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Chams - Sun nights??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can read my review in the clubs section about last Sunday evening.
So far I've had messages in agreement and some follow up 'reviews' that are a little less supportive!
All depends on what you're looking for. We've enjoyed some quiet nights including a Sunday but to be honest the more we've gone the less it's appealed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having read the review I feel it's only fair to put another perspective . We have attended Chams on many occasions including Sundays and BBW nights . One thing to point out here is that a BBW night is exactly that so , it is a litle unfair to be so derogatory regarding the size of the women in attendance .
That said , a normal Sunday night is usually a great mix and we have always had a great time so hopefully you will enjoy it too  |
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"Having read the review I feel it's only fair to put another perspective . We have attended Chams on many occasions including Sundays and BBW nights . One thing to point out here is that a BBW night is exactly that so , it is a litle unfair to be so derogatory regarding the size of the women in attendance .
That said , a normal Sunday night is usually a great mix and we have always had a great time so hopefully you will enjoy it too "
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We tend to go on a Sunday and it's a lovley mix of people. Quite a relaxing way to spend a Sunday afternoon to be honest. At the end of the day you never know until you try, everyone has their own tastes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wasn't aware that the beach party was a BBW night?
The advertisement only said 'hot and sexy' - my perspective was that it was anything but. If BBW is your thing then obviously you'll disagree but perhaps it should have been made clear that that is what the event was because we certainly weren't aware that it was anything other than a beach party. |
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"We tend to go on a Sunday and it's a lovley mix of people. Quite a relaxing way to spend a Sunday afternoon to be honest. At the end of the day you never know until you try, everyone has their own tastes. "
think that sums it up. We've found it to be be different each time we try a Sunday. First time, didnt like it at all... Second time, was really fun.
As they say, suck it and see.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've found it to be be different each time we try a Sunday. First time, didnt like it at all... Second time, was really fun.
As they say, suck it and see.
D&K"
We did - but no sucking that night!
We've been 5 or 6 times in the past year - half of which we've enjoyed but as we've been to other places inevitably comparisons are made more and more. The real benefit of Chams is that it's open through the week - but on nights when there's a choice of clubs I'd suggest a visit elsewhere - depending of course on what you're looking for. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"Wasn't aware that the beach party was a BBW night?
The advertisement only said 'hot and sexy' - my perspective was that it was anything but. If BBW is your thing then obviously you'll disagree but perhaps it should have been made clear that that is what the event was because we certainly weren't aware that it was anything other than a beach party."
I personally think your hungry hippo description quote in your club review quite rude. If I was a lady who had attended that night I would be very insulted. I thought on a club review it was the club you reviewed not those you did not find attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wasn't aware that the beach party was a BBW night?
The advertisement only said 'hot and sexy' - my perspective was that it was anything but. If BBW is your thing then obviously you'll disagree but perhaps it should have been made clear that that is what the event was because we certainly weren't aware that it was anything other than a beach party.
I personally think your hungry hippo description quote in your club review quite rude. If I was a lady who had attended that night I would be very insulted. I thought on a club review it was the club you reviewed not those you did not find attractive. "
I thought you reviewed the experience you had and that's what I did. The description may have been too colourful but it reflected how it felt when we found ourselves unfortunately wedged in at the back.
I also commented on the facilities, prices and staff. I'd like to be able to judge from reviews the kind of night I might experience and the people that attend are a significant part of that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wasn't aware that the beach party was a BBW night?
The advertisement only said 'hot and sexy' - my perspective was that it was anything but. If BBW is your thing then obviously you'll disagree but perhaps it should have been made clear that that is what the event was because we certainly weren't aware that it was anything other than a beach party.
I personally think your hungry hippo description quote in your club review quite rude. If I was a lady who had attended that night I would be very insulted. I thought on a club review it was the club you reviewed not those you did not find attractive. "
it is like a zoo when the plates of brown food get put out though.
saw one rather round woman grabbing pretty much all the choccie cakes last time we went |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We went that evening and disagree completely. There was a good mix of people as there always is. It's what makes chams so great, in our opinion, the good variety of people. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Went along last night and was pleasantly surprised by how busy it was.
Obviously not as busy as Friday but a much more enjoyable night - more relaxed but still plenty going on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has different tastes in people and places.
We all look for something to others in places and people.
We've visited a few different clubs, loving chams and its variety but having also had great times at xtasia and Atlantis in the past. Each club offered different but very enjoyable nights.
We love a good mix of people, tall, short, skinny, curvier and of different ethnicity. Just because someone isn't our type we'd never be so disrespectful to slander anyone group in either the review or forum section on here.
