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"Hopefully it's not filled with to many single guys"
How was it? Normally libs is excellent at managing the ratio (the hotwifes club team are amazing!!). I found New Year’s Eve eve a bit intense with guys crowding and asking to join in. Had to ask a few to step back. |
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By *aprica2 OP Couple 2 weeks ago
Woking |
"Hopefully it's not filled with to many single guys
How was it? Normally libs is excellent at managing the ratio (the hotwifes club team are amazing!!). I found New Year’s Eve eve a bit intense with guys crowding and asking to join in. Had to ask a few to step back. "
The single guys we chasing after us so we left early, had to draw the line at the old guy wanking at us into the changing room, literally chased us round the play room so that was us done, we'd already told them not interested and they kept on. |
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Sorry to hear that happened, as a single guy myself going to a club is so difficult as you get idiots like wanking zombies totally giving off a negative vibe before you walk in the door and your comments back this up really. It’s the risk you take going on a Friday and I think you will get it most places where you get the few odd ones who think it’s like a porn shoot and they can just follow you about and try and join in or just stand and watch which can be so creepy I get it.
I always try and connect with someone going and you do get to know faces the more you go but single guys acting like complete disrespectful idiots doesn’t help our case and maybe the club should do more to police it as why should you leave early because of other people’s actions. |
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The single guys we chasing after us so we left early, had to draw the line at the old guy wanking at us into the changing room, literally chased us round the play room so that was us done, we'd already told them not interested and they kept on."
I am so glad it wasn’t just me feeling that way. I love a well managed night that’s open to single guys but this was super intense. I’m so sorry you left. So many did. |
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" It’s the risk you take going on a Friday and I think you will get it most places where you get the few odd ones who think it’s like a porn shoot and they can just follow you about and try and join in or just stand and watch which can be so creepy I get it.
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Wow! Condescending. As someone who dungeon monitors for clubs and been on the scene a long time and by no means a shrinking violet.
I go to many Friday nights. It’s my preference (see veris), so am aware of the “risk”. I select my clubs very carefully because of it. It’s disappointing to see Libs go down the route of others, it gives a bad experience for all involved.
The good clubs have briefings every time, better screening and more security/monitors to stop it happening.
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By *aprica2 OP Couple 2 weeks ago
Woking |
We didn't even get our bums on a bed and the two bald guys were on us I walked one way and clocked them making a beeline for us so about turned and they literally locked onto us and followed think if we walked around the big bed they would have done laps with us.
It's not great gives a real creepy vibe and one no isn't enough, we shouldn't have to run away every corner we try to sit in from the same guys, anytime I went to the loo before any play in the bar area they'd pounce on the Mrs went to the loo twice and to check my phone there they were trying whilst I was gone, that I can't stand, if you can't approach when I'm there your not our guy, it's also the dead look they give just waiting for any opportunities to cop a sneaky feel felt sorry for some of the people in the tub one guy rubbing my leg thinking it was the Mrs, the look in his eyes when I held I his hand worked a treat.. |
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"We didn't even get our bums on a bed and the two bald guys were on us I walked one way and clocked them making a beeline for us so about turned and they literally locked onto us and followed think if we walked around the big bed they would have done laps with us.
It's not great gives a real creepy vibe and one no isn't enough, we shouldn't have to run away every corner we try to sit in from the same guys, anytime I went to the loo before any play in the bar area they'd pounce on the Mrs went to the loo twice and to check my phone there they were trying whilst I was gone, that I can't stand, if you can't approach when I'm there your not our guy, it's also the dead look they give just waiting for any opportunities to cop a sneaky feel felt sorry for some of the people in the tub one guy rubbing my leg thinking it was the Mrs, the look in his eyes when I held I his hand worked a treat.. "
That is awful. I’m so sorry. The rules used to be clear, ask before touching, and guys were great about following them. Some of my best nights were at Libs.
I wonder why the standards are dropping.
