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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
Need people to tag into this thread as it is a amazing club which we ourselves have been going to for many years now , always have a amazing time and everyone we have met along the way who have been say the same thing xx caz and paul x |
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By *ex Luther OP Man
over a year ago
Closer than you think |
"We concur, have recommended it to numerous single female friends of ours, nearly all of whom have gone there subsequently. "
Glad to see the club getting well some deserved love it's genuinely the friendliest club I've been to |
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"I just want to praise this underrated club those of you who have been will know how welcoming and fun this gem of a venue is!"
Been a regular for two years and can't keep away. The most wonderful staff, clientèle and venue on the scene. |
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By *ex Luther OP Man
over a year ago
Closer than you think |
"I just want to praise this underrated club those of you who have been will know how welcoming and fun this gem of a venue is!
Been a regular for two years and can't keep away. The most wonderful staff, clientèle and venue on the scene. "
 always see you supporting the club mate I would challenge anyone to say a bad word about it |
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We aren't regulars, but it was our first club and we had a brilliant time. It is quite different to other clubs we have been to, in that it feels more like an intimate and very sexy night club. It is just a pain to get too from where we live. Next time we're staying over in London we'll be back  |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
We just love everything about this club ...and cant stay away ...trying to think up ideas to get them the recognition they deserve ...anyone with any suggestions feel free to help ...xx caz and paul |
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By *ex Luther OP Man
over a year ago
Closer than you think |
"We just love everything about this club ...and cant stay away ...trying to think up ideas to get them the recognition they deserve ...anyone with any suggestions feel free to help ...xx caz and paul "
I wish I had more time to go midweek  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I go travelling this is my favourite club to go to, its small and intimate and friendly and just rhe right amount of dark! Easy to get to as well. Great staff xxxx
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By *ex Luther OP Man
over a year ago
Closer than you think |
"When I go travelling this is my favourite club to go to, its small and intimate and friendly and just rhe right amount of dark! Easy to get to as well. Great staff xxxx
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If fellow club owners say good things then the club clearly does lots of things right!
I've heard good things about your club too from the wonderland people hoping to get up there one day.... |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
"We just love everything about this club ...and cant stay away ...trying to think up ideas to get them the recognition they deserve ...anyone with any suggestions feel free to help ...xx caz and paul
I wish I had more time to go midweek "
we wish u had more time to go midweek too lol xxx |
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By *ex Luther OP Man
over a year ago
Closer than you think |
"We just love everything about this club ...and cant stay away ...trying to think up ideas to get them the recognition they deserve ...anyone with any suggestions feel free to help ...xx caz and paul
I wish I had more time to go midweek we wish u had more time to go midweek too lol xxx "
I think that has more to do with who's with me than me though  x |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
"We just love everything about this club ...and cant stay away ...trying to think up ideas to get them the recognition they deserve ...anyone with any suggestions feel free to help ...xx caz and paul
I wish I had more time to go midweek we wish u had more time to go midweek too lol xxx
I think that has more to do with who's with me than me though x"
not at all ...we love you panda pants xx caz |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
"We just love everything about this club ...and cant stay away ...trying to think up ideas to get them the recognition they deserve ...anyone with any suggestions feel free to help ...xx caz and paul
I wish I had more time to go midweek we wish u had more time to go midweek too lol xxx
I think that has more to do with who's with me than me though x not at all ...we love you panda pants xx caz "
and that tight little bum of yours  xxx |
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By *ex Luther OP Man
over a year ago
Closer than you think |
"We just love everything about this club ...and cant stay away ...trying to think up ideas to get them the recognition they deserve ...anyone with any suggestions feel free to help ...xx caz and paul
I wish I had more time to go midweek we wish u had more time to go midweek too lol xxx
I think that has more to do with who's with me than me though x not at all ...we love you panda pants xx caz and that tight little bum of yours xxx"
Aww.....its getting by firmer with all these stairs at work I'm averaging 50 fights a day!!  |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
"We just love everything about this club ...and cant stay away ...trying to think up ideas to get them the recognition they deserve ...anyone with any suggestions feel free to help ...xx caz and paul
