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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they had options for every 'new' sexuality term on here, the list would be a mile long. Surely 'hetero flexible' is bi, and that's already included. "
This just proves the ignorance that persists. Also it will never happen on here. Search the forums and you will find dozens of other requests to update the options to reflect the real world. |
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"If they had options for every 'new' sexuality term on here, the list would be a mile long. Surely 'hetero flexible' is bi, and that's already included. "
How is "hetero-flexible" much different in practice to "bi-curious"? |
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I would like to see this option added.
I am not really bi as I could never see myself in a relationship with another man or even seek to pursue another man for sexual fun. I am however happy to play with men under the right circumstances when everything just feel right so I feel hetro flexible suit me better than bi or bi curios. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Heres a thought...put it in your bio... we dont need the bloody term. If your are happy to play with guys as well as women you are bi simple as that. Everyone looking for ways to be offended it p*sses me.off! |
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"Heres a thought...put it in your bio... we dont need the bloody term. If your are happy to play with guys as well as women you are bi simple as that. Everyone looking for ways to be offended it p*sses me.off! "
Not sure anyone is offended. I think many just find the bi-curious and bi-sexual limiting for male and female. Large number of people have dabbled and occasionally might again in the right circumstances so are beyond curious but a long way from being bi which implies more. |
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"Heres a thought...put it in your bio... we dont need the bloody term. If your are happy to play with guys as well as women you are bi simple as that. Everyone looking for ways to be offended it p*sses me.off! "
PS seems lots looking for ways to get easily pissed off  Chill. |
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By *TFandMPCouple
over a year ago
Dublin & Wexford |
"Bi curious tick box already exists.
Hetero flexible is a rubbish term made up for homophobic straight people.  "
We are together nearly twenty years and married for a little under half of that time. We have never had any attraction to the same sex. Regardless of us being married, neither of us would have any interest in individually pursuing anybody of the same sex. We believe this would place us in the space of being straight.
We are not bi sexual.
We have no curiosity to become bi sexual or experience what it might be like to be bisexual.
We are 100% not homophobic.
Since joining Fab and starting our swinging journey we quickly realised that being open to playing with the same sex, especially in a two couples scenario can only (in our opinion at least) enhance the overall experience. It increases the options on what can happen and everybody can play with everybody with no restrictions. If you take a look at our profile we have explained this in an effort to be as transparent as possible to the people who may be interested in meeting us.
We are straight and attracted to the opposite sex. Maybe that will change as we continue our journey and we have no problem with that but for now we are both straight and open or “flexible” to playing with it and engaging in some sexual activity with the same sex. We feel hetreo flexible describes us perfectly.
For reference, hetero flexible is described as a form of sexual orientation or situational sexual behaviour characterised by minimal homosexual activity in an otherwise primarily heterosexual orientation. It has been characterized as "mostly straight".
While everybody is of course entitled to their own opinion, we don’t believe hetero flexible is a made up term for homophobic straight people.
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"Bi curious tick box already exists.
Hetero flexible is a rubbish term made up for homophobic straight people.
We are together nearly twenty years and married for a little under half of that time. We have never had any attraction to the same sex. Regardless of us being married, neither of us would have any interest in individually pursuing anybody of the same sex. We believe this would place us in the space of being straight.
We are not bi sexual.
We have no curiosity to become bi sexual or experience what it might be like to be bisexual.
We are 100% not homophobic.
Since joining Fab and starting our swinging journey we quickly realised that being open to playing with the same sex, especially in a two couples scenario can only (in our opinion at least) enhance the overall experience. It increases the options on what can happen and everybody can play with everybody with no restrictions. If you take a look at our profile we have explained this in an effort to be as transparent as possible to the people who may be interested in meeting us.
We are straight and attracted to the opposite sex. Maybe that will change as we continue our journey and we have no problem with that but for now we are both straight and open or “flexible” to playing with it and engaging in some sexual activity with the same sex. We feel hetreo flexible describes us perfectly.
For reference, hetero flexible is described as a form of sexual orientation or situational sexual behaviour characterised by minimal homosexual activity in an otherwise primarily heterosexual orientation. It has been characterized as "mostly straight".
While everybody is of course entitled to their own opinion, we don’t believe hetero flexible is a made up term for homophobic straight people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well said 
"Bi curious tick box already exists.
Hetero flexible is a rubbish term made up for homophobic straight people.
We are together nearly twenty years and married for a little under half of that time. We have never had any attraction to the same sex. Regardless of us being married, neither of us would have any interest in individually pursuing anybody of the same sex. We believe this would place us in the space of being straight.
We are not bi sexual.
We have no curiosity to become bi sexual or experience what it might be like to be bisexual.
We are 100% not homophobic.
Since joining Fab and starting our swinging journey we quickly realised that being open to playing with the same sex, especially in a two couples scenario can only (in our opinion at least) enhance the overall experience. It increases the options on what can happen and everybody can play with everybody with no restrictions. If you take a look at our profile we have explained this in an effort to be as transparent as possible to the people who may be interested in meeting us.
We are straight and attracted to the opposite sex. Maybe that will change as we continue our journey and we have no problem with that but for now we are both straight and open or “flexible” to playing with it and engaging in some sexual activity with the same sex. We feel hetreo flexible describes us perfectly.
For reference, hetero flexible is described as a form of sexual orientation or situational sexual behaviour characterised by minimal homosexual activity in an otherwise primarily heterosexual orientation. It has been characterized as "mostly straight".
While everybody is of course entitled to their own opinion, we don’t believe hetero flexible is a made up term for homophobic straight people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi curious tick box already exists.
Hetero flexible is a rubbish term made up for homophobic straight people.
I'm certainly not homophobic!
Outsider didn't say it was."
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"Use bi curious and expand on it using your bio!"
Exactly this we all have our nuances on what turns us on or doesn’t and frankly it’s can change depending on night, company’s d circumstances. The available descriptions will
never cover everyone’s needs. Luckily we have lots of space to be more specific (should we want to be)in our bios.very well said |
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By *TFandMPCouple
over a year ago
Dublin & Wexford |
"The available descriptions will never cover everyone’s needs."
Yes but this is exactly what this thread is about - making the suggestion to expand the available descriptions to help towards covering everyone’s needs in a broader way than the current options offer. |
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By *TFandMPCouple
over a year ago
Dublin & Wexford |
Also to add to that, based on our experience there are a high number of people who clearly don’t read bios so yes, you can expand on the information in your bio which we have done, but not everybody reads it unfortunately |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also to add to that, based on our experience there are a high number of people who clearly don’t read bios so yes, you can expand on the information in your bio which we have done, but not everybody reads it unfortunately "
Not everyone even looks at sexuality either by the amount of straight men who get propositioned and the contents of my own inbox! Sexuality isn’t meant to cover everything as otherwise we’d have asexual, gender fluid etc etc it’s broad strokes only and the bio should be used to expand! |
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