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Pregnant and going to a club?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, we are new to the scene but have been planning to do it for many years. Due to young children we've never been able to meet anyone or go to a club. We have a chance to go to a club now but my wife is quite heavily pregnant. We only want to go and see what it is like and in particular play out our fantasy of a man or two fondling her breasts in front of me - pop in for literally a few hours. We wont go any further due to the pregnancy. My question - will a pregnant lady freak people out in a club. |
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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago
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I don't see that it would be a problem, might be an idea to speak to the hosts/owners to make them aware, in case you are planning to attend on a particularly busy night (went to a hen do when I had 4 weeks left of my pregnancy and to say I was uncomfortable was an understatement!).
Have you decided on a club? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would it be a problem?even if it went beyond just a fondle of the boobs as long as everyone involved is comfy with it and there are no risks to the unborn child then crack on  |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"Hi, we are new to the scene but have been planning to do it for many years. Due to young children we've never been able to meet anyone or go to a club. We have a chance to go to a club now but my wife is quite heavily pregnant. We only want to go and see what it is like and in particular play out our fantasy of a man or two fondling her breasts in front of me - pop in for literally a few hours. We wont go any further due to the pregnancy. My question - will a pregnant lady freak people out in a club. "
Do what you feel comfortable with. Forget what everyone else thinks.
I bet you'll get quite a bit of positive attention because pregnant women are pretty damn hot.
Even if you don't feel like playing, go for a social.
Hope you have fun whatever club you pick! |
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Given that I have been on this site for years and been going to clubs for the same time, I know what club goers are like, and unfortunately she is likely to get funny looks and even a few not so very subtle and quiet comments.
Is it right and should it happen? No
But in all probability it will happen and could put you off going to a club in the future.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, went to a club before with a pregnant lady who played with those she felt comfortable with and received a really friendly warm reception from everyone there. She loved it and we both had a great time and met really nice people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any of you consider the unborn child ? Disgusting !!!! "
Did you not read the original post...! They want to go to a club and have people touch her boobs... And besides...What is wrong with them wanting to go to a club. She is pregnant not a leper |
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"Given that I have been on this site for years and been going to clubs for the same time, I know what club goers are like, and unfortunately she is likely to get funny looks and even a few not so very subtle and quiet comments.
Is it right and should it happen? No
But in all probability it will happen and could put you off going to a club in the future.
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have to agree with this. If I was in a club I would not feel comfy playing with a pregnant lady and would question why she was there. Only my opinion. |
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I still attended my local club during my pregnancies but I never engaged in play of any kind, just went for the social side of the scene, it was still nice to be around like minded people.
Be prepared for a lot of attention though hell of a lot of guys go crazy for a pregnant lady, so tell them your limits and they should be respectful of that if they aren't inform the staff and they shall resolve the issue for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given that I have been on this site for years and been going to clubs for the same time, I know what club goers are like, and unfortunately she is likely to get funny looks and even a few not so very subtle and quiet comments.
Is it right and should it happen? No
But in all probability it will happen and could put you off going to a club in the future.
have to agree with this. If I was in a club I would not feel comfy playing with a pregnant lady and would question why she was there. Only my opinion."
Would you question why a pregnant lady was at a pub then... Or any other sort of social event? Maybe pregnant women should hide away.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any of you consider the unborn child ? Disgusting !!!! "
Your opinion and you're entitled to it! The OP clearly states their intention and desire to visit a club.
I imagine you'd quite happily look down your nose and whisper to each other, rather than be sociable! As couples often clearly state there is more to swinging than sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you want your unborn baby in a club,that doesn't feel right to me!"
Omg really...? I think some of you must think that being pregnant means that you shouldn't do anything.... I can't even comprehend the logic. |
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"Given that I have been on this site for years and been going to clubs for the same time, I know what club goers are like, and unfortunately she is likely to get funny looks and even a few not so very subtle and quiet comments.
Is it right and should it happen? No
But in all probability it will happen and could put you off going to a club in the future.
have to agree with this. If I was in a club I would not feel comfy playing with a pregnant lady and would question why she was there. Only my opinion.
