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Normal or BBW event.
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We are looking to visit a club together for the first time and are looking for some advice.
As a bit of background, I (Mr Early have quite a bit of swinging experience, swung with my ex wife visiting quite a few clubs and also attended clubs as a single bloke after we split, however all this is new for Mrs Early and I want our first experience of a club together to be as comfortable for her as possible.
As you can see from our pictures, Mrs E is a fantastic BBW and is a complete stunner but she has body confidence issues and each step we've taken so far in our foray into swinging has been a huge step for her. It's been wonderful seeing how much her confidence has grown with each fab her pictures receive and with each message we get and visiting a club is now the next step.
I'm sure there must be others like us and we are wondering from your experiences and Fab wisdom wether it would be better for us to visit a club on a normal couples night or a specific BBW (or similar) event? |
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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago
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Bbw nights have always made me feel like a supermodel but I'm confident enough on normal nights.
So I would maybe see who you chat to is going where.. And go with some people you have already chatted to. As then no matter what the night you will feel relaxed.
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over a year ago
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We tend to mainly go to events aimed at bigger ladies however we don't mind chams on a Normal Sunday we are trying out club sx for there flaunt event in Feb xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We tend to mainly go to events aimed at bigger ladies however we don't mind chams on a Normal Sunday we are trying out club sx for there flaunt event in Feb xx
This is awesome news  "
I can't wait any bloody longer to see you xx |
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I've been to bbw events at Cupid's and chams and would highly recommend both. They are both dress down clubs so the men wear boxers and/or a towel, the ladies mostly wear nice lingerie or dress up if there is a theme for the event.
Most clubs are very inclusive to all and you will see people of all ages, ethnicity and shape and size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cupids and chams Bbw both very good, I’ve also been cupids. Quest, xtasia and sx on none Bbw nights and I was fine, my first few visits were Bbw nights and I did feel less self conscious and it was a good place to start.
Happy clubbing x |
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I’d agree with the above - BBW nights are great fun & there are lots to choose from, but most non-BBW nights are just as comfortable!
I host the Buxom Babes night at Townhouse, the next one is 17th January & you’d be more than welcome to join us. It’s a limited numbers event this month, so it might be an ideal first event for her. Dress down is optional, so she can stay in the bar area and chat, socialise & see how she feels before she decides about dressing down - but there will be plenty of gorgeous ladies in fabulous outfits that will definitely put her at ease!  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've seen a few slimmer ladies at BBW at chams but generally the less ample lady tends to be on the whole really pleasant. If Larger ladies offended them they wouldn't be there plus there is enough of me to squash them if i do LMAO. The world is not made of just Big beautiful women, you have to let the odd slim one lick my pussy  .. A good mix of people in my opinion is always a bonus and makes for a more interesting evening Give another club a go or give the same one a second chance? xxx |
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I've been to many clubs and events over the years and always find myself at chameleons, especially for the BBW nights, it's my comfort zone, IV never been made to feel out of place or uncomfortable at anytime on any day at chameleons and I've done a week straight in there more than once, always find a great mix of people, hope you give a club a try and you both fully enjoy yourselfs and each other |
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As a curvy, plus size lady, I’ve attended quite a few BBW parties over the years. I’m a regular at Chams BBW party which is held bi-monthly on a Sunday and I’ve also attended Cupids ‘Curvy Thursday’ and Townhouse ‘Buxom Babes’, which have both been great. I would recommend all.
Hanky and I are hosting our own ‘Flaunt’ party at ClubSx (Blackpool) on Feb 9th, it’s a Saturday night which does make it a little more accessible if you can’t do weekday evenings. Our concept is the same as the other events; it aims to bring all curvy women (regardless of their size) and their admirers under the same roof. Our verifications speak for themselves but our last couple of parties have been amazing.
I’ve also attended many non-BBW events and the majority of clubs have such diverse clientele that I’ve certainty never felt out of place or uncomfortable.
Have fun and we hope to see you at one of our events.
Bunny xx |
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"I've been to many clubs and events over the years and always find myself at chameleons, especially for the BBW nights, it's my comfort zone, IV never been made to feel out of place or uncomfortable at anytime on any day at chameleons and I've done a week straight in there more than once, always find a great mix of people, hope you give a club a try and you both fully enjoy yourselfs and each other"
A week I don’t think my vagina would forgive me lol lol |
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"I've been to many clubs and events over the years and always find myself at chameleons, especially for the BBW nights, it's my comfort zone, IV never been made to feel out of place or uncomfortable at anytime on any day at chameleons and I've done a week straight in there more than once, always find a great mix of people, hope you give a club a try and you both fully enjoy yourselfs and each other
A week I don’t think my vagina would forgive me lol lol "
Not sure I could manage it now days but I used to be like the durrecell bunny back in my hay days |
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"Thanks for the great response folks. We will definitely be visiting a club over the forthcoming few weeks and we are edging towards SX for Flaunt. Just need to make space in our diaries. "
That's the hardest part making space in the diaries, hope you do and get to have lots of fun |
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"Thanks for the great response folks. We will definitely be visiting a club over the forthcoming few weeks and we are edging towards SX for Flaunt. Just need to make space in our diaries. "
The two ladies that run Flaunt are fabulous & will definitely look after you!! Trying to get a night up there with my partner too, so I feel your pain on the diary front!!
