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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi advice please , planned a visit to jsnortheast hotel booked etc,,unexpectedly her periods start,,we are both gutted ,,go or not ,,advice pplease please ? Much appreciated |
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
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"You could use sponge tampons - Beppe and Joy division are good ones, and you can still have full sex with those. However I would only recommend that if it is light flow. "
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This ^^^^^ I've had to do this and no-one noticed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should feel comfortable whatever you do. It's your choice, no one else's!
You planned a fun weekend and if you feel comfortable continuing as planned go for it.
Avoid hot tubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi advice please , planned a visit to jsnortheast hotel booked etc,,unexpectedly her periods start,,we are both gutted ,,go or not ,,advice pplease please ? Much appreciated"
why do you need advise ???
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"You should feel comfortable whatever you do. It's your choice, no one else's!
You planned a fun weekend and if you feel comfortable continuing as planned go for it.
Avoid hot tubs."
What a selfish approach! 
Not all men like period sex even with their own wives, let alone some random in a club. If she leaks and some unsuspecting sod has his face in her minge you don't know how he'd react.
Give people the option. |
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You know you don't have to have sex at a club right? I've ften gone when I'm on and either been in blow job corner or just enjoyed the social element of it.
If I was with a partner I'd watch them have fun. |
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"You know you don't have to have sex at a club right? I've ften gone when I'm on and either been in blow job corner or just enjoyed the social element of it.
If I was with a partner I'd watch them have fun. "
This.
I'm actually quite surprised the rest of the comments are going on about sex. I'd go for the social side, if it's already booked. |
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"You know you don't have to have sex at a club right? I've ften gone when I'm on and either been in blow job corner or just enjoyed the social element of it.
If I was with a partner I'd watch them have fun. "
I was just going to write this, just go to the club for the social side. |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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I've quite happily been to clubs before when I've been on my period. I use a mooncup or similar and don't have sex - because I don't really enjoy sex on my period.
I still use the fucking hot tub though! Why wouldn't I? |
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"I've quite happily been to clubs before when I've been on my period. I use a mooncup or similar and don't have sex - because I don't really enjoy sex on my period.
I still use the fucking hot tub though! Why wouldn't I?"
I thought that was an odd comment too lol |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"I've quite happily been to clubs before when I've been on my period. I use a mooncup or similar and don't have sex - because I don't really enjoy sex on my period.
I still use the fucking hot tub though! Why wouldn't I?
I thought that was an odd comment too lol "
I can only assume that the comment was the product of boys not being taught that tampons exist at school.
Sheesh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't go or I'd go dressed nice and not play.
Products too hide your on will spoil it as you wouldn't be confident as normal and people who you may play with may see or feel it or smell it .
It's ok with partner but not with strangers who might not be as understanding . |
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I think just go for the social aspect but no sex unless you really want to have to tell strangers about your period :-0
Maybe I’m a little old fashioned but it’s a woman’s private time and that should be reflected.
No offence it’s only my opinion and you did ask for advice 
Or just follow your gut feeling.
Whichever you decide. Enjoy yourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should feel comfortable whatever you do. It's your choice, no one else's!
You planned a fun weekend and if you feel comfortable continuing as planned go for it.
Avoid hot tubs.
What a selfish approach!
Not all men like period sex even with their own wives, let alone some random in a club. If she leaks and some unsuspecting sod has his face in her minge you don't know how he'd react.
Give people the option. "
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"people who you may play with may see or feel it or smell it .
Heaven forbid that someone might smell a perfectly natural bodily function that almost all women have.  "
I think you're missing the point.
Some couples will suck, fuck and swallow juices from total strangers, but will not kiss as they find it personal and intimate to them.
Hardly surprising then that some wouldn't want to have sex with some random woman in a club on her period. |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"people who you may play with may see or feel it or smell it .
Heaven forbid that someone might smell a perfectly natural bodily function that almost all women have.
I think you're missing the point.
Some couples will suck, fuck and swallow juices from total strangers, but will not kiss as they find it personal and intimate to them.
Hardly surprising then that some wouldn't want to have sex with some random woman in a club on her period. "
Humans do this amazing thing called 'communicating'. So making them aware that you have your period is not a terrible thing. But if they're not directly involved in the scenario, I think they should keep their trap shut if they have an opinion about periods. |
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"people who you may play with may see or feel it or smell it .
Heaven forbid that someone might smell a perfectly natural bodily function that almost all women have.
I think you're missing the point.
Some couples will suck, fuck and swallow juices from total strangers, but will not kiss as they find it personal and intimate to them.
Hardly surprising then that some wouldn't want to have sex with some random woman in a club on her period.
Humans do this amazing thing called 'communicating'. So making them aware that you have your period is not a terrible thing. But if they're not directly involved in the scenario, I think they should keep their trap shut if they have an opinion about periods."
That's my point: let people know then they have a choice!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been when I’ve been on but went for networking and social. Ended up hooking up but told them straight away. I played with her, then watched my partner play, still had a great night |
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Not something I’d want to do in a club. At home with consenting partner fine.
I do recall last year on my first visit to VA playing on a bed and looking down at some point to see the sheet had got fresh blood (as in you could see it wasn’t a stain left after washing). I personally am not happy to lie / play in someone’s else’s blood, but each to their own.
As Misstress said, giving people choice is the best thing. |
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Not all guys are so squeamish. Its quite natural and comes around quite regularly so what's the big deal.
However I would expect to be warned. Then guys can make their own choice.
Go and have a great time...you can still play with your own partner, enjoy the social or simply watch!! |
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