I wish I had more time to go midweek we wish u had more time to go midweek too lol xxx
I think that has more to do with who's with me than me though x not at all ...we love you panda pants xx caz and that tight little bum of yours xxx
Aww.....its getting by firmer with all these stairs at work I'm averaging 50 fights a day!! "
oooohhh cant wait to feel xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're in London from 27th April- 1st May
After reading these reviews I think we may have to see what all the fuss is about- clearly for non sexual purposes of course x |
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By *ex Luther OP Man
over a year ago
Closer than you think |
"We're in London from 27th April- 1st May
After reading these reviews I think we may have to see what all the fuss is about- clearly for non sexual purposes of course x"
Give it a go it's a lovely fun club you'll have a great non sexual time  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're in London from 27th April- 1st May
After reading these reviews I think we may have to see what all the fuss is about- clearly for non sexual purposes of course x
Give it a go it's a lovely fun club you'll have a great non sexual time x"
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"We're in London from 27th April- 1st May
After reading these reviews I think we may have to see what all the fuss is about- clearly for non sexual purposes of course x"
If your time in London covers a Friday night, may I recommend Abfabs. Did try to message you this but I am blocked |
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"We're in London from 27th April- 1st May
After reading these reviews I think we may have to see what all the fuss is about- clearly for non sexual purposes of course x"
Saw you booked for killing kittens on the Saturday night, give OurPlace4Fun a go on the Friday, we can show you as good a time as they can, lol. Need to pre-register on their website though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're in London from 27th April- 1st May
After reading these reviews I think we may have to see what all the fuss is about- clearly for non sexual purposes of course x
If your time in London covers a Friday night, may I recommend Abfabs. Did try to message you this but I am blocked "
Apologies, you know what it's like on here sometimes unfortunately
We'll look abfabs up now, thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're in London from 27th April- 1st May
After reading these reviews I think we may have to see what all the fuss is about- clearly for non sexual purposes of course x
Saw you booked for killing kittens on the Saturday night, give OurPlace4Fun a go on the Friday, we can show you as good a time as they can, lol. Need to pre-register on their website though. "
I think that could be challenge accepted thank you
Going to have a look on the website now and speak to the Mr x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want to praise this underrated club those of you who have been will know how welcoming and fun this gem of a venue is!"
I am coming to london at the end of the month & am staying at a hotel in Crystal palace
Are there any clubs that i can attend in that area ? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I've never really considered OP4F as being under rated. The reviews make it clear its a very good club, as do posts like this one. I've been a couple of times - the first time was a very quiet Tuesday and so I ended up chatting to the staff all night. The second time was an amazing Friday night. |
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By *ex Luther OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty sure I'm there tonight, can't wait as I've not managed to stay there the whole night for a while..... ooòo sexy panda ...see u tonight xxx caz and paul "
Just saw your status the club is open until 5AM!!
Amazing you won't find any other club open that late tonight if anyone wants to carry on the party when other clubs shut then come along!! |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
"I'm pretty sure I'm there tonight, can't wait as I've not managed to stay there the whole night for a while..... ooòo sexy panda ...see u tonight xxx caz and paul
Just saw your status the club is open until 5AM!!
Amazing you won't find any other club open that late tonight if anyone wants to carry on the party when other clubs shut then come along!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want to praise this underrated club those of you who have been will know how welcoming and fun this gem of a venue is!"
Good for you.
People like me are not welcome.
Nor are bi men.
Nor are women who like anal sex.
Nor are men who like anal sex.
I prefer open minded clubs who don't discriminate against minorities. |
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By *ex Luther OP Man
over a year ago
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"I just want to praise this underrated club those of you who have been will know how welcoming and fun this gem of a venue is!
Good for you.
People like me are not welcome.
Nor are bi men.
Nor are women who like anal sex.
Nor are men who like anal sex.
I prefer open minded clubs who don't discriminate against minorities. "
The club welcome all people I've seen several TVs there and the club has had positive reviews by them, the Anal rule has been explained elsewhere in another thread after an unfortunate incident. |
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By *ex Luther OP Man
over a year ago
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"What's it like on a Wednesday? Guess we should look on their website to see what theme they run first. Brb.
