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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any of my fellow ladies on here go to clubs on their own and what do you do etc lol"
I prefer to go with a fb, although once I was really horny, and at the last minute I chickened out of going alone. I think I'd feel a little vulnerable even though the club I usually go to is always very friendly.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I go alone, I've been to quite a few different clubs.... I generally get shown round by a member of staff, then head to the bar and get a drink then either start chatting there or plonk myself next to some people who look nice and introduce myself.
If you go, be proactive, look at the advice given to single men.. the principle is exactly the same.
Good luck and have fun!! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do any of my fellow ladies on here go to clubs on their own and what do you do etc lol"
I have been to Chams alone and i do the same as when i go with someone .... i chill out, have a coffee and also have sex  |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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Yes I do.
Sometimes I am just a voyeur but I like that too so it's not an issue.
Its a little nerve wracking the first time but I always feel safe and looked after. I deal quickly with the "stalkers"... following me round a club is not a tactic that's going to work .... With a polite "I will not be playing with you tonight so don't waste your time trying.
Then I just chat with people. See if there's anyone that takes my fancy.
Clubs with good music and a dance floor mean that you can still have a fun night even if you don't have sex with anyone.
You're guaranteed attention by the very fact that you're a woman in your own in a sex club. So don't worry about being a wallflower.
Just be prepared to deal with being pestered quickly.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Although part of a couple I regularly attend Townhouse on my own (her), in fact was there last night solo and back tonight solo as the hubby is working lates.
Have always felt perfectly safe and in fact would much rather go there solo than my local pub. There's always people to chat to and if you're friendly you won't be sat on your own for long 
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"I go alone, I've been to quite a few different clubs.... I generally get shown round by a member of staff, then head to the bar and get a drink then either start chatting there or plonk myself next to some people who look nice and introduce myself.
If you go, be proactive, look at the advice given to single men.. the principle is exactly the same.
Good luck and have fun!! Xx"
Exactly this 
Get out there and have some fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I occasionally go alone to clubs. It was nerve wracking at first but then I realised that as long as I make my intentions known from the outset ("don't bother, I don't wish to play with you") I find It's very comfortable abd, being a single female, you're never short of people to chat to. |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"Do any of my fellow ladies on here go to clubs on their own and what do you do etc lol"
I go alone. If you're nervous, contact the club ahead of time and tell them you're arriving on your own. The staff are usually great. I always loiter around the bar if I'm by myself or jump in the hot tub.
Townhouse, Partners, Cupids, Amour I've been alone to and not had a problem and the staff have been brill. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do any of my fellow ladies on here go to clubs on their own and what do you do etc lol"
I do but prefer to go with girlie friends. PM me if you need any advice. Some good socials coming up to break your club duck on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I go alone and have a great time. Feel very safe and comfortable and never short of people to chat to. Normally sit and at the bar first and chat and move on to jacuzzi."
me too, I prefer to go alone  |
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"I occasionally go alone to clubs. It was nerve wracking at first but then I realised that as long as I make my intentions known from the outset ("don't bother, I don't wish to play with you") I find It's very comfortable abd, being a single female, you're never short of people to chat to. "
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"I occasionally go alone to clubs. It was nerve wracking at first but then I realised that as long as I make my intentions known from the outset ("don't bother, I don't wish to play with you") I find It's very comfortable abd, being a single female, you're never short of people to chat to. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had both good and bad experiences when visiting clubs alone. Some times it just feels like hard work so I prefer to go with friends or arrange to meet others there. |
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I was peeing my pants the first time I went to Townhouse on my own but I needn't have worried. I don't know what I got myself so worked up about! I have also been with others now too and I am more than happy to walk into a club alone now as much as I am happy to be accompanied. I thought I was very brave on my own, until I saw lots of others also on their own! lol |
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