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By *ikeC81 OP Man
over a year ago
harrow |
Over the last 2 nights in swinging clubs I have been generally shocked by attitudes to condoms
First off all at least 5 men can they use a condom of mine so that they can play with a lady
Ffs the tight arsed wankers. I can understand if people were in a vanilla nightclub and then they met a lass and needEd some
This in a swinging club, people go to have sex. The first thing I check is that do I have enough. I actually think it is such a lax attitude to safe sex
The second is men feeling it’s ok to take them from my stash without asking which is as bad if not worse because not only are you disrespectful but a thief
I have now started saying no you cant use my ones...why because if I have a condom I can play
What’s other people’s experiences been |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
As a single lady, I have condoms with me. There is no excuse for guys not taking any to clubs.
If they are married and don't own some, surely they can collect some on the way or buy them at the club. There really is no explanation.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to agree if you go to a swingers club without condoms then you are saying you don’t agree with safe sex but will use one of lady stands her ground!
So say no to others and play safe ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's an unfortunate reality that lots more people play without than you might think. Safety isn't always the first thing on some people's minds and everyone isn't always as honest as you may think and may tell you they play safe when they don't or are selective as to when they do or don't. We've known/know people who openly say they only play safe but then are open to not doing so. |
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"I have my own. I did once buy the wrong ones too small and could not play. That was so funny. Now repeat order the right size from Durex AND bring some with me when I travel!!"
I had a similar reaction to the freebie condoms supplied in one club, completely ruined ‘the moment’  It was then I learned about condom sizing and swapping to latex-free, so always carry my own with me now 
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"Over the last 2 nights in swinging clubs I have been generally shocked by attitudes to condoms
First off all at least 5 men can they use a condom of mine so that they can play with a lady
Ffs the tight arsed wankers. I can understand if people were in a vanilla nightclub and then they met a lass and needEd some
This in a swinging club, people go to have sex. The first thing I check is that do I have enough. I actually think it is such a lax attitude to safe sex
The second is men feeling it’s ok to take them from my stash without asking which is as bad if not worse because not only are you disrespectful but a thief
I have now started saying no you cant use my ones...why because if I have a condom I can play
What’s other people’s experiences been "
The number of times I've been asked for my condom, it's like your not using mate can I have it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always take some to clubs with me, so why cant guys?
I mean if they are happy to pay as a single guy to go in then surely they can pop to a supermarket on the way?
Whether single or a couple, I always take a few.
It does annoy me though when guys ask if you have any, bring your own!
I make sure Im kitted out for my own protection, guys should as well! |
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I always have a bag full, I don’t mind giving them away if I’m asked.... it’s not like they are expensive, would like to think we are in this together and if I ever needed one it would be reciprocated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always take my own, but have seen guys just grab any within reach, have seen guys finish in a women and then, with the condom still on their cock, wipe the condom with a wet wipe and go looking for some more fun WTF... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always take my own, but have seen guys just grab any within reach, have seen guys finish in a women and then, with the condom still on their cock, wipe the condom with a wet wipe and go looking for some more fun WTF..."
That's eww and why we always carry our own with us, any guy wanting to play with K can put on a new one from our stash.
Also K doesn't get on very well with some condoms (durex especially seem to dry out and make her sore) so we carry skyns in both regular and xl sizes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over the last 2 nights in swinging clubs I have been generally shocked by attitudes to condoms
First off all at least 5 men can they use a condom of mine so that they can play with a lady
Ffs the tight arsed wankers. I can understand if people were in a vanilla nightclub and then they met a lass and needEd some
This in a swinging club, people go to have sex. The first thing I check is that do I have enough. I actually think it is such a lax attitude to safe sex
The second is men feeling it’s ok to take them from my stash without asking which is as bad if not worse because not only are you disrespectful but a thief
I have now started saying no you cant use my ones...why because if I have a condom I can play
What’s other people’s experiences been "
disagree, you are better to provide to ensure they are safe, no pin pricks or damage
for all they cost, if your own partner, insist on your own condom too |
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"As a single lady, I have condoms with me. There is no excuse for guys not taking any to clubs.
If they are married and don't own some, surely they can collect some on the way or buy them at the club. There really is no explanation. "
A lot of single men object to paying for anything whether it’s entry to a club or buying a few condoms.
And let’s be honest, many single men are happy to bareback anyway! |
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"Over the last 2 nights in swinging clubs I have been generally shocked by attitudes to condoms
First off all at least 5 men can they use a condom of mine so that they can play with a lady
Ffs the tight arsed wankers. I can understand if people were in a vanilla nightclub and then they met a lass and needEd some
This in a swinging club, people go to have sex. The first thing I check is that do I have enough. I actually think it is such a lax attitude to safe sex
The second is men feeling it’s ok to take them from my stash without asking which is as bad if not worse because not only are you disrespectful but a thief
I have now started saying no you cant use my ones...why because if I have a condom I can play
What’s other people’s experiences been "
This is what I wanted to reply to 
Good for you, as you know I (female) come to clubs on my own and always carry a couple of condoms just incase, I'd hate for me not to be able to get my hands on you when I'm next in the club lol
Scouse is the only person I'd bareback with I'm not risking my health or his for anyone, in all seriousness though I dont get why people dont take their own  |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"Disagree, you are better to provide to ensure they are safe, no pin pricks or damage
for all they cost, if your own partner, insist on your own condom too"
This.
If you want to play with me, use my condoms... I also totally understand if a woman says she will only accept my partner using her condoms. |
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"I always have a bag full, I don’t mind giving them away if I’m asked.... it’s not like they are expensive, would like to think we are in this together and if I ever needed one it would be reciprocated. "
While your generosity and team spirit are to be admired the issue here is more about the fact that those getting involved without having brought their own are showing ignorance or stupidity.
You dont go to a pub alone with the hope someone will buy you a drink . |
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