It's not open on a Wednesday
Thanks. Doh  "
It's open the first and third Thursday and every Tuesday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
"I just want to praise this underrated club those of you who have been will know how welcoming and fun this gem of a venue is!
Good for you.
People like me are not welcome.
Nor are bi men.
Nor are women who like anal sex.
Nor are men who like anal sex.
I prefer open minded clubs who don't discriminate against minorities. "
if u read the reviews on their fab page u will realise this is not true ....the anal thing is due to people not cleaning up after themselves ...as is the no chewing gum rule ...and the fine if people r caught not putting condoms in bins ....xxx |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
"We're in London from 27th April- 1st May
After reading these reviews I think we may have to see what all the fuss is about- clearly for non sexual purposes of course x"
we all look forward to see you attempt to keep it non sexual lol ... its very difficult to achieve as everything and everyone is so laid back and naturally puts you in your comfort zone from the second you get to reception to the time you leave .. good luck with that lol |
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By *ex Luther OP Man
over a year ago
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"We're in London from 27th April- 1st May
After reading these reviews I think we may have to see what all the fuss is about- clearly for non sexual purposes of course x we all look forward to see you attempt to keep it non sexual lol ... its very difficult to achieve as everything and everyone is so laid back and naturally puts you in your comfort zone from the second you get to reception to the time you leave .. good luck with that lol"
You mean there's sex there!! |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
"We're in London from 27th April- 1st May
After reading these reviews I think we may have to see what all the fuss is about- clearly for non sexual purposes of course x we all look forward to see you attempt to keep it non sexual lol ... its very difficult to achieve as everything and everyone is so laid back and naturally puts you in your comfort zone from the second you get to reception to the time you leave .. good luck with that lol
You mean there's sex there!! "
you cant put so many gorgeous people in such relaxing settings and expect them to keep their hands to themselves .. it would be rude NOT to lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want to praise this underrated club those of you who have been will know how welcoming and fun this gem of a venue is!
Good for you.
People like me are not welcome.
Nor are bi men.
Nor are women who like anal sex.
Nor are men who like anal sex.
I prefer open minded clubs who don't discriminate against minorities. if u read the reviews on their fab page u will realise this is not true ....the anal thing is due to people not cleaning up after themselves ...as is the no chewing gum rule ...and the fine if people r caught not putting condoms in bins ....xxx"
I read their website.
Bi men are not acceptable in the swinging community according to them.
I rang and asked if I would be welcome. They said no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're in London from 27th April- 1st May
After reading these reviews I think we may have to see what all the fuss is about- clearly for non sexual purposes of course x we all look forward to see you attempt to keep it non sexual lol ... its very difficult to achieve as everything and everyone is so laid back and naturally puts you in your comfort zone from the second you get to reception to the time you leave .. good luck with that lol
You mean there's sex there!! you cant put so many gorgeous people in such relaxing settings and expect them to keep their hands to themselves .. it would be rude NOT to lol"
Well this has put a spanner in the works for us
Looks like we are going to have to have some saucy fun in a relaxed sexy setting - the horror |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
"I just want to praise this underrated club those of you who have been will know how welcoming and fun this gem of a venue is!
Good for you.
People like me are not welcome.
Nor are bi men.
Nor are women who like anal sex.
Nor are men who like anal sex.
I prefer open minded clubs who don't discriminate against minorities. if u read the reviews on their fab page u will realise this is not true ....the anal thing is due to people not cleaning up after themselves ...as is the no chewing gum rule ...and the fine if people r caught not putting condoms in bins ....xxx
I read their website.
Bi men are not acceptable in the swinging community according to them.
I rang and asked if I would be welcome. They said no. "
there are many bi guys/girls tvs/ts that attend these events so if you did ring the club and ask im sure there would have been some other reason that you wernt welcome there .. if you rang at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just want to praise this underrated club those of you who have been will know how welcoming and fun this gem of a venue is!
Good for you.
People like me are not welcome.
Nor are bi men.
Nor are women who like anal sex.
Nor are men who like anal sex.
I prefer open minded clubs who don't discriminate against minorities. if u read the reviews on their fab page u will realise this is not true ....the anal thing is due to people not cleaning up after themselves ...as is the no chewing gum rule ...and the fine if people r caught not putting condoms in bins ....xxx
I read their website.
