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Cannot understand why couples go to a club and go into a private room by themselfs
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"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." Perhaps they are both playing away and using the club as accommodation?  | |||
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" Basically my hubby is the sexiest man there and I don't want to wait until we go home to enjoy him. "  This x | |||
"Because we quite fancy a fuck, but not with anyone we've spoken with so far. " 
We have been to quite a few clubs and only played with each other the majority of times for just this reason | |||
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"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." What is there to understand.they don't want company at that time.simple. | |||
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"Some couples, whether new to it or not, get off on just being in the vicinity of others and their sexual variances! It is not always about fucking with someone else or having them watch "Spot on | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." we do this quite often. we go to a club, if we feel like it we will play, sometimes in an open room, sometimes in a private room with one or two guys. it is our choice who we invite into our sex lives, whether this is in a club or in our homes. just because we are there doesn't mean we have to play with someone and just because you are there doesn't mean we, or indeed anyone else have to play with you. yes swinging can be about playing with others, it also about personal choice, and not about entitlement and other peoples expectations of what we should be doing. just as you can go into a nightclub and not dance it is perfectly permissable to go to a clu and not play if the mood doesn't take you. | |||
"Because we quite fancy a fuck, but not with anyone we've spoken with so far. " This. My OH is, for me, always the best looking a sexiest person we in the club and although we go hopping to meet that special someone for some group fun we are definitely not going to settle for the "best we can get" if there is no where there that takes our fancy. So we are there, we are horny and we want some fun. Private room it is to avoid unwanted groping hands. | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." . Why not ?. It might be that they enjoy the atmosphere in the club but si not want everyone watching them.. | |||
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"We have a houseful of teenagers so out time at our favourite club is precious. It's fantastic to find other people to spend time with but even more special to catch up with each other. I can scream like a banshee at Kestrels..can't do that in this house
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" I was going to add the same " great minds xx | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." If we ever went to a club, we would most likely do this as we only have access to car or hotels | |||
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"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." a bit presumptious of you to question what people do in clubs.. | |||
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"Some couples, whether new to it or not, get off on just being in the vicinity of others and their sexual variances! It is not always about fucking with someone else or having them watch "This describes us quite well. On a couples only night we're far more likely to play in open areas around others when we don't have to worry about being crowded by single men. | |||
"We do this because we havent found anyone suitable to play with and are both far too horny to wait till we get home" Absolutely...also we went to a well known club once on a night where they 'let only a limited number of single men in' and were surrounded by a gang of men jerking off....NOT our idea of a turn on.... | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." You don't need to understand! | |||
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. But it's easy to enjoy the atmosphere of a club and get aroused and if there's nothing you fancy then locking yourself in a private room is good | |||
"Sometimes we just want a break from being stalked by single guys. The rest of the time with me and my regular guy it's because we just want time together " . oh dear. yet another single bloke hater. book a hotel then!! | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." For the same reason straight men in a club look at me funny when I ask them to all fuck in a huge all male gangbang...I can't control people to make them do what I want | |||
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"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." Why the hell not?! Everyone responds to their own needs(hint: their own..)in different ways, and at different times. What gives you the right to assume that everyone should have the same outlook as yourself?!? | |||
"Sometimes we just want a break from being stalked by single guys. The rest of the time with me and my regular guy it's because we just want time together . oh dear. yet another single bloke hater. book a hotel then!!" This made me laugh. Fancy you wanting fuck each other in a club, hotels only, its the rules! 
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Guys can wank till their bellends drop off, doesn't bother us!
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"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others. Perhaps they are both playing away and using the club as accommodation? "Good point, there are quite a few fb couples who go to clubs to enjoy each other's company but neither can accommodate for whatever reason. . OP: what we don't understand are the ones who go to clubs with no intention of playing, watching or doing anything, but we don't let it bother us: each to their own. Mr ddc | |||
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"Not always, there are times when couples my not have privacy in their home lives (kids or living with others) so go to clubs for some time when they can indulge or use facilities un-disturbed..." This! With an adult son living in the house, times when we can both fully relax and enjoy each other are few and far between so being in a club is as much to enjoy each other than play with others And like others have already said, we go to play with each other, finding others we want to play with is a bonus | |||
"Some couples, whether new to it or not, get off on just being in the vicinity of others and their sexual variances! It is not always about fucking with someone else or having them wjatch "J Yes I have done both with swing buddies. Sometimes you just want each other without anyone watching. One thing that grinds my gears is clubs often have a rule when the door is shut you cannot go in. The number of times single blokes ignore this rule. I had it again last night at Quest. Thank god there was a bolt on the door which we then used. | |||
"Some couples, whether new to it or not, get off on just being in the vicinity of others and their sexual variances! It is not always about fucking with someone else or having them wjatch
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Yes I have done both with swing buddies. Sometimes you just want each other without anyone watching. One thing that grinds my gears is clubs often have a rule when the door is shut you cannot go in. The number of times single blokes ignore this rule. I had it again last night at Quest. Thank god there was a bolt on the door which we then used. "Thank god you eventually had the sense to use the bolt  | |||
"Some couples, whether new to it or not, get off on just being in the vicinity of others and their sexual variances! It is not always about fucking with someone else or having them wjatch
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Yes I have done both with swing buddies. Sometimes you just want each other without anyone watching. One thing that grinds my gears is clubs often have a rule when the door is shut you cannot go in. The number of times single blokes ignore this rule. I had it again last night at Quest. Thank god there was a bolt on the door which we then used.
