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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fake frends in clubs .....just to get a bit of action
I noticed this ...they pretend to be pally just to get a bit of action ...
we all know 1 person ....
who else agrees
who else can share there own experinces  of fake frends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hell yeah , the whole scene is full of fake friends , but it goes with the territory .
Chinese whispers are rife , and cliques exist all over the place !
The motto ' don't trust anyone ' is certainly a wise one to remember in this lifestyle .
We are lucky to have each other as without that we probably would have given up on such a shallow pastime long ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fake frends in clubs .....just to get a bit of action
I noticed this ...they pretend to be pally just to get a bit of action ...
we all know 1 person ....
who else agrees
who else can share there own experinces of fake frends "
Im intrigued. What are you spitting your dummy out about this time ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hell yeah , the whole scene is full of fake friends , but it goes with the territory .
Chinese whispers are rife , and cliques exist all over the place !
The motto ' don't trust anyone ' is certainly a wise one to remember in this lifestyle .
We are lucky to have each other as without that we probably would have given up on such a shallow pastime long ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nature of the game sometimes
People want your body,they're friendly,they get your body,they fuck off
I know i've walked away from sex thinking that was ok but I doubt I'll ever go there again,doesn't mean I wouldn't talk or continue to be friendly with them if I saw them around again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Facebook is for friends, not Fab.
Perfectly put 
Are we not allowed to make friends with people we meet via Fab? Says who?"
Of course you are , but the op suggested that there is such a thing in the club scene as fake friends . With this we agree . We also suggest that from our experience the kind of friendship on fab is not the same as vanilla or Facebook friendship .
Of course this may well be different for singles and indeed some couples , but in all honesty we are on here to explore sexual liaisons with others , not to make friends . We have a rich and varied friends list outside our swinging lifestyle |
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By *leepyangelCouple
over a year ago
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I agree funtarzan.
They want to be fucked senseless, you have a great time with them.
The next week, they totally blank you not even a smile or hello
Makes you wonder if you had done something wrong.
Manners and a smile go a long way x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some people are getting confused between being friendly and having a true friend.. There is no comparison... of course people are going to be friendly to get a fuck from you; wouldn't work otherwise but that doesn't mean they are trying to be your friend.. politeness goes a long way.. friendship however doesn't happen overnight.. The relationship is built on, nurtured over time.. I'm not here to make friends and clearly state that on my profile but I have made friends from here.. ones I think the world of and can't envisage my life without now.. do I make friends with people to get laid?.. NO.. I'm just polite and friendly.. its all part of the wooing process.. I won't be inviting them round for coffee anytime soon  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hell yeah , the whole scene is full of fake friends , but it goes with the territory .
Chinese whispers are rife , and cliques exist all over the place !
The motto ' don't trust anyone ' is certainly a wise one to remember in this lifestyle .
We are lucky to have each other as without that we probably would have given up on such a shallow pastime long ago
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think some people are getting confused between being friendly and having a true friend.. There is no comparison... of course people are going to be friendly to get a fuck from you; wouldn't work otherwise but that doesn't mean they are trying to be your friend.. politeness goes a long way.. friendship however doesn't happen overnight.. The relationship is built on, nurtured over time.. I'm not here to make friends and clearly state that on my profile but I have made friends from here.. ones I think the world of and can't envisage my life without now.. do I make friends with people to get laid?.. NO.. I'm just polite and friendly.. its all part of the wooing process.. I won't be inviting them round for coffee anytime soon "
Absolutely right
Sarah x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We go to clubs, some people we like, some we avoid, some we have become great friends with, just like normal life really...don't see the point of this post unless you don't trust your own judgement. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yep that's a point .....reds
BYECKKK!!
this is the whole point of this post we can throw trust as well in the mix so is very important... well to Tarzan anyway
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We go to clubs, some people we like, some we avoid, some we have become great friends with, just like normal life really...don't see the point of this post unless you don't trust your own judgement."
Agreed |
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"I think some people are getting confused between being friendly and having a true friend.. There is no comparison... of course people are going to be friendly to get a fuck from you; wouldn't work otherwise but that doesn't mean they are trying to be your friend.. politeness goes a long way.. friendship however doesn't happen overnight.. The relationship is built on, nurtured over time.. I'm not here to make friends and clearly state that on my profile but I have made friends from here.. ones I think the world of and can't envisage my life without now.. do I make friends with people to get laid?.. NO.. I'm just polite and friendly.. its all part of the wooing process.. I won't be inviting them round for coffee anytime soon "
Totally agree with this |
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We've sum acquaintances that we have enjoyed and maintained contact and regard them as friends and not so many that we'd like to avoid, we might be lucky or just too easy going lol but it's nice to be nice lol xx
If they're good company chilled have a laugh then they do for us
N Tarzan u in that mix x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met my best friend on here.
We swing separately (rarely together)
We share a caravan (and a bed when we are away) but we are not lovers or fuck buddies...we are just the best of friends...maybe with occasional benefits. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oops posted before I finished....I also have several other good friends from here...... Not many I would now avoid. It's all a case of going in with eyes open! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course I'm going to be pally to get some action at a club. That's why I go to a club! Should I then invite them round for afternoon tea regularly afterwards?"
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