Bi men are not acceptable in the swinging community according to them.
I rang and asked if I would be welcome. They said no. there are many bi guys/girls tvs/ts that attend these events so if you did ring the club and ask im sure there would have been some other reason that you wernt welcome there .. if you rang at all "
They changed policy then? It was probably 12 months since I looked into going there. Not that long since I looked at their website though to see they still had the no bi men, it's not acceptable in the swinging community statement still.
I'll have another look. |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
"Ah. That's ok. Just checked. Bi men are now welcome as long as they pretend not to be and only play straight.  "
i know.... start your own club up .. theres obviously a niche in the market that youve found that nobody else has cornered yet .. the majority of clubs hold a BI NIGHT... this club does not (as yet) as whenever it is suggested it never gets a popular response .. as for bi play ... thats fine .. its just anal play is not .. purely because in the past when unfortunate accidents have happened none of the filthy fuckers have had the decency to clear up their own excrement nor even owned up to it .. nobody cherishes the prospect of cleaning someone elses crap up nor should they be expected to ... im pretty certain a degree of gay/bi and anal play does go on at this club .. its just anal play is not encouraged |
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Our swingers partues are for straight and bisexual female activity and straight male activity.
This formula is the standard swinging convention across the world and reflects the consensus of opinion among both male and female swingers of all countries.
This does not mean that Bisexual men are unwelcome.
It means that when they apply / attend, they explicitly agree that the male partner will be straight at the Party or Event .
taken directly from the rules posted on the website. if that's no longer the case then they need to update their policy on there...but I do recall a rather vigorous debate about this not so long ago where some fairly vehement viewpoints were expressed by some vocal regulars... |
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By *ex Luther OP Man
over a year ago
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"Our swingers partues are for straight and bisexual female activity and straight male activity.
This formula is the standard swinging convention across the world and reflects the consensus of opinion among both male and female swingers of all countries.
This does not mean that Bisexual men are unwelcome.
It means that when they apply / attend, they explicitly agree that the male partner will be straight at the Party or Event .
taken directly from the rules posted on the website. if that's no longer the case then they need to update their policy on there...but I do recall a rather vigorous debate about this not so long ago where some fairly vehement viewpoints were expressed by some vocal regulars..."
I remember the thread even though I did not post, I have been in the club and T-girls have been there and are most welcome if there was any discrimination against anyone the lovely lady who introduced me to the club would never endorse it. |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
"Our swingers partues are for straight and bisexual female activity and straight male activity.
This formula is the standard swinging convention across the world and reflects the consensus of opinion among both male and female swingers of all countries.
This does not mean that Bisexual men are unwelcome.
It means that when they apply / attend, they explicitly agree that the male partner will be straight at the Party or Event .
taken directly from the rules posted on the website. if that's no longer the case then they need to update their policy on there...but I do recall a rather vigorous debate about this not so long ago where some fairly vehement viewpoints were expressed by some vocal regulars..."
i think what that means is if the guy is bi or gay then unless permission is expressly given then no guy is to help himself to another guys bits nor should he go into the glory hole box with his other half the intention of sucking cock when the guys on the other side were expecting the girl to be performing ... you wouldnt go into a gay club and start hitting on the lesbians in there so why the other way round .. |
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"Our swingers partues are for straight and bisexual female activity and straight male activity.
This formula is the standard swinging convention across the world and reflects the consensus of opinion among both male and female swingers of all countries.
This does not mean that Bisexual men are unwelcome.
It means that when they apply / attend, they explicitly agree that the male partner will be straight at the Party or Event .
taken directly from the rules posted on the website. if that's no longer the case then they need to update their policy on there...but I do recall a rather vigorous debate about this not so long ago where some fairly vehement viewpoints were expressed by some vocal regulars... i think what that means is if the guy is bi or gay then unless permission is expressly given then no guy is to help himself to another guys bits nor should he go into the glory hole box with his other half the intention of sucking cock when the guys on the other side were expecting the girl to be performing ... you wouldnt go into a gay club and start hitting on the lesbians in there so why the other way round .. "
that's an interesting interpretation but I think it's very clear that the only acceptable bi play is between females. In the end, its absolutely fine for any club to have any rules they wish to but let's not make excuses when people who don't wish to be discriminated against point it out and say they're uninterested in attending |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
yiewsley |
"Our swingers partues are for straight and bisexual female activity and straight male activity.
