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Anyone been? I'm thinking of going to a private party there.
I was wondering about dress code really? I don't want to over dressed or under dressed.
Any advice welcome. I've never heard the place mentioned on here. |
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over a year ago
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"Is that the one where the club supplies pre-paid escorts?
Really. i don't know!"
Is it in the Club review section on here? A forum search might just bring up random private clubs and not the one you're looking for.
If it is that one, some people have said the men are often more respectful as they leave uninterested people alone as the escorts may entertain them.  |
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"Is that the one where the club supplies pre-paid escorts?
Really. i don't know!
Is it in the Club review section on here? A forum search might just bring up random private clubs and not the one you're looking for.
If it is that one, some people have said the men are often more respectful as they leave uninterested people alone as the escorts may entertain them. "
I'll have to check it out.
Its in Aston that's about all I know. I thought it may be like chams. |
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Looked at their website. I was looking for new clubs to try with my partner in the local area and spotted this place advertised as a swingers club. But when I looked closer the old alarm bells started ringing:
1. They have a page dedicated to the 'hostess girls'. Pictures, stats and nights that said girls will be in.
2. The astronomical price of membership and entry for single men. I think it was about £90 entrance fee. Not being funny but I expect clients are expecting something for that fee.
Then after asking around and things I've read on here the general consensus is it's far more a knocking shop than swingers club. However single ladies and couples are welcome (at their own risk I would say). |
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"Is that the one where the club supplies pre-paid escorts?
Really. i don't know!
Is it in the Club review section on here? A forum search might just bring up random private clubs and not the one you're looking for.
If it is that one, some people have said the men are often more respectful as they leave uninterested people alone as the escorts may entertain them. "
I don't have much experience with clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been once, over a year ago. I went with a guy from here. Ended up watching rather than participating - long story!
Yes the club do provide girls. They were very friendly and welcoming, and very happy to be there.
I was really surprised by how well run it was and how respectful the management and guests were towards both me and the other ladies. The standards of cleanliness there are excellent too.
I’d read up about it in their website and check out the club reviews on here before you go. Like. Most places, it won’t suit everyone x |
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"Is that the one where the club supplies pre-paid escorts?
Really. i don't know!
Is it in the Club review section on here? A forum search might just bring up random private clubs and not the one you're looking for.
If it is that one, some people have said the men are often more respectful as they leave uninterested people alone as the escorts may entertain them.
I don't have much experience with clubs "
Are you going with a friend? Many clubs have escorts but don't advertise it. Many clubs have pushy men. No means no, never be afraid to say no.
Many clubs have lovely friendly people. I find even the pushy ones are ok if you are polite with them.
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"Looked at their website. I was looking for new clubs to try with my partner in the local area and spotted this place advertised as a swingers club. But when I looked closer the old alarm bells started ringing:
1. They have a page dedicated to the 'hostess girls'. Pictures, stats and nights that said girls will be in.
2. The astronomical price of membership and entry for single men. I think it was about £90 entrance fee. Not being funny but I expect clients are expecting something for that fee.
Then after asking around and things I've read on here the general consensus is it's far more a knocking shop than swingers club. However single ladies and couples are welcome (at their own risk I would say)."
Thanks for the insight, appreciated. |
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"Looked at their website. I was looking for new clubs to try with my partner in the local area and spotted this place advertised as a swingers club. But when I looked closer the old alarm bells started ringing:
1. They have a page dedicated to the 'hostess girls'. Pictures, stats and nights that said girls will be in.
2. The astronomical price of membership and entry for single men. I think it was about £90 entrance fee. Not being funny but I expect clients are expecting something for that fee.
Then after asking around and things I've read on here the general consensus is it's far more a knocking shop than swingers club. However single ladies and couples are welcome (at their own risk I would say).
Thanks for the insight, appreciated."
I’d have no qualms about returning. I was expecting the worst and was pleasantly surprised |
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"Is that the one where the club supplies pre-paid escorts?
Really. i don't know!
Is it in the Club review section on here? A forum search might just bring up random private clubs and not the one you're looking for.
If it is that one, some people have said the men are often more respectful as they leave uninterested people alone as the escorts may entertain them.
I don't have much experience with clubs
Are you going with a friend? Many clubs have escorts but don't advertise it. Many clubs have pushy men. No means no, never be afraid to say no.
Many clubs have lovely friendly people. I find even the pushy ones are ok if you are polite with them.
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I was going on my own. I've been working hard and thought it might be fun.
Good music good vibe and all of that. I always try to be friendly and polite and often take myself out just not to swingers clubs. |
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"Looked at their website. I was looking for new clubs to try with my partner in the local area and spotted this place advertised as a swingers club. But when I looked closer the old alarm bells started ringing:
1. They have a page dedicated to the 'hostess girls'. Pictures, stats and nights that said girls will be in.
2. The astronomical price of membership and entry for single men. I think it was about £90 entrance fee. Not being funny but I expect clients are expecting something for that fee.
