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what do you think of brown ppl in clubs?
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We have Asian fab friends who say they get a lot of racism from people on this site. Thankfully we've never experienced it. But I do wonder how many clubs goers feel uncomfortable seeing Asian couples or singles in a swinging club. Your thouhghts please (hope the answers dont put us off our new year plans!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I havnt been to a club for a long time its to clicky for me ,too expensive and single guys are mostly frowned upon so it could be its not racism we are talking about but the clicky nature of clubs and the regular members who frequent them  |
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You could have a point Trademark. They do tend to be cliquey...but I guess the regulars just get to know each other really well perhaps. Makes them less welcoming of the newbies or those who don't go as often. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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There is only one problem with Asians in clubs. That problems is there is not enough of them. The greater the number of people in the lifestyle the better. The greater the amount of diversity in the lifestyle the better too.
Both create more opportunities for sexy connections and encounters, and that can only be a good thing.
I'm sorry to hear that your friends have encountered racisim in a club. We have never knowingly been affected by it in a club. |
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Sad that they experience this. I have never experienced racism in this site.. but just a thought.. hope they are not confusing preference with race.
Even in clubs have never experienced racism.. maybe preference but thats ok |
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I have Asien background, and i have been faced to racism from many people on this site.
Three months ago, a couple in Hornchurch/Essex has invited me on a saturday night to their house, we had a nice chat at the beginning, but when they found out that i'm from Asia, they kicked me out from their house, although my skin colour is white.
Since then before a meet i always ask people, if my ethnic origin will be a problem and ask them for written confirmation.
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"There is only one problem with Asians in clubs. That problems is there is not enough of them. The greater the number of people in the lifestyle the better. The greater the amount of diversity in the lifestyle the better too.
Both create more opportunities for sexy connections and encounters, and that can only be a good thing.
I'm sorry to hear that your friends have encountered racisim in a club. We have never knowingly been affected by it in a club. "
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"I have Asien background, and i have been faced to racism from many people on this site.
Three months ago, a couple in Hornchurch/Essex has invited me on a saturday night to their house, we had a nice chat at the beginning, but when they found out that i'm from Asia, they kicked me out from their house, although my skin colour is white.
Since then before a meet i always ask people, if my ethnic origin will be a problem and ask them for written confirmation.
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That's terrible, I mean it's their choice clearly but what a way to behave  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never seen racism in clubs.
Put this in another scenario. White English people not being spoken to.... U would assume that people are not attracted to them? Yes? So why if a Asian couple not spoken to people assume racism??!
I personally am not generally attracted to Asian men, I have however played with a Asian man who was pale and didn't have the usual Asian look. Paul on the other hand adores Asian woman and too right most of them are stunning. Now because generally my preference isn't Asian men I have been called racist before |
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"I have never seen racism in clubs.
Put this in another scenario. White English people not being spoken to.... U would assume that people are not attracted to them? Yes? So why if a Asian couple not spoken to people assume racism??!
I personally am not generally attracted to Asian men, I have however played with a Asian man who was pale and didn't have the usual Asian look. Paul on the other hand adores Asian woman and too right most of them are stunning. Now because generally my preference isn't Asian men I have been called racist before "
My point exactly... if someone does not fancy someone of a certain race.. sensitive people are quick to wave the racist flag which is nonsense.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What a pity to read a post like this
People are allowed to have a choice but to make comments is out of order
For us if people are nice it does not matter what colour they are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dare say an Asian couple would have a much easier ride than a single Asian male
Much cooing over Asian women on here, yet a lot of expresses negativity over the males. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone no matter what colour their skin is has as much right as anyone else. If people find it a problem that you are in a club they can look the other way. Hope you will have a good time if you choose to go to a club. |
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I agree with others that people can have a preference for non-Asians without being racist per se. It's all about who you click with. Unpleasant when people are outright rude about it..shame for the 'white' looking Asian who got turned away in the end....either you're attracted or not...don't see why country of origin comes into it |
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