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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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what's it like getting naked for the first time in a club?
What's everyone's view on impromptu erections even if I wear a towel I'll most definitely get hard and it will be obvious is this insulting or intimidating for women?
Also how do I go about actually taking off my pants/towel do I just get naked when I want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a sex club, sex things will happen
This includes men getting erections.
Normally there is a chill out area that’s kind of like a bar people chat, drink and something I’ve always found inexplicable play pool.
Other areas of clubs are normally designated for play. It’s common to see people having sex in these areas and yes guys do gather round and wank. Some of them even join in.
Like I say it’s not your local swimming pool it’s a sex club, erections are encouraged |
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"what's it like getting naked for the first time in a club?
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TERRIFYING. Then, after about 5 minutes, you realize that no one is staring/pointing/giggling and it's easy to relax.
Just go and have fun, everyone is nervous their first time, and understands where you're coming from. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Im not sure on the correct terminology so forgive me. I went to what i think is called a dress down club. You walk around in just your boxers or naked under a towel. Very liberating i found. Everybody stripped off in the changing room area and there were bits everywhere. I dont know how you will be but when i saw that it relaxed me and i just got em off. |
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I was really worried about entering a club dressed on a normal Saturday night (rather than specific TV event) I expected to not be made welcome or stared at etc...
What a shock I got, everyone was so welcoming and complimentary I had a great night and any inhibitions were quickly forgotten.
Like minded folk who are all there for the same reason as you, go for it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Walk into a club fully clothed when you're meant to be naked and you'll cause a bigger stare.
Think of it as 2 minutes of feeling like a rabbit in the headlights, brave that out and then breathe.
It's when you go to spa's a bit and then going swimming in a public pool with clothes on it feels a bit unusual you know you go too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The one I went to had like an open bed down stairs so if people were having sex on there you didn't have to ask to play with yourself (obviously not over them) but that's what it was for or you can go in the viewing rooms and watch couples. Also if it's your first time your nerves may keep it down until you get settled in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If there is open sex going on in one of the public play areas then it’s not uncommon to see guys wanking, often they might be hoping to take part so want to make sure they are ready to go if the opportunity presents itself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's rather liberating to say the least, after 5 mins it's just as normal as being dressed in a regular club. Always plenty of guys wanking and watching couples etc, just remember to be nice and polite and you never know what might happen. Enjoy ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be disappointed if there weren't any erections!
My first time I was bricking it (not literally I hasten to add). Took me a couple of times to get used to it. Now i love it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am definitely going to go for it.
If I'm turned on and I'm hard is it uncouth to touch myself (with permission of course) "
If you're stood at the bar chatting then yeah, having a wank would be odd.
If you're in a play area and either watching porn or watching real sex acts then wanking is expected or at least not unexpected.
When we are feeling a bit exhibitionist then we choose either an open room or a voyeur room (private room with windows) and expect people will wank if they desire. If however we are feeling more private we will head to a private room and close the curtains.
Clubs are set up so people who want to play can and those who want to watch and wank can.
In an open room it's not expected that a voyeur would ask to watch or wank. (It is expected to ask before touching or joining.) However we have had people check it's ok when we've been the only players in the room and just starting out and either way is ok by us, but preferably not ask if we are mid play, personally I'd rather not be disturbed if I have a mouthful by someone wanting to know if they can watch.
For the first 6 months of us going to clubs we weren't looking to play with others. It was just so I (fem) could fulfil my fantasy of being watched. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am definitely going to go for it.
If I'm turned on and I'm hard is it uncouth to touch myself (with permission of course)
If you're stood at the bar chatting then yeah, having a wank would be odd.
If you're in a play area and either watching porn or watching real sex acts then wanking is expected or at least not unexpected.
When we are feeling a bit exhibitionist then we choose either an open room or a voyeur room (private room with windows) and expect people will wank if they desire. If however we are feeling more private we will head to a private room and close the curtains.