Then after asking around and things I've read on here the general consensus is it's far more a knocking shop than swingers club. However single ladies and couples are welcome (at their own risk I would say)."
The same could be said for all swingers clubs. There are always some people who assume the entry fee entitles them to a fuck.
There was a lady forumite who worked at a club as a 'hostess' (escort) and she said the men were more respectful on the nights paid escorts were working. She had more issues on 'normal' club nights.
Going to a club and fucking strangers is no better or worse than fucking in a club for money.
Money still changes hands - whether the escort gets a cut or the club keeps all the entrance fee. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is that the one where the club supplies pre-paid escorts?
Really. i don't know!
Is it in the Club review section on here? A forum search might just bring up random private clubs and not the one you're looking for.
If it is that one, some people have said the men are often more respectful as they leave uninterested people alone as the escorts may entertain them.
I don't have much experience with clubs
Are you going with a friend? Many clubs have escorts but don't advertise it. Many clubs have pushy men. No means no, never be afraid to say no.
Many clubs have lovely friendly people. I find even the pushy ones are ok if you are polite with them.
I was going on my own. I've been working hard and thought it might be fun.
Good music good vibe and all of that. I always try to be friendly and polite and often take myself out just not to swingers clubs."
Its definitely not a good music kind of place. Much as I enjoyed the atmosphere, personally I’d probably rather go with a partner. If you want any details feel free to PM me OP x |
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"Is that the one where the club supplies pre-paid escorts?
Really. i don't know!
Is it in the Club review section on here? A forum search might just bring up random private clubs and not the one you're looking for.
If it is that one, some people have said the men are often more respectful as they leave uninterested people alone as the escorts may entertain them.
I don't have much experience with clubs
Are you going with a friend? Many clubs have escorts but don't advertise it. Many clubs have pushy men. No means no, never be afraid to say no.
Many clubs have lovely friendly people. I find even the pushy ones are ok if you are polite with them.
I was going on my own. I've been working hard and thought it might be fun.
Good music good vibe and all of that. I always try to be friendly and polite and often take myself out just not to swingers clubs.
Its definitely not a good music kind of place. Much as I enjoyed the atmosphere, personally I’d probably rather go with a partner. If you want any details feel free to PM me OP x"
Thanks for that Pandora x |
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"I went quite a few years ago. My experience was exactly the same as Misspandoras. The only reason i never went back was it was hard for me to get to"
That's the beauty for me it's local. I think I'll be giving it a whirl |
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"I went quite a few years ago. My experience was exactly the same as Misspandoras. The only reason i never went back was it was hard for me to get to
That's the beauty for me it's local. I think I'll be giving it a whirl "
If you dont like it you can always leave. I got talking to some of the girls outside having a fag and they where lovely. As for dress code just lingerie |
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"I went quite a few years ago. My experience was exactly the same as Misspandoras. The only reason i never went back was it was hard for me to get to
That's the beauty for me it's local. I think I'll be giving it a whirl If you dont like it you can always leave"
Exactly. Nothing ventured nothing gained- have fun |
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"I went quite a few years ago. My experience was exactly the same as Misspandoras. The only reason i never went back was it was hard for me to get to
That's the beauty for me it's local. I think I'll be giving it a whirl If you dont like it you can always leave. I got talking to some of the girls outside having a fag and they where lovely. As for dress code just lingerie"
I've decided I'm going. nothing ventured nothing gained. Lingerie it is..now I just need something to wear!!
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"I went quite a few years ago. My experience was exactly the same as Misspandoras. The only reason i never went back was it was hard for me to get to
That's the beauty for me it's local. I think I'll be giving it a whirl "
Hope you have a good night. x |
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"I went quite a few years ago. My experience was exactly the same as Misspandoras. The only reason i never went back was it was hard for me to get to
That's the beauty for me it's local. I think I'll be giving it a whirl If you dont like it you can always leave
Exactly. Nothing ventured nothing gained- have fun "
I'll try  |
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"I went quite a few years ago. My experience was exactly the same as Misspandoras. The only reason i never went back was it was hard for me to get to
That's the beauty for me it's local. I think I'll be giving it a whirl If you dont like it you can always leave. I got talking to some of the girls outside having a fag and they where lovely. As for dress code just lingerie
I've decided I'm going. nothing ventured nothing gained. Lingerie it is..now I just need something to wear!!
