would it be a good idea to get to no someone who goes and then attend with them or take our chances on just going? Would we have to join in or could we go for fun and see what happens? And what to dress in??
Sorry for the long message just thought the fab peeps could help us out :D we are in south east also so name of good clubs for newbies would be nice, thank you in advance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love eurekas, think its a great friendly social place, lots of different things on from naked night's to themed party nights, fabulous grounds, pool and lush spa area. We are going tonight!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first visit is always the hardest but I just did but the bulletin and did it. Yes I was nervous and had all the same concerns as yourself but once through the door I was welcomed and made at ease instantly most club regulars will know that your a newbie and make the extra effort to help you settle in even I they get to play with you or not. After all we have all been there at some time so can relate to those first time nerves and at least you have your partner to accompany you to give you that feeling of security. Just remember that there is/should not be any pressure to play if you do have any trouble from anyone in that respect (and in my experience its rare) just inform the club staff they are usually very helpful and deal with the issue swiftly |
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I've gone alone as well as with others, as a first timer to different clubs and have always been made very welcome. People are chatty and friendly, and you can socialise in the non-play areas.
I recommend that you go with the expectation that it's a fact finding visit, with any fun or friendship an added bonus. This way you'll be likely to be more relaxed, and reat it like a night out.
For dress, I dress to impress, in what I'm comfortable in, usually not too much - but that's my overall goal in life. You can always take a bag, with a back-up change.
You'll probably manage to find others who'll meet and accompany you, such as members, and could always post up in the meets section. Check out the membership conditions, to ensure there are no time restrictions etc, as you don't want to waste your journey.
Obviously every club is different, but I think you'll generally find them relaxed and friendly. Centre in on the relax/social areas, and take a wander to look around as and when you feel fine. The staff will likely show you around too, and will do their best to help you feel included.
Wishing you a great time!! |
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