There's a few people on here who appear to lack some decorum, respect and ability to be open minded allowing everyone to enjoy themselves in their own way without repercussions. Its not just physical attributes that make beautiful people its the person inside that's far more appealing than just what's on the outside in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is an irony in accusing people of not being open minded for stating their preferences. Expecting everyone to agree with your views isn't open minded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is an irony in accusing people of not being open minded for stating their preferences. Expecting everyone to agree with your views isn't open minded."
you weren't stating your preferences, you were down right rude!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I stated my opinions in my review and eluded to my preferences. You're as entitled to take issue with them as I am to state them.
I still believe it painted an honest reflection of the night in question. I haven't suggested people shouldn't find older larger ladies attractive, doing so here would be futile and indeed narrow minded. For those that don't they can have a reasonable idea of what to expect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all have our preferences but I would never be so down right rude and offensive to anyone who didnt meet our preferences. We are respectful to others as we would like in return. Horses for courses as the saying goes, move on to what you're looking for but show respect and acceptance of others and they're likes / dislikes.
Saying that I am a little closed minded in taking any heed of recent non-verified members on here, as with many on here I tend not to take notice of anyone who has no verifications or identifiable pictures ( always makes me suspicious of genuinality - and I'm sure there are plenty of others who feel the same).
End of topic from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems to me you're missing the point. I said that if people like older, larger ladies they'll probably have a good time. For people like me for whom that isn't their preference I provided a description of what they would have experienced during that event.
But as you're not able to extend the respect you show to others to those of us with new profiles and with the discretion not to have our faces on show (nice profile pic by the way) my opinion will be of no consequence to you as you'll ignore it... oh, but you didn't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You likened the larger ladies in the Jacuzzi to the game "hungry hippo's" and made an equally distasteful remark about when they reached the top of the stairs!
RUDE !!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The sauna always seems to be pretty empty - although we had a brilliant time in there on one of our first visits.
I'm sure there are more diplomatic ways to describe the jacuzzis at that point but I doubt they'd cause any less offence. |
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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago
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In answer to the op every night is different but Sundays are still a good night with people of all ages shapes sizes and races.
In comment to the review abusing Bbw. The club has a varied client base catering for all shapes and sizes I am obviously not slim but am often the only Bbw in.there other night's there are more of us but this is the reason I enjoy this club my size is accepted by most normally the only time it's been a problem is on fab socials or the beach party last year so I now avoid these events. I thought swingers were open minded but you prove that some are not. Have you ever thought that attraction is more than what someone looks like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The being attractive inside but not out thing doesn't work for me sexually sorry.
It's all relative - I'm not commenting on what other people do or don't find attractive and there were plenty there clearly having a good time. I provided a review based on our experience with regard to what appeals to us - it was a personal review afterall. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never claimed it was a review of the clubs facilities although I did comment on them and the staff and the prices.
It was a review of my experience on a Sunday night, likewise the comments in this discussion.
The vast majority of those that have reacted negatively have really only reinforced the points I made.
I also made negative comments about single men - that doesn't appear to have caused so much offence! |
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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"who cares what one arrogant man thinks of a great club??
i bet those hungry hippos had a much better night than he did and paid less to get in lol"
I was there that Sunday night Evie, and I had a very good time 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seemingly quite a lot of people care what one arrogant man thinks
If it helps validate the 'single mans' unworthy opinion, my wife approved it before it was submitted. And yes those wallowing in the pool had more action than us - in fact I don't think my penis has ever been so small.
Fortunately we've had enough good experiences to be able to block out the bad and so were able to enjoy a good shag when we returned home.
You'll be pleased to know that we've retained our membership. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went this weekend to chams my first every visit to a swinging club and I got to say I was amazed by the folk I met.. not one that I spoke to over the weekend cared about peoples sizes or colour or height.. everyone was there for fun with people they were attracted to.. and is that not the purpose of the club.. I never once heard anyone slag anyone of.. until I read ur review brighter boo..maybe u should find a new hobby cos swinging aint just about sex its about socialising and having fun.. often ur more attracted to someone u talk with than someone u look at. .x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I went this weekend to chams my first every visit to a swinging club and I got to say I was amazed by the folk I met.. not one that I spoke to over the weekend cared about peoples sizes or colour or height.. everyone was there for fun with people they were attracted to.. and is that not the purpose of the club.. I never once heard anyone slag anyone of.. until I read ur review brighter boo..maybe u should find a new hobby cos swinging aint just about sex its about socialising and having fun.. often ur more attracted to someone u talk with than someone u look at. .x"
Actually I'm not. And I don't need a misguided education about what 'swinging' is or isn't about - we all do it for our own selfish motives. |
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"Seemingly quite a lot of people care what one arrogant man thinks
If it helps validate the 'single mans' unworthy opinion, my wife approved it before it was submitted. And yes those wallowing in the pool had more action than us - in fact I don't think my penis has ever been so small.
