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Which events attract you to a club?
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Couples and single female events and under 39's are what draw us too. Fancy dress themes are just too much faff. If a club is putting on a specific experience like Townhouses BDSM introduction or a rope play demo then we'd probably be interested  |
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I look for events where single guys are welcomed and not limited, as I primarily am looking for single guys at clubs. Hence I rarely go out on a Saturday unless it's with a +1, as most places are couples nights on Saturdays.
I also love a dress up or themed evening, or something with a music theme I like.
And can't wait to get to the xtasia foam party! |
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If I want to try a new club I like to see what nights are going on,to see what theme or paticular night would suit me
I had always wanted to visit Jaydee's(3hrs away) so I went on a bbw night as I'm a larger lady,fantastic club,now bmfc have moved in if I go back it will definitely be for the bmfc party 
I will occasionally dress up in theme,eg a uniform as I have many lol but if I haven't got an outfit matching the theme,it's always optional,I don't worry about it,Aslong as it's something the guys find sexy Its all good
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See, this is why running a club is complicated!! lol Everyone likes different things 
We try and offer lots of different events, themed and non themed, singles, couples, under 39's bdsm, gay, lesbian, bi, fuckfests, GG, curvy parties...the variety goes on and on. We came to the conclusion years ago that we can't please everybody all the time, but offering a wide variety across the month is the best way to offer something to everyone. If that fails, the NW area is saturated with clubs, so if we don't offer what people are looking for, I can almost guarantee that one of the other clubs will and I will guide them in that direction.
On a personal level, as a swinger, I prefer the not so busy nights, so we can chat and get to know people more before playing. Themed or not, we're not bothered as most of the time, the themes are not compulsory anyway. |
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I do like themed parties but much preferred mixed events as couples and single lady nights are just dull. If your part of a couple that likes to go off an play on your own as well as together these nights are no good for the guys.
Mind you guess that's why I've started running my own Kinky events! Every has fun |
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Choice is of course primary. At Cupids we do our very best to cater for the needs, wants & desires of a broad section of the "swing" scene, not always easy. Themed events such as 70/80's always attract a good crowd & mix. Single ladies evenings bring a totally different experience.
In the end it's the enjoyment of an erotic environment, with fun & relaxed people in a safe non judgemental venue that makes for a great afternoon or evening.
All in all it's simply about the right people in the right place at the right time .
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By *pple16Man
over a year ago
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All in all it's simply about the right people in the right place at the right time .
Cupids
Could've. Have put it better. A night depends on the people in it. Nothing else. Xx "
We don't need circus acts in the background to have fun, real people want to meet real people not clowns. |
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"I avoid couples bored. I found that the bfs/hobbies are too protective and you can't approach any one for a chat or a introduction "
We don't tend to talk about our hobbies, maInly go for the sex. |
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"I look for events where single guys are welcomed and not limited, as I primarily am looking for single guys at clubs. Hence I rarely go out on a Saturday unless it's with a +1, as most places are couples nights on Saturdays.
I also love a dress up or themed evening, or something with a music theme I like.
And can't wait to get to the xtasia foam party! "
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"I look for events where single guys are welcomed and not limited, as I primarily am looking for single guys at clubs. Hence I rarely go out on a Saturday unless it's with a +1, as most places are couples nights on Saturdays.
I also love a dress up or themed evening, or something with a music theme I like.
And can't wait to get to the xtasia foam party! "
You may like the VA on the 23rd June! |
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I have been looking on here at all the events different clubs have and i wonder which pull you in and make you visit a club?
Thank you in advance!
WIFEY XX
*****************************Bi Tuesday's at Quest. The clue is in the event name lol
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I tend to avoid themed parties these days as they get too busy to actually chat and get to know people also prefer nights where all allowed in...find couples nights very limiting as a single fem as most arrange to meet people there already...have spent many a couples night propping up the bar...and I'm no shrinking violet so it's not because I dont mingle..saying that i am going to the 80s theme night at chams on 17th June so we shall see... |
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I have been looking on here at all the events different clubs have and i wonder which pull you in and make you visit a club?
Thank you in advance!
WIFEY XX
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not a singing man like a working mans club !!!! for sure
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We just look for nights where single guys are welcome, the idea of theme nights and fancy dress strike fear into my heart. The only "theme" we're into is kink nights. |
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