I don't think people should be allowed add random people to their hot list.
Members should only be allowed to hot list people who they've been verified by.
As a couple, we mainly do group play and find single men will hot list you and turn up at the club expecting to join in again. This has in the past lead to not so polite responses when they are told to go away.
This is why in the 11yrs we've been on FAB we have had several profiles to try and get away from the numerous guys who we know must have hotlisted us constantly turning up.  We've have even blocked guys and still they've turned up.
It's doesnt actually do a lot for safe guarding and allows guys to stalk people they think will play with them. |
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They might just be going to that club that night doesnt actually mean they have you on their hotlist.
If i add anyone and its rare its because i like their pics but have no notion to meet them or even talk to them |
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How do you know they're turning up because they've hotlisted you? I don't understand why, even if they did have you on their hotlist, they would feel entitled to play with you. Surely anyone could do that? Also you mentioned them expecting to join in "again"...is perhaps that the reason? That they've joined in before with you and thought they'd be welcome to again?
I just don't see the link between the two 🤷 |
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Almost every single bloke we had had group fun with in a club we haven’t known their fab name nor they known ours, when we have fun with couples we will often swap fab names and give each other verifications and arrange another meet. The men just play then move on to a different room or back to the bar, we keep it like this so we can have remain fab anonymous to the single blokes. |
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