This formula is the standard swinging convention across the world and reflects the consensus of opinion among both male and female swingers of all countries.
This does not mean that Bisexual men are unwelcome.
It means that when they apply / attend, they explicitly agree that the male partner will be straight at the Party or Event .
taken directly from the rules posted on the website. if that's no longer the case then they need to update their policy on there...but I do recall a rather vigorous debate about this not so long ago where some fairly vehement viewpoints were expressed by some vocal regulars... i think what that means is if the guy is bi or gay then unless permission is expressly given then no guy is to help himself to another guys bits nor should he go into the glory hole box with his other half the intention of sucking cock when the guys on the other side were expecting the girl to be performing ... you wouldnt go into a gay club and start hitting on the lesbians in there so why the other way round ..
that's an interesting interpretation but I think it's very clear that the only acceptable bi play is between females. In the end, its absolutely fine for any club to have any rules they wish to but let's not make excuses when people who don't wish to be discriminated against point it out and say they're uninterested in attending"
thats because NOBODY is being discriminated against .... and if bi play between guys is not the norm at this club as most who attend are straight then surely bi guys looking to play bi need to be aware of this .. it doesnt mean theyre not welcome.. they may need to be made of a few extra rules but only to avoid any kind of misunderstanding ... as some guys take serious offence to another guy randomly touching them sexually... personally as a straight guy i dont know what their problem is... its happened to me before in a dark room where i thought it was my wife playing with me when it was one of the guys in there ... nobody died .. it didnt repulse me ... it was a wank ... after a split second of suprise i got over it ... no biggy .. and i am definitely what could be called an alpha male ... and it didnt faze me .. why some guys react the way they do is beyond me but no club needs that kind of reaction so best ask 1st ... this club also has an ask or be invited before touching rule for straight guys and bi and straight girls .. nobody feeling discriminated against there .. to put this to bed .. bi and straight girls .. tvs and TSs are welcone at this very fine and well run club as long as they never presume anyone else is bi.. and so long as they are happy that there may or may not be the chance for bi play then its fine ... |
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"Our swingers partues are for straight and bisexual female activity and straight male activity.
This formula is the standard swinging convention across the world and reflects the consensus of opinion among both male and female swingers of all countries.
This does not mean that Bisexual men are unwelcome.
It means that when they apply / attend, they explicitly agree that the male partner will be straight at the Party or Event .
taken directly from the rules posted on the website. if that's no longer the case then they need to update their policy on there...but I do recall a rather vigorous debate about this not so long ago where some fairly vehement viewpoints were expressed by some vocal regulars... i think what that means is if the guy is bi or gay then unless permission is expressly given then no guy is to help himself to another guys bits nor should he go into the glory hole box with his other half the intention of sucking cock when the guys on the other side were expecting the girl to be performing ... you wouldnt go into a gay club and start hitting on the lesbians in there so why the other way round ..
that's an interesting interpretation but I think it's very clear that the only acceptable bi play is between females. In the end, its absolutely fine for any club to have any rules they wish to but let's not make excuses when people who don't wish to be discriminated against point it out and say they're uninterested in attending thats because NOBODY is being discriminated against .... and if bi play between guys is not the norm at this club as most who attend are straight then surely bi guys looking to play bi need to be aware of this .. it doesnt mean theyre not welcome.. they may need to be made of a few extra rules but only to avoid any kind of misunderstanding ... as some guys take serious offence to another guy randomly touching them sexually... personally as a straight guy i dont know what their problem is... its happened to me before in a dark room where i thought it was my wife playing with me when it was one of the guys in there ... nobody died .. it didnt repulse me ... it was a wank ... after a split second of suprise i got over it ... no biggy .. and i am definitely what could be called an alpha male ... and it didnt faze me .. why some guys react the way they do is beyond me but no club needs that kind of reaction so best ask 1st ... this club also has an ask or be invited before touching rule for straight guys and bi and straight girls .. nobody feeling discriminated against there .. to put this to bed .. bi and straight girls .. tvs and TSs are welcone at this very fine and well run club as long as they never presume anyone else is bi.. and so long as they are happy that there may or may not be the chance for bi play then its fine ... "
that's very clearly not what it says and not the experience of the poster in the thread who has contacted the club personally. As I said earlier, if it's no longer the case it needs to be updated so that people can make an informed choice about whether or not they wish to patronise the club. As you appear to be speaking on behalf of the management of the club, perhaps you can let them know that their published guidance is contradictory to your experience and they can clear any misunderstanding up as soon as possible...it could be losing them business |
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"Our swingers partues are for straight and bisexual female activity and straight male activity.
