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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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One of my partners and I are looking for a club to go to Saturday night. We only do BDSM, but with like sex with our kink so tend to go to clubs where this is okay.
Are any swing clubs in the midlands running kink this Saturday night? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Google "Club domina". It's on Saturday and Sunday."
Alas, London is too far for us this weekend (and their website didn't load on my phone). Will keep them in mind for the future. |
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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago
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Club Atlantis Evolution has a Swinger's Night on Saturday Night and a Fetish Event on Sunday afternoon / evening. But you could use some of the BDSM toys as long as you don't scare the other Swingers  |
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Embargo which is on certain Sundays at liberty elite.
You have to go through the "other site" to contact the event organiser and ask to attend.
It's only link, no swinging, but in a swinger club so full nudity and sex is fine.
Or of course there's the facility and underworld in brum, and several others, some where hard play is common. These tend to be invite only.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Embargo which is on certain Sundays at liberty elite.
You have to go through the "other site" to contact the event organiser and ask to attend.
It's only link, no swinging, but in a swinger club so full nudity and sex is fine.
Or of course there's the facility and underworld in brum, and several others, some where hard play is common. These tend to be invite only.
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Thanks.
Our fallback plan is The Facility, we go there pretty regularly. But it's not really a place where sex happens (or never at the parties we go to) so we were just wondering if there was somewhere else that might have something on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Club Atlantis Evolution has a Swinger's Night on Saturday Night and a Fetish Event on Sunday afternoon / evening. But you could use some of the BDSM toys as long as you don't scare the other Swingers "
Scaring the swingers is unfortunately the problem - we've been asked to leave more than one club! |
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"Club Atlantis Evolution has a Swinger's Night on Saturday Night and a
Scaring the swingers is unfortunately the problem - we've been asked to leave more than one club!"
Hi if you can travel north, l recommend
Townhouse, most excellent dungeon. As a bdsm lifestyler, l give it 9/10..real cages etc..plus they allow me to do fire flogging in courtyard.
The unit in Blackpool
Run by the gob..bdsm lifestyler owner..excellent club 9/10.
Partners has kage events run by dave the butcher. .excellent lifestyler, known 10 years.
All do hard core with kink sex twist. .
As for me...:D...hot wax bondage flogging and sex..is what l put her through... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What about xtasia? The main swinging club has a dungeon area and then there is purgatory too which is fet only "
I don't think it has anything on this Saturday night in the fetish club, or my partner didn't mention it when he looked for club nights yesterday. (Plus - sex on the tiled floor of the dungeon is really unsexy...) |
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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago
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"Club Atlantis Evolution has a Swinger's Night on Saturday Night and a Fetish Event on Sunday afternoon / evening. But you could use some of the BDSM toys as long as you don't scare the other Swingers
Scaring the swingers is unfortunately the problem - we've been asked to leave more than one club!"
Depends what you are thinking of on the BDSM side of things. Pinwheel seems fine, some light restraints, maybe violet wands are ok for swingers maybe spanking.
Otherwise stick to Fetish Events and not swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Club Atlantis Evolution has a Swinger's Night on Saturday Night and a Fetish Event on Sunday afternoon / evening. But you could use some of the BDSM toys as long as you don't scare the other Swingers
Scaring the swingers is unfortunately the problem - we've been asked to leave more than one club!
Depends what you are thinking of on the BDSM side of things. Pinwheel seems fine, some light restraints, maybe violet wands are ok for swingers maybe spanking.
Otherwise stick to Fetish Events and not swinging. "
That's why I'm looking for crossover events. |
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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago
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Don't know that there are many crossover events. Swingers I know have been accused of being "dirty swingers" by Fetish people despite being very clean and practicing safe sex and safe BDSM practices.
Some Fetish / bdsm things frighten swingers and there can also be licence limitations.
Good luck with your search. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are many crossover events, just none on this weekend anywhere close.
If you save yourself for next weekend there is both FUBAR and the Cirque on in Birmingham |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There are many crossover events, just none on this weekend anywhere close.
If you save yourself for next weekend there is both FUBAR and the Cirque on in Birmingham "
Next weekend is a no-go. We go to Cirque every now and again because it's run by friends, but it's not really our thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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FUBAR might be worth a look at for you, its at Underworld so anything goes and really good dungeon facilities. That said, its a new event though in an established venue so we are thinking FUBAR on the sat and quick change around for Sunday Cirque, hopefully all good fun.
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"Club Atlantis Evolution has a Swinger's Night on Saturday Night and a Fetish Event on Sunday afternoon / evening. But you could use some of the BDSM toys as long as you don't scare the other Swingers
Scaring the swingers is unfortunately the problem - we've been asked to leave more than one club!"
Swingers clubs? Which ones? We play pretty heavy but at swing clubs we do tone it way down. I also don't like being commented about when I play or having men reach in for a grope, which would never happen at a kink event. So on the whole, we stick to kink events, with the proviso they're at swing clubs so we can have sex too;) |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"Club Atlantis Evolution has a Swinger's Night on Saturday Night and a
Scaring the swingers is unfortunately the problem - we've been asked to leave more than one club!
Hi if you can travel north, l recommend
Townhouse, most excellent dungeon. As a bdsm lifestyler, l give it 9/10..real cages etc..plus they allow me to do fire flogging in courtyard.
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It's deffo worth the extra hour travelling.