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Let us know how you get on |
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"I went quite a few years ago. My experience was exactly the same as Misspandoras. The only reason i never went back was it was hard for me to get to
That's the beauty for me it's local. I think I'll be giving it a whirl
Hope you have a good night. x"
Thanks Mavis. I reckon it will be really good. Shame you ladies aren't we could have made a night of it x |
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"I went quite a few years ago. My experience was exactly the same as Misspandoras. The only reason i never went back was it was hard for me to get to
That's the beauty for me it's local. I think I'll be giving it a whirl If you dont like it you can always leave. I got talking to some of the girls outside having a fag and they where lovely. As for dress code just lingerie
I've decided I'm going. nothing ventured nothing gained. Lingerie it is..now I just need something to wear!!
Let us know how you get on"
Definitely will do x |
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Just to be fair about the place and what it offers...I would describe it more as a sex club than a swingers club. It holds events/parties at which there are hostesses who "work the beds". Guests pay an entrance fee...no money is exchanged with the hostesses by guests. Couples or ladies who like multiple male involvement tend to visit alongside couples who wish to meet couples. It is a safe environment to have adult fun...protected sex is encouraged and insisted upon.
With the greatest respect to anyone thinking it is a brothel it isn't but equally it's not chams. |
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Its interesting to hear the insight of those who have been to this venue. Like I said my views are just based on the nature of the operation I could see from the website and the views expressed on previous threads I've read about this place on FAB. I think this is the first time I've seen so many people come forward who have actually been. And first hand experience is the best to go off. Not heard anything negative in terms of safety on this thread. I can imagine it's a bit of a sausage fest, which will perfectly suit many. I don't think it's not the place I'd visit with my partner. But if you do pop in sometime I think we would all love to hear your experience of your visit? Maybe lift some of the ignorance about this venue. |
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"Its interesting to hear the insight of those who have been to this venue. Like I said my views are just based on the nature of the operation I could see from the website and the views expressed on previous threads I've read about this place on FAB. I think this is the first time I've seen so many people come forward who have actually been. And first hand experience is the best to go off. Not heard anything negative in terms of safety on this thread. I can imagine it's a bit of a sausage fest, which will perfectly suit many. I don't think it's not the place I'd visit with my partner. But if you do pop in sometime I think we would all love to hear your experience of your visit? Maybe lift some of the ignorance about this venue."
I'd not heard it mentioned at all therefore I was looking to hear of people's experiences and it is great to see they are positive.
A sausage fest you say 
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"Hope the OP has a good time. I've been once and like the other ladies on this post had a positive experience and was treated with utmost respect. X"
Aww thanks x
It's a private party at the private club. Something tells me it will be a night to remember...just what I need xx |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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Are you going with a friend? Many clubs have escorts but don't advertise it.
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Can i just say that this is not true. I know of 3 club's using escorts.
Ladies who host or advertise club events are most definitely not paid escorts. If I am helping to run an event , I am too busy showing people around the club and mingling to consider going off and having sex with someone .
I get fed up of people talking about ladies who enjoy swingers clubs, being like prostitutes.
The private club does have paid escorts and is not a traditional swingers club. |
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Are you going with a friend? Many clubs have escorts but don't advertise it.
Can i just say that this is not true. I know of 3 club's using escorts.
Ladies who host or advertise club events are most definitely not paid escorts. If I am helping to run an event , I am too busy showing people around the club and mingling to consider going off and having sex with someone .
I get fed up of people talking about ladies who enjoy swingers clubs, being like prostitutes.
The private club does have paid escorts and is not a traditional swingers club. "
It's a private party so I don't know whether there will be paid escorts but I don't have a problem with it either way. |
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Are you going with a friend? Many clubs have escorts but don't advertise it.
Can i just say that this is not true. I know of 3 club's using escorts.
Ladies who host or advertise club events are most definitely not paid escorts. If I am helping to run an event , I am too busy showing people around the club and mingling to consider going off and having sex with someone .
I get fed up of people talking about ladies who enjoy swingers clubs, being like prostitutes.
The private club does have paid escorts and is not a traditional swingers club. "
That's not what I said is it. Why so defensive? |
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"Looked at their website. I was looking for new clubs to try with my partner in the local area and spotted this place advertised as a swingers club. But when I looked closer the old alarm bells started ringing:
1. They have a page dedicated to the 'hostess girls'. Pictures, stats and nights that said girls will be in.
2. The astronomical price of membership and entry for single men. I think it was about £90 entrance fee. Not being funny but I expect clients are expecting something for that fee.
Then after asking around and things I've read on here the general consensus is it's far more a knocking shop than swingers club. However single ladies and couples are welcome (at their own risk I would say).
The same could be said for all swingers clubs. There are always some people who assume the entry fee entitles them to a fuck.
There was a lady forumite who worked at a club as a 'hostess' (escort) and she said the men were more respectful on the nights paid escorts were working. She had more issues on 'normal' club nights.
Going to a club and fucking strangers is no better or worse than fucking in a club for money.
Money still changes hands - whether the escort gets a cut or the club keeps all the entrance fee."
It’s very different. |
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