Would you question why a pregnant lady was at a pub then... Or any other sort of social event? Maybe pregnant women should hide away. "
but she wouldn't go to a pub to have her breasts fondled. Of course pregnant women shouldn't hide away. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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Can't see why you shouldn't go either to watch or have whatever fun you choose. If people decide to judge you based on it do you really give a f@ck? I'd probably suggest not wearing the killer heels but anything else... Up to you both. Pregnant woman are sexy xxxx  |
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"Why would you want your unborn baby in a club,that doesn't feel right to me!
Omg really...? I think some of you must think that being pregnant means that you shouldn't do anything.... I can't even comprehend the logic. "
Yes really... Having a baby is a wonderful thing between a man and wife,having another person grope your breasts whilst you're still pregnant to me wouldn't feel right... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you want your unborn baby in a club,that doesn't feel right to me!
Omg really...? I think some of you must think that being pregnant means that you shouldn't do anything.... I can't even comprehend the logic.
Yes really... Having a baby is a wonderful thing between a man and wife,having another person grope your breasts whilst you're still pregnant to me wouldn't feel right..."
Then dont do it but there is nothing wrong with it, yes having a baby is amazing. But a woman is still a woman x |
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"Why would you want your unborn baby in a club,that doesn't feel right to me!
Then should you ever be pregnant you don't have to do it then. Quite simple "
That's highly unlikely,I wasn't able to have my own children and it's a loss I'll take to my grave. Thing's are never simple..
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"Why would you want your unborn baby in a club,that doesn't feel right to me!
Then should you ever be pregnant you don't have to do it then. Quite simple
That's highly unlikely,I wasn't able to have my own children and it's a loss I'll take to my grave. Thing's are never simple..
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sorry to hear that, Perhaps why your having such a reaction to the issue, perfectly understandable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you want your unborn baby in a club,that doesn't feel right to me!
Then should you ever be pregnant you don't have to do it then. Quite simple
That's highly unlikely,I wasn't able to have my own children and it's a loss I'll take to my grave. Thing's are never simple..
sorry to hear that, Perhaps why your having such a reaction to the issue, perfectly understandable."
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"Why would you want your unborn baby in a club,that doesn't feel right to me!
Then should you ever be pregnant you don't have to do it then. Quite simple
That's highly unlikely,I wasn't able to have my own children and it's a loss I'll take to my grave. Thing's are never simple..
sorry to hear that, Perhaps why your having such a reaction to the issue, perfectly understandable."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you want your unborn baby in a club,that doesn't feel right to me!
Then should you ever be pregnant you don't have to do it then. Quite simple
That's highly unlikely,I wasn't able to have my own children and it's a loss I'll take to my grave. Thing's are never simple..
sorry to hear that, Perhaps why your having such a reaction to the issue, perfectly understandable."
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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OP I would have thought everyone would be supportive of you and I am quite surprised by some of the responses.
I would say do whatever you find sexy. I think its great to see sexually empowered women who do what they want to do. Dont think about what society, club goers or forum writers think. Do you You find sexy, and you will be sure to attract people who also find it sexy. |
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"MY thoughts are with you excitementneeded and big hug coming to you
Anna xx"
Thankyou Anna,that's lovely. I do have my two girl's,one we found under a mulberry bush and her sister from the local farm (she went through a stage of grunting  ). To have given birth to them would have been wonderful,as adoption can be far from easy,but they are now part of my soul.
Sorry ignore me,back to the subject... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went a few weeks ago.... There was one couple who were kind of shocked but ultimately fine and they played with my o.h while I sat off chatting to others in the pool
I'm hoping to go again before the baby is due..
If you are happy to go, then go, don't let others opinions decide for you....if people don't like it... They can lump it.... That's my opinion.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what is wrong with a pregnant woman still being sexual. And having her boobs played with isn't exactly going to do anything to the baby. "
I don't think there is anything wrong with a pregnant woman being sexual at all I just don't understand the need to have that desire fulfilled by random strangers. I wouldn't want my pregnancy to be a viewed as a sexual fetish for someone else.
Just my POV, each to their own.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do what you like. So what if they look they are probably only jealous or have an opinion that's two faced or hypocritical.
Gissa a shout if ya wanna do it someplace else instead of the club. |
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