Fortunately we've had enough good experiences to be able to block out the bad and so were able to enjoy a good shag when we returned home.
You'll be pleased to know that we've retained our membership."
not all single men's opinons are unworthy, just those that are unable to make a point without resorting to offensive language. you seem to be fairly well educated so knew what the reaction would be when you wrote the jacuzzi reference and the statement about being too hot and bothered by the time they got upstairs.
maybe we should buy you a nice plant for the bridge you live under?
your passing comment about single guys on the review hasnt created such a fuss because it didnt include offensive language - not rocket science to work that one out really is it.
oh - and please dont think i am bothered by your opinion of larger ladies. I am just bored home alone of a Monday evening.
One final word of warning - dont go to Chams this Sunday wil you  certainly wont be your scene  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope it's fine to call blokes meerkats and pacmen but not to reference the pool looking like hungry hippos?
And in reference to that ultimate Internet insult - the dreaded 'troll' - I wrote with reference to my experience of an event I attended. Most of those wobbling with outrage including yourself apparently didn't even attend, yet you feel the need to pass comment.
Thanks for the warning about Sunday - we have learned our lesson! To be fair it maybe explains why there was a larger crowd in for the beach party if Sundays are usually BBW nights - we weren't aware of that until one of the earlier comments. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok shallow hal.. guess u find it hard when u wear blinkers.. not to worry the true meaning of swinging will come to u then u will have fun... "
We've done just fine with our shallow approach thanks and for quite a long time. But thanks for the advice! |
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"Nope it's fine to call blokes meerkats and pacmen but not to reference the pool looking like hungry hippos?
And in reference to that ultimate Internet insult - the dreaded 'troll' - I wrote with reference to my experience of an event I attended. Most of those wobbling with outrage including yourself apparently didn't even attend, yet you feel the need to pass comment.
Thanks for the warning about Sunday - we have learned our lesson! To be fair it maybe explains why there was a larger crowd in for the beach party if Sundays are usually BBW nights - we weren't aware of that until one of the earlier comments."
Sundays aren't usually BBW nights, one Sunday every couple of months or so is.
i think our difference of opinion on the offensive nature of your comments has probably been done to death. you clearly have no perception as to why calling someone a hippo is offensive.
i dont need to have attended to find comments offensive. i have been to chams numerous times over the last 5 years and have always found there to be a variety of shapes, sizes, colours etc there on all occasions - even bbw nights.
you have the right to preferences just as anyone else does. the way you promote those preferences is key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't call any one person a hippo. I described the pool as resembling hungry hippos - which incidentally was intended to describe both men and women in the jacuzzis at that time which were jam packed.
But it's been taken by some as a personal slur only on 'BBW's'. |
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"I didn't call any one person a hippo. I described the pool as resembling hungry hippos - which incidentally was intended to describe both men and women in the jacuzzis at that time which were jam packed.
But it's been taken by some as a personal slur only on 'BBW's'."
I've not singled out any sex in any of my comments  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never said you had, you don't need to take everything personally!
Oh sorry. I assumed that as the conversation was mainly between me and you now that the 'some people' was aimed at me. "
I wouldn't refer to you as just 'some' person - even my lack of tact has an eventual limit. No I was referencing the counter reviews and the other thread I discovered spawned from this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never said you had, you don't need to take everything personally!
Oh sorry. I assumed that as the conversation was mainly between me and you now that the 'some people' was aimed at me.
I wouldn't refer to you as just 'some' person - even my lack of tact has an eventual limit. No I was referencing the counter reviews and the other thread I discovered spawned from this!"
Hey I dont like the octopus hands under the water either. The reason many of us bbw ladies go to chams is because we feel relaxed and welcome their with no judgement and that is a huge confidence booster to go somewhere and feel sexy be able to dress up and to have a good time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Brightandbloo - even if your intentions weren't to offer slurs against larger ladies, it certainly came off that way to me. I think your choice of wording was off and rather tactless.
On a site like this that's a surefire way of digging yourself into a hole that you'll find difficult to get out of. You might have even alienated people, causing them to be reluctant in meeting you.