Enjoy - and let us know how you get on!!  xx |
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"Thanks for the great response folks. We will definitely be visiting a club over the forthcoming few weeks and we are edging towards SX for Flaunt. Just need to make space in our diaries. "
It will be lovely to meet you if you can make it!
Hanky |
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"Thanks for the great response folks. We will definitely be visiting a club over the forthcoming few weeks and we are edging towards SX for Flaunt. Just need to make space in our diaries.
The two ladies that run Flaunt are fabulous & will definitely look after you!! Trying to get a night up there with my partner too, so I feel your pain on the diary front!!
Enjoy - and let us know how you get on!! xx"
Bless you - you are too kind!
I need not comment that Morticia is also lovely, her words about ya show that xx |
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"Flaunt is in our diary.
The February one? xx
Yes"
Same here - good choice, lovely hosts, friendly club. Ask for a tour when you arrive and mingle in the bar first and you'll feel right at home very quickly xx |
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"Flaunt is in our diary.
The February one? xx
Yes
Same here - good choice, lovely hosts, friendly club. Ask for a tour when you arrive and mingle in the bar first and you'll feel right at home very quickly xx"
Look forward to seeing you in Blackpool again  |
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"Flaunt is in our diary.
The February one? xx
Yes
Same here - good choice, lovely hosts, friendly club. Ask for a tour when you arrive and mingle in the bar first and you'll feel right at home very quickly xx"
Good advice our first time at the club also xx |
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"Flaunt is in our diary.
The February one? xx
Yes
Same here - good choice, lovely hosts, friendly club. Ask for a tour when you arrive and mingle in the bar first and you'll feel right at home very quickly xx"
We were going to ask for a tour. |
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"Flaunt is in our diary.
The February one? xx
Yes
Same here - good choice, lovely hosts, friendly club. Ask for a tour when you arrive and mingle in the bar first and you'll feel right at home very quickly xx
We were going to ask for a tour."
Just don't ask any of us, or you may get very far! |
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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago
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I go to chams mainly on a Sunday.. And as larger lady I find it a very relaxed atmosphere.. But I avoid the bbw events. As its open to anyone and find it full of men who think it's there right to to what they want.. That's was my 1 and only experience of the bbw events..
The regular members are farore polite.. |
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"Flaunt is in our diary.
The February one? xx
Yes
Same here - good choice, lovely hosts, friendly club. Ask for a tour when you arrive and mingle in the bar first and you'll feel right at home very quickly xx
We were going to ask for a tour."
Just mention you are new to SX when you come in and it shall be sorted for you |
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"Flaunt is in our diary.
The February one? xx
Yes
Same here - good choice, lovely hosts, friendly club. Ask for a tour when you arrive and mingle in the bar first and you'll feel right at home very quickly xx
Good advice our first time at the club also xx"
Be nice to see you again - you'll love it!
Hanky x |
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"Flaunt is in our diary.
The February one? xx
Yes
Same here - good choice, lovely hosts, friendly club. Ask for a tour when you arrive and mingle in the bar first and you'll feel right at home very quickly xx
We were going to ask for a tour.
Just don't ask any of us, or you may get very far!"
Whatever could you mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My recommendation goes to attending a bbw event, personally I find I'm more confident around similar body shapes, and I'm also a bbw admirer. I've been on a normal night but prefer bbw nights. Buxom babes Townhouse being my choice, great hostess and a fabulous bunch of people. Roll on Thursday!
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"Flaunt is in our diary.
The February one? xx
Yes
Same here - good choice, lovely hosts, friendly club. Ask for a tour when you arrive and mingle in the bar first and you'll feel right at home very quickly xx
We were going to ask for a tour.
Just don't ask any of us, or you may get very far!
Whatever could you mean "
It's a very hands-on interactive tour... |
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"Flaunt is in our diary.
The February one? xx
Yes
Same here - good choice, lovely hosts, friendly club. Ask for a tour when you arrive and mingle in the bar first and you'll feel right at home very quickly xx
We were going to ask for a tour.
Just don't ask any of us, or you may get very far!
Whatever could you mean
It's a very hands-on interactive tour... "
That's the best way to learn |
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