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That's awful. We didn't go last night because of the weather. Every time we've been to libs the single guys have been very respectful.
The last few times we've been it's been quiet though. We prefer chams now , interesting what will happen to libs now the V2V club in Nuneaton is opening soon.
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"We didn't even get our bums on a bed and the two bald guys were on us I walked one way and clocked them making a beeline for us so about turned and they literally locked onto us and followed think if we walked around the big bed they would have done laps with us.
It's not great gives a real creepy vibe and one no isn't enough, we shouldn't have to run away every corner we try to sit in from the same guys, anytime I went to the loo before any play in the bar area they'd pounce on the Mrs went to the loo twice and to check my phone there they were trying whilst I was gone, that I can't stand, if you can't approach when I'm there your not our guy, it's also the dead look they give just waiting for any opportunities to cop a sneaky feel felt sorry for some of the people in the tub one guy rubbing my leg thinking it was the Mrs, the look in his eyes when I held I his hand worked a treat..
That is awful. I’m so sorry. The rules used to be clear, ask before touching, and guys were great about following them. Some of my best nights were at Libs.
I wonder why the standards are dropping.
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Hi all As. A host of events at Libs. I will pass these comments onto the owner for you. Hope you reported this and hope all is ok xx |
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By *andNCouple 1 week ago
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Hi both, Libs are unable to post on here due to fab restrictions but they have asked me to send you this message…
We are sorry you didn’t enjoy your night with us on Friday. Management was only made aware that you were unhappy after you had left as it was only mentioned when you were leaving. Had it have been reported to management sooner we would have dealt with it immediately so you could have enjoy the rest of your evening in peace. We ensure single guys are verified before attending but always ask any guests (couples, single ladies or single guys) if they do feel even slightly uncomfortable that they report it immediately so we can deal with it at that time. If we are not made aware at the time it can be impossible to identify the person of issue. Please contact the club so we can get an account of what happened including a description of the people involved so we are able to deal with this accordingly. Thanks Libs |
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"Hi both, Libs are unable to post on here due to fab restrictions but they have asked me to send you this message…
We are sorry you didn’t enjoy your night with us on Friday. Management was only made aware that you were unhappy after you had left as it was only mentioned when you were leaving. Had it have been reported to management sooner we would have dealt with it immediately so you could have enjoy the rest of your evening in peace. We ensure single guys are verified before attending but always ask any guests (couples, single ladies or single guys) if they do feel even slightly uncomfortable that they report it immediately so we can deal with it at that time. If we are not made aware at the time it can be impossible to identify the person of issue. Please contact the club so we can get an account of what happened including a description of the people involved so we are able to deal with this accordingly. Thanks Libs"
With the greatest of respect quite a few of us spoke with staff on New Years Eve Eve. Couples were leaving en masse. To suggest Friday an isolated incident and feeling it was just one person is not a representation of what is happening. Every club goes through this phase, hopefully the management are able to get on top of it quickly so that it doesn’t become the norm. It’s one of our favourites and on our doorstep so really am glad that they seem responsive to taking action. |
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"Hi both, Libs are unable to post on here due to fab restrictions but they have asked me to send you this message…
We are sorry you didn’t enjoy your night with us on Friday. Management was only made aware that you were unhappy after you had left as it was only mentioned when you were leaving. Had it have been reported to management sooner we would have dealt with it immediately so you could have enjoy the rest of your evening in peace. We ensure single guys are verified before attending but always ask any guests (couples, single ladies or single guys) if they do feel even slightly uncomfortable that they report it immediately so we can deal with it at that time. If we are not made aware at the time it can be impossible to identify the person of issue. Please contact the club so we can get an account of what happened including a description of the people involved so we are able to deal with this accordingly. Thanks Libs
With the greatest of respect quite a few of us spoke with staff on New Years Eve Eve. Couples were leaving en masse. To suggest Friday an isolated incident and feeling it was just one person is not a representation of what is happening. Every club goes through this phase, hopefully the management are able to get on top of it quickly so that it doesn’t become the norm. It’s one of our favourites and on our doorstep so really am glad that they seem responsive to taking action."