Choose your words carefully is my advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we only go in a Saturday nights and always found a good mix of people always someone to our taste, and even the people who are not to our sexual taste we have always enjoyed a good laugh with, I suppose it all about personal preference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the octopus hands description
As for tact my description was undoubtedly lacking in it - but equally to men and women.
It is all about what people prefer but then the point of reviews is to help people judge if it's likely to be a place they'd like to visit - and if not there are plenty of alternatives. |
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We really enjoy Sundays but mainly if it is a bank holiday. Because we live so far away we usually have to leave at around 10 but on Bank Holidays we stay till the end. The thing we love about this club is the mix of people, all ages and all sizes, something for everyone! Some clubs we go to just have the same types which is rather boring. I for one applaud the larger ladies who dress up and enjoy themselves and to be honest one of the best nights we had there was a BBW night. |
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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago
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"Seemingly quite a lot of people care what one arrogant man thinks
If it helps validate the 'single mans' unworthy opinion, my wife approved it before it was submitted. And yes those wallowing in the pool had more action than us - in fact I don't think my penis has ever been so small.
Fortunately we've had enough good experiences to be able to block out the bad and so were able to enjoy a good shag when we returned home.
You'll be pleased to know that we've retained our membership."
Why retain it when you clearly don't like the clientele. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why retain it when you clearly don't like the clientele. "
I expect like pretty much everybody else - we do like some of the clientele. We also like the opening hours, the staff and the facilities.
I commented on what we saw at that event and I know now to avoid Sundays. Most likely we'll go to other clubs when we can but I'd still be happy to go to Chams on a quieter day - I'm sure we can look forward to a warm welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bright have to say you may have had a poor experience but you must surely accepth that your language used was at least poor. We are lucky to be fairly normal size,but what we love about chams is the diversity of people there. We both are empowered by people of all ages and sizes that go there. The club is great as are the staff and guests. You have a choice dont go and allow everyone else to enjoy without your bigoted attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most seemed to enjoy the night in question regardless of my 'bigoted attitude' - but thanks for pointing out the choice. Thanks to the review system we can all make better informed choices. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has different tastes in people and places.
We all look for something to others in places and people.
We've visited a few different clubs, loving chams and its variety but having also had great times at xtasia and Atlantis in the past. Each club offered different but very enjoyable nights.
We love a good mix of people, tall, short, skinny, curvier and of different ethnicity. Just because someone isn't our type we'd never be so disrespectful to slander anyone group in either the review or forum section on here.
There's a few people on here who appear to lack some decorum, respect and ability to be open minded allowing everyone to enjoy themselves in their own way without repercussions. Its not just physical attributes that make beautiful people its the person inside that's far more appealing than just what's on the outside in my opinion."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slander would mean the description was false - it may have lacked tact, been insensitive etc. etc. but it was entirely accurate of the night in question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slander would mean the description was false - it may have lacked tact, been insensitive etc. etc. but it was entirely accurate of the night in question."
"Slander would mean the description was false - it may have lacked tact, been insensitive etc. etc. but it was entirely accurate of the night in question."
The main thing being argued was your verbiage as opposed to the content of your review, which if you boil it all down sort of makes your point.
Like other have already posted your terminology left an awful awful awful lot to be desired however your main thrust will ring a bell with many.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually go to Chams on a Tues or Fri.
Anyone know what Sun evenings are like? I'm only 40 mins away so might go for a cheeky couple of hours tonight."
Chams is a good club with a mix of people and I think good most nights we go on a Friday and a Saturday. Only been once on a Sunday was very chilled. Staff are really nice that's what makes a good club for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have never been to chams. But if we did then we could not careless who goes. Age, size, colour or creed mean nothing in these places. Only the narrow minded and those who feel a need to assure themselves point the finger and call names. People are people as dogs are dogs. We all have feelings and have the right to have them respected. I would hope that those who see people as hippos would keep such names out of a public forum unless they are prepared to call them that face to face and if they do then please let me know the date and time and we shall make a special effort to get to chams at that time, in fact we would not miss it for the world. Finally I feel quite sorry for the poor woman who attened with this person, unless of course she feels the same way. Which I doubt as I notice the lack of a couples profile. Lots of love from us zoo animals and those of us on holiday from africa... kiss kiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have never been to chams. But if we did then we could not careless who goes. Age, size, colour or creed mean nothing in these places. Only the narrow minded and those who feel a need to assure themselves point the finger and call names. People are people as dogs are dogs. We all have feelings and have the right to have them respected. I would hope that those who see people as hippos would keep such names out of a public forum unless they are prepared to call them that face to face and if they do then please let me know the date and time and we shall make a special effort to get to chams at that time, in fact we would not miss it for the world. Finally I feel quite sorry for the poor woman who attened with this person, unless of course she feels the same way. Which I doubt as I notice the lack of a couples profile. Lots of love from us zoo animals and those of us on holiday from africa... kiss kiss"
Firstly visit the club.