Clubs are set up so people who want to play can and those who want to watch and wank can.
In an open room it's not expected that a voyeur would ask to watch or wank. (It is expected to ask before touching or joining.) However we have had people check it's ok when we've been the only players in the room and just starting out and either way is ok by us, but preferably not ask if we are mid play, personally I'd rather not be disturbed if I have a mouthful by someone wanting to know if they can watch.
For the first 6 months of us going to clubs we weren't looking to play with others. It was just so I (fem) could fulfil my fantasy of being watched. "
That's great advice ty.so looking forward to trying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being naked is such a good feeling, especially in the pool or hot tub. The first time is a bit scary but very exciting. Thereafter you get used to it!"
Can't wait  |
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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago
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"what's it like getting naked for the first time in a club?
What's everyone's view on impromptu erections even if I wear a towel I'll most definitely get hard and it will be obvious is this insulting or intimidating for women?
Also how do I go about actually taking off my pants/towel do I just get naked when I want? "
Just go for it,the first time I went to chams I didn't even think about it tbh. |
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In this scenario you'll fit right in ... it's the people who refuse to dress down that look odd.
It's like a nightclub in reverse, go to a normal club naked and you'll get the stares ... go to a swing club and stay fully dressed the whole night and you'll get the stares |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As mentioned before you could find things don't work as well as you thought they did in that enviroment. We've done clubs for years and i can still have issues if there's distractions, people watching/wanking, talking in rooms etc. I thought this was me but talking to others in clubs it can hit us all at some time so i keep a little blue back up just in case |
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By *rs PickWoman
over a year ago
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"As mentioned before you could find things don't work as well as you thought they did in that enviroment. We've done clubs for years and i can still have issues if there's distractions, people watching/wanking, talking in rooms etc. I thought this was me but talking to others in clubs it can hit us all at some time so i keep a little blue back up just in case"
Totally agree with this. Key is to just go with the flow. Use your judgement what's appropriate where. Gents on the streets and all that!! Lol
Not going to lie I did 'brick it' too first time being naked.
For me it's more about a connection I have with a person. It's also very flattering as a woman if a guy gets an errection just by seeing them. After all it's a Swingers club!!  lol I'd say don't stress about it. Go with the emphasis on the social and the rest will 'cum'!! (excuse the pun!! ) |
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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago
Birstall, Leicester |
"what's it like getting naked for the first time in a club?
What's everyone's view on impromptu erections even if I wear a towel I'll most definitely get hard and it will be obvious is this insulting or intimidating for women?
Also how do I go about actually taking off my pants/towel do I just get naked when I want? "
It's liberating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to be a bit nervous taking my clothes of so preferred to keep my bra and knickers on but now I'm comfortable being naked "
I'd be comfortable near you hard but comfortable  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am definitely going to go for it.
If I'm turned on and I'm hard is it uncouth to touch myself (with permission of course)
If you're stood at the bar chatting then yeah, having a wank would be odd.
If you're in a play area and either watching porn or watching real sex acts then wanking is expected or at least not unexpected.
When we are feeling a bit exhibitionist then we choose either an open room or a voyeur room (private room with windows) and expect people will wank if they desire. If however we are feeling more private we will head to a private room and close the curtains.
Clubs are set up so people who want to play can and those who want to watch and wank can.
In an open room it's not expected that a voyeur would ask to watch or wank. (It is expected to ask before touching or joining.) However we have had people check it's ok when we've been the only players in the room and just starting out and either way is ok by us, but preferably not ask if we are mid play, personally I'd rather not be disturbed if I have a mouthful by someone wanting to know if they can watch.
For the first 6 months of us going to clubs we weren't looking to play with others. It was just so I (fem) could fulfil my fantasy of being watched.
That's great advice ty.so looking forward to trying."
I'd agree on the above, wouldn't expect you to ask to want in a play area but just add don't get too close to the people who are playing. Having someone who's observing wanking inches from your face can be pretty off putting. |
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