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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Saturday is going to be mine and my partners first club, actually it will be our first time actually dipping our toes into the water, and really looking forward to actually meeting some of you lovely people, although really nervous lol.
Any tips, of what we should be prepared for x |
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Firstly hi and welcome to the debauched world.
We can definitely say you'll have a great time regardless of how far you decide to venture on your first play out.
As for the night, well it's like going out to a busy bar / club apart from everyone is much friendlier, and at some point they're likely to be in their underwear.
Don't be afraid to approach people and strike up a conversation especially those you may be attracted to. And don't be afraid to decline any offers from those who you don't find attractive. No one will be offended.
Nerves can lead you to the bar for a calming drink.. don't make the mistake of drinking to much. It happens to a lot of people on their first time at a club and some end up a little more tipsy than expected.
Take your time and discuss boundaries before you go. The last thing you want is either of you going a step further than expected due to not having discussed what your comfortable with. And if you find your not comfortable with what's happening gently tell each other. It's about experiencing this together don't sit their in silence if it doesn't feel right.
And most importantly have fun.
Even if you purely go to dance, meet new people, and watch others playing you'll have a great night and get a good understanding of what this way of life is about.
If you need any advice or have any questions feel free to ask. We will do our best to answer xx |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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Liberty Elite was our first club and we loved it. Going in for the first time is the biggest worry but once you're in yo feel very comfortable. Just remember that you can take things at your own pace and you don't have to do anything you don't want to. It's fine to just and watch the action or chat |
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See you tomorrow evening xx.