Secondly read what was actually written.
I've no issue with anybody that attended the event taking offence at how my review was written - they're entitled to. You however need to find something more interesting to do on your holiday. If you're in Africa I can recommend a water safari - but keep your hands in the boat.
The 'poor woman' that attended with me is my wife. She did share my view - we spent most the evening discussing it.
I'm happy to share my opinions face to face with people. My experience of people that claim they prefer such is they can rarely handle it. I suspect you'd prefer to meet in the carpark though where you can make manly grunts and bang your chest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have never been to chams. But if we did then we could not careless who goes. Age, size, colour or creed mean nothing in these places. Only the narrow minded and those who feel a need to assure themselves point the finger and call names. People are people as dogs are dogs. We all have feelings and have the right to have them respected. I would hope that those who see people as hippos would keep such names out of a public forum unless they are prepared to call them that face to face and if they do then please let me know the date and time and we shall make a special effort to get to chams at that time, in fact we would not miss it for the world. Finally I feel quite sorry for the poor woman who attened with this person, unless of course she feels the same way. Which I doubt as I notice the lack of a couples profile. Lots of love from us zoo animals and those of us on holiday from africa... kiss kiss
Firstly visit the club.
Secondly read what was actually written.
I've no issue with anybody that attended the event taking offence at how my review was written - they're entitled to. You however need to find something more interesting to do on your holiday. If you're in Africa I can recommend a water safari - but keep your hands in the boat.
The 'poor woman' that attended with me is my wife. She did share my view - we spent most the evening discussing it.
I'm happy to share my opinions face to face with people. My experience of people that claim they prefer such is they can rarely handle it. I suspect you'd prefer to meet in the carpark though where you can make manly grunts and bang your chest."
You really are quite funny in a pity full type way.... even more hugs and kisses for you xx mwah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only another 70 ish posts until this thread gets too big and is put to bed.
Tbh I like chams as many above have said for the diversity of people that attend. Therefore Iam not going to let on rreview good or bad change my mind.
We all have our views and express them differently. Some good, some not so good.
I do feel that if a female had posted the review it would not have been jumped on as much.
Lets all have a love in, and I hope to see many of you there on Sunday.
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"Only another 70 ish posts until this thread gets too big and is put to bed.
Tbh I like chams as many above have said for the diversity of people that attend. Therefore Iam not going to let on rreview good or bad change my mind.
We all have our views and express them differently. Some good, some not so good.
I do feel that if a female had posted the review it would not have been jumped on as much.
Lets all have a love in, and I hope to see many of you there on Sunday.
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I shall come and say hi!
I am a fan of Chams x Reveiw never influence me...I have a mind of my own and am quite able to judge for myself. |
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"Only another 70 ish posts until this thread gets too big and is put to bed.
Tbh I like chams as many above have said for the diversity of people that attend. Therefore Iam not going to let on rreview good or bad change my mind.
We all have our views and express them differently. Some good, some not so good.
I do feel that if a female had posted the review it would not have been jumped on as much.
Lets all have a love in, and I hope to see many of you there on Sunday.
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yes if it was a woman saying same about Big men at chams how would this post have gone makes you think ..??????? |
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"Only another 70 ish posts until this thread gets too big and is put to bed.
Tbh I like chams as many above have said for the diversity of people that attend. Therefore Iam not going to let on rreview good or bad change my mind.
We all have our views and express them differently. Some good, some not so good.
I do feel that if a female had posted the review it would not have been jumped on as much.
Lets all have a love in, and I hope to see many of you there on Sunday.
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I'll suggest it - she's still planning to meet people on here though so probably best she doesn't! |
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"Why retain it when you clearly don't like the clientele.
I expect like pretty much everybody else - we do like some of the clientele. We also like the opening hours, the staff and the facilities.
I commented on what we saw at that event and I know now to avoid Sundays. Most likely we'll go to other clubs when we can but I'd still be happy to go to Chams on a quieter day - I'm sure we can look forward to a warm welcome"
I've thought of a new question. What makes you think the larger older crowd is specific to Sunday nights? |
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It isn't - there were just a lot more of them on that night. As I wrote in the review we'd been made aware of the reputation several times but that night took it to the extreme. |
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