Thank god you eventually had the sense to use the bolt "We had not seen the bolt at first.It was only when I went to shut the door after the jerk left it open did I notice it. Good thing there was one as there were further attempts to open it from what I can only assume were single men. | |||
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"Some couples, whether new to it or not, get off on just being in the vicinity of others and their sexual variances! It is not always about fucking with someone else or having them wjatch
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Yes I have done both with swing buddies. Sometimes you just want each other without anyone watching. One thing that grinds my gears is clubs often have a rule when the door is shut you cannot go in. The number of times single blokes ignore this rule. I had it again last night at Quest. Thank god there was a bolt on the door which we then used.
Thank god you eventually had the sense to use the bolt
We had not seen the bolt at first.It was only when I went to shut the door after the jerk left it open did I notice it. Good thing there was one as there were further attempts to open it from what I can only assume were single men."Seen many a couple,and ladies trying to open a closed door,you don't know if anyone is in there till you try,not all closed doors are occupied,but obviously once the door is bolted you know the room is occupied | |||
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"Maybe they have kids at home so can't fully enjoy themselves vocally either at home or at a hotel, so use their local club to fuck each others brains out as noisily as they like without hotel management knocking on the door or the kids hearing mummy yell 'fuck my arse harder you huge stud'. Saves on years of therapy for their poor little darings." That closing sentence just made me burst out laughing! | |||
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"Couples, singles, private room users Please please dont feel you have to justify anything to anyone its your business your rights to do what you feel good with, bollocks to the OP. " | |||
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"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." Maybe they just fancy moment fucking each other alone. Maybe there's no one in the place that takes their fancy or vice versa. Maybe the room has equipment in it they are trying out alone. Not that is anyone else's business why they wander into rooms by themselves or what they might be doing in there. Simples | |||
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"Sometimes we just want a break from being stalked by single guys. The rest of the time with me and my regular guy it's because we just want time together . oh dear. yet another single bloke hater. book a hotel then!!" What an ignorant thing to say. It's got nothing to do with hating single guys. We got to sauna specifically looking for single guys but when you get a crowd of wanking zombies following you from room to room with no attempt to engage in conversation and expecting that just because they have their cock out you are under some kind of obligation to do something with it, it often bocomes easier just to go somewhere quiet while they take a hint. Your attitude of thinking that someone wanting to be left alone for a minute makes them a hater suggest you might be Wanking Zombie Number 1! | |||
"Sometimes we just want a break from being stalked by single guys. The rest of the time with me and my regular guy it's because we just want time together . oh dear. yet another single bloke hater. book a hotel then!!" Where does it say I hate single blokes? Don't hate them I just don't like being followed round. Speak to me and ask if you can join in but don't follow me round saying nothing and then rattle the door handle after I have shut and locked the door | |||
"Sometimes we just want a break from being stalked by single guys. The rest of the time with me and my regular guy it's because we just want time together . oh dear. yet another single bloke hater. book a hotel then!! What an ignorant thing to say. It's got nothing to do with hating single guys. We got to sauna specifically looking for single guys but when you get a crowd of wanking zombies following you from room to room with no attempt to engage in conversation and expecting that just because they have their cock out you are under some kind of obligation to do something with it, it often bocomes easier just to go somewhere quiet while they take a hint. Your attitude of thinking that someone wanting to be left alone for a minute makes them a hater suggest you might be Wanking Zombie Number 1! " You are probably right. | |||
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"Sometimes we just want a break from being stalked by single guys. The rest of the time with me and my regular guy it's because we just want time together . oh dear. yet another single bloke hater. book a hotel then!!" What an idiotic thing to say  | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." We love fucking anywhere together and fuck in the rooms alone when theres no one else we want to play with. Why would we waste a night sat at the bar when we can just go fuck one another? | |||
"Sometimes we just want a break from being stalked by single guys. The rest of the time with me and my regular guy it's because we just want time together . oh dear. yet another single bloke hater. book a hotel then!! What an ignorant thing to say. It's got nothing to do with hating single guys. We got to sauna specifically looking for single guys but when you get a crowd of wanking zombies following you from room to room with no attempt to engage in conversation and expecting that just because they have their cock out you are under some kind of obligation to do something with it, it often bocomes easier just to go somewhere quiet while they take a hint. Your attitude of thinking that someone wanting to be left alone for a minute makes them a hater suggest you might be Wanking Zombie Number 1! You are probably right. "Wanking zombie | |||
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"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." We totally agree with you . If there was no one we fancied at the club to play with , we would go home rather than use a room at the club . | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others. We totally agree with you . If there was no one we fancied at the club to play with , we would go home rather than use a room at the club . "We have a chat and then home. Its rare we play at a club, even with each other. In our own home, we can have the sex we want, although we do have to lock our teens in their rooms if we want to use the hallway .... | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others. We totally agree with you . If there was no one we fancied at the club to play with , we would go home rather than use a room at the club . "What would you do if your nearest club was 2 hours away? | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others. We totally agree with you . If there was no one we fancied at the club to play with , we would go home rather than use a room at the club .