That's interesting, we were there on NYEE and had such a great time, as did the many people in the telegram group chat, and the many veris left from the evening along with the many couples who the attended NYE too the next day.
If you're really concerned, I'd consider popping an email over to the club so that management can deal with it directly - appreciate it something has been said to bar staff and not passed on it's no fault of the customer but knowing Libs management, I know any issues would be addressed and certainly if people were leaving 'en masse' there would be concerns raised, but this wasn't something we noticed on the night.
I agree that some single males can be an absolute pain sometimes, we've experience pushy guys before and know how off putting it can be but I'd much rather hassle staff to do something if they're being really out of order than let it cut my night short!
Happy to share hints and tips on politely but firmly telling people that we don't want to play if anyone is after any advice on this! |
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In the interests of clarity, we had a great night. We met some spectacular couples and a couple of wonderful single guys who were great fun. We were with the last to leave when it shut.
I’m trying to establish if there is a trend on which nights are better vetted and ratioed than others (there seems to be), and whether the behaviour is that of the few (it seems to be).
The challenge when the behaviour starts to take place is that others ratchet and it makes for a challenging environment to be in. People tend to move to private spaces/leave making the ratio even more stark and the behaviour escalate. By 12:15 the club looked very sparse. But maybe that’s the norm on non-external organiser nights. I’m not sure which is why I asked.
We love the club and want for it not to slide as others have done.
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"Hi both, Libs are unable to post on here due to fab restrictions but they have asked me to send you this message…
We are sorry you didn’t enjoy your night with us on Friday. Management was only made aware that you were unhappy after you had left as it was only mentioned when you were leaving. Had it have been reported to management sooner we would have dealt with it immediately so you could have enjoy the rest of your evening in peace. We ensure single guys are verified before attending but always ask any guests (couples, single ladies or single guys) if they do feel even slightly uncomfortable that they report it immediately so we can deal with it at that time. If we are not made aware at the time it can be impossible to identify the person of issue. Please contact the club so we can get an account of what happened including a description of the people involved so we are able to deal with this accordingly. Thanks Libs"
Thats fair enough but once they've already pissed you off and you give them the benefit of doubt and refuse advances multiple times it ruins our night we've never had someone not take no for an answer but we'd told him multiple times and walked away three times, he jumped in the tub with us and we thought fair enough that's fine just staring at the Mrs we got out he followed again to the changing room, walked back in and he followed again, for us that's just uncalled for and when it's multiple guys we can't insist they throw them all out on such a quite night so we'll bail out |
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" In the interests of clarity, we had a great night. We met some spectacular couples and a couple of wonderful single guys who were great fun. We were with the last to leave when it shut.
I’m trying to establish if there is a trend on which nights are better vetted and ratioed than others (there seems to be), and whether the behaviour is that of the few (it seems to be).
The challenge when the behaviour starts to take place is that others ratchet and it makes for a challenging environment to be in. People tend to move to private spaces/leave making the ratio even more stark and the behaviour escalate. By 12:15 the club looked very sparse. But maybe that’s the norm on non-external organiser nights. I’m not sure which is why I asked.
We love the club and want for it not to slide as others have done.
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It's the mass exodus that happens on almost every night when we've been there which is where everyone has gone to find a play room and the bar is like a ghost town haha!
Yeah, it's a shame when a few ruin things for the majority, but does make reporting them more important, if the management gets told the same thing about the same person/people multiple times then they'll be able to take action - if everyone just gets on with it, moves or leaves and complains afterwards it's a tricky situation to be in for any club.
I think each club and hosted night differs on their 'ideal' ratio... Greedy girls at the attic is one where it's wall to wall men...fine if you're into that kind of thing! But I think hosts very specifically for their event vibe too not just for entry to the club overall...I know some guys that go to some events but not others!
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