The swingers tend to be used to seeing fetishists on the swing nights plus the dungeons are usually freed up. They allow fetishists to go into the cellar dungeon and lock the door on swinging nights so you can play as hard as you want in privacy and mix the fet and sex. They have two other dungeons which you can lock the door on. One has a viewing window.
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By * and PCouple
over a year ago
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Have you considered JayDees club on a Saturday night, yes it is a swingers club but up stairs the is a large selection of BDSM equipment ( 2 St Andrews crosses, 2 spanking benches, 4 poster bed with restraints, sex swing ) and there are usually a few couples who bring their own floggers and BDSM toys along as well and are always willing to give a demonstration of their uses. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Club Atlantis Evolution has a Swinger's Night on Saturday Night and a Fetish Event on Sunday afternoon / evening. But you could use some of the BDSM toys as long as you don't scare the other Swingers
Scaring the swingers is unfortunately the problem - we've been asked to leave more than one club!
Swingers clubs? Which ones? We play pretty heavy but at swing clubs we do tone it way down. I also don't like being commented about when I play or having men reach in for a grope, which would never happen at a kink event. So on the whole, we stick to kink events, with the proviso they're at swing clubs so we can have sex too;)"
I dunno - I've had men grope my sub at kink events, but never had them grope him at a swingers club!
Not going to say where we were asked to leave from - it's not fair to the club. It was swingers nights and we were playing hard. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you considered JayDees club on a Saturday night, yes it is a swingers club but up stairs the is a large selection of BDSM equipment ( 2 St Andrews crosses, 2 spanking benches, 4 poster bed with restraints, sex swing ) and there are usually a few couples who bring their own floggers and BDSM toys along as well and are always willing to give a demonstration of their uses. "
Unfortunately it's just too far away. It would be two and a half hours drive there and the same back for one of us, since we don't live together.
We do play quite hard too, which is why ideally we prefer crossover nights. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Club Atlantis Evolution has a Swinger's Night on Saturday Night and a
Scaring the swingers is unfortunately the problem - we've been asked to leave more than one club!
Hi if you can travel north, l recommend
Townhouse, most excellent dungeon. As a bdsm lifestyler, l give it 9/10..real cages etc..plus they allow me to do fire flogging in courtyard.
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It's deffo worth the extra hour travelling.
The swingers tend to be used to seeing fetishists on the swing nights plus the dungeons are usually freed up. They allow fetishists to go into the cellar dungeon and lock the door on swinging nights so you can play as hard as you want in privacy and mix the fet and sex. They have two other dungeons which you can lock the door on. One has a viewing window.
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My partner goes there a fair bit, but it's just so far for me. Just over two hours from my place, and I don't think that I can be trusted to drive two hours after midnight! |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"Club Atlantis Evolution has a Swinger's Night on Saturday Night and a
Scaring the swingers is unfortunately the problem - we've been asked to leave more than one club!
Hi if you can travel north, l recommend
Townhouse, most excellent dungeon. As a bdsm lifestyler, l give it 9/10..real cages etc..plus they allow me to do fire flogging in courtyard.
...
It's deffo worth the extra hour travelling.
The swingers tend to be used to seeing fetishists on the swing nights plus the dungeons are usually freed up. They allow fetishists to go into the cellar dungeon and lock the door on swinging nights so you can play as hard as you want in privacy and mix the fet and sex. They have two other dungeons which you can lock the door on. One has a viewing window.
My partner goes there a fair bit, but it's just so far for me. Just over two hours from my place, and I don't think that I can be trusted to drive two hours after midnight!"
On certain nights, you can sleep over there. Could be something to consider. Play, then just crash out. |
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"Club Atlantis Evolution has a Swinger's Night on Saturday Night and a
Scaring the swingers is unfortunately the problem - we've been asked to leave more than one club!
Hi if you can travel north, l recommend
Townhouse, most excellent dungeon. As a bdsm lifestyler, l give it 9/10..real cages etc..plus they allow me to do fire flogging in courtyard.
...
It's deffo worth the extra hour travelling.
The swingers tend to be used to seeing fetishists on the swing nights plus the dungeons are usually freed up. They allow fetishists to go into the cellar dungeon and lock the door on swinging nights so you can play as hard as you want in privacy and mix the fet and sex. They have two other dungeons which you can lock the door on. One has a viewing window.
My partner goes there a fair bit, but it's just so far for me. Just over two hours from my place, and I don't think that I can be trusted to drive two hours after midnight!
On certain nights, you can sleep over there. Could be something to consider. Play, then just crash out. "
That's something we've considered too. It's also possible at liberty elite |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Club Atlantis Evolution has a Swinger's Night on Saturday Night and a
Scaring the swingers is unfortunately the problem - we've been asked to leave more than one club!
Hi if you can travel north, l recommend
Townhouse, most excellent dungeon. As a bdsm lifestyler, l give it 9/10..real cages etc..plus they allow me to do fire flogging in courtyard.
...
It's deffo worth the extra hour travelling.
The swingers tend to be used to seeing fetishists on the swing nights plus the dungeons are usually freed up. They allow fetishists to go into the cellar dungeon and lock the door on swinging nights so you can play as hard as you want in privacy and mix the fet and sex. They have two other dungeons which you can lock the door on. One has a viewing window.
My partner goes there a fair bit, but it's just so far for me. Just over two hours from my place, and I don't think that I can be trusted to drive two hours after midnight!
On certain nights, you can sleep over there. Could be something to consider. Play, then just crash out. "
I might consider it in the future, but my partner usually gets up for training in the mornings (well, so do I, but I'm more likely to sack it off and go later in the day). |
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