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By *.dawes OP Man
over a year ago
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"the guys asking a general question,and yet again people jump on him, if a lady asked this there would be loads of helpful answers, fickle as per normal  "
can see your point mate, however i can see the other peoples points, i could of worded it a little better in the first post. But thanks.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what i mean by "wasting my time" was if i go to a club will noone want to speak because im new and will be my 1st time and/or will the club be empty."
I don't think people have been really fair on you,if you're interested in a particular club have a look at their website first so you're aware of dress code,rules and regs that sort of thing,if you decide to go then turn up with an open mind and no set expectations other than having a drink and a social night
Don't hide in a corner,be sociable and chatty even if you're as nervous as hell,and just get a good feel of the place,anything more that happens is a bonus but at least you will have got your first club visit done and dusted,they're not as intimidating as a lot of people think and are full of very normal people that live normal lives like you do,they just have sex lives that are a little out of the ordinary thats all
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"what i mean by "wasting my time" was if i go to a club will noone want to speak because im new and will be my 1st time and/or will the club be empty."
That's just the risk you take.
Go expecting nothing - try and socialise - its easier to talk to people in a swingers club than it is in the local pub - and if nothing happens then settle with the fact that hopefully you spent an evening chatting to different people..... |
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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago
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Jea...no wonder guys have panic attacks. lol. Its all down to you squire. If you make the effort to look good, smell sweat, socialise, put some genuine friendly effort into it, and don't expect a play just because you've paid for entry, you'll probably have a good night where ever you go.
Go wrong with any of the above and you might wonder what on earth you did it for!
Just remember, everyone in the game was new to it once, and understand the nerves, so jump in, and join the party!! |
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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago
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"Jea...no wonder guys have panic attacks. lol. Its all down to you squire. If you make the effort to look good, smell sweat, socialise, put some genuine friendly effort into it, and don't expect a play just because you've paid for entry, you'll probably have a good night where ever you go.
Go wrong with any of the above and you might wonder what on earth you did it for!
Just remember, everyone in the game was new to it once, and understand the nerves, so jump in, and join the party!!"
Sweet....ok ok  |
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