What would you do if your nearest club was 2 hours away? "Probabky fuck in the car park , or find a suitable outdoor spot for fun | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others. We totally agree with you . If there was no one we fancied at the club to play with , we would go home rather than use a room at the club .
What would you do if your nearest club was 2 hours away?
Probabky fuck in the car park , or find a suitable outdoor spot for fun "I guessed that was the answer
The idea of outdoors scares me witless (reportable job... that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it) unless I'm way to d*unk... then, well there's a nice place by the river near us  | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." Because its our choice......simples | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others. We totally agree with you . If there was no one we fancied at the club to play with , we would go home rather than use a room at the club .
What would you do if your nearest club was 2 hours away? "Why wouldn't we? As we live together, we don't have to go to a club to fuck ... whilst we have clubs her, some of the best ones we have been to are two hours drive away, but we don't play there if we don't want to. | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." We do exactly this especially when there is no one that takes our fancy to play with.plus it's easier than having to send single men away as we aren't interested | |||
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"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others." single males are why this happens...we avoid clubs as cant handle the single man aspect,not wanted not needed | |||
"It may be me, but I can never understand why a couple would go to a club and use a private room by themselves I understand if they are with another couple or single male or female ?.i know sometimes if you are a newbie and a bit shy, but I took its about enjoying it with others. We totally agree with you . If there was no one we fancied at the club to play with , we would go home rather than use a room at the club .
What would you do if your nearest club was 2 hours away?
Why wouldn't we? As we live together, we don't have to go to a club to fuck ... whilst we have clubs her, some of the best ones we have been to are two hours drive away, but we don't play there if we don't want to."It wasn't a question aimed to call you out. Our nearest club is 2 hours away so if we are horny and want to play without being watched then we use the private room and cover the window rather than waiting to go home. Plus I'm way more relaxed and in the moment out of the house without chores and kids and pets and mess. Also the clubs are usually much more roomy than our campervan! In all honesty, the only times we have played privately without being watched, unintentionally turned into just a warm up act for us playing together in open rooms. It did, as others have said, relax us (me mainly) and make us more horny. Plus as others said it was sexy hearing others. Just can't imagine going to a club, feeling sexy and waiting until we were alone to release it if alone meant a couple hours wait. We have done this though when there's been a hotel room round the corner. | |||
"Some couples, whether new to it or not, get off on just being in the vicinity of others and their sexual variances! It is not always about fucking with someone else or having them watch " very true just because your in a club DOSEN'T mean the wife is meat for the taking! | |||
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why go to the club if you're that bothered about single men?
Personally, I don't care what people do at a club, whether it be with others or their partners; but to blame it on single men isn't justifiable in my opinion. If you go on the night men go as you can't go on the couples nights then tell them you're not interested, it's not difficult. I have never seen any men pestering people, but then I don't think many New men go yo clubs now as they're petrified due to what (mainly couples) say and feel they're not wanted. Well clubs are for everyone, not just couples and many couples are interested in men too. So if you have a problem with one on the night, tell them, they're still human! | |||
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"We are I would say, still newbies, but one thing I have come to realise is that, swinging is as swinging does, in that I mean, swinging is different to every single individual, if you are a couple, single, fwb, fb, I believe we all have our very own idea of what it is to us, and rightly so, we are not programmed to all want or like the same things, just as we are not in our day to day lives, I read threads daily where people question others for the ideal they have of swinging, why? surely it's just a personal choice and if that's the choice they have made then why question it, do people on here knock on the neighbours door to question the new car they have bought, or stop them in the supermarket when they see them choosing own brand beans instead of Heinz, no of course not because that is appreciated to be the personal choice of those people, swinging to me is no different, we have yet to decide what exactly swinging is to us, and I'm sure it will change as we discover new likes and indeed dislikes, so we have played in a private room at a club, because we were soooo horny and loved watching others but we're not yet ready to dip our toes, we will be back and who knows how our next visit will go, but we certainly wouldn't do what others may think we should because it's their idea of swinging Mrs blue eyes "Very well said! | |||
" Basically my hubby is the sexiest man there and I don't want to wait until we go home to enjoy him. " That's exactly how I feel about Paul. | |||
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"We have a houseful of teenagers so out time at our favourite club is precious. It's fantastic to find other people to spend time with but even more special to catch up with each other. I can scream like a banshee at Kestrels..can't do that in this house
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