This formula is the standard swinging convention across the world and reflects the consensus of opinion among both male and female swingers of all countries.
This does not mean that Bisexual men are unwelcome.
It means that when they apply / attend, they explicitly agree that the male partner will be straight at the Party or Event .
taken directly from the rules posted on the website. if that's no longer the case then they need to update their policy on there...but I do recall a rather vigorous debate about this not so long ago where some fairly vehement viewpoints were expressed by some vocal regulars... i think what that means is if the guy is bi or gay then unless permission is expressly given then no guy is to help himself to another guys bits nor should he go into the glory hole box with his other half the intention of sucking cock when the guys on the other side were expecting the girl to be performing ... you wouldnt go into a gay club and start hitting on the lesbians in there so why the other way round ..
that's an interesting interpretation but I think it's very clear that the only acceptable bi play is between females. In the end, its absolutely fine for any club to have any rules they wish to but let's not make excuses when people who don't wish to be discriminated against point it out and say they're uninterested in attending thats because NOBODY is being discriminated against .... and if bi play between guys is not the norm at this club as most who attend are straight then surely bi guys looking to play bi need to be aware of this .. it doesnt mean theyre not welcome.. they may need to be made of a few extra rules but only to avoid any kind of misunderstanding ... as some guys take serious offence to another guy randomly touching them sexually... personally as a straight guy i dont know what their problem is... its happened to me before in a dark room where i thought it was my wife playing with me when it was one of the guys in there ... nobody died .. it didnt repulse me ... it was a wank ... after a split second of suprise i got over it ... no biggy .. and i am definitely what could be called an alpha male ... and it didnt faze me .. why some guys react the way they do is beyond me but no club needs that kind of reaction so best ask 1st ... this club also has an ask or be invited before touching rule for straight guys and bi and straight girls .. nobody feeling discriminated against there .. to put this to bed .. bi and straight girls .. tvs and TSs are welcone at this very fine and well run club as long as they never presume anyone else is bi.. and so long as they are happy that there may or may not be the chance for bi play then its fine ... "
Interesting that you seem to assume that bi men will randomly touch another man.
In my experience, bi men tend to be very cautious who they approach, especially on a night where straight guys are present.
The owners of the club in question have made it very clear bi play is only acceptable between women. The reason it's not the norm at their club is because they don't approve of it.
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
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"Our swingers partues are for straight and bisexual female activity and straight male activity.
This formula is the standard swinging convention across the world and reflects the consensus of opinion among both male and female swingers of all countries.
This does not mean that Bisexual men are unwelcome.
It means that when they apply / attend, they explicitly agree that the male partner will be straight at the Party or Event .
taken directly from the rules posted on the website. if that's no longer the case then they need to update their policy on there...but I do recall a rather vigorous debate about this not so long ago where some fairly vehement viewpoints were expressed by some vocal regulars... i think what that means is if the guy is bi or gay then unless permission is expressly given then no guy is to help himself to another guys bits nor should he go into the glory hole box with his other half the intention of sucking cock when the guys on the other side were expecting the girl to be performing ... you wouldnt go into a gay club and start hitting on the lesbians in there so why the other way round ..
that's an interesting interpretation but I think it's very clear that the only acceptable bi play is between females. In the end, its absolutely fine for any club to have any rules they wish to but let's not make excuses when people who don't wish to be discriminated against point it out and say they're uninterested in attending thats because NOBODY is being discriminated against .... and if bi play between guys is not the norm at this club as most who attend are straight then surely bi guys looking to play bi need to be aware of this .. it doesnt mean theyre not welcome.. they may need to be made of a few extra rules but only to avoid any kind of misunderstanding ... as some guys take serious offence to another guy randomly touching them sexually... personally as a straight guy i dont know what their problem is... its happened to me before in a dark room where i thought it was my wife playing with me when it was one of the guys in there ... nobody died .. it didnt repulse me ... it was a wank ... after a split second of suprise i got over it ... no biggy .. and i am definitely what could be called an alpha male ... and it didnt faze me .. why some guys react the way they do is beyond me but no club needs that kind of reaction so best ask 1st ... this club also has an ask or be invited before touching rule for straight guys and bi and straight girls .. nobody feeling discriminated against there .. to put this to bed .. bi and straight girls .. tvs and TSs are welcone at this very fine and well run club as long as they never presume anyone else is bi.. and so long as they are happy that there may or may not be the chance for bi play then its fine ...
Interesting that you seem to assume that bi men will randomly touch another man.
In my experience, bi men tend to be very cautious who they approach, especially on a night where straight guys are present.
The owners of the club in question have made it very clear bi play is only acceptable between women. The reason it's not the norm at their club is because they don't approve of it.
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it actually ISNT the "norm" at this club .. that doesn't suggest bi guys are not welcome ... and quite clearly given my recent experience it would seem at least some are likely to just randomly touch as i gave no permission nor any indication that i was game for it .. it was no biggy to me but to others it really is .. |
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"If anyone, regardless of sex, gender, or sexual orientation touched me without asking I'd take exception. for sure ... but it does happen im afraid .. "
Oh I certainly know this. Worst offenders seem to be women touching women.
My wife is straight but we lost count of how many women touched without asking. Quite a few have even argued with her that she just hasn't tried it with the right lady, meaning them. Believe us; she's tried and doesn't like it. Please stop touching.
This was her main reason for stopping swinging.
Sorry. I digress. This is about the club.
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By *ex Luther OP Man
over a year ago
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"Thinking of trying this club soon could someone please describe and comment on the playrooms? They are all open viewing?
Thanks "
There's one private room that you can lock but it has a one way viewing mirror so people can watch you but you're not aware.
There is also a seated area with a juke box in it which is couples only other than that every area is open but they have an amazing white line rule where you cannot cross unless invited |
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OK thank you
We like being watched although our ultimate room would be one where you could open a hatch or window so you could control when you are watched or even groped, yet to find a club in the UK that has that.
We hear this club does have a grope room though, we will have to go soon to see if this club does it for us heard a lot of good things |
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
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"OK thank you
We like being watched although our ultimate room would be one where you could open a hatch or window so you could control when you are watched or even groped, yet to find a club in the UK that has that. The grope room at ourplace 4 fun has such a window ...not many people know about it ...ask staff or me ...caz if u ever go and you can be shown xx
We hear this club does have a grope room though, we will have to go soon to see if this club does it for us heard a lot of good things "
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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago
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"I was throughly spoilt by this club and staff last night for my birthday it's the amazing little touches that make this space so special!! "
glad you had a great birthday m8 ....it was a great night xxx |
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"We're in London from 27th April- 1st May
After reading these reviews I think we may have to see what all the fuss is about- clearly for non sexual purposes of course x
Saw you booked for killing kittens on the Saturday night, give OurPlace4Fun a go on the Friday, we can show you as good a time as they can, lol. Need to pre-register on their website though.
I think that could be challenge accepted thank you
Going to have a look on the website now and speak to the Mr x "
Hope you still plan on taking up that challenge for tomorrow night. |
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By *oAnCouple
over a year ago
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"If anyone, regardless of sex, gender, or sexual orientation touched me without asking I'd take exception. for sure ... but it does happen im afraid .. "
Must agree with Caz, often I have been zapped up my butt, but in the heat of the moment who cares lol, also I have played with a tv years ago, we actually gave bj's to loads of guys . Op4f is simply the best sex club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We will be there on Saturday. There are a couple of disgruntled folk for whom this club does not work. It has worked for us for years and we like the rules there as they are. Please don't change those as we